hazureal:

ok, ok, we always hear that sex before marriage ain't godly.

but come to think of it?

, u guys don't do the 'thing', u get married and you find out the man is impotent,what would you do?

and for the men, would u tell a lady u really love and intend to marry that u can't get the 'yang' up? why?

Pataki:

Is there a possibility that a man will not know he is impotent?

syren:

It is possible if he lives under a rock.

But not in the society we live in.

Missy B:

According to d poster,d man is so aware of his impotency
bhut keeps it away frm his wife.

hazureal:

Pataki,

surely, a man would know if he is impotent or not.

what i am asking is, if u are a man, would u tell your babe whom u intent to marry, that u are impotent?

and as a lady, what would u do, if u discover after marriage, that he is impotent?

hazureal:

yea, it can be healed alright.

try 'oko oloyun'.

hazureal:

yes o.

i also know emiola naturalist care

and YEMKEM!

hazureal:

Ah! Pataki, my man!

how u take know bulldozer? u must be really old in this business o!

i am female anyway, and i don't need bulldozer, because i am bulldozer myself

ibkaye:

We will pray and fast for 40 days and 40 nights

Pataki:

I like your faith.

So you will remain committed to the relationship?

Pataki:



Bulldozer don kpai tey tey sef.

Which kain bulldozer are you? Attacking or Defensive bulldozer?

well, i am always on every side of the field. i attack, i defend, i'm a good goal-keeper too!

hazureal:


well, i am always on every side of the field. i attack, i defend, i'm a good goal-keeper too!

ibkaye:

Yes na, if i love him enough to marry him why would i leave him just like that?

Honestly I would look up to God for help

Sex is important but it isn't everything

And about the production of babies, there are many other methods of producing babies that do not neccesarily require penetration etc

There are other ways of enjoying ourselves sexually that do not require pentration

It will be hard but I love the man so why not

And about the guy 'knowing' that he is impotent, what if he is a virgin and really did not know, it would be insensitive of me to leave him

Pataki:

And I am an excellent goal scorer. I score from different angles of field play.
Are you truly saying as a woman you can live with a man who cannot afford you a good penetration anytime you so desire him?

While I applaud your sincerity of mind, I think it is going to be difficult on you as a woman to live with the realities of an impotent man.

ibkaye:

Well I am talking from my own point of view at this current time, I say this because I am not experienced sexually so I am not too phased about the situation

But I see it as unfair to leave a man you love just because he is impotent

ibkaye:

But I see it as unfair to leave a man you love just because he is impotent

hazureal:

my colleague here is saying that if the relationship is going to be strictly a 'no sex before marriage' thing,

the lady should grab hold of the man's 'thingy' one day and squeeze it.

if the dude goes a little hard, then she should be rest assured that he ain't impotent!

Pataki:

That is sexual harassment.

KarmaMod:

All these stupid questions

Did you forget the part about him knowing all along and NOT telling you? Is that a true relationship?

as for "sex not being everything, there other ways around it", you're still very young ibk. It's not everything but it's important in marriage to the point some people put their marriage on the line in the name of getting it outside.

Pataki:

I understand what you mean. I guess women like you are so hard to find these days.

That said, it is commendable of you, that you have such a large heart to accommodate LOVE as it comes.



Now where is hazureal?

ibkaye:

Yeah, I know I'm young, that's why I said 'Well I am talking from my own point of view at this current time, I say this because I am not experienced sexually so I am not too phased about the situation', plus, I don't actually plan to have sex until I'm married meaning that I won't exactly know what i'm 'missing' considering I would not have experimented before, you feel me :