vickyO: Hmmm... This thread is something else.
Lots of perverted souls in here.
It's so sad seeing the alarming number of shallow minded, sex oriented, foul mouthed, and frustrated guys in here.
I can't believe someday, a little kid will call you dad cause you all are disappointments.
Calling your mum, sisters and future daughters whores? How happy will they be if you tell that to them?
A prostitute is someone paid for sex.
E.g.
Boy-Oh girl, how much for 2 hours?
answer- na #10000000.
Boy-Ok, lets get down.
...... after two hours, pays the amount negotiated.
Does the above describe how you guys have sex with your girlfriends?

You guys speaking are just lazy a.s.s.es looking for lame excuses to shy away from little responsibilities.
I don't advocate sex before marriage but there is a difference between a prostitute and a girlfriend, a big one as a matter of fact.

vickyO:
It's unfortunate cause I have seen broke boys with girlfriends.
Your deduction is wrong. But there's a big fat line between a no future ambition-lazy broke guy and an ambitious-hardworking broke guy. Which category do you fall under?
If it's under the latter, it's no surprise but if it's under the former, don't worry about it, just keep hustling and praying hard, the right girl will come.

distribute inc.:


Lorreta u re a fine lady ooh-pls guys be reasonable not all girls are prostitutes-even if those marketers have to seduce some rich old men to get their money into their accounts or to get contracts does not mean you compare them to those dirty street girls.
As for me i dont do hoes.

rudedough:

Lorretta please shut up. Your type won't want to be with a graduate who became a self employed "hard working" taxi driver.

I'm not saying all girls are prostitute but your argument is some what baseless.

I know you like specialist Doctors , nice to meet you.

loswhite: clearly u have comprehension problem. If your concern is the generalization, then Js say point of correction not all women instead of the epistles u have been writing and contradicting yourself. Sumbody has already given u summary and definition of women that falls into the category. If u don't fall into that category then don't let it bother u

RedBenson:

You seem like a talkative. Learn how to shorten ur post jare!

fresh_dude: I don't necessarily agree. You see, it's been a custom of ours for ages and while a change is needed, it's a tad bit myopic to call them prostitutes.
They are only prostitutes when they go into the relationship for the sole purpose of benefiting financially, which many do and mask it as love.
If you cannot love a broke guy because he's broke ashi is your name. Simple!

Valeree: I didn't expect this topic to be as sensitive as this... Imagine 20 pages and still counting.

lorretta u: Don't be rude to me.
I seee you know my type too well.
Smh.

I'm not being rude, i just like to say things the way they are. Do you like specialist doctors or not?

rudedough:

Please just shut up like Lorretta. If this guy had papers, he wouldn't need to pray or wait for the right girl. He'll be confused as to which "right girl" to pick from numerous options. Even you yourself would be all over him.
Every girl has an insecurity issue and they need a financially strong man irrespective of him being "hard working" or "lazy".

Is there anyone who's more hardworking than a truck pusher?
Or does anyone hustle more than a bus conductor?
How many girls would want to be with such people?
But how many girls would want to be with the lazy yahoozee boys?
So cut the crap, every girl has a vast interest in a man's financial capability before they venture into a relationship.[/size][/b]

Valeree: I didn't expect this topic to be as sensitive as this... Imagine 20 pages and still counting.

vickyO:
What's biting you? Are you a broke a.s.s dude too? Cause they seem to cry a lot.
Not every girl needs a man's money to survive, do you understand? Shallow minded person
Truck pushers have wives, go take a poll.
Conductors have, all have if they really want to have.
Why? cause they are hardworking. And girls accept them because they see them trying.
It's seems you are a no future ambition lazy broke boy, if not you won't be here by this time spewing words in anger.
@ the bolded, it's unfortunate you don't know who you're speaking to.

rudedough:

I'm not being rude, i just like to say things the way they are. Do you like specialist doctors or not?

lorretta u: you see why it is like this is because the men who have women in their lives can come up boldly and tell the world that their wives,mothers, girlfriends etc are prostitutes and are no better than call girls simply because they are expected to be financially responsible.
If no one finds that sickening,I do. WTH
Some even go as far as saying they've never received a gift from their women before? Jeez!
What blatant dishonesty.
Simply because many of them have uncontrollable sexzual urges that they have to go to total and complete strangers to get release,they want to paint their women dirty just to make us accept "oh well they are not doing anything bad"
How xtupid is that? I just feel so sorry for the ladies who think they are in love with these fellows while they are thinking of them as prostitutes.
Smh. And they want to be respected. In my opinion anybody who can come on a public forum and classify all the women he knows(mom n sisters included) as wh*res desrevs no respect. At all.

lorretta u: Don't mind the a$$hole
Even where I am conductors have wives with kids. Labourers. Block carriers. Etc And their wives are working to support them too. As long as they see the man is at least trying. He's just ranting probably because a girl he fancies is with someone better off than him. And he thinks it cos of money. She probably couldn't stand his dishonesty and lack of self esteem.

vickyO:
What's biting you? Are you a broke a.s.s dude too? Cause they seem to cry a lot.
Not every girl needs a man's money to survive, do you understand? Shallow minded person
Truck pushers have wives, go take a poll.
Conductors have, all have if they really want to have.
Why? cause they are hardworking. And girls accept them because they see them trying.
It's seems you are a no future ambition lazy broke boy, if not you won't be here by this time spewing words in anger.
@ the bolded, it's unfortunate you don't know who you're speaking to.
And Loretta made sense. You're just too shallow to understand her words.

Learn to stick to the debate and stop ranting.

Take a look at my photo and tell me again that i'm a broke a$$ kneegar. Again, i don't live in that f&%ked up country called Nigeria.

"Conductors can have a GF if they really want to have". Really? Like who doesn't want a GF?

Can you date a "hardworking" conductor cos i read you advising someone to be "hardworking" and "prayerful"?

How many vulcanizers, battery chargers, panel beaters, bar tenders, carpenters, brick layers etc. have asked you out and how many have you dated? Or are they not "hard working" or "prayerful" enough?

I'm neither "hardworking" nor "prayerful", i'm a specialist doctor but i'm 99% too sure that if i ask you out on our first meeting, you'll be on my bed the same night.

Alikaxon: Look at this op. I don't know what guys has done to her that she so despice them alot. Look at who's saying they re unkept; how kept re u? Meanwhile, what's the difference between them and you? They get money from men to do their hair, you also do. They get money from men to go shopping, you also do. With your pesistent ugly attitude towards men, It shows u've developed hatred for them(not me) and people like u are still single even in their late 40s, what a life?

explorer001:

which majority are you talking about here?....whats the population of guys on nairaland and if you want to use it as a sample, will it be responses from some unreasonable kids?

the OP has not committed any crime here and i'm surprised to see how guys just decided to pick on her like she is their next door neighbor and they know her so well. If her attitude towards guys is questionable, its not best to attack her for opening a thread to air her views. I'm so disappointed with most of the comments coming from guys here...are we now justifying prostitution as a good thing?

This is an online forum that even little kids from 9yrs old who have access to internet can read. Have we completely lost our morals as Africans? I have never in my life and will never patronize a prostitute cos i also share the OP's opinion. They are so dirty (public toilet) and if i can't share a spoon outside my house, i don't think i can share Kitty-Cat with another man when i am so aware of it. If my GF is seeing other guys, at least, she is keeping it away from me, what you don't know will not kill you and out of sight is out of mind....

rudedough:
Learn to stick to the debate and stop ranting.

Take a look at my photo and tell me again that i'm a broke a$$ kneegar. Again, i don't live in that f&%ked up country called Nigeria.

"Conductors can have a GF if they really want to have". Really? Like who doesn't want a GF?

Can you date a "hardworking" conductor cos i read you advising someone to be "hardworking" and "prayerful"?

How many vulcanizers, battery chargers, panel beaters, bar tenders, carpenters, brick layers etc. has asked you out and how many have you dated? Or are they not "hard working" or "prayerful" enough?

I'm neither "hardworking" nor "prayerful", i'm a specialist doctor but i'm 99% too sure that if i ask you out on our first meeting, you'll be on my bed the same night.

GeneralShepherd:

I have codemned this idea that all women are hoes! It is plain stupid and just an excuse to justify paying for sex.

On the other hand girls that refuse to date a guy because he is broke, are questionable! What happens when you guy looses his money? What if he is a beast with a lot of money?

But funny enough most guys are call boys because when you are broke niggers turn their backs too. If Niggers do that why are they criticising women!

I have been loved by women even when I am currently broke!!

So read my post and pick the point that applies to you.

Chukky86: Go hug transformer liar. No come dey pretend here. I Don see you for empire for jibowu before.

vickyO: I see lazy men all around here.
In the olden times, you can't marry a wife if you are not comfortable.
The lazy ones will say, "ah, times have changed jare, you no know say husbands no easy to find this days".
That's how they wallow in their dirty lazy worlds and lash out against a girl who knows she deserves better.

As a man you must have something, a hardworking nature, if not you're worthy of being called a man.
And any girl who doesn't stick to a hardworking nice guy due to financial issue is not worthy of being called a lady.