J-gurl, you speak as if you were beside Jesus when He changed water to wine or as if you were alive in His time. Gurl, get a grip of yourself,i believe the wine from water was not alcoholic 'cos the same type of wine was used for the Holy Sacrament. EVA WINE is the same as DON SIMON 'cos of the name WINE but not the same when it gets into your mouth. Gurl i believe Jesus will not produce a wine that will get people drunk ok. I agree with you on the part tht the BIble said we should drink responsibly but remember a TASTE will CONVINCE you, DO YOU DRINK OR SMOKE?

Someone told me about an incident that happened in VGC about 3 weeks ago. Basically, the gist was about this girl taking a stroll in the morning and was smoking. And this was like about 8am in the morning and everyone was just going to work. I heard the thing almost caused a major traffic jam, with everyone driving very slowly and staring at the girl!!!!

IB, i aint gonna over speed or slow down when i see a gurl smoking ok. If the babe happens to be good looking, drop dead gorgeous, and she as a f, kn stick or hemp or cocain in her mouth for crying out loud everyone is gonna f, kn look, i have seen gurls who smoke hemp not to talk of cigs. or cocain ok. The question is WILL YOU MARRY ONE, and not HAVE YOU SEEN ONE, ok

People shoould stop coming to this forum to display their ignorance. WINE IN ALL OF ENGLISH LANGUAGE MEANS ALCOHOL. WINE HAS A SINGLE WORD MEANING-- ie ALCOHOL. THERE IS NOTHING LIKE NON ALCOHOLIC WINE. ITS LIKE SAYING NON ALCOHOLIC ALCOHOL. PEOPLE SHOULD STOP MIXING THEIR RELIGIOUS FANTASIES WITH THE CORRECT USE OF ENGLISH. THE WINE JESUS HAD WAS ALCOHOLIC, BUT U DONT HAVE TO BELIEVE THAT OR ACCEPT IT. ANYBODY THAT DOUBTS THIS CAN CHECK THE MEANING IN ANY ENGLISH DICTIONARY ON EARTH.

Besides this is deviating from the topic. People should post in relation to the topic.

Thank you, sage - at least someone understands my point of view. Non-alcoholic wine is called juice on the label if you look at it well. It is an imitation to make non-alcoholics not to feel left out. Real wine has alcohol and Jesus drank alcohol only not as much as would get him drunk

sage:

People shoould stop coming to this forum to display their ignorance. WINE IN ALL OF ENGLISH LANGUAGE MEANS ALCOHOL. WINE HAS A SINGLE WORD MEANING-- ie ALCOHOL. THERE IS NOTHING LIKE NON ALCOHOLIC WINE. ITS LIKE SAYING NON ALCOHOLIC ALCOHOL. PEOPLE SHOULD STOP MIXING THEIR RELIGIOUS FANTASIES WITH THE CORRECT USE OF ENGLISH. THE WINE JESUS HAD WAS ALCOHOLIC, BUT U DONT HAVE TO BELIEVE THAT OR ACCEPT IT. ANYBODY THAT DOUBTS THIS CAN CHECK THE MEANING IN ANY ENGLISH DICTIONARY ON EARTH.

Besides this is deviating from the topic. People should post in relation to the topic.

Wine comes from grapes When its just made it has no alcohol till it ferments.
Meaning even children can drink it . This is called new wine.

what's all this fascination with wine, are y'all trying to go into wine production?

i agree with sage ok. but will you marry a gurl tht smokes or drinks. drinking socially to a lady in Nigerian view is hard to believe. Would say a lady should drink beer only at parties. what if shes the party freak type obviously she would have a lot to drink thereby getting used to drinking, i dont mind if my wife drinks occassionaly but smoking is out of it,

at topic, it depends on what u consider acceptable. the same way some people see drinking and smoking in females as bad thats the same way some other people would see not being able to cook in females as bad. and thats the same way people consider talking too much in females as bad.

all this one una dey talk na story by moonlight. in my own book anything can be wine (alcohol). simple integrated science, take any drink add yeast to it let it ferment and voila what do u have alcohol. all those women that make kunu and sobo drinks in naija, and leave it without refridgeration for a quick couple of days. when u then taste it and it tastes funny and u start feeling funny afterwards its the alcohol produced by its unintentional fermentation that makes u come back for more not that the sobo drink was specially made with any extraordinary ingredients. the water from ogi (corn starch) can be considered alcohol after its been left to stand for a week and fermentation has occured while we wait for the ogi to be ready for use. now u wonder why our elder tell us not to drink to much of it innit. its because they know the KOKO.


[s]damn do i sound like someone who drinks or do i just think everything that can be fermented can be considered alcohol[/s]

i wldnt, cos i aint gay

wats the difference if its a girl or a guy that smokes?
most nigeria men smokes and they say they won't marry a girl dat smokes
if a girl can marry a guy dat smokes
y won't a guy marry a girl dat smokes?

Y NOT-- SINCE SOME GURLS CAN MARRY S1 DAT SMOKES AND DRINK Y CANT D MEN DO IT-----

Aha, Niaja people, i can see a whole lotta hypocrites here who wouldnt event practice what they preach,

Hell yeah almost everyone on the forum wouldnt date or marry a nigerian girl who drinks or smoke, you can tell that to my little cousin,


How many guys in here would say no to beyonce knowing she smokes and drinks and wants them for a soulmate

And how many girls in here would say not to Jay-z knowing he smokes and drinks and wants them for a soulmate


Answer these questions honestly first before reacting to this topic peeps and stop being ignorant,


Dating or marrying a girl to me solely depends on my happiness not about what someone else thinks about my babe or something even though i wouldnt stand and fold my hands and watch my babe go over board with either smoking/drinking, i sure would do my best to make her quit it because ofcourse it's obivous that it could be detrimental to one's health,

I wonder how many guys here who are outside the shores of our country who actually date or marry non-nigerian women who drink and smoke, what do we call that (double standards) i call it, if you can condone it with a non-nigerian why in heaven's name should it be different with a Nigerian babe,

Wake up peeps and stop looking at issue from just one perspective and blinding ourselves to the very obvious,

Thats my take on this and sure wiaitng for criticisms from any corners

Peace y'all

a relationship will definately not last when a girl keeps stuffing herself with alcohol and cigarr.

never ever ever

marry a Nigerian girl? Sorry i aint gay

lioness:

marry a Nigerian girl? Sorry i aint gay

I am and proud

Good for u.

So would you?

Freewilly:

I am and proud

If I find the right girl, and it's legal to marry in the state I reside in, hell yeah I'll get married.

LMAO
Am sure your one sweet chic but i dont think u mean that

lioness:

LMAO
Am sure your one sweet chic but i don't think u mean that

Thanks Hun for the compliment, on a serious note I'll love to be with my female companion , I don't think I'll go as far as getting married.

yea, i didnt think so

Freewilly:



I don't think I'll go as far as getting married.

Freewilly:

If I find the right girl, and it's legal to marry in the state I reside in, hell yeah I'll get married.

Are you a Nigerian?

Dont know if I'm allowed to comment, I'm married.

But I dont think I could ever marry a girl who smokes. If she drinks a little every now and then, maybe (just maybe) but not if she smokes

I dont smoke so I cant marry a smoker.

I dont drink but I have friends that do and I always found it pathetic that they would hide the fact that they like girly drinks every now and then in fear or what fellow nigerian guys would think, lame

Used to have a crush on a smoker but bleh, that went away fast.

What do you think of a lady smoking, Thief?

I've got a few friends who drink, not sure if to say they drink heavily, but they drink things like brandy and they smoke cigarettes. The thing is their relationships don't seem to last

Yeah dere relationships dont last.

As for me I can't. One day she gets drunk and starts to say all manner of things and even go to the extent of slapping you.
No i can't

Good thing I don't need alcohol before I slap people 

hm

i just hate a society that put pressure on people to adopt their norms. smoke, drink as much as you like. someone will love you irrespective of the habit.
habits can change. its the real person inside that counts. I would marry a girl that smoke and drink  over any conniving woman.

nope