Radiant:

I think women have issues rather. What's wrong with the idea? Nothing really. It's just the way the guy feels but don't be deceived 'cause calling you mom don't mean he'll end up marrying you.

So you're okay with your bf calling you mom and then you will act like his mother? Cause I know mothers are the ones whom born you and take care of you in a motherly way. No sex and no intimacy feeling so for him to call you mother, dont you find that awkward?

:oy cum bring tha thread issue up naw na miracle b4 now u bring breakthrough

Babe, what kinda thread is this?

sowin thread my bro n by the way thru tha post u posted u b a very dirtay man

chuckyee:

sowin thread my bro n by the way through tha post u posted u b a very dirtay man

Which thread is dirty?

Dakore:

that's silly

so "mom" is a new word for girlfriend?
then, what's the new word for mother?

Mom is not the new word for girlfriend. Ain't nothing silly about a guy callin me "mom". Been there and I enjoyed it. Why u making it sound as if he's callin u a bitch

Relax and enjoy jare.

gabrywyl:

So you're okay with your boyfriend calling you mom and then you will act like his mother? Cause I know mothers are the ones whom born you and take care of you in a motherly way. No sex and no intimacy feeling so for him to call you mother, don't you find that awkward?

I'm very okay with it. I actually like it and hell no that don't make me "act like his mother" It's just the way he feels like callin you. Habaa. . . y'all calm down

You want to tell me that when your man calls you "honey" or "sweetheart", you actually act like one??

it does not mattter what u call ur galfrend as both of u are carried away by love

It's not about being carried away. . .it's just a flipping name. It doesn't mean he loves you more than when he calls your name Wetin concern name concern love? Don't be deceived abeg

Call your gf mom OH NO. . . . . That is so wrong, when I'm making love to her, I wont want to imagine my mother havin sex with me!!! That bis sooo gross. I love calling girls Baby, Babe, Chicks, Beautiful, Sweetness, Sweet Pussy. Stuff like that.

Who on earth would reflect their girlfriend as their own mother Now that would be weird.


Anthony, I bet if you call your gf Sweet Pussy in Public, she will smack your head like the way Gabby smack you all da time Bro.

AshtonJake:

Who on earth would reflect their girlfriend as their own mother Now that would be weird.


Anthony, I bet if you call your girlfriend Sweet Pussy in Public, she will smack your head like the way Gabby smack you all da time Bro.

And I will be glad to continue smacking him.

Jake, Anthony will be visiting me next month. You wanna join? My parents will be around this time so it will be great.

LOL Different strokes for different folks.

GABBYY. . . . You invited Anthony first before me OF COURSE I WANNA COME!!! Why not? I love your house and your family especially your grandma. She is one funky Hip Granny alright!

And would be nice if you could introduce me to your boyfriend? 

And if I come, do I have to do the Cooking and Housework again

@gabryl,
its fascinating to know that you came here seeking advice or opinions (good thinking). I just hope you would take a guys advice more seriously than a woman's advice. i didn't get a chance to read the whole thing, just the first few pages which i thought was long enough. i would tend to tow the line of "mellow" and "negro_ntgn" (at least their initial responses).
In many African families as you may know already, the parents/grandparents do not live very long compared to other parts of the world. Now usually when the husband's mother passes away, he may tend to refer to his wife as mummy. even when speaking to a third party in her absence, he could refer to his wife as mummy. this is quite common even up to today. But i will confess it is perpetuated mostly by beareaved guys, and because life expectancy isn't too high, it is common to see men refer to their wives or serious girl-friends as mammie. It also shows a streak of endearment on the part of the man, and an expression of the knowlegde or an acknowlegdement of the fact that he knows/trusts you are looking out for his best interests as a mother would do. it does necessarily mean that he expects you to do things for him. it is more of a selfless endearment. Now if i were the guy, i may be taken aback if you seem uncomfortable about this over a long period of time because it would indicate to me that you are not on the same page as myself. This in my opinion is an honest response and i hope it didn't have too much sting in it. I bet it would be similar to what your boyfriend's explanation.

jg.obaseki:

@gabryl,
its fascinating to know that you came here seeking advice or opinions (good thinking). I just hope you would take a guys advice more seriously than a woman's advice. i didn't get a chance to read the whole thing, just the first few pages which i thought was long enough. i would tend to tow the line of "mellow" and "negro_ntgn" (at least their initial responses).
In many African families as you may know already, the parents/grandparents do not live very long compared to other parts of the world. Now usually when the husband's mother passes away, he may tend to refer to his wife as mummy. even when speaking to a third party in her absence, he could refer to his wife as mummy. this is quite common even up to today. But i will confess it is perpetuated mostly by beareaved guys, and because life expectancy isn't too high, it is common to see men refer to their wives or serious girl-friends as mammie. It also shows a streak of endearment on the part of the man, and an expression of the knowlegde or an acknowlegdement of the fact that he knows/trusts you are looking out for his best interests as a mother would do. it does necessarily mean that he expects you to do things for him. it is more of a selfless endearment. Now if i were the guy, i may be taken aback if you seem uncomfortable about this over a long period of time because it would indicate to me that you are not on the same page as myself. This in my opinion is an honest response and i hope it didn't have too much sting in it. I bet it would be similar to what your boyfriend's explanation.

Thanks jg. No, I think what you have posted is quite a reasonable and a good way to think of it.

AshtonJake:

GABBYY. . . . You invited Anthony first before me OF COURSE I WANNA COME!!! Why not? I love your house and your family especially your grandma. She is one funky Hip Granny alright!

And would be nice if you could introduce me to your boyfriend?

And if I come, do I have to do the Cooking and Housework again

Sorry jake, I wanted Anthony to come more often here cause I want to teach him something valuable in life. And no, this time you dont have to do any house chores because Anthony will be doing it all by himself.

gabrywyl:

Thanks jg. No, I think what you have posted is quite a reasonable and a good way to think of it.

Sorry jake, I wanted Anthony to come more often here cause I want to teach him something valuable in life. And no, this time you don't have to do any house chores because Anthony will be doing it all by himself.

Gabby, What? You're saying that Jake goes to your place to actually have a real holiday? Thats not fair!!! Fine! if you want me to do the housework, at least let me do it with full pride and dignity which is only with my underwear on and nothing else. Ok?

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AnthonyKil:

Gabby, What? You're saying that Jake goes to your place to actually have a real holiday? Thats not fair!!! Fine! if you want me to do the housework, at least let me do it with full pride and dignity which is only with my underwear on and nothing else. Ok?

Dude, please don't embarrass me infront of my entire family generation. Do you know that I carry a good name in my family But if you insist, don't blame me if my grandma come molesting you in the middle of the night. I know she will. You can ask Omarion! HAHA! 

AnthonyKil:

Gabby, What? You're saying that Jake goes to your place to actually have a real holiday? Thats not fair!!! Fine! if you want me to do the housework, at least let me do it with full pride and dignity which is only with my underwear on and nothing else. Ok?

DAMN Boy, you don't want to go that far. Her Grandma is MENTAL IN DA HEAD!!! When I walk pass her, she pinched my butt cheeks and than she always wants to kiss me and dance with me and she even pinches my tits. I'm like WHAT DA HELL Trust me Bro, you'll regret ever doin it.

GABBY, is there by any chance you could send your granny to the mental institution I think she is nuts for men younger than her which I find it scary. . . .

I dont know about you guys but I love gabby's granny. She's hip and cool and you can talk to her just about anything you want and she can speak so many languages which I find it amazing!

funny group. . nawa o

AshtonJake:

I don't know about you guys but I love gabby's granny. She's hip and cool and you can talk to her just about anything you want and she can speak so many languages which I find it amazing!

So you're saying that you love to be molested by an old hagged lady? Why dont you tell me earlier that you are lookin for a Sugar Momma. My grandma is interested in White boys like you. I'll give her your phone number ASAP, ok boyfriend?  

Ok Guys, lets take this discussion in our main thread? As I think you are scaring poor Morenisexy

See ya guys there.

that shows the kind of love he has for you.so enjoy it

what happens to the play we play as kids of which we have "daddy and Mummy " and of which the so called "daddy and mummy must sleep together . On a serious note Me I am a small guy and i usually wrap myself at night inside my large girlfriend and softly call her mummy all through the night . LOL

mayhem:

what happens to the play we play as kids of which we have "daddy and Mummy " and of which the so called "daddy and mummy must sleep together . On a serious note Me I am a small guy and i usually wrap myself at night inside my large girlfriend and softly call her mummy all through the night . LOL

yeah i call her mom cos i see her as a mom and she behaves like a mom.
and of course she's going to be my mom very soon(gettin married)- taking care of me and being mother to my kids.

kay-pawpaw:

yeah i call her mom because i see her as a mom and she behaves like a mom.
and of course she's going to be my mom very soon(gettin married)- taking care of me and being mother to my kids.

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