chaircover:
Leave him! Ive reported him to Ileoba. He will soon be the one with a kettle slammed into his head.

ileoba is a docile wife.....all she's concerned about is her witchdoctoring profession. herbs, shells, limestone, cowhorns, etc.

coogar:

if i twist your mouth for you, you will cry.

Not when I have teeth sharp enough to bite.

chaircover:

Leave him! Ive reported him to Ileoba. He will soon be the one with a kettle slammed into his head.

Not a bad idea

BoboYekini:

I dont know the Igbo part but I had an idea that Coogar likes beans hence supporting the beans guy

deols:
Not when I have teeth sharp enough to bite.

try me....

I dont know the Igbo part but I had an idea that Coogar likes beans hence supporting the beans guy

beans is highly nutritious...
the best nigerian food without a shadow of doubt. i am not supporting the beans guy but standing up for the sheer hypocrisy that has polluted this section.

the other day, a woman knifed her husband & she became a national hero with women praising her bravery for ending the life of her spouse. these same people are the ones frowning at ordinary slaps that semi-illiterate nigerian policemen or geography teachers dish out on a regular basis.

Whats the problem you too slap him back

@Op, ur anger is justified because ur sister shouldn't expect u to b doing housegal for her at 29, for Christ's sake! u are supposed to b working and earning ur money not babysitting her. Besides, wats she doing in ur family hauz? She's supposed to be visiting not staying over and giving orders. But u should have just ignored her, prepared ur own food and eat. Also, u shouldn't have transferred aggression to her husband by collecting ur book immediately and without properly asking for it. As for ur brother in law, hmmmm, u get luck say I no be ur brother, na panel beating em go receive den he will sleep in a police cell dat night. Coogar, so far, all ur comments concerning d topic has displayed ur immaturity and ur insecurity as a man. No Responsible man, I repeat, No Responsible man lays his hands on a woman no matter d offence d said woman has committed. All you've been blabbing is trying to justify how rite d guy was in beating up d OP...how old are u coogar?

donkelz: Coogar, so far, all ur comments concerning d topic has displayed ur immaturity and ur insecurity as a man. No Responsible man, I repeat, No Responsible man lays his hands on a woman no matter d offence d said woman has committed. All you've been blabbing is trying to justify how rite d guy was in beating up d OP...how old are u coogar?

will you shut that filthy mouth of yours? you sound like a castrated arabian donkey. they come online to talk a good game & it's people like you we see on lindaikeji's blog in cuffs holding fresh human head.

coogar:

will you shut that filthy mouth of yours? you sound like a castrated arabian donkey. they come online to talk a good game & it's people like you we see on lindaikeji's blog in cuffs holding fresh human head.

An empty barrel makes d loudest noise...keep displaying ur immaturity and stupidity. I dnt exchange words with kids, so take dis as a reprimand. If u want me to teach u respect, simply ask and I will give u a free training

donkelz: @Op, ur anger is justified because ur sister shouldn't expect u to b doing housegal for her at 29, for Christ's sake! u are supposed to b working and earning ur money not babysitting her. Besides, wats she doing in ur family hauz? She's supposed to be visiting not staying over and giving orders. But u should have just ignored her, prepared ur own food and eat. Also, u shouldn't have transferred aggression to her husband by collecting ur book immediately and without properly asking for it. As for ur brother in law, hmmmm, u get luck say I no be ur brother, na panel beating em go receive den he will sleep in a police cell dat night. Coogar, so far, all ur comments concerning d topic has displayed ur immaturity and ur insecurity as a man. No Responsible man, I repeat, No Responsible man lays his hands on a woman no matter d offence d said woman has committed. All you've been blabbing is trying to justify how rite d guy was in beating up d OP...how old are u coogar?

He is 47 yrs.

donkelz:

An empty barrel makes d loudest noise...keep displaying ur immaturity and stupidity. I dnt exchange words with kids, so take dis as a reprimand. If u want me to teach u respect, simply ask and I will give u a free training

you are the one with the intelligence of a toddler....where do you think you are? your paraga joint where the vast majority of your audience are chronic alcoholics?

i am illuminating your darkened views that verbal aggression is also violence & the OP provoked the situation yet you are blabbing rubbish....i am sure you are the type that would taste faeces just to be sure it's what it looks like.

i believe in rebirth & i hope it happens to you so you can be reincarnated as an actual douche-bag. you are a waste of flesh, more inanimate objects would have made a better use of the brain in your head.

Chillisauce:

He is 47 yrs.

Who are u talking about?

Yeparipaaaaaaaa

I dey laff like kolo for here

@coogar e do

OP, you behaved like a primary 2 pupil by going to collect your book from him unnecessarily. With that being said, he is not your fada or your moda and has no business physically assaulting you despite your tantrum.

In conclusion, do this...

baby_123:
get a bucket of water, and buy two long pankere. Give him sleeping pills and tie his hands and legs. Then wet him with the water, and whip his ass for hours. Make sure you lock your mother in the room, and your sister too. Get area boys to escort him out of the house when you are done and he has repented. I assure you, that beast will never ever rear its head again.

*Baby123, you be real craze woman o *


As for the bil, he is a madman and is definitely already beating OP's sister.

How dear you point your fingers on the man's face knowing fully well that he is a husband to your elder sister? If you have respect or if you well trained, you are not supposed to point your fingers on the guy's face. It is an insult on any man. What you did is wrong irrespective of your closeness to his family. For your sister to have wanted join him to beat you up goes to show that you did something wrong or you must have been disrespecting him.
Learn to understand people and for you at 29 still not married still goes to show that your character is questionable. You must be the type that gets jealous/envy over other people's success. Respect your sister and equally respect her husband.

andyanders: How dear you point your fingers on the man's face knowing fully well that he is a husband to your elder sister? If you have respect or if you well trained, you are not supposed to point your fingers on the guy's face. It is an insult on any man. What you did is wrong irrespective of your closeness to his family. For your sister to have wanted join him to beat you up goes to show that you did something wrong or you must have been disrespecting him.
Learn to understand people and for you at 29 still not married still goes to show that your character is questionable. You must be the type that gets jealous/envy over other people's success. Respect your sister and equally respect her husband.

Here we go Again! Get married or die trying. . .

What manner of man makes his wife go back home to do 'omugwo'? Goes there to chop beans and start beating up inlaws. I can't deal with shameless irresponsible men mhen, just can't deal
My future sympathies to his wife.

dominique: What manner of man makes his wife go back home to do 'omugwo'? Goes there to chop beans and start beating up inlaws. I can't deal with shameless irresponsible men mhen, just can't deal
My future sympathies to his wife.

Buaaaaaahahahahah. This cracked my up so bad. Jeez! OMG!

dominique: What manner of man makes his wife go back home to do 'omugwo'? Goes there to chop beans and start beating up inlaws. I can't deal with shameless irresponsible men mhen, just can't deal
My future sympathies to his wife.

Don't forget he borrows books too!

Phema:

Buaaaaaahahahahah. This cracked my up so bad. Jeez! OMG!

dominique: What manner of man makes his wife go back home to do 'omugwo'? Goes there to chop beans and start beating up inlaws. I can't deal with shameless irresponsible men mhen, just can't deal
My future sympathies to his wife.

Yes, you were angry but you could have controlled it and just ignore what happened(I mean the cause, which is your sister not leaving your share of the. food).

You were disrespected in your own house; if you don't nip it in the bud, something worse will spring forth.

So calmly send your sister and family packing to avoid stories that touch! As this point, you need your sanity and esteem back because they have been eroded.

At this time, you need to adopt the silent treatment. Don't bring the matter up, though painful, let it go but distance yourself from your sister and her husband. Try to be unpredictable when you find yourself around them and your family too.

I'm telling you, when you are quiet suddenly, they won't easily understand you and try to do more of listening than talking. Say few words and close the matter.

Action speaks louder than words! Let your actions speak for you! If you are troublesome or a gra gra person, follow my above tips and watch them flabbergasted at your sudden attitude.

donkelz:


An empty barrel makes d loudest noise...keep displaying ur immaturity and stupidity. I dnt exchange words with kids, so take dis as a reprimand. If u want me to teach u respect, simply ask and I will give u a free training

Hi don, i like the way you comment, can i speak with you it very urgent.i need advice.

Godmother:
My sister's husband slapped me and beat me up. He said I had d audacity to raise my hand n point at him n stand in front of him so he slapped me.

He's 32 n I'm 29. We ve known for over 10 years n were very close in school. When he asked my sister out I decided to shift away to give them space. Now he's married n wants me to start callin him bros.

My sister just gave birth n is stayin at my house with her baby n son. The hubby came to spend a few days n beat me up. Brough out a belt n wanted to flog me.

I feel so bitter. My sister was clamouring to join to beat me up. But for my younger brother that came n pushed me me into d room n told me to be calm he probably wud av killed me.

My mum did nothing, just told me to be calm n not say a word. She has been petting me but I feel so bitter

What did you do?

I expect you to say that you did nothing.

coogar:


i don't support violence too but it's sometimes necessary. she provoked the bro-in-law & she was pointing finger at him. he was only defending himself - what's he meant to do? wait for her to strike the first blow?

Preemptive striking you mean, just like Israel.

jusRadical:




What did you do?

I expect you to say that you did nothing.

Do you want me to say I did something when I did nothing? Anyways, its been almost five years and I have long forgotten the issue.

Godmother:


Do you want me to say I did something when I did nothing? Anyways, its been almost five years and I have long forgotten the issue.

OK.

I had replied before seeing that it was in 2013.

I hope you are doing great.

jusRadical:


What did you do?

I expect you to say that you did nothing.

This irritating question again. What sane human being goes into someone else's house and start beating them there? If this matter had been reported to a police station in a sane country, do you think the police will ask what she did? No normal human being finds ways to justify assault.

dominique:


This irritating question again. What sane human being goes into someone else's house and start beating them there. If this matter had been reported to a police station in a sane country, do you think the police will ask what she did? No normal human being finds ways to justify assault.

.

dominique:


This irritating question again. What sane human being goes into someone else's house and start beating them there? If this matter had been reported to a police station in a sane country, do you think the police will ask what she did? No normal human being finds ways to justify assault.

See the brother in law is mad, but she never said so: meaning that he is not.

Something made him do that.

Ndi werey BIL! I hope OP has longed moved out of the family house and completely minded her business away from the sadist and his wife. If there is ever a family event that brings you together, just treat him like any other guest...nothing too personal!

BIL flogging SIL in her father's house! Hian! Ndi oshi gbaa niyen ke! Whew!

BTW, hope your sister is fine? I can imagine the occasional floggings the bobo will be giving her. Chai! May God give trouble a good distance from us.