I was reading through one topic in the romance section 'Husband Abroad For Three Year Study Programme?' and one person mentioned something about husbands going to war. How would you feel if your husband/wife decided to take part in a war as a soldier? Would you agree to it and how would you feel? Please kindly give your opinions on this matter, thankyou.

u people want to give me hypertension on this forum today oooooo


no way,war ko war ni,hes going nowhere

NO! ESpecially if he wants take part in the Iraqi War. . . .it'll be a HELL NO!

Divorce first.

Missy B:

Divorce first.

Lol

   

I wouldn't allow it. What for? Even being in the police force is risky. He must stay and help raise our family,

I would gladly allow me wife to go to WAR.
Why wouldn't she allow me??

Hannibal:

I would gladly allow me wife to go to WAR.
Why wouldn't she allow me??

As in, maybe she will be thinking about the major risks? Your well being etc

it all depends on d place d service would take place. places lyk ghana i will allow.

ibkaye:

As in, maybe she will be thinking about the major risks? Your well being etc

I can take care of meself.

Hannibal:

I can take care of meself.

Are you serious? With all the bullets roaming around etc, I'm not talking about paintball o, this is the real thing 
As in your life is at stake, I'm sure that she will constantly be thinking about your well being and dreading the thought of one day receiving a phone call from the army about your death, God forbid such bad thing, it is only natural for her to worry about such things

Well, I guess it's always good to be optimistic, but reality is important also

I jst think any man who truly loves his family
wouldn't think of doing such voluntarily.


The tot of stayin apart wil kill me  

ibkaye:

Are you serious? With all the bullets roaming around etc, I'm not talking about paintball o, this is the real thing  
As in your life is at stake, I'm sure that she will constantly be thinking about your well being and dreading the thought of one day receiving a phone call from the army about your death, God forbid such bad thing, it is only natural for her to worry about such things

Well, I guess it's always good to be optimistic, but reality is important also

How do u know i paint-ball??
I am beginning to think u are psychic.

Hannibal:

How do u know i paint-ball??
I am beginning to think u are psychic.

Lol, not at all, just trying to make you see how serious the situation is, coincidence i guess

ibkaye:

Lol, not at all, just trying to make you see how serious the situation is, coincidence i guess

Okay!!!

Anyways, ma wife knew i was a soldier before we got married.
She shoulda screened me out in the dating stage. . . .
I just wanna serve me fatherland. . . .no woman can stop me from doing just that.

going to war is different, he wont be away for 3yrs. . . but i will do everything to convince him to stay

Hannibal:

Okay!!!

Anyways, ma wife knew i was a soldier before we got married.
She shoulda screened me out in the dating stage. . . .
I just want to serve me fatherland. . . .no woman can stop me from doing just that.

Oh ok, well if that is the way you feel about it, cool, thankyou for contributing

Wouldnt even get involved with someone who doesnt think dying for a country is idiotic

Fine for others but not someone with me. simple

Wouldn't want to get involved with someone who thinks fighting for a country is always idiotic.

For some of us, fighting for your country is an heroic act of patriotism.

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If my husband wanting to join in on the war on terror, then i would cry from the moment he let it slip out of his tongue. I know too many people who came back from war hurt physically, emotionally, and mentally. I mean how could he do that such a thing to me? leave me at home worrying about him day and night. wondering that the next morning i might get news that he was hurt, captured, or killed!! I wouldn't be able to hold it down on my own knowing that my husband is out there doing God knows what. So if he wanted to go to war, i would take it as, he either has to choose his family, or his country.

HR.hotness:

going to war is different, he wont be away for 3yrs. . . but i will do everything to convince him to stay

3 years is better than coming back in a bodybag

Good thing I dont intend to get involved with you in the first place, acid.

That's too bad karma, a lot of them are seen as heroes. much to your dislike i bet .

It's not even the fact that the person could die

Have you seen how mentally damaged some of these people are? Nightmares? PTS? It's so depressing

and what do they have to show for all that? A stupid purple heart badge.

Come to the city and see these "veterans" begging on the street with their badges and half their limbs blown off.

Dont know how anyone would willingly put themselves in that mess

Plenty of rednecks that can take my dude's place.

I wish I gave a damn, acid.

I wish I gave a damn about your obtuse thinking, karma.

Then stop following me around. Abi kilode?

KarmaMod:

It's not even the fact that the person could die

Have you seen how mentally damaged some of these people are? Nightmares? PTS? It's so depressing

and what do they have to show for all that? A stupid purple heart badge.

Come to the city and see this "veterans" begging around with their badges and half their limbs blown off.

Dont know how anyone would willingly put themselves in that mess

Plenty of rednecks that can take my dude's place.

1. so true. Come down here, and they keep the homeless veterans in this low quality shelter.

2. You got that right. there is other more willing people to go into service.

One of my uncles, then a Major, had to go to Liberia for 3yrs with ECOMOG shortly after his first kid was concieved. The poor boy didnt know his own father until he was 4 but they all survived and are living happily today with 5 kids.

It all depends on if the woman is willing to make some sacrifice to allow her husband fulfill his dream.

But I do give a damn about the men and women who put their lives on the line to protect mine.  

KarmaMod:

Then stop following me around. Abi kilode?

warn yourself o. was only replying.

Of course i'd never allow my madam to go to any war.  
She can always find a war in the bedroom if she wants.

ibkaye:

Oh ok, well if that is the way you feel about it, cool, thankyou for contributing

Ibkaye, be a hero's wife. . . . . marry a soldier.
Good thing for u. . . . .NDA is nearer to u than many peops.