lanre2u: the greatest gift a woman can give her husband is "to stop nagging" nagging have sent millions on men to their untimely grave.... I need good attitude... Dazz all.

I'm sorry...I couldn't help but laugh after reading the bolded post

A virtous woman is a crown on her husband's head..virtousness encompasses it all(faithfulness,respect,hardworking)..it is more than a 'gift'..as a man,the best 'gift' will be to make me a proud father.

mcocolok: MUMU, A MAN CAN ALWAYS LIE HE IS A VIRGIN, HOW YOU ONE TAKE KNOW? YOU ONE LOOK INSIDE HIM PRICK

Seems like you don't know that women can replace their hymens now.

adezjamz:
Looking for a virgin to balance d equation. No cheating... 50:50

Lol I'm sure you'll find one no worries.

yomifowe:

True.
that is something any man can die for. I believe that genuine love brings respect. A woman cannot love a man he cannot respect.

o boy na gay level be this?
you know say na 21 years for naija?
na joke i dey o, i see you unintentional error

wat u all said is Gud, 4 a marieg 2 last because dat wat d writer said, in marige Is nt about given nd taking is fa mordan dat fa, our perent dos days live Hpply without all of dis, wat hav chenge nw is our attitude toward tins in life, de is a lot 2 say about making marige lst no 1 is character nd respn each oda opinion

OP are u asking or telling us, cos all I can see is ur post all over the thread. Next time just say what u hv in mind and then we will argue with u.

yomifowe: In my opinion, the best gift a man or especially woman can give to her husband is...






Her Virginity.

If you do this, he would forever love you for this and the likelihood of breaking up with you would be very slim.

Secondly, this would help build a strong foundation of trust in the marriage.

This is my N5.

But there are no virgins again in this country, God knows who dey disvirgin dis girls, abi they are disvirgined from the womb?

A Promise to do BJ everytime he ask her to.

Best gift ever!!

eve4real86: One of the best gifts a woman can give to her husband is to be faithful to him. The atmosphere of the marriage is regulated by the woman. For the marriage to end in 'till death do us part', the woman is supposed to in addition to every thing else be faithful. No cheating, no male 'friends', or anything else that would jeopardise the relati9onship.

I lol who does the cheating mostly in the marriage?

Xvenus: The Bible asks Men to Love their wives (that's very diffcult) and women to Respect their husbands! That gives a happy home. The best gift I was expecting was a real present. Is it wrong to buy him a car?

My dear God bless u, wen u ask of gift,u will see guys rushing out to name things they expect the wife should be. A virgin,trust, love ,respect and all what not. Apart from virginity the rest grows wit time. Its hw u make ur beds u will lay on it. Babe if u can afford a car fine. But I will go for a watch.

softsparky: Respect him and respect your self.

my dad is a very strict man that his decision is final.we will always wonder why my mum will keep quiet without opposing or intervening in our presence, next minute you will see my dad and my mum coming out from their room with smiles and he will change his stand instantly. I always wonder what my mum normally say to make him change his mind.... my mum told me,

Respect your man and yourself especially infront of your kids.

Wow!its just like you are talking about my mum.we don't know how she does it.this particular attitude of hers(always influencing my dad's decisions) earned her a nick name among my siblings and I.we call her "the engineer".my dad is a very stubborn man too but she never counters him in our presence.what we know is that he changes his unfavorable decisions afterwards.
Plus her submissive attitude towards my dad earned my dad a nickname.we never say it to his face but when talking to my mum,we call him her king.like "mum,where's your king?" Or "mum,your king did this and that,pls help us engineer him naa".haha.she just bursts out laughing but in d end,d unfavourable decision is changed and we never hear raised voices.
My mum is my role model on marriage issues.I must admit it requires a lot of PATIENCE and HUMILITY.

Also,one day long ago,I watched Tony Anenih's wife interviewed on tv.when asked how she coped with her husband(she's a politician and a lawyer) on d home front,she said something that I cannot forget in a hurry.she said if a woman must have a successful marriage,she has to STOOP TO CONQUER.she said when you stoop,people or d person you are stooping for looks at you and sees your humility but in d end,you are making your way,influencing hard decisions and at the same time,there is peace in d home. that was a big lesson for me. I remember reading a novel "she stoops to conquer" by oliver goldsmith in my junior secondary.so anyway,the role of humility cannot be over emphasized in a marriage. #my2cents#

definitely her virginity coupled with proper upbringing to a husband who appreciates it. i do

yomifowe: Recently, I was going through a soft sell, and I was surprised at the fact that majority of the stories in the magazine were all about divorce issues, breakups, extra-marital affairs, pregnancy out of wedlock, just to mention a few. This is prevalent, not only in Nigeria, but a worldwide phenomenon. This prompted me to ask this question. What can be done to ensure that marriages last longer? What is the best gift a woman can give to her man, or vice versa, that would ensure that marriages indeed become 'till death do us part'.

. Wit my own point of few is SACRIFICIAL. LUV

Lots of jigijigi

In my opinion, the best gift a man or especially woman can give to her husband is...






Her Virginity.

If you do this, he would forever love you for this and the likelihood of breaking up with you would be very slim.

Secondly, this would help build a strong foundation of trust in the marriage.

This is my N5.

How Old are you? Are you a virgin? Please don't deceive that small girl.

drnoel:

in this time and age. Who wants to marry a virgin? That stuff is too overated and most people have left that buss behinde.

. Please shut the F up. If you don't want to marry a virgin or you lost yours recklessly that's your own palava. But don't repeat the mistake of generalizing because many others including me still cherish it.

Honesty n humility

addicted268:

Wow!its just like you are talking about my mum.we don't know how she does it.this particular attitude of hers(always influencing my dad's decisions) earned her a nick name among my siblings and I.we call her "the engineer".my dad is a very stubborn man too but she never counters him in our presence.what we know is that he changes his unfavorable decisions afterwards.
Plus her submissive attitude towards my dad earned my dad a nickname.we never say it to his face but when talking to my mum,we call him her king.like "mum,where's your king?" Or "mum,your king did this and that,pls help us engineer him naa".haha.she just bursts out laughing but in d end,d unfavourable decision is changed and we never hear raised voices.
My mum is my role model on marriage issues(I must admit it requires a lot of PATIENCE and HUMILITY).

my dear ehhh even my grandma is still surprised how my mum was able to cope with the son (my dad).there are times he will come back angry banging doors and looking for who to shout at, if you greet him na war,if you no greet na slap. my mum will just leave their room enter ours and start telling us all those village stories or how they survived the war, soon you will see my dad trying to get my mum's attention by either adding to the story or requesting for drinking water.my dad will start making dry jokes and then start laughing at things that are not even funny.we all will be smiling sheepishly. na there vex go end oooooo.

Girls should learn to give their man space especially when they are on their 'period' lol.they will surely come around when they calm down.you will be surprised how they will start explaining what happened to you without you asking them.

Hey guys, how do I post a new thread/story in this forum?

Nd when Samsung 6 come out u no go leave am

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softsparky: Respect him and respect your self.

my dad is a very strict man that his decision is final.we will always wonder why my mum will keep quiet without opposing or intervening in our presence, next minute you will see my dad and my mum coming out from their room with smiles and he will change his stand instantly. I always wonder what my mum normally say to make him change his mind.... my mum told me,

Respect your man and yourself especially infront of your kids.

I think you have said it all.

Marrying a virgin does not guarantee a good or happy home. What is needed is a mature mind that understand each other and a forgiving spirit.

Xvenus: The Bible asks Men to Love their wives (that's very diffcult) and women to Respect their husbands! That gives a happy home. The best gift I was expecting was a real present. Is it wrong to buy him a car?

wat!!!! are u kidding me Pls can we get married ASAP!!!

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softsparky: my dear ehhh even my grandma is still surprised how my mum was able to cope with the son (my dad).there are times he will come back angry banging doors and looking for who to shout at, if you greet him na war,if you no greet na slap. my mum will just leave their room enter ours and start telling us all those village stories or how they survived the war, soon you will see my dad trying to get my mum's attention by either adding to the story or requesting for drinking water.my dad will start making dry jokes and then start laughing at things that are not even funny.we all will be smiling sheepishly. na there vex go end oooooo.

Girls should learn to give their man space especially when they are on their 'period' lol.they will surely come around when they calm down.you will be surprised how they will start explaining what happened to you without you asking them.

Seems you will make a good husband/wifey with this experiences as your gender maybe.

yomifowe: In my opinion, the best gift a man or especially woman can give to her husband is...






Her Virginity.

If you do this, he would forever love you for this and the likelihood of breaking up with you would be very slim.

Secondly, this would help build a strong foundation of trust in the marriage.

This is my N5.

Personally I don't like virgins. too many work involved trying to get bit open. Mutual respect for your spouse and understanding is key to me....

Gifts must not be bought with money.. Gift are things that a person doesn't just commonly get. Give him something that only you can give him.. Give him enough of your kisses.. Give him more kisses than you have ever given him.. Kiss him every moment for the whole day that you have chosen as the gift-giving day, kiss him to the extent that he thinks that kissing is a common thing,, then you tell him that it is your sincere gift to him, and that he can always have it anytime he wishes..
Trust me,, it works..
Infact, whenever he tries to look at another woman,, he will really be missing your kisses..
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yomifowe: In my opinion, the best gift a man or especially woman can give to her husband is...






Her Virginity.

If you do this, he would forever love you for this and the likelihood of breaking up with you would be very slim.

Secondly, this would help build a strong foundation of trust in the marriage.

This is my N5.

Likeninng your post doesn't mean dats the only gift but wat u said av kept me going in my marriage

yomifowe: In my opinion, the best gift a man or especially woman can give to her husband is...






Her Virginity.

If you do this, he would forever love you for this and the likelihood of breaking up with you would be very slim.

Secondly, this would help build a strong foundation of trust in the marriage.

This is my N5.

STORY EASIER SAID THAN KEEP,U BI VIRGIN U FOR GIVE IT TO HER AS A GIFT.MTWEEEEEW

On the virginity,Dont be decieved,every LovePeddler was once a virgin,and a virgin after tasting IT may want to experiment it with others apart from the husband.so being a virgin is not an ultimate criterion for an everlasting marriage.For me the best gift is what i call RLF the combination is fullproof.RESPECT,LOVE AND FAITHFULNESS.The endless respect would boost his self confidence he'll would watch what he does cos he dsnt wana loose the respect,the uncondition love would soften his heart and make him care for her and the kids while her continous faithfulness would keep his conscience on the scale of morality.these are the best gifts ladies.

softsparky: Respect him and respect your self.

my dad is a very strict man that his decision is final.we will always wonder why my mum will keep quiet without opposing or intervening in our presence, next minute you will see my dad and my mum coming out from their room with smiles and he will change his stand instantly. I always wonder what my mum normally say to make him change his mind.... my mum told me,

Respect your man and yourself especially infront of your kids.

@ Softsparky, you made a very good point...


But ladies of today don't want to be respectful to there husband, they equally want to be dominant especially when they have a good paying Job than the Husband... This has really crumble alot of marriage... Some ladies does not have home training at all, some are very rude, some are extremely proud etc...