Hey nairalanders.help me out.i m in luv with my best friend.she is d only gal dat i open to.i told her i had feelings 4 her and she was surprised.when i asked her out,she said it was weird 4 her going out wit me.ever since then,she said i should not talk to her about it again.she gets angry when i try to bring up the topic.i have tried to get other girls but i feel reluctant to follow up d runs.i really love her.how can i get her to feel d same way for me?what do i do nairalanders?pls advice me.i need it.

you should put yourself in position of you friend do you think it is right? think! think!! think!!!

Thx 4 replying.bt i cnt thhnk here.advice me.i need help pls

Two Best friends make the BEST COUPLES. Dont worry she will still feel the same way, unless she has somebody else she's dating.

francis88:

what do i do nairalanders?please advice me.i need it.

what are you waiting for?
tell her before it too late.
who knows she may feel the same way for
you.

Maybe u are too blunt!

Next time you are with her try to be more creative, a woman likes creativity in approaching such issues.

Am sure she'll come around but dont forget, be more creative and diplomatic.


Wish u luck wit her

if u show her u really mean what u want, she will come around in time.
ladies sometimes need alot of convincing to makeup thier mind.
but i wanted to ask u this,
does she have a boyfriend.

@ Poster
i think she iz trying 2 preserve ur friendship.
If i waz in her position i might do the same.
Just think - what if u two date n it doesnt work out,
what happens den? Do u start hattin each oda or do u try 2 b friends?
Its complicated when friends try 2 take the step further, n it could get
very very messy.

Preserve wat friendship? Do u mean that lovers are not neccessarily friends or wat?
Best friends CAN bcome great lovers. Av seen dat a lot of times;its takes making that transition work.

@poster
Give her some time;she may probably get round to feeling the same way u feel
_{am sure u'v had dis feeling for a loooooong while lol}

if u really feel dat way, dont bring up DAT talk anymore;because the truth is anytime u r 2geda from the moment u made ur feelings known, the question will always be in the air.
If it would work out dat way,i guess things will definitely move in dat direction eventually. wat u need is a bucketful of patience_{depending on da gal involved}

some ppl make it sound like friends can hardly make a rela work.
i believe friends make better couples, and dats the truth.
u guys need to find a rythm, and them u can fall in one tune.
that to me is the perfect relationship.

like i always say, when i get married, i want my wife to still remain my girl friend.
it wud last longer that way.

izeek:


u guys need to find a rythm, and them u can fall in one tune.
that to me is the perfect relationship.

sounds of music! LOL

SOJ:

Preserve what friendship? Do u mean that lovers are not neccessarily friends or what?
Best friends CAN bcome great lovers. Av seen that a lot of times;its takes making that transition work.

U misunderstood me.
Wht i meant waz, maybe she iz afraid that if they hook up it might not work.
N if it doesnt den well where will dey stand.

N besides maybe she prefers him as a friend, or doesn't want 2 risk,
him hurtyn her or vice versa

i think she has someone else in mind.

@poster
then who is disturbing you from falling inlove with your best friend?
this is medicine after death.
go on, you are free

yong babe:

You misunderstood me.
Wht i meant waz, maybe she iz afraid that if they hook up it might not work.
N if it doesnt den well where will dey stand.

N besides maybe she prefers him as a friend, or doesn't want 2 risk,
him hurtyn her or vice versa

Ok,sugar.

Thing is, I figure d babe get someone she's attracted to already.

Yes salt,
i agree with you

yong babe:

Yes salt,
i agree with you

Thanks for the appellation 'salt'.the way u keep agreeing wit me;methinks soon we gonna be best friends too

wat u say?

SOJ:

Thanks for the appellation 'salt'.the way u keep agreeing wit me;methinks soon we going to be best friends too

what u say?

I agree

cool

check ma profile & IM moi

u are cute. . . . . . . . . . . and green

yong babe:

u are cute. . . . . . . . . . . and green

i beg ohh i don fit laugh

rokiatu:

i beg ohh i don fit laugh

lol

Yeah,i know,
wad ya xpect?

cute peek toes too,

so,

so wetyn?

so where do we go from here, ?
we meeting?dating?or tying d knot? LOL

hahhahaha, na we iz friends,
just amigoz

ok

bt dont worry, we would b great friends

yong babe:

bt don't worry, we would b great friends

there is definitely a connection
between you both

rokiatu:

there is definitely a connection
between you both

i iz with OK

yong babe:

i iz with OK

smart girl