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Re: To My Future Husband by olushowunm(m): 5:24pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
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Re: To My Future Husband by kpolli(m): 5:28pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
How do you know you won't be the one to change your future husband and inspire him to join the ministry? All those party rockers you have pushed away.... Well he was one of them 1 Like |
Re: To My Future Husband by Blitz888(m): 5:34pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Nashville: Poster,@ Poster, me think this is the most apt and succint response so far... ''...He makes all things beautiful in His time''. Nashville... God bless you! |
Re: To My Future Husband by GENERAL10: 5:50pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Hi Dear, I understand how u feel. I am a man in my early 30s and am looking for my future parner as well. I am a chrisian professional from Edo State. We can become friends and if we are compartible, I don't mind. I have been in a relationship for 3 years and contributed immensely to my partners education but recently her father opposed our union on the grounds that she is too young to get married. She is 25. I love her but. I can't continue to wait endlessly without a fixed time so I am looking for some one who is ready to settle down. |
Re: To My Future Husband by Johnjack: 6:17pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Sister,I am sure you are getting there soon and nothing will stop the blessings of God upon your life. Just wait for it,though it may tarry wait it for it and he will perfect it at his appointed time.Just remain the good girl that you are and always encourage whoever that's pressuring you that God's time is the best. At 28 you are still young, i have a faithful auntie of 4 square church and she married at 42 and today she is blessed with lovely kids. So keep faith and allow God to choose for you. Marriage is an institution of God, as you loves God,he will surely bless you richly at his own time. Remain blessed. |
Re: To My Future Husband by Dopemoney: 6:27pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
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Re: To My Future Husband by Johnjack: 6:31pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Sister,I am sure you are getting there soon and nothing will stop the blessings of God upon your life. Just wait for it,though it may tarry wait it for it and he will perfect it at his appointed time.Just remain the good girl that you are and always encourage whoever that's pressuring you that God's time is the best. At 28 you are still young, i have a faithful auntie of 4 square church and she married at 42 and today she is blessed with lovely kids. So keep faith and allow God to choose for you. Please be mindful of those who are going to use this thread or medium to exploit you but as the spirit leads you. There are many bad boys out there looking for preys,i was once a bad boy myself and still is but I like truth and respect Christian ladies like you. I have gone round the world and there is now where you can find pure truth and hope as you finds in the word of God. The spirit of truth which is the holy spirit will testify to you when you finds your REAL husband. Just don't rush and don't do it your own way.. Marriage is an institution of God, as you loves God,he will surely bless you richly at his own time. Remain blessed. Joe chucks Jakarta. |
Re: To My Future Husband by Johnjack: 6:34pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Sister,I am sure you are getting there soon and nothing will stop the blessings of God upon your life. Just wait for it,though it may tarry wait it for it and he will perfect it at his appointed time.Just remain the good girl that you are and always encourage whoever that's pressuring you that God's time is the best. At 28 you are still young, i have a faithful auntie of 4 square church and she married at 42 and today she is blessed with lovely kids. So keep faith and allow God to choose for you. Please be mindful of those who are going to use this thread or medium to exploit you but as the spirit leads you. There are many bad boys out there looking for preys,i was once a bad boy myself and still is but I like truth and respect Christian ladies like you. I have gone round the world and there is now where you can find pure truth and hope as you finds in the word of God. The spirit of truth which is the holy spirit will testify to you when you finds your REAL husband. Just don't rush and don't do it your own way.. Marriage is an institution of God, as you loves God,he will surely bless you richly at his own time. Remain blessed. Joe chucks Jakarta. |
Re: To My Future Husband by AbbeySOM: 8:08pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Topic: PRESSURE TO GET MARRIED Probable problems you have: 1. You're beyond social acceptable age 2. You didn't manage ur past well 3. You're under self n peer pressure. PROBABLE SOLUTION: 1. Prayerfully ask God for grace 2. Become a worker in a very good bible believing church and be ACTIVE 3. Don't marry for the wrong reasons 4. Appreciate yourself 5. Get out of your comfort zone 6. Work on your temperament 7. Beware of opportunists 8. Pray to God for guidance God can help you, may you find grace |
Re: To My Future Husband by andyanders: 9:03pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Amelian: This one some guys are bashing her without wisdom, tell me how many marriageable men, do we really have out there? How many role model dads , do we have?.. Even d so called saying that the good ones are already taken? How many percentage is really good amongst the so called good men that are taken?.. Op, u will be shocked how many ladies married serial killers, thieves, 419ners, sadist,gigolos , let me just mention but a few .. And these married women are suffering and smiling, praying that God will change their husbands for d better.. The guys saying all these harsh words, deep down, do they deserve the role of a husband? Or father? They are here abusing someone as if they are so perfect.. My dear op, pls take yur time.. Shine yur eyes.. Or else, that ministry u r meant 2 be in, one of d devil in men clothing, might just ruin it for u, all in d name of u r giving yurself stipulated time 2 get married.. Cos u might endup , GOdforbid bn used as a Ritual sacrifice, if u r not careful..Not all men u see out there are Human beings.. I dey tell u. You are right. Well spoken. Your response carries weight and straight to the point.I as a man, some times, I wonder how some women cope with some guys that almost sleep in a beer parlor.Many homes are in shamble and some women are living in bondage going from one prayer house to the other as a result of their husband's excesses.Also some wen who hide under the umbrella of a church, claiming to be born again while they are born against. OP, shine your eyes and pray to see one. At 28, you are not too old and God can NEVER disappoint you, but be carefulllllllllll. We men can slippery. |
Re: To My Future Husband by andyanders: 9:04pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
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Re: To My Future Husband by andyanders: 9:04pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
be careful and watch |
Re: To My Future Husband by tpia5: 9:09pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
women should broaden their horizons. if you all run from males you consider ineligible to marry, then who will be left for you to date. |
Re: To My Future Husband by Nobody: 9:25pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
tpia@: Iya yi rora ma fa igbo. |
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Re: To My Future Husband by EReloaded(m): 9:36pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
gedtalks: Done! Hope she responds |
Re: To My Future Husband by oluxy(m): 9:42pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
coolmoon500: Hello guys,compliments of the season to everyone,hope everyone is doing great. Patience I bid you, patience. Wait on the Lord, be of good courage, and He will strengthen your heart, wait on the Lord pretty doe.. every true Christian wait, just as the Lord asked I wait and am waiting also. So I implore you to wait for God do not forget you. Soonest you will re-publish here on nairaland that you are married on if you can wait on the Lord. I wouldn't mind to know you better than this. Wait for am also waiting lonesomely in the word of God.. Duro de Oluwa, yo si mu o laya le, month ni duro de oluwa. Psalm 27 last verse. |
Re: To My Future Husband by oluxy(m): 9:46pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
coolmoon500: Hello guys,compliments of the season to everyone,hope everyone is doing great. Patience I bid you, patience. Wait on the Lord, be of good courage, and He will strengthen your heart, wait on the Lord pretty doe.. every true Christian wait, just as the Lord asked I wait and am waiting also. So I implore you to wait for God do not forget you. Soonest you will re-publish here on nairaland that you are married on if you can wait on the Lord. I wouldn't mind to know you better than this. Wait for am also waiting lonesomely in the word of God.. Duro de Oluwa, yo si mu o laya le, month ni duro de oluwa. Psalm 27 last verse. |
Re: To My Future Husband by praises16: 9:49pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
my lady it's exceptionally funny that your problem is more or less my problem i just sit down, look n consider, 'where on earth is she?' but I have these to say to you: 1. DON'T CHANGE YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU WANT TO MARRY: neither your faith in God, your personality, your "good" outlook. I have come to settle in my mind that one will always get that very person who will like you for who you are. pls be yourself 2. DON'T CHASE MEN, BE A FLIRT OR RAISE UR EMOTIONS NEEDLESSLY: It leads to lots of disappointments n heartbreaks. Rather, I will advise you to CAST all your troubles on the God you love and believe. I've told myself, if eventually I don't marry, I will still trust God. It's better, far better not to marry at all than to have a terrible marriage. Ask those in it now. 3. MY CONCLUSION: SMILE, and look up because God knows about all your struggles and cares more than you know or can imagine |
Re: To My Future Husband by bossladypearl(f): 11:28pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Dear coolmoon, your time will definitely come, just take ur time pressured. Go out more, make more friends and never show any guy that you are desperate. Your man will come along, just focus on yourself, make sure you do things right while you wait. Use your head so you don't fall victim..I wudnt wanna hear that story. Incase you need to talk, here's ma email Uzomaruthodu@gmail.com Pin:22f7ab7c God bless sis |
Re: To My Future Husband by mister419: 11:45pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Worwor: @op |
Re: To My Future Husband by favouryemmy: 11:47pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
coolmoon500: I like books, so I go to a Christian bookshop, I go to the movies, weddings, then anywhere else that sounds fun. You're mostly at home? You no dey go work at all? |
Re: To My Future Husband by Ekennovative(m): 11:57pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
You must understand that there is What is called " the yoke satanic delay. " God broke mine in the area of admission and He can break yours too. Watch "crushing the yokes of satanic delay" by my mentor. http://m.youtube.com/watch? v=OFN1fZ5Nr5w&hl=en&guid=&gl=NG&client=mv- |
Re: To My Future Husband by oyeludef(m): 7:15am On Dec 28, 2013 |
@op. please n please never allow desperation a place in dis cos NO decent n God fearing man would marry a desperado. trust in d lord wit all ur heart n lean not on ur own understandin. in all ur way acknowlege him n he will direct ur path. God authored d institution of marriage n he is d perfect match maker. remembr eyes av not seen...wat d lord has for those dat wait on him. God has d master plan wait on him. it is well |
Re: To My Future Husband by bayulll01(m): 7:37am On Dec 28, 2013 |
@op there is nothing bad in waiting on to the lord,but I will advise u to mingle even jesus came for the sinners and not the saved ones all the same beware of pretenders those that will even follow u to church and at the end will hurt u,just feel free and focus on self development get something doing is only in nigeria that our ladies don't get a life,all the same u sound like a nice person kindly drop ur contact through NL message platform we can be friends |
Re: To My Future Husband by pejones: 9:29am On Dec 28, 2013 |
My candid advice is to point you back to the Word (Bible), remember Sarah, Abraham's Wife for i know your fear is age! now at the age of 80 or so when Abraham took his wife to Egypt as a result of the famine at Canaan, it tells of Sarah beauty in so much that the king of Egypt was tempted of her beauty and took her for wife but before he could go in to her, God intervene for His servant Abraham been that he Abraham was a Prophet of God. Now going by ur confession of who u ar, i believe the likes of u will not end up with some one who is not God's son (for as u lay ur bed so u will lie on it) this is because GOD IS FAITHFUL AND JUST, so, keep waiting upon the Lord for at His own time He will make all things beautiful, it ain't going to be easy but just keep trusting Him, He may tarry now but will answer u speedily, assuredly when ur man shall come, u will remain the most beautiful woman to him in the whole wide world. cheers and shalom. |
Re: To My Future Husband by jeffman(m): 9:32am On Dec 28, 2013 |
i wanted to say something but some of the posts here have been spot on. Be in places where you would meet the kind of men you desire: church, church social activities where people are more relaxed and not uptight join more church groups. consider inter-denominational activities and other churches. |
Re: To My Future Husband by GentleFrank(m): 10:07am On Dec 28, 2013 |
Good ! |
Re: To My Future Husband by kolamilan(m): 11:08am On Dec 28, 2013 |
the crossing between DEC to JAN usually make some people sad. |
Re: To My Future Husband by unuane1(m): 11:19am On Dec 28, 2013 |
coolmoon500: Hello guys,compliments of the season to everyone,hope everyone is doing great.@ OP i understand ur pains ok, bt God knows better. @ OP you have had some few guys being interested in you and so i am. I won't say much abt myself bt the few i can say here is am 35yrs old and by God's grace am a christain bt i might not be the prophet dat u envisage on but i knw am a lover of God and will support any dream of yours to the end. Pls be it the OP or any other gud looking, nice, caring, independent ( most be doing sumtin ) and most importantly God fearing lady out there with gud sense of humor btw the ages of 25yr and 32yrs can contact me via my email: emmason.favour@gmail.com Pls jokers steer clear ok. Thnx |
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