yomifowe: Pls lets be honest with ourselves, the fact that our society has thrown morals to the wind does not mean that it is wrong. Even the dictionary defines Fornication as sex between individuals that are not married. Lets call a spade exactly what it is[b] A SPADE[/b].
The best gift a woman can give to her husband on their wedding night is still her V.
If you still disagree, can you marry a pro? If you say yes, its OK by me (you are one in a million then), but if you say no, then how can you tell how many men your woman have slept with, or the assurance that she would not cheat on you again?

duality:

I'm making a comment because of you. I Usually don't like commenting on issues like this.


I understand your sentiments; But marring a non virgin doesn't also guaranty an exiting sex life. In fact, if you had married a retired prostitute with years of great sexual experience, wouldn't still guarantee a great sex life with her. Since you are married I can't be teaching you the psychological aspect of sex.

It takes a lot to be and remain a virgin before marriage. That kind of strength is what it takes to be great. You claim to have someone with such; then leverage on it.

What if something happens to you and your sexual drive reduces? will you kill yourself? OR End the marriage?

You thing you have a problem in marring a virgin? No you don't.

Skinni10ne:

You are hilarious!!!
So what about all the non virgin girls? Who disvirgined them, birds?
How about u start telling men, your male species to stop pressuring /molesting/r..aping women? Start by cause, not effect. The prob lem is men. Period. Lets call a spade, a spade. If men stop requesting for sex, a lot more women would be virgins in their older ages.

mcocolok: YOU BE MUMU FOR JAKPA ROAD

yomifowe: In my opinion, the best gift a man or especially woman can give to her husband is...






Her Virginity.

If you do this, he would forever love you for this and the likelihood of breaking up with you would be very slim.

Secondly, this would help build a strong foundation of trust in the marriage.

This is my N5.

yomifowe:

I do not intend to hurt anyone. This is just a call for women to uphold the virtues that our mothers upheld.

Is there anything wrong in a woman saying NO to premarital sex?

yomifowe:

Very funny. However on a more serious note; it cannot be contested that men love sex. However, sex alone cannot make a man marry a woman, not to talk of sustaining it. A woman, in addition to being good in bed should have high level of IQ or else, she would only eventuslly become his booty girl.

Mondisweets: I was being sacarstic, I wasn't actually agreeing with u

thehunted: There is something our mothers learnt that our girls today haven't. Maybe they are preoccupied with Facebook,Twitter and co.

kingsley Mbang: A woman owes her husband faithfulnes,committment and high regards @ al times. There is bound 2 be a tention when any of these lacks.

softsparky: Respect him and respect your self.

my dad is a very strict man that his decision is final.we will always wonder why my mum will keep quiet without opposing or intervening in our presence, next minute you will see my dad and my mum coming out from their room with smiles and he will change his stand instantly. I always wonder what my mum normally say to make him change his mind.... my mum told me,

Respect your man and yourself especially infront of your kids.

yomifowe: In my opinion, the best gift a man or especially woman can give to her husband is...






Her Virginity.

If you do this, he would forever love you for this and the likelihood of breaking up with you would be very slim.

Secondly, this would help build a strong foundation of trust in the marriage.

This is my N5.

Elantracey: A lady's virginity is notin wen dere is no attitude or character,...to me d best gift any lady can give her husband is just her sincere love,,,wen dat is in place ah tink other can follow

Elantracey: A lady's virginity is notin wen dere is no attitude or character,...to me d best gift any lady can give her husband is just her sincere love,,,wen dat is in place ah tink other can follow

biopat:
Love surely counts!
But how can a girl keep her V till marriage when there is no attitude m character?
A girl that marries as a virgin is more likely to have these attributes then a girl with a "town hall" before marriage..... n u know what? most guys know this!
So keep that V!!!

yomifowe:

I do not intend to hurt anyone. This is just a call for women to uphold the virtues that our mothers upheld.

Is there anything wrong in a woman saying NO to premarital sex?

yomifowe: Meeting a lady as a V means that she is decent and a lot of men would do anything for such a woman.

yomifowe: In my opinion, the best gift a man or especially woman can give to her husband is...






Her Virginity.

If you do this, he would forever love you for this and the likelihood of breaking up with you would be very slim.

Secondly, this would help build a strong foundation of trust in the marriage.

This is my N5.

Skinni10ne:

Like i said, ur hilarious.
Youve already offended many women by your one sided, double standard, mysogynist view so uve already passed hurting ppl.

Why is it that u were able to write long essays as to why women should keep their virginity but when it came to see the other side and maybe preach to other men to stop pressuring women, all you could say was u dont intend to hurt anyone? Seriously? Hilarious!

There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman saying no to premarital sex but for men who are not virgins to say so, hyprocrisy! How about telling men to start marrying women before they have sex with them like their forefathers did? Or u don't intend to hurt anyone?

yomifowe: Wot about the issue of finance? Its is a strong issue to consider in a relationship/marriage. a woman should not marry a man who is not financially independent. Ladies, do I have a witness in the house?

pacesetter808: I believe this idea of women being virgins till marriage is over-rated. Admitted, it's a plus and any man who marries a virgin will appreciate his wife for it. However, we must not forget important factors that must be present to sustain a relationship......love, care, respect, faithfulness, loyalty, hygienic to mention a few. I'll rather marry someone who has been all about the place but has all these qualities than a virgin that lacks all these qualities.

yomifowe:

Maybe i need to understand the meaning of 'Over-rated'