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I expected you not say anything on this issue because these immature children hates you because you always stick their lapses to their face without minding whose ox is gored.

na aluu nah, nothing to do with my posts here but na "targeted" attack, in their minds.

most of them are hooking up in the nl chatrooms, some with new ids.

How do you know you won't be the one to change your future husband and inspire him to join the ministry? All those party rockers you have pushed away.... Well he was one of them

Nashville: Poster,

You are just 28 so its not yet time to press the panic button and please do not let anyone pressure you yet. You say you love Christian men so at least you know what you want. So the question is where are you likely to get Christian men? Church is the simple answer! Again not all men in Church are Christians but I believe you have the Spirit of God and you will be able to tell the difference.

I also encourage you to get more involved in Church activities, bible study, mid-week service, become a worker and put yourself in a position where you will meet Christian men. Again be careful cos lots of bad boys in church these days but you have the Spirit of God in you and you will know the difference. I can even suggest you try get close to your Pastor or his wife. Lots of Pastors actually do hook-ups with Church members these days and if you pastor is nice, he could hook you up with a nice gentleman in church. Again, tell you friends and their husbands too that they could hook you up with your husband's friends or cousins etc. You just cant stay at home and expect Mr right to come around. Some people dont like hook-ups but I see nothing wrong in it.

Lastly you say you are a professional, dont you have friends where you work? Try socialise more and go for Christmas parties and office parties, you could meet someone there as well. But please make sure you know what you want in a man because there are devils out there who are just waiting to prey on young innocent girls like you so be careful. You are a Christian and remember the virtues of Christianity. God help you.

@ Poster, me think this is the most apt and succint response so far... ''...He makes all things beautiful in His time''. Nashville... God bless you!

Hi Dear,
I understand how u feel. I am a man in my early 30s and am looking for my future parner as well.
I am a chrisian professional from Edo State.
We can become friends and if we are compartible, I don't mind.
I have been in a relationship for 3 years and contributed immensely to my partners education but recently her father opposed our union on the grounds that she is too young to get married. She is 25.
I love her but. I can't continue to wait endlessly without a fixed time so I am looking for some one who is ready to settle down.

Sister,I am sure you are getting there soon and nothing will stop the blessings of God upon your life.
Just wait for it,though it may tarry wait it for it and he will perfect it at his appointed time.Just remain the good
girl that you are and always encourage whoever that's pressuring you that God's time is the best. At 28 you are still young, i have a faithful
auntie of 4 square church and she married at 42 and today she is blessed with lovely kids. So keep faith and allow God to choose for you.

Marriage is an institution of God, as you loves God,he will surely bless you richly at his own time.
Remain blessed.

frustrated is d word #

Sister,I am sure you are getting there soon and nothing will stop the blessings of God upon your life.
Just wait for it,though it may tarry wait it for it and he will perfect it at his appointed time.Just remain the good
girl that you are and always encourage whoever that's pressuring you that God's time is the best. At 28 you are still young, i have a faithful
auntie of 4 square church and she married at 42 and today she is blessed with lovely kids. So keep faith and allow God to choose for you.

Please be mindful of those who are going to use this thread or medium to exploit you but as the spirit leads you. There are many bad boys out there looking for preys,i was once a bad boy myself and still is but I like truth and respect Christian ladies like you. I have gone round the world and there is now where you can find pure truth and hope as you finds in the word of God. The spirit of truth which is the holy spirit will testify
to you when you finds your REAL husband. Just don't rush and don't do it your own way..

Marriage is an institution of God, as you loves God,he will surely bless you richly at his own time.
Remain blessed.
Joe chucks
Jakarta.

Sister,I am sure you are getting there soon and nothing will stop the blessings of God upon your life.
Just wait for it,though it may tarry wait it for it and he will perfect it at his appointed time.Just remain the good
girl that you are and always encourage whoever that's pressuring you that God's time is the best. At 28 you are still young, i have a faithful
auntie of 4 square church and she married at 42 and today she is blessed with lovely kids. So keep faith and allow God to choose for you.

Please be mindful of those who are going to use this thread or medium to exploit you but as the spirit leads you. There are many bad boys out there looking for preys,i was once a bad boy myself and still is but I like truth and respect Christian ladies like you. I have gone round the world and there is now where you can find pure truth and hope as you finds in the word of God. The spirit of truth which is the holy spirit will testify
to you when you finds your REAL husband. Just don't rush and don't do it your own way..

Marriage is an institution of God, as you loves God,he will surely bless you richly at his own time.
Remain blessed.
Joe chucks
Jakarta.

Topic: PRESSURE TO GET MARRIED
Probable problems you have:
1. You're beyond social acceptable age
2. You didn't manage ur past well
3. You're under self n peer pressure.

PROBABLE SOLUTION:
1. Prayerfully ask God for grace
2. Become a worker in a very good bible believing church and be ACTIVE
3. Don't marry for the wrong reasons
4. Appreciate yourself
5. Get out of your comfort zone
6. Work on your temperament
7. Beware of opportunists
8. Pray to God for guidance

God can help you, may you find grace

Amelian: This one some guys are bashing her without wisdom, tell me how many marriageable men, do we really have out there? How many role model dads , do we have?.. Even d so called saying that the good ones are already taken? How many percentage is really good amongst the so called good men that are taken?.. Op, u will be shocked how many ladies married serial killers, thieves, 419ners, sadist,gigolos , let me just mention but a few .. And these married women are suffering and smiling, praying that God will change their husbands for d better.. The guys saying all these harsh words, deep down, do they deserve the role of a husband? Or father? They are here abusing someone as if they are so perfect.. My dear op, pls take yur time.. Shine yur eyes.. Or else, that ministry u r meant 2 be in, one of d devil in men clothing, might just ruin it for u, all in d name of u r giving yurself stipulated time 2 get married.. Cos u might endup , GOdforbid bn used as a Ritual sacrifice, if u r not careful..Not all men u see out there are Human beings.. I dey tell u.

You are right. Well spoken. Your response carries weight and straight to the point.I as a man, some times, I wonder how some women cope with some guys that almost sleep in a beer parlor.Many homes are in shamble and some women are living in bondage going from one prayer house to the other as a result of their husband's excesses.Also some wen who hide under the umbrella of a church, claiming to be born again while they are born against.
OP, shine your eyes and pray to see one. At 28, you are not too old and God can NEVER disappoint you, but be carefulllllllllll. We men can slippery.

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be careful and watch

women should broaden their horizons.

if you all run from males you consider ineligible to marry, then who will be left for you to date.

tpia@:
if there is a shortage of marriageable men compared to "marriageable women" then should the women start struggling for the already married males or should they also pray for God to make a husband for them among the "unmarriageables".

who then will minister to the "unmarriageable males" all the women keep running away from?

Iya yi rora ma fa igbo.

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Done! Hope she responds

coolmoon500: Hello guys,compliments of the season to everyone,hope everyone is doing great.

I'm actually feeling led to post here,though I don't post much at all,but for some reason,I woke up this morning and was feeling abit incomplete,hence coming here to seek some advice on how to live through it all.
I understand that I would get encouraging comments as well as immature and ridiculous comments,but all in all,its the grace of God that has kept us all sane and alive till date.

I never thought I'd be the lady staying calm and waiting almost endlessly for the one I would spend the rest of my life with.the one who would one day become my husband and the father of my children.my best friend and love.

I'm generally not the woman you would see often on d streets as I am mostly indoors,I was brought up to be around home,and as such days I have tried going out on my own hasn't been fruitful.I end up spending a few minutes out,then head back home,I also have limited friends because most of the ones I call friends are away in far cities and countries. The few I have around are mostly all married and don't hang out much either.

I am a christian and have noticed that I have a thing for christian men who are filled with the word of God.needless to say that I would eventually be gettin into ministry in my older years,and every prophetic word I have heard about my marriage has pointed to the fact that the man God has prepared for me would also most likely be in ministry and a huge God lover.

Now the thing is where on earth is this man?I am tired of waiting and I don't want to make a mistake.I am in my late 20's slowly approachin 30 soon and would like to settle within the next one year.

My family is puttin a lot of pressure on me and I am starting to crumble under the pressure of havin to remain sane while waiting for my own.I have indeed met a lot of other men who I dare not settle with.eg party rockers,drinkers,womanizers and the rest.does it mean that all the good men are taken?

Asides waiting,I also want to feel loved,wanted and appreciated.I want him so much already.

I am a professional lady,I am yoruba,I am gentle,kind hearted and want to continue serving God.

what can I do to remain calm?

how long more would I need to wait?

does it mean that there is no other Godly man out there?

Patience I bid you, patience. Wait on the Lord, be of good courage, and He will strengthen your heart, wait on the Lord pretty doe..
every true Christian wait, just as the Lord asked I wait and am waiting also.

So I implore you to wait for God do not forget you. Soonest you will re-publish here on nairaland that you are married on if you can wait on the Lord.

I wouldn't mind to know you better than this.
Wait for am also waiting lonesomely in the word of God.. Duro de Oluwa, yo si mu o laya le, month ni duro de oluwa. Psalm 27 last verse.

coolmoon500: Hello guys,compliments of the season to everyone,hope everyone is doing great.

I'm actually feeling led to post here,though I don't post much at all,but for some reason,I woke up this morning and was feeling abit incomplete,hence coming here to seek some advice on how to live through it all.
I understand that I would get encouraging comments as well as immature and ridiculous comments,but all in all,its the grace of God that has kept us all sane and alive till date.

I never thought I'd be the lady staying calm and waiting almost endlessly for the one I would spend the rest of my life with.the one who would one day become my husband and the father of my children.my best friend and love.

I'm generally not the woman you would see often on d streets as I am mostly indoors,I was brought up to be around home,and as such days I have tried going out on my own hasn't been fruitful.I end up spending a few minutes out,then head back home,I also have limited friends because most of the ones I call friends are away in far cities and countries. The few I have around are mostly all married and don't hang out much either.

I am a christian and have noticed that I have a thing for christian men who are filled with the word of God.needless to say that I would eventually be gettin into ministry in my older years,and every prophetic word I have heard about my marriage has pointed to the fact that the man God has prepared for me would also most likely be in ministry and a huge God lover.

Now the thing is where on earth is this man?I am tired of waiting and I don't want to make a mistake.I am in my late 20's slowly approachin 30 soon and would like to settle within the next one year.

My family is puttin a lot of pressure on me and I am starting to crumble under the pressure of havin to remain sane while waiting for my own.I have indeed met a lot of other men who I dare not settle with.eg party rockers,drinkers,womanizers and the rest.does it mean that all the good men are taken?

Asides waiting,I also want to feel loved,wanted and appreciated.I want him so much already.

I am a professional lady,I am yoruba,I am gentle,kind hearted and want to continue serving God.

what can I do to remain calm?

how long more would I need to wait?

does it mean that there is no other Godly man out there?

Patience I bid you, patience. Wait on the Lord, be of good courage, and He will strengthen your heart, wait on the Lord pretty doe..
every true Christian wait, just as the Lord asked I wait and am waiting also.

So I implore you to wait for God do not forget you. Soonest you will re-publish here on nairaland that you are married on if you can wait on the Lord.

I wouldn't mind to know you better than this.
Wait for am also waiting lonesomely in the word of God.. Duro de Oluwa, yo si mu o laya le, month ni duro de oluwa. Psalm 27 last verse.

my lady
it's exceptionally funny that your problem is more or less my problem
i just sit down, look n consider, 'where on earth is she?'
but I have these to say to you:
1. DON'T CHANGE YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU WANT TO MARRY: neither your faith in God, your personality, your "good" outlook. I have come to settle in my mind that one will always get that very person who will like you for who you are. pls be yourself

2. DON'T CHASE MEN, BE A FLIRT OR RAISE UR EMOTIONS NEEDLESSLY: It leads to lots of disappointments n heartbreaks. Rather, I will advise you to CAST all your troubles on the God you love and believe. I've told myself, if eventually I don't marry, I will still trust God. It's better, far better not to marry at all than to have a terrible marriage. Ask those in it now.

3. MY CONCLUSION: SMILE, and look up because God knows about all your struggles and cares more than you know or can imagine

Dear coolmoon, your time will definitely come, just take ur time pressured. Go out more, make more friends and never show any guy that you are desperate.

Your man will come along, just focus on yourself, make sure you do things right while you wait. Use your head so you don't fall victim..I wudnt wanna hear that story.

Incase you need to talk, here's ma email
Uzomaruthodu@gmail.com
Pin:22f7ab7c

God bless sis

Worwor: @op
Pm me lets make it happen. I'm not fine oh!!

coolmoon500: I like books, so I go to a Christian bookshop, I go to the movies, weddings, then anywhere else that sounds fun.



I do have some male friends, but 2 of them recently just got married to their old time gf.



the friends I have now are cool, calm girls, they also don't go out much.



to the person who asked, when I said iv met drinkers, etc, I don't drink, but don't knw how I ended up meeting some. okay some I met tru friends, somebody may say, ohh that ur friend, give me her number,etc. then id find out they are abit too wild for me, so that's how I actually met some. tried making some calm down, but didn't work much.



the men I dated and one actually proposed but we had to end the relationship because of genotype AS issue. both AS. it wasn't funny, and I was hurt. but that was a while ago and im ready to meet my own.



lol at riot act. would my mother/father wait to even listen to me quote out the sections? I don't think so dear.

You're mostly at home? You no dey go work at all?

You must understand that there is What is called " the yoke satanic delay. "
God broke mine in the area of admission and He can break yours too.

Watch "crushing the yokes of satanic delay" by my mentor.
http://m.youtube.com/watch?
v=OFN1fZ5Nr5w&hl=en&guid=&gl=NG&client=mv-
google

@op. please n please never allow desperation a place in dis cos NO decent n God fearing man would marry a desperado. trust in d lord wit all ur heart n lean not on ur own understandin. in all ur way acknowlege him n he will direct ur path.
God authored d institution of marriage n he is d perfect match maker. remembr eyes av not seen...wat d lord has for those dat wait on him.

God has d master plan wait on him.
it is well

@op there is nothing bad in waiting on to the lord,but I will advise u to mingle even jesus came for the sinners and not the saved ones all the same beware of pretenders those that will even follow u to church and at the end will hurt u,just feel free and focus on self development get something doing is only in nigeria that our ladies don't get a life,all the same u sound like a nice person kindly drop ur contact through NL message platform we can be friends

My candid advice is to point you back to the Word (Bible), remember Sarah, Abraham's Wife for i know your fear is age! now at the age of 80 or so when Abraham took his wife to Egypt as a result of the famine at Canaan, it tells of Sarah beauty in so much that the king of Egypt was tempted of her beauty and took her for wife but before he could go in to her, God intervene for His servant Abraham been that he Abraham was a Prophet of God. Now going by ur confession of who u ar, i believe the likes of u will not end up with some one who is not God's son (for as u lay ur bed so u will lie on it) this is because GOD IS FAITHFUL AND JUST, so, keep waiting upon the Lord for at His own time He will make all things beautiful, it ain't going to be easy but just keep trusting Him, He may tarry now but will answer u speedily, assuredly when ur man shall come, u will remain the most beautiful woman to him in the whole wide world. cheers and shalom.

i wanted to say something but some of the posts here have been spot on.

Be in places where you would meet the kind of men you desire:
church,
church social activities where people are more relaxed and not uptight
join more church groups. consider inter-denominational activities and other churches.

Good !

the crossing between DEC to JAN usually make some people sad.

coolmoon500: Hello guys,compliments of the season to everyone,hope everyone is doing great.

I'm actually feeling led to post here,though I don't post much at all,but for some reason,I woke up this morning and was feeling abit incomplete,hence coming here to seek some advice on how to live through it all.
I understand that I would get encouraging comments as well as immature and ridiculous comments,but all in all,its the grace of God that has kept us all sane and alive till date.

I never thought I'd be the lady staying calm and waiting almost endlessly for the one I would spend the rest of my life with.the one who would one day become my husband and the father of my children.my best friend and love.

I'm generally not the woman you would see often on d streets as I am mostly indoors,I was brought up to be around home,and as such days I have tried going out on my own hasn't been fruitful.I end up spending a few minutes out,then head back home,I also have limited friends because most of the ones I call friends are away in far cities and countries. The few I have around are mostly all married and don't hang out much either.

I am a christian and have noticed that I have a thing for christian men who are filled with the word of God.needless to say that I would eventually be gettin into ministry in my older years,and every prophetic word I have heard about my marriage has pointed to the fact that the man God has prepared for me would also most likely be in ministry and a huge God lover.

Now the thing is where on earth is this man?I am tired of waiting and I don't want to make a mistake.I am in my late 20's slowly approachin 30 soon and would like to settle within the next one year.

My family is puttin a lot of pressure on me and I am starting to crumble under the pressure of havin to remain sane while waiting for my own.I have indeed met a lot of other men who I dare not settle with.eg party rockers,drinkers,womanizers and the rest.does it mean that all the good men are taken?

Asides waiting,I also want to feel loved,wanted and appreciated.I want him so much already.

I am a professional lady,I am yoruba,I am gentle,kind hearted and want to continue serving God.

what can I do to remain calm?

how long more would I need to wait?

does it mean that there is no other Godly man out there?

@ OP i understand ur pains ok, bt God knows better. @ OP you have had some few guys being interested in you and so i am. I won't say much abt myself bt the few i can say here is am 35yrs old and by God's grace am a christain bt i might not be the prophet dat u envisage on but i knw am a lover of God and will support any dream of yours to the end. Pls be it the OP or any other gud looking, nice, caring, independent ( most be doing sumtin ) and most importantly God fearing lady out there with gud sense of humor btw the ages of 25yr and 32yrs can contact me via my email: emmason.favour@gmail.com Pls jokers steer clear ok. Thnx