If i really love her,i can date or marry her and help her to quit smoking and drinking.but if she insist and dont want 2 quit smoking i will stop seeing her.Cos i believe socially smoker or drinker will one day turns addictive smoker/drunkard.

Actually I do drink but i dont smoke so i cant see maself marrying a drunkard/addicted smoker.



_{i can only have some fun wit her}

my g/friend can smoke, drink, shoot, whteva but when it comes to wifey NO!

tell me, what at all is the big deal in smoking?? a girl drinking fine! i Understand that is quite embarrassing even but i personally don't see anything wrong with smoking   oh puh-leeze

lovely_S:

If i really love her,i can date or marry her and help her to quit smoking and drinking.

Ur love is what i call ''true love''

j-girl:

the day i entered a room full of smokers, i can swear i had an allergic reaction. The smell nauseates me

i bet that was '' a smokers room'' what were U ''a non smoker'' doing there?? that way U would find it sickening cuz everyone will be smoking at the same tyme and U just wouldnt be able to stand it

Who wants a wife that's setting herself up to get cancer?. The fact is that most girls can't even handle drink, thy get tipsy and start misbehaving, letting guys take advantage, my wife can obviously have the odd drink or two, besides with african culture, a drinking wife is not dignified, respectable and decent,

typical African Man!

you got dat rite baby!!

Well, i think its a perspective that women that smoke are irresponsible.

No good man would wanna have a drinking/ smoking wife. what does she have to teach my children.

personaly i can marry a gal that smokes or drink.

whether she smokes or drinks, there is still "someone" for her. Someone who will love her just as she is and turn her around.
If i were a guy though, i wldnt marry a "shack lord" for a wife. My children go drunk from birth 

whatever guys, whatever

Rhodalyn:

whatever guys, whatever

do u smoke

IB, whichever, occassionally or whatever you calld it, its wrong for a lady to even think of alcohol. I cant even walk up to a lady tht drinks or smoke to ask her on a date, its like asking for the Devils daughters hand in marriage, if you are thinking of changing her, you are in for hard time, i dont drink or smoke, but the cases of friends whom i knw smoke is enough to tell me its not my kinda game, a friend just came back from rehab. few days ago and if you see him you will hate the day smoking and drinking started, He once told me "Akin i envy your strenght". So pips, like they say SMOKERS ARE GONNA DIE YOUNG (Liable to die young ok), right now i still have good strenght which most of my friends lask due to smoking and drinking, its not advicable for a guy to drink or smoke not to say a ladyyyyyyy, dont do it 'cos your friends are doing it 'cos another mans food is anothers poison,

damn, wen did a lady who smokes or drink become a devil, damn!!!

U tell them gurl , U tell them

Badman888:

do u smoke

does it make any diff??

gosh u guys shuld be open minded abeggggggggg, like she has become a devil or a ghost, sheez men!! someone even mentioned he wont even go near her, damn!!! na wah oo, close mindedness is a bitch men

are U listening to these mind polluted peeps??

The fact that a babe smokes or drinks doesnt make her a bad person though. You'll be amazed that she might even be better than the so called "good" girls.

exactyl!!

lol, it affects many people ooo, phobia 4 smell of smoke

@Akinwunmi
uh oh

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if i want to get married now and my parents knows my wife smoke and drink they wont agree at all

then sorry to say but Ur parents are

They dont have to know!Ok What if she smokes weed once in a while?

that smell one is even better, but to start saying she not a wifey material or that wat would she teach her children, bla blabla, crap!!! absolute4 crap, !!!

rhodalyn, wats that in ur sig, lol

ib thanks ooooooooo

naur folks go marry wife or wat, aint u the one who knows wat u need or want,

weed God have mercy that is worse, but it smells better

Ib:

They don't have to know!Ok What if she smokes weed once in a while?

really funny

Personally i detest cigarete, it makes me sick and i wont date/marry a lady smoker but for drinking well, it depends on what shes taking and how often she does. like i drink aswell but mine could be once in a year or should i say occassionally.

love is not just her personality, what she does in life matters, so if she smokes then theres no love

At least medically, weed is better than cigarettes. Besides, ur wife might be a bit more kinky under the influence eh Busta