yemivictor:

That, is either a load of crap, or you've got a really very small family!

Ibukun, you're still small looking jo!!

yemivictor:

That, is either a load of crap, or you've got a really very small family!

Ibukun, you're still small looking jo!!

Queenisha:

I'm getting sick of all these Nigerian male bashing threads and I'm not even a man.
Haba!
My dad is a good man and my mom is still his best friend till date.
I m  married  to a man that I have no regrets marrying and yes he is Nigerian

Being a dog is not a trait unique to Nigerians
There are dogs in every race,religion and ethnicity
Don't the other women bear any responsibility in these affairs?
As long as she was not raped, the mistress is just as guilty as the man

but honestly if my man told me a woman was bearing a kid for him,that's it,I'm gone
I could forgve the fact that he cheated[b] if it's a one time thing[/b], he's human but cheating unprotected is unforgivable.

Tufiakwa!!
I won't be with someone who may also be attempting to muder me with his private part

@ poster,your aunt ought to get herself tested for STD's right away.
this is not just a crying case

davidylan:

At the end of the day its not about what you think, i will be faithful to my wife. You're free to follow whomever you wish.

Queenisha:

I'm getting sick of all these Nigerian male bashing threads and I'm not even a man _{thank God}
Haba!
My dad is a good man and my mom is still his best friend till date.
I'm married to a man that I have no regrets marrying and yes he is Nigerian

smooooooth:

thanx o. this girls have taken it a duty to bash men and degrade them @ any available opportunity in what ever form they choose, forgetting that their generalisations includes their boyfriends, and husbands.

Queenisha:


Tufiakwa!!
I won't be with someone who may also be attempting to muder me with his private part

ROFLMAO!

davidylan:


At the end of the day its not about what you think, i will be faithful to my wife. You're free to follow whomever you wish.

And so will i, hot shot!

Pataki:

Now you are beginning to talk.

But this topic is not even about Nigerian Men, but Men in general

Erm, at some point, it became nigerianized!

Lady J:

@topic

men


it takes d grace of God for them to be able to control that disaster they have inbtwn their legs

You might consider doing your shopping in david's family, they're a special kind!

yemivictor:

You might consider doing your shopping in david's family, they're a special kind!

whitelexi:

I still stand strong in my belief sha, a wife's failures open the door to another woman's prolificacy.

spikedcylinder:

@ whitelexi,
So how many men do you know that stick around when their wives have "failed"??

KarmaMod:

Then the man should have respect for the family and LEAVE the marriage first before frolicking around with someone else.

I don't see how that's too much to ask.

spikedcylinder:

@ whitelexi,
So how many men do you know that stick around when their wives have "failed"??

Pataki:

Now you are beginning to talk.

But this topic is not even about Nigerian Men, but Men in general

know this sounds like a sweeping generalisation but I have found it to be true in almost all cases I have seen or experienced first hand. Why is it such a horrible, horrible thing to be married to a Nigerian man? Like there is a certain type of handbook the men read before becoming husbands.

Fine, a lot of newer generation men usually swear on their lives that they will never hurt their women but the moment they are settled into marraige, cheating begins. . . .as if this isnt the most painful kind of thing to do to your wife. And the people around them treat it like it is the norm.
I have hardly seen a Nigerian family (from my experience, especially yoruba people) who don't have one story or the other attached to their family name. The men always mess up! And in the most painful and ridiculous ways, I wonder how their women manage to have the patience and peseverance to stay eventhough most of them claim to still be there for their children.

KarmaMod:

Then the man should have respect for the family and LEAVE the marriage first before frolicking around with someone else.

I don't see how that's too much to ask.

yemivictor:

You might consider doing your shopping in david's family, they're a special kind!

whitelexi:

When the wahala is happening, many don't expect the unexpected
But u expect the man to know what he's getting into when he makes friends outside?

davidylan:

Not more special than yours bro.
If you take your vows seriously and you love your wife then it shldnt be too difficult to stay faithful to her. Most men who stray are not victims of their wives failures but are themselves moral failures.

smooooooth:

i think u just get tired of it, these days i refuse women sometimes, something that wont happen some 5yrs ago,lai lai.

Lady J:

@topic

men


it takes d grace of God for them to be able to control that disaster they have inbtwn their legs

davidylan:

If you take your vows seriously and you love your wife then it shldnt be too difficult to stay faithful to her. Most men who stray are not victims of their wives failures but are themselves moral failures.

davidylan:

Not more special than yours bro.
If you take your vows seriously and you love your wife then it shldnt be too difficult to stay faithful to her. Most men who stray are not victims of their wives failures but are themselves moral failures.

Lady J:

you're lucky i don't have a single sister,i would have done some connection this minute

chamotex:

what about female cousin or friend

i need some fresh bloods

smooooooth:

why are women giving themselves headache about what a man does outside, they shld be glad they finally got him to marry them,besides men stay active longer then women, so they shld concentrate on the kids and developing their lives than who is the next sweet 16 their husband is seeing, because he may just be doing that to stay alive. doesnt mean he no longer loves his wife.

in some cultures even till now, women encourage their husband to get a concubine, because they knw they can't keep up with his strength any longer.