GoodFaith:
I am not sure if I agreed with you
If he has a second wife,
The woman can justify the reason she build my house without including the husband name
But She still have to inform her husband

GoodFaith:
From reading the Op posting
It doesn't look like he is doing bad
If a Nigerian woman think she make more money disrespecting her husband
She doesn't need a Husband
If the Op is not happy he need to do what will make him happy
I

jp philips:

@34 he shouldn't be told that should he?

2ndChance: May be you guys don't know but in the part of the country where my wife and I come from, this thrend is very common among married women. They either wait to buid their houses without the husband's knowledge or immediately the man completes a house, they eliminate him and start answering "Landlady". I may say am luckier than most men who have owned houses from that part of the country because most of them don't usually live to open the houses they built (sic). That is where I am really worried because I don't have the full script that my wife, her mother and the Priest are playing. The Priest may have acted innocently but I can't be too sure of my wife and her mother here.

Pattey:

Are you truly dumb or just faking it? OP says they have been holding joint assets; why should the wife now go solo?

OP has acquired properties in both their names but silly upside thinking Nigerians like you think its OK for the woman to now own her stuff in her OWN name alone; and without telling him.

Existing properties are in Mr and Mrs bla bla bla name; If it wasn't for guilty conscience, she would have told him!

manie:



You know all these and still decided to marry someone from that part of the country.

2ndChance: May be you guys don't know but in the part of the country where my wife and I come from, this thrend is very common among married women. They either wait to buid their houses without the husband's knowledge or immediately the man completes a house, they eliminate him and start answering "Landlady". I may say am luckier than most men who have owned houses from that part of the country because most of them don't usually live to open the houses they built (sic). That is where I am really worried because I don't have the full script that my wife, her mother and the Priest are playing. The Priest may have acted innocently but I can't be too sure of my wife and her mother here.

2ndChance: May be you guys don't know but in the part of the country where my wife and I come from, this thrend is very common among married women. They either wait to buid their houses without the husband's knowledge or immediately the man completes a house, they eliminate him and start answering "Landlady". I may say am luckier than most men who have owned houses from that part of the country because most of them don't usually live to open the houses they built (sic). That is where I am really worried because I don't have the full script that my wife, her mother and the Priest are playing. The Priest may have acted innocently but I can't be too sure of my wife and her mother here.

2ndChance: May be you guys don't know but in the part of the country where my wife and I come from, this thrend is very common among married women. They either wait to buid their houses without the husband's knowledge or immediately the man completes a house, they eliminate him and start answering "Landlady". I may say am luckier than most men who have owned houses from that part of the country because most of them don't usually live to open the houses they built (sic). That is where I am really worried because I don't have the full script that my wife, her mother and the Priest are playing. The Priest may have acted innocently but I can't be too sure of my wife and her mother here.

2ndChance:
My greatest undoing was that I assumed I was dealing with a very religious family because of their age-long association with priests.

Chillisauce:



OP. thinking his wife might kill him and acquire his property. ThankGod the woman knows the husband very well.

Your true colour is showing.

Naija men, I hail o

texaco1: eh ya sorry
a o pade lese jesu
nibiti a ko ya rawa
ao rira wa , a o yoo mo rawa
singing burial songs in yoruba

Chillisauce:



OP. thinking his wife might kill him and acquire his property. ThankGod the woman knows the husband very well.

Your true colour is showing.

Naija men, I hail o

manie:


Alawada niwo bobo yio.

Eniyan nso nkan to ndun lokan

iwo wa nfi se yeye.

2ndChance:
I opened this thread the very day I started feeling this way and that was yesterday. Reason? Because of this secret asset I stumbled upon.

GoodFaith:
Two can play the game
Nigerian women liars nobody excluded
That is the reason why lot of you will not get husband or be a single mom

Mintayo:
i don't know what to say to you.
You have been doing something together before,no secrets and without thinking you started a project without informing your husband? I don't know hoe that sound to you,ur husband,ur LIFE PARTNER,someone u want to spend d rest of ur life with? As a matter of fact,such a woman can kill,the issue is nt building a house,d issue is building without infrming your husband,instead involving outsiders.
I don't know how you see it,but it is very bad,what ppl dnt knw is that once u get married,you have signed a life contract...before you know it now she will never involve the husband iin anything again,the Op shld do something fast otherwise his home is heading for the rocks.

2ndChance:
I opened this thread the very day I started feeling this way and that was yesterday. Reason? Because of this secret asset I stumbled upon.

Chillisauce:

Sharap dia! I bet you are still sucking your parents b reast, when adults are talking, you keep mute and learn.

Now, go grab your jamb script!

GoodFaith:
Kid, I am to old for jamb
I am a grow man with a very big bills,Income above average middle class
I have a graduate education

jp philips:


the moment my husband (if i am a woman) start hanging out by 2am with bachelors while ogling all the ashawos in lagos that moment he wont even know the school his kids are attending let alone when a house is built.
make no mistakes, something spooked her to make a contingency plan, the OP is economical with the truth and the fact that they have jointly owned assets in the past proves that point.
OP should say what he or his people did to spook his 10yr old marriage. people don't just hide when nothing is freighting them. joining forces with her mum equally suggests that the monster is from inside not external.
what will your daughter tell you as the mum and you suggest she should own assets separately from the hubby? that is where the truth lies

jp philips:


the moment my husband (if i am a woman) start hanging out by 2am with bachelors while ogling all the ashawos in lagos that moment he wont even know the school his kids are attending let alone when a house is built.
make no mistakes, something spooked her to make a contingency plan, the OP is economical with the truth and the fact that they have jointly owned assets in the past proves that point.
OP should say what he or his people did to spook his 10yr old marriage. people don't just hide when nothing is freighting them. joining forces with her mum equally suggests that the monster is from inside not external.
what will your daughter tell you as the mum and you suggest she should own assets separately from the hubby? that is where the truth lies

Chillisauce:

I think you should go back to school and learn more before going into marriage.

Remember to ask for refunds for previous " graduate education".

The mindset of some folks here concerning marriage is scary.
It's not by force to get married oh.

GoodFaith:
I do agreed with with dumb a?? that marriage is not by force or fire
You problem is that you are very narrow minded
Childish

texaco1: eh ya sorry
a o pade lese jesu
nibiti a ko ya rawa
ao rira wa , a o yoo mo rawa
singing burial songs in yoruba

Chillisauce:

Just keep mute. What's with narrow minded here. Next time don't quit e me if you gonna spew thrash!

femionasan:

Lmao! You wicked no be small!!!

GoodFaith:
You don't have life experience
You need to shut the F up
Complete trash
Please go F yourself Kid

Chillisauce:

I don't need life experience to know a basic thing dumbwit!
If it gonna give vains to your tiny already dead pencil, then go ahead.

Next time read and learn. Don't jump into where you are not invited and spew thrash.

GoodFaith:
What is narrow minded? You are look at issue one side
You don't have life experience
You need to shut the F up
Complete trash
Please go F yourself Kid

texaco1:
na magun (thunderbolt) dem go give the op
no medical explanation .