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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by criuze(m): 8:35pm On Sep 07, 2013
i wan to help this issue, is better we o back to polyamy, like , i ll be havng three wives wth only three kids. Secondly lets stop gayism
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by phaya(f): 8:35pm On Sep 07, 2013
Am asking Mynd_44 out right now! Right here!
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by no1madman(m): 8:37pm On Sep 07, 2013
Same shittttt all across d globe! most of d married ones sef no dey happy
D whole fuckin Situation is pretty messed up. . . .
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Valentinooo: 8:41pm On Sep 07, 2013
Boll2010: I swear marriage fear me pass anytn........I cld recall dis my uncles wife dat was sent packin......mehn she entered so quiet,bt ryt 4rm day 1 I knew she was fake,we don't even lyk ourselves,I go dia once in a year immediately he married!!.....can u bliv a day I went to my uncle to hlp him wit his chicken sales durin xmas!! I was at the open main road sellin chicken 4 my uncle o! Me wey b say v got tinz to tidy up!out of no tym I managed in helpn him can't 4get I made a sale amount of 36k in 1st day! From 8am to 10pm......gettn to dia auz to eat a nice amala grin d woman told my uncle she didn't cook,dat I would v to go get akara n bread 4 d auz!! Was so vexed dat I said me a whole final year student buyin akara sumtn. I can't do in my home!.......n my uncle neva complained cuz he was fed up of d marriage! Wen d family noticed na driving tinz dem take send her packing!.......dey act cool b4 entring dem enta finish na syria auz go turn!! I fear marriage die.......I dey always consida mid 30's for marriage n am 25yr naw oo

Bros no be only you o. The comments i'm hearing from these married men these days are scaring me. I was reading a post yesterday at sex life in 9ja page and a guy was like he's sacred of getting married. I laughed but truely that's the problem men are facing now. These girls claim to be nice during courting but will show their true colour once they are in. Imagine a man that married in february and planning divorce in september.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Inosenduatall: 8:46pm On Sep 07, 2013
greall1: You are among of them.




Blood of God!





Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by fidtopade: 8:46pm On Sep 07, 2013
Some of them play hard to get by telling foolish lies 'I am engage'. When you now be a gentle man by letting them go, they went back asking themself 'what is wrong with me'. While some are being consume in their pride and greed for rich, handsome and some kind of things they called social. Thank God all my sisters are happily married, complement to my mother.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by papi365: 8:48pm On Sep 07, 2013
Valentinooo:

Bros no be only you o. The comments i'm hearing from these married men these days are scaring me. I was reading a post yesterday at sex life in 9ja page and a guy was like he's sacred of getting married. I laughed but truely that's the problem men are facing now. These girls claim to be nice during courting but will show their true colour once they are in. Imagine a man that married in february and planning divorce in september.
DAT IS JUST D FUNNY ASPECT,DEY RE LIKD A PREDATOR.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by osimetha: 8:48pm On Sep 07, 2013
If you are in need of Husband call dis line 08037153159 or simply send an email to isahseidu@yahoo.com you will not be held hostage.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Mynd44: 9:12pm On Sep 07, 2013
phaya: Am asking Mynd_44 out right now! Right here!
Yes ooocheesy

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Slowvenom(m): 9:22pm On Sep 07, 2013
Fear of money, trust, inferiority complex, self control, maturity n failure of other, if 9ja guys cn overcome all dis dere 'll more marragiessssssssssssssssss.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Habidab: 9:23pm On Sep 07, 2013
demelza: grin In the last days, 7 women shall take hold of one man saying, we will eat our own bread and provide our own apparel, only let us be called by your name - Isaiah 4:1.
By the way who tells them that its only a man that can make them complete?
18th century thinking.
Oga,but you said who told them when you had quote Bible verse earlier that they are not complete without a Man.contradicting statement.

Mind you,Women are not complete without Men because they are part of our bone.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by DarkFive: 9:26pm On Sep 07, 2013
nadia_SA: Their men r in good hands..



grin..
Good hands my foot,you all just gold diggers...so what's love got to do with it
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by kliq(m): 9:28pm On Sep 07, 2013
shocked
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Habidab: 9:30pm On Sep 07, 2013
Boll2010: I swear marriage fear me pass anytn........I cld recall dis my uncles wife dat was sent packin......mehn she entered so quiet,bt ryt 4rm day 1 I knew she was fake,we don't even lyk ourselves,I go dia once in a year immediately he married!!.....can u bliv a day I went to my uncle to hlp him wit his chicken sales durin xmas!! I was at the open main road sellin chicken 4 my uncle o! Me wey b say v got tinz to tidy up!out of no tym I managed in helpn him can't 4get I made a sale amount of 36k in 1st day! From 8am to 10pm......gettn to dia auz to eat a nice amala grin d woman told my uncle she didn't cook,dat I would v to go get akara n bread 4 d auz!! Was so vexed dat I said me a whole final year student buyin akara sumtn. I can't do in my home!.......n my uncle neva complained cuz he was fed up of d marriage! Wen d family noticed na driving tinz dem take send her packing!.......dey act cool b4 entring dem enta finish na syria auz go turn!! I fear marriage die.......I dey always consida mid 30's for marriage n am 25yr naw oo
I have experience similar situation with ma bro before,but now i dont even go to their house again,the wife just they do foolishly.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by shootsight(m): 9:31pm On Sep 07, 2013
lertee:
It is easier said than done,when a girl goes to a guy and asks him out,the same guy would broadcast it to the whole world that the lady is cheap,she threw herself at me.
He would begin to give her attitude and make her want him more thereby making her seem desperate.
On another note,the guy may admire her physique but has no feelings for her,he will now pretend and and take advantage of her body,afterall naa she bring herself so make I chop clean mouth. If a woman thinks of these two things,wouldn't it be best for her to keep her feelings to herself?
I guess its complicated №ω . lolzzz
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by papi365: 9:32pm On Sep 07, 2013
Slow venom: Fear of money, trust, inferiority complex, self control, maturity n failure of other, if 9ja guys cn overcome all dis dere 'll more marragiessssssssssssssssss.
IT IS A PITY SAY MUMU DEY RUN THRU UR VEINS. U NEED MURUPAGTAIC ANTIBIOTICS
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by papi365: 9:34pm On Sep 07, 2013
Habidab: I have experience similar situation with ma bro before,but now i dont even go to their house again,the wife just they do foolishly.
E GO BETA 4 U. NA SO DEM DEY DO O
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by toshmann(m): 9:35pm On Sep 07, 2013
All you women looking for men STOP going to the Internet to find a husband. Everything online is fake. The girls are fake, the guys are fake, the smiles are fake. Go and look for men in the real world. Be nice. Be approachable. Some girls put their face like say na there idi Amin de shit. How can a man approach you?

Learn how to say "no" politely and with a smile. That way men won't be scared of an embarrasment if things go wrong and as such will be more likely to step up and ask.

Be neat. Some girls dirty like hell. Wear clean and decent clothes. Don't go to church to find a husband, we already know that women looking for a husband in church is a desperado pretending to be holy. Go to parties, weddings, child dedications etc. these are where you'll meet men willing to date.

Finally, if you like him, say so ASAP. Quit all this hard to get wey dem take sabi black girls. After una wonder why we like white girls more.

Control your anger. Watch your words and even the way you laugh. Try and be polished. You don't have to be miss world to attract men but you must be decent and intellectual to attract decent men

My humble advise to my Naija sisters. Free of charge.

Yours affectionately
Toshmann cool

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 9:38pm On Sep 07, 2013
papi365: IT IS A PITY SAY MUMU DEY RUN THRU UR VEINS. U NEED MURUPAGTAIC ANTIBIOTICS
Guy u wicked mehn... I laugh so tey I use mess kill tiger... mumupagtaic antibiotic... Lwkmd... that's mean mehn... skoochies

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 9:44pm On Sep 07, 2013
Let's all face it. Women would say there are no marriageable men, yet wanna get married after snagging all the married men they can find... the average dude wants a cute girl with d right attitude... the cute girl is in a hotel with a man with very deep pockets because she wants to buy Q10. After making a fool of herself she then wants to settle down with a good guy! When u were bleeping another woman's man u never knew it would come back to bite u in the ass. .. now u want a serious man... until girls get their acts right men would remain unserious. When u watch music videos, we see women dancing half naked. The idea of a woman now is perceived as "women are intimacy gadgets" because it is the woman that brings about disrespect on woman hood... all in the name of money and material things... throwing virtue to the curb...

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by macjireh: 9:45pm On Sep 07, 2013
[quote author=toshmann]All you women looking for men STOP going to the Internet to find a husband. Everything online is fake. The girls are fake, the guys are fake, the smiles are fake. Go and look for men in the real world. Be nice. Be approachable. Some girls put their face like say na there idi Amin de shit. How can a man approach you?

Learn how to say "no" politely and with a smile.

WELL SAID BRO,WELL SAID!!!
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Oyinprince(m): 9:46pm On Sep 07, 2013
greall1: Do you know him before,why are you asking him if he can handle marriage,This nairaland funny some Time.
U ar d funny 1,didnt u c his reply 2 me?y didnt i ask any1 else?so dnt u tink i'v had previous conversation wit im?
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by macjireh: 9:51pm On Sep 07, 2013
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WELL SAID BRO,WELL SAIDDDD!!!!!!
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 9:55pm On Sep 07, 2013
[size=18pt]mondi's advice[/size]

Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Hero10001: 9:55pm On Sep 07, 2013
OMG!
It's time to swallow your pride and fall hard, fall in love to enjoy the pleasures you've been denying yourself.

I'm a complete gentleman, wasting!
Let me show you what it's like to be in love.
Just pm me, you'll be glad you did.
Hero2945@yahoo.com
08028425672

:-)
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by troy20(m): 9:55pm On Sep 07, 2013
dis overfloggd topic about single ladies geting unmarried is just to make d dudes feel good about themselves.dis so damn cheap n its working 2.kinda cruel to feel dt way u know.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 9:58pm On Sep 07, 2013
Dark Five: Good hands my foot,you all just gold diggers...so what's love got to do with it
angry angry



I swear its love..money is just a bonus
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 9:59pm On Sep 07, 2013
Amefrica:

I'm terribly sorry for the previous accusations.. I sure can feel ur pain..

1. It's not easy to be gang rap-ed at an early teen age..
2. To be jilted by countless guys..
3. To be used and dumped like a pile of bullsh*it..
4. So frustrated and concluded to be a lesbo
5. So ugly, to be asked out by a guy..
Just keep calm. All is well ! Don't let all these wear u down.. cheesy grin

It's such a shame that all could come up with against a woman saying the obvious truth that women shouldn't tie their life down to marriage, is to insult her.

How did you come about this your baseless observations/deductions and insults from her intelligent laden post?. It's men like you that make women desperate and exert societal pressure on women, making them think their life starts and ends with men/marriage, forcing them to settle for a man that will abuse and dump them.

People like you abuse women in relationship simply cos you feel like you're a god for marrying them. People like you are those insulting rita dominic for being single at her age, as if she forced her herself to be single. As if she told you she's desperate to get married.

"BOYS" like you are the reasons women should look out for matured "MEN" who has their intrests at heart, not 'BOYS' who think marrying them, means "doing them a favour". Not BOYS like you who feel like a woman's life begins and ends with men

The reason "MARRIAGEABLE MEN" is scarce is two-sided, it's not only women's fault(I'm not saying women are entirely innocent). Bad economy, high insurgence of KIDS/BOYS instead of Marriageable men are few of the reasons.


I have a male friend who is a graduate for 6years now with a meagre paying job, how the heck do you expect him to marry a lady in such hard condition?.

For once, stop using this opportunity to mock ladies, rather use it to reflect on how bad our level as individuals of this country has fallen

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Matthewbriggs(m): 10:00pm On Sep 07, 2013
chronique: Sup? I think we discussed this issue on one of your threads way back about the dwindling pool of marriageable men... I actually wanted to copy the link and paste here,with the hope that it can help out but I'm too lazy to search it out right now. Why not copy and paste the link here for them to see? Guess it might help. Cheers!

You mean this link. https://www.nairaland.com/1265198/dwindling-pool-male-lovers-nigeria
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 10:00pm On Sep 07, 2013
Mynd_44:
I also hear there is an increase in the cat population. They can get those instead
Also hrd chinwawas re useful
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by gradeA(m): 10:04pm On Sep 07, 2013
CastleandGreen: It easy to get married only if you will take my advice ladies;
1, cut off from too many female friends.
2, minimize your activities on social websites.
3, don‘t look down on any man.
4, get educated and aquire a university decree.
5, don‘t frequent night clubs all the time.
6, learn to support your man.
7, join activity department in your church and get committed.
8, don‘t go into competion with any of your friends.
9, put your trust in Jesus Christ.
10, And lastly don‘t ever wish for ready made.

only reasonable comment so far.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by hoc2(m): 10:11pm On Sep 07, 2013
uj_sizzle: It's not the lack of men that's the issue i think, it's the lack of 'marriageable' men.


Men are scarce, boys are plentiful undecided
am a men and still single, am still available just mail to saheedoris@gmail. com

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