lynpetra:




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Not based on gullibility as a result of one's irrational emotions

tpia@:


the op is controlled by demons.

tpia@:

What she calls her pastor is not my concern. If she likes she can give her father a thorough beating for asking her to have manners.
Her issue here are the attacks she launches on other people using nl as a medium, her so-called fiance is thinking he has found a wife, we shall see! By the time she is done with his juju ingesting asss, he will wish he had proposed to his other girlfriends.

EBK2:
how did you figure this out? You dont even know her...

tpia@:



Is it rocket science?

Snoggy: Tpia@, why are you so bitter?

tpia@:
The next person who mentions my name again on this thread, may you ever remain a nonentity who needs nl for your life to have relevance.

fijiano202: Aunty Tpia you are going spiritual,Biko dont curse anybody

Mintayo:
You knw she is somehow right,NL is nt d best place for her to attack d pastors wife,or express her grudges,its nt right.
Why cnt she settle issue with her pastor n his wife and if she is nt satisfied,she shd quit d church.
I just hope d Op had gone to settle things up with d Pastor,i cnt imagine her praising God on sunday with her heart filled with bitterness agains the pastor's wife.
Again...i do not believe d Op!

ketoprofen:

so in Yoruba culture, saying pastor abcd is not enuf?

tpia@:
Let us establish a few things here:

1 it is not by force to attend a particular church. If you do not like your leaders, common sense dictates you go someplace where you can respect whoever are the leaders there.

2. Address people the way they want to be addressed. If in your church your pastor is called daddy, then you are expected to go with the flow and if for any reason you do not want to, how you go about it says a lot about your character and how you were raised ie if you have home training.

3. Somebody who says she wants to marry does not go around attacking people and insulting them over her so- called marriage, something is fishy here, maybe there is more to it than meets the eye.

4. Men need to be more particular about the character of who they say they are say they are marrying, unless it does not matter to them. However, you are the one who will live with the person, unless you do not plan to, or you are birds of a feather.

5. Awon bandwagon, get a life, obviously you have none, you sound too miserable to be here.

6. Registry is available for weddings, nothing and nowhere dictates you must marry in a church you do not respect.

7. Instead of hiding behind anonymous monikers to slander people, the op should table her rubbish to the actual church she is complaining about.

tpia@:
find another church to attend if you are annoyed.

and stop generalizing, thanks.

how old is the pastor in question? In some cultures [eg yoruba], you are expected to show respect if people are 30+ years your senior.

In any case, address people the way they want to be addressed.

Mamacita007: Looooool maybe you looked so beautiful so she wanna protect her husband. if i were u, i will stay there & see that pastor daddy g.o. let her go & die if she wants to looool

specialguest:

great sense of humour! Hahahaha thank God tomorrow is Sunday, we will see again. I just hope she is not a nairalander o, before I will hear sermon about girls of these days

lezz: . The humility, meekness and responsibility found in early desciples and evangelist are no more. If members of a church volunteers to refer to their pastors, overseers as daddy, then it's a different matter. But if a pastor or his wife insists on being called daddy, then it's a tell tale signs of something being wrong. Being called pastor is enough respect. Daddy is even also a circular term of address to elderly people. This isn't d early church where the bible and Jesus our Lord is as strange as an properties of Jupiter. This is 2013 where a considerable part of people are familiar and born with their bibles. It should be a fellowship gathering more or less.

specialguest: Dear Lord please give that bitter woman on this thread a man that can look beyond her leaking mouth and marry her so she can reduce her many frustrations that are evident by the kind of envious stuff she writes. Amen

And you Lady, watch your mouth. If you have issues with me deal with it, but stop over emphasising/obsessing about my fiance and in laws. You are nothing but a trouble shooter and an unrepentant sadist! Isn't it obvious that you are not welcomed here with the negative energy you exude?

Depart from me!

tpia@:
find another church to attend if you are annoyed.

and stop generalizing, thanks.

how old is the pastor in question? In some cultures [eg yoruba], you are expected to show respect if people are 30+ years your senior.

In any case, address people the way they want to be addressed.

fijiano202: Am disappointed in you,i would have expected you to ask if pastor abcd has change his name to Pastor Daddy,i can call any pastor any name i like or want it may be Mr,Daddy or pastor abcd,i will never call a pastor wife mummy,i always refer to them as pastor wife but if she insulted me the way she insulted you i would honestly call her by her full name without any respect included

tonychristopher:


that's why we are in this mess...your tribe respects so much that it looks like stupidity...why should u call him daddy,is he your father ...bullllshittt