I think younger women should start getting off their high horses. You don't have to say YES, just be friendly and see if you get to like him.

cc Yoruba girls especially, you people pose too much.

alienware: This article na just to make the men happy .

ah dy telz u.

ono:

The main issue here: ''the MEN who are serious and ready for marriage''. These lot are very few indeed.

There is no such thing as being ''ready for marriage'' in a vacuum. If you are a genuine person, you can only be ''ready for marriage'' when you've met and known someone you love and who loves you back.

0ne quest for suvival, times are hard
two: guys are turning gay

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that means you need a 'WOMEN' urgently

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Matthew briggs:

You mean this link. https://www.nairaland.com/1265198/dwindling-pool-male-lovers-nigeria

Your earlier post did justice to this thread.

I believe there are very few marriageable men and women out there. Morals have dwindled seriously and everyone is looking out for what they can get.

I also know lots of guys who claim that there are no wives anymore and I wonder those who get married every Saturday.

People should learn to be more realistic in their search and know the qualities that matter and don't.

Tall, rich handsome are easier to achieve than caring, kind and faithful. Don't swap caring, kind and faithful for TDHR because it would not matter anymore when the man starts tormenting you.

I also believe that very few people have never met their spouses as at when they are matured for marriage. Many have probably used them for girl/boy friends. Most people are rough diamonds who need little polishing to make them shine. Discern if he/she is worth it while rough and try to polish him/her to glitter.

There are really perfect people anywhere. All that glitters is not gold. Most people who are perfect at the time of meeting do not love us as love has a way of relaxing people.

For those who are still searching, get off the net and meet real people around you.

It's well

Learn how to say "no" politely and with a smile.

Those ones? Do they have manners? They're not even intelligent enough to understand why they should act the way you just prescribed.

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ladies are to b blame for their problems their yanga too much

Almost everything we guys have said are true. But to be sincere, some of us guys are not really ready for marriage even while financially strong.

Some men just like to use women for so many years all in the name of marriage then dumps them.

Some will even be playing games till 40. Haba! Do we men ever have this in mind to see our grand children?

No matter how hard the situation may be; there is always someone that can share the hard times with you, then comes the good times.

You might wait for so many years. The good times could just be when you're married.

Kirinwa: As a caring nairalander,my advice to our single sisters is treat any man who approaches you nicely and respectfully.
Guys can you imagine approaching a lady to say hi and she's looking at you like you're ALIEN!Jeez.Some of them are architects of their own misfortune.I have discovered most times ladies hang out with playboys and sacrifice the future for a few meatpies or fried chicken while ignoring more serious guys who they consider boring without even giving them a chance.

exactly. you are hundred percent correct.(100%)Most of them are architects of their own misfortune. you have said it all.

Many women at their early age make things difficult for serious man who comes for marriage. As i am typing these, as a young man and single searching for a wife now. I have known so many young girls i met & asked their hand in marriage,which has never been serious about it. It comes clear to their eyes when they have approaches 30's by that time they will be expecting a man to come and take them away.

By then they have forgotten when serious man have been coming to seek their hand in marriage which they rejected.

Hahaha..I like this thread. Its making the men feel good about themselves, the good and bad, hardworking and lazy, broke and comfortable, presentable and unpresentable, intelligent n dumb, all of them now have opinions, advices, stories, wise words, etc etc for women.

"Do not look down on any man"..including the lazy n ambition-less ones who clearly have no future? You just have to accommodate n tolerate any eediot just because you think men are scarce and you don't want to get to that age where you'd be ridiculed for being unmarried?
*pauses to laugh again*

Keep on typing and insulting and generalizing about the women folk, while your mates are out there hustling and seeking in the right places for good women to compliment them n build a family with.

Valentinooo:

Bros no be only you o. The comments i'm hearing from these married men these days are scaring me. I was reading a post yesterday at sex life in 9ja page and a guy was like he's sacred of getting married. I laughed but truely that's the problem men are facing now. These girls claim to be nice during courting but will show their true colour once they are in. Imagine a man that married in february and planning divorce in september.

I swear females me don zero mind! I no count dem as anytn again,I dn tak dem as normal, tv,laptop,phone,pot wey go dy man house,I tak dem as non living tin,cuz if u put dem 4 mind wahala no put dem wahala! Mak person get kid n fu!ck off wit dem! I knw wetin my uncle pass tru..........sumtyms I get scared of givin birth to a lady,,,,,......everytn abt a woman complicated! I bet u! They simply don't worth a man's hustle! I pray mak u no c woman frustratn it spoils home.......n I can't wish a JEALOUS woman 4 my hater cuz dem go sure drain d man last last!!! Fuc!k d womens world,

Mamacita007: There are men everywhere

men on nairaland
men in Church
most pastors are men
men in restaurants
men at work
men in school
men at the car wash
men men men everywhere. nothing like scarcity of men. stop deceiving urself

Men everywhere and yet you are still single @42? Smh!

idnoble135:
This is true. The more a lady grows, the less admirers she gets.
@topic, this is serious. I bet that "marriageable" men are scarce commodities this days.
Thats why men should stop crying about unreturned love. There are plenty better women available.
And ladies in relationships should not think of playing with her man. For every lady that a guy dates, there are 10 or more ladies waiting to take her place if she messes up.
[s]Like one of my friends quipped on a social media in pidgin.
"[i]Dey there dey form hard to get while your mates they do marriage every saturday".[/s]

Even when your mates are getting married every saturday, relax the world is never gonna run out of saturday

dommfa: Hahaha..I like this thread. Its making the men feel good about themselves, the good and bad, hardworking and lazy, broke and comfortable, presentable and unpresentable, intelligent n dumb, all of them now have opinions, advices, stories, wise words, etc etc for women.

"Do not look down on any man"..including the lazy n ambition-less ones who clearly have no future? You just have to accommodate n tolerate any eediot just because you think men are scarce and you don't want to get to that age where you'd be ridiculed for being unmarried?
*pauses to laugh again*

Keep on typing and insulting and generalizing about the women folk, while your mates are out there hustling and seeking in the right places for good women to compliment them n build a family with.

See wetin dis old cargo dey talk.
Now I see why u are still single at 38.you have successfully converted your private part to Public part...

I'm a working class young man, and I need a beautiful tall lady with good manners,preferably from Delta State, who is ready for a serious relationship that can lead to marriage. She must be between 24 and 27years of age. You could send me an SMS on 08173883568 or add me on BBM:2932D7B4

Now seriously,this is END TIME THINGS!!!

Boll2010: I swear females me don zero mind! I no count dem as anytn again,I dn tak dem as normal, tv,laptop,phone,pot wey go dy man house,I tak dem as non living tin,cuz if u put dem 4 mind wahala no put dem wahala! Mak person get kid n fu!ck off wit dem! I knw wetin my uncle pass tru..........sumtyms I get scared of givin birth to a lady,,,,,......everytn abt a woman complicated! I bet u! They simply don't worth a man's hustle! I pray mak u no c woman frustratn it spoils home.......n I can't wish a JEALOUS woman 4 my hater cuz dem go sure drain d man last last!!! Fuc!k d womens world,

I know your type. Yeah, the type that is 'tortured' by women in the real world but only run to the internet to form bosses. At least if you can't have your pride intact in real life, you can on a faceless forum. Hahaha

All of a sudden, everyone is smart and wise. I dey laugh.

sexytabhi: Men? Scarce?
How na?who dey give una hope na? See as dem dey happy unto this thread..make una park well abeg.

See your mouth! How come u put applications everywher in search of a man?

dommfa: Hahaha..I like this thread. Its making the men feel good about themselves, the good and bad, hardworking and lazy, broke and comfortable, presentable and unpresentable, intelligent n dumb, all of them now have opinions, advices, stories, wise words, etc etc for women.

"Do not look down on any man"..including the lazy n ambition-less ones who clearly have no future? You just have to accommodate n tolerate any eediot just because you think men are scarce and you don't want to get to that age where you'd be ridiculed for being unmarried?
*pauses to laugh again*

Keep on typing and insulting and generalizing about the women folk, while your mates are out there hustling and seeking in the right places for good women to compliment them n build a family with.

Lol, no mind them.
Idiots jubilating over fabricated news.

It's a sad situation for both sexes. Although the females are in more danger because of the whole menopause thing..Once you don dey reach 35 36 37, your akara don begin dey cold o! The economy I have to say is the main reason and no it's not just Nigeria. I know a girl here in the UK even willing to marry a guy from Naija and even sort out his documents. As in, her desperation is so blatant that every time we talk I'm grateful I'm a guy.

It's important that young females plan their lives properly to attract the right kind of people.
I know a yoruba girl here in south london that was filmed having sex and the video was uploaded to one of these sites. News spread like wildfire and if you know London, you know Africans here maintain close social circles. Safe to say, she's finished.

Girls need to really sit down and think of how they approach social situations. You could meet your future husband anywhere. Give a guy a chance to at least talk to you for a few minutes before deciding whether to give him to time of day.

I understand the thrills of getting approached by different men but truth is, as them take rush come na so dem go rush go o! That runs guy wey you dey go block get wife and children for house, so when he's done with you, he'll go back to his family while you keep forming 'big girl wey dey pull big men'.


I'll also be the first to say most of us men are useless. If I had to advise my sister, here's what I'll tell her(and it's a bit of a crazy advice):

First off, get yourself financially independent. A man will always respect you more if you can hold your own. Only a weakling will see that and be intimidated.

2. Don't brush anyone off! No one knows tomorrow. That guy that you turned down because he never dressed nice probably has something in the pipeline and could use the help of a strong woman to bring it to fruition.

3. Learn to lower your standards. We don't always get what we want and with relationships, that's the reality. I'm not saying you should sit down and turn into a punching bag because you want to stay married - no! Just be realistic! Guys are really scarce. If he has a few flaws you think you can work on then give it a go.

4. Most importantly, don't let society dictate how you should live your life! Truth is, not everybody will get married - logically speaking that is, so don't go crazy with desperation. If e be as e get, you could adopt or go to one of them sperm banks and get yourself pregnant. Plenty females do it. You won't be the first.

All in all, I think the way to go about it is to be hopeful and present yourself in the best possible way.
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dommfa: Hahaha..I like this thread. Its making the men feel good about themselves, the good and bad, hardworking and lazy, broke and comfortable, presentable and unpresentable, intelligent n dumb, all of them now have opinions, advices, stories, wise words, etc etc for women.

"Do not look down on any man"..including the lazy n ambition-less ones who clearly have no future? You just have to accommodate n tolerate any eediot just because you think men are scarce and you don't want to get to that age where you'd be ridiculed for being unmarried?
*pauses to laugh again*

Keep on typing and insulting and generalizing about the women folk, while your mates are out there hustling and seeking in the right places for good women to compliment them n build a family with.

madam whr ur manners of talkin,

Oh Lord I thank U for Man...I thank U for not making me a laughing Sstock......I'm grateful father.....for keeping uss and binding us with a chord dat can never be broken......Tank U father.......
Mehnnnn trully men scare...i tank God for my own.....

dommfa:

I know your type. Yeah, the type that is 'tortured' by women in the real world but only run to the internet to form bosses. At least if you can't have your pride intact in real life, you can on a faceless forum. Hahaha

All of a sudden, everyone is smart and wise. I dey laugh.

thank u madam,thank God u a lady n def'gonna v a male child#FeelTheHeat

lertee:
Don't worry,stop advertising yourself huh,your kind of woman will locate you soon, this one that you are already crying

*walks pass her* abeg, no time to check time. U go dey there tey well well . Fishes de over populate in Today's river.

The Percentage of male to female in dis country is more.for every woman there is a man,how do u mean men are scarce Anyways sha my advice is ladies pls u ppl should not make marriage a do and die affair,its very complex,its not by force oh and who said u can't be happy without men. At the age of 35, u say u want to get married and have kids Pls be real, getting married is not a prob,but what about the kids,giving birth at that stage can be dangerous. See if the worst get to the worst u can adopt a child if marriage again isn't possible. Pls the world is already populated enuf.just be happy with urself and u will be happy. Look at the life of oprah and genny they doing well without men.searching for them its a complete waste of time and energy.be warned:don't be moved by what d society says.best regards

Slow venom: Fear of money, trust, inferiority complex, self control, maturity n failure of other, if 9ja guys cn overcome all dis dere 'll more marragiessssssssssssssssss.

The situation is not as if men are not getting married. It's a fact of surplus of women in the society. Men may marry late but certainly the must marry. How many men of age up to 50 and above do u have in ur environs that are not married? But yet you can boast of at least 3 unmarried women in almost all the families. Surplus of women is the real factor here!

RedBenson:

Men everywhere and yet you are still single @42? Smh!

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Kirinwa: As a caring nairalander,my advice to our single sisters is treat any man who approaches you nicely and respectfully.
Guys can you imagine approaching a lady to say hi and she's looking at you like you're ALIEN!Jeez.Some of them are architects of their own misfortune.I have discovered most times ladies hang out with playboys and sacrifice the future for a few meatpies or fried chicken while ignoring more serious guys who they consider boring without even giving them a chance.

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