solomon111: Wow.
Intellectuals and pseudo-intellectuals slugging it out.
Nice thread.

mondi_cheeks:

LoL.



EPIC!

mondi_cheeks:

ifysimple: i will stay , but i must slap him back!

Nwanneamakah:


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Bludeville:
Duude, in that empty nut you probably use as your brain, there was probably no space for the thought to occur to you that
1. Neither is he the only man on earth
2. I also have a family
3. I'm not one of those your village girls that think that marriage , bragging rights, and family is the be all and end all.

mondi_cheeks: pple swearing at each other

Harbosede02: so wat r u trying 2 say??dat we sud start preparing 4 marriage wen we don't even knw wat d husband luks lyk.

alutacontinua: LEAVE!
And he wld sleep in jail for some few dayz too!

pogolowa1:

Blackberry babes. Marry and see d real world and stop making mouth

Mumblehappyfeet: No I'm not!! A woman can't discard me except there's already someone waiting to take my place, whereas I can! A woman can't go round chasing guys to take my place, whereas I can go round chasing women.

A woman cant decides the pace of a relationship, I can. A woman waits for me, I don't wait for a woman. A woman can't make me marry her, I can!

I can go on & on, but I hope you catch my drift.





@50Calibre, Keep deceiving urself there, u hear. U think its all those village girls u r pursuing that u can treat anyhow abi? Let me tell u something, roughly a yr n some months into our marriage, my ex hubby got abusive n when my parents tried to intervene, he got very disrespectful to them. I ddnt argue or quarrel wt him or anything like that, just packed my stuff n moved out n that was d end of the marriage. He begged, his family begged but i turned off my phones n my family was in full support of my actions, not that i needed that but it was there just the same. Like my mom will always say, she is not selling her daughter n doesnt really care who u marry as long as u r happy. My mom has like 6 huge brothers who went n packed their other sisters stuff when she was being abused by her hubby n my dad has zero tolerance for that kind of thing. So if u come from a family like that, that values its women n doesnt joke around wt them, imagine staying in an abusive marriage.
My ex hubby used to tell me that my family would never allow me to come back home in case things go wrong, i guess, he is still scratching his head over what happened. Even if i hadnt left, my brothers would have come n bundled me out of there. Like they said, marriage is not do or die. And for ur info, im engaged to be married n to a God send too. So u guys are not irreplaceable, u r very very replaceable

alutacontinua:

Lol...nah so! Marriage is a do or die affair, ain't it
To say I've never used a BB before and probably NEVER would! U go just dey open mouth anyhow! mssccchhhheeewwwww

pogolowa1:

Marry and do alutacontinua in Ʊ® wedding. Dis is africa not yanki anyway kudos to MTV base for your immaturerity.

alutacontinua:

So, what exactly is ur point?
A guy shld slap me nd I shld keep being nice to him

pogolowa1:
Continue packing out. Maybe by d tym u realize u must have packed out from 10 marriages.

Mumblehappyfeet:

Hehehehe, ehn, let me pack out nah. How e take concern u? If a man decides to turn me into a punching bag, im under no obligation to stay n forfeit my life. IF it ever happens to any of ur family members, u r very free to tell them to stay.Abeg shift go one side wt dt talk, i didn't start hearing that kind of talk today, im used to it

chuksbogus: u all are here talking about what you will or will not do in that situation but no one is talking about what YOU did that brought about the slap and how you went about to solve what u did before the slap. nawadays women hide under the fact that men shld not lay their hands on them and do all sought of annoying, anger limit , and slap provoking behaviours. am married with 2 kids and d way my wife talks and responds will not give me the push to lay my hand on her .am hot tempered but she understood me and when ever she does things that she know ill make me flare up she atimes end up making both of us laugh instead of opening that wide mouth to talk u into slapping out that spirit talking through her.
when i was small i and my younger bro thought my mum is stronger than my dad do to the way she talks and shove him. until one day my dad beat the livin day light out of her .from that 1987 till now my mum changed to the better. later in life we learnt that it was my mum mother that asked my dad to beat her. AM NOT SAYING BEATING A WOMAN IS GOOD OR ADVOCATING OR SUPPORTING WHO DOES . but let the rat not intentionaly eat up the native doctors bag so that d native doctor will not intentionally cut the rats mouth.am talking on both sides the way you deal with situations when u are the one at fault matters. dont say he or she would have controlled his or her temper, urself u should have handled the matter better. wether to leave or not u hve to think about the part u played in getting the slap.

chuksbogus: u all are here talking about what you will or will not do in that situation but no one is talking about what YOU did that brought about the slap and how you went about to solve what u did before the slap. nawadays women hide under the fact that men shld not lay their hands on them and do all sought of annoying, anger limit , and slap provoking behaviours. am married with 2 kids and d way my wife talks and responds will not give me the push to lay my hand on her .am hot tempered but she understood me and when ever she does things that she know ill make me flare up she atimes end up making both of us laugh instead of opening that wide mouth to talk u into slapping out that spirit talking through her.
when i was small i and my younger bro thought my mum is stronger than my dad do to the way she talks and shove him. until one day my dad beat the livin day light out of her .from that 1987 till now my mum changed to the better. later in life we learnt that it was my mum mother that asked my dad to beat her. AM NOT SAYING BEATING A WOMAN IS GOOD OR ADVOCATING OR SUPPORTING WHO DOES . but let the rat not intentionaly eat up the native doctors bag so that d native doctor will not intentionally cut the rats mouth.am talking on both sides the way you deal with situations when u are the one at fault matters. dont say he or she would have controlled his or her temper, urself u should have handled the matter better. wether to leave or not u hve to think about the part u played in getting the slap.

lynpetra:


NOW,what happens When I stupidly marries a nagging husbandI shud beat a full grown man up??Now tell me what to do since as the weaker sexxxx,we can't beat our erring husband up.Maybe I shud pack out of the house since I can't control his stupid mouth.Na only woman sabi find trouble,e be like say u never see husband wey dey behave like woman,talks anyhow,even when he is not suppose to alter a word at all.

pogolowa1: Continue packing out. Maybe by d tym u realize u must have packed out from 10 marriages.