say the truth and let devil be ashamed

Tallesty1: He said he loves you and his actions proves it and yet you friendzoned him. Why are you this wicked

Abi. oooooo

lokito: If you date your classmate he's going to be a distraction to you in class. Even in exam hall b/c of him shame will not allow you to giraffe. So no need

I think the OP is talking about coursemates, not classmates. A coursemate may be taking the same course with you and be from different department while a classmate may be in the same class with you.

hannne: There is a coursemate of mine who loves me very much.....that's what he said and he proves it by his action.

He has been my close friend since my year one in school and I tell him almost everything including my relationship life.

I have never pictured him romantically. I just see him as a friend. He has been asking me out recently but I keep turning him down.

My reasons are that the feelings is not there yet and also I have a principle never to date my coursemate. It looks awkward. We will see everyday in class and I know mysef, I can't do a coded relationship in school.

Have you ever dated your coursemate? How was it like? How did you do it?

..pls this thread is rhetoric...you hav chosen nt to date your coursemate, so why asking us who dated or nt dated? If you can break your decision then go ahead...for me, you asking this question shows that you are already developing interest over the guy. Pls dnt take him for granted whether course mate or not. If you know you cnt, pls stop keeping hm with hopes....

No why would i date my classmate... ? I didnt do that o cos i dont want anyone called girls to chew gum me like plaster ..so i was playing aways matches alot

ednut1: how old are u guys. 18-22 if in dat category he go fuk u and dumped u with 98% probability. a wise babe shud nt date students. dat working and matured

ednut indeed

Coursemate! I don't even fancy them. Don't know why they always look ugly in my sight, though my friends in other department do appreciate them.

I can't woo let alone of dating my coursemate, over my living body.

Date dem keh, dat won't allow me to be able to disturb the class whenever lecturer is not around again.

Op if you love him go for him if u like him don't

Yea. Av dated ma coursemate. Though it was rough n tough, temptations evrywia n dia.buh rly fank God I av him . We dated 4 8yrs b4 we finally got married in d year 2012. We r nw blessed wif a baby girl.

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I really dont like the idea of dating my class mate cause it'll be kinda awkward seeing each other in class always,both of u will just be distracting each other and i avoided dating my coursemate all through my undergrad days but when i started my Masters there was this amazing guy in my class and we were really drawn 2 each other....i 4got my resolve not 2 date my classmate and of course it was not easy to concentrate with ur boyfriend in the same class with you it was really distracting but he's such a great guy and i didn't regret my decision but.........lemme end it here sha

lokito: If you date your classmate he's going to be a distraction to you in class. Even in exam hall b/c of him shame will not allow you to giraffe. So no need

you do cheat?

U knw dating ur coursemate isn't dat bad, cos u might make da relationship beneficial or detrimental but I might take it da former, loving a gal u see everyday and still av no intentions to withdraw is destined, pple are scared becos u tend to get fed up with seeing dat face always but dats not true my dear... So ditto

WAHMAR: Yea. Av dated ma coursemate. Though it was rough n tough, temptations evrywia n dia.buh rly fank God I av him . We dated 4 8yrs b4 we finally got married in d year 2012. We r nw blessed wif a baby girl.

lesson to learn from...


¿See the way they are all against it as if the external person in the picture wont do worse more

so in essence, you bleeped him while he helped you graduate from the university?

jennylove7575: Yes o. In those days at unab I was so into this my course mate. I call him then, my pleasure booster. The guy sabi comb my eden well and he know book. He helps me write all my assignment and most of my exams. In return he combs my eden anytime any day... We lost contact after nysc . wen I ran into him in Germany he was married with kids. But he still couldn't let go. I spent my two week holiday in Germany with him in a hotel and my Eden was thouroughly combed. Good memory.

hannne:

He has been my close friend since my year one in school and I tell him almost everything including my relationship life.

I have never pictured him romantically. I just see him as a friend. He has been asking me out recently but I keep turning him down.

and you don't like the guy abi?..smh

I will see such a guy as a brother

My wife was my course mate at school, where & how you meet your future wife doesn't depict how the relationship will go but rather just a means of bonding.

In my life I have dated two of my course mates which one went sore & the second was successful & we are blessed with a baby boy.

When you for just talk say na fvck dey hungry you. How you go date your course mate? Na so the thing hungry you reach? I'm sure your in a polytechnic or college of education.

justi4jesu:

Maka why

just dont knw y

If u dont date the one u know right now, the one wey u wan go after or u dey dream of, how u take know the kind person he be

Op, dating a coursemate is cool.

omicron: Sometimes it leads to marriage. 5 couples of class are now hapilly married. If it feels right, go with it.

For a gal, if u identify a guy whose future you would want to be part of, don't let the chance pass u by.

Be it in school or in the outside, a guy who wants to play with u will always do that, same for gals.

Their is nothing like over familiarity in a purposeful relationship. After all, the most purposeful of all romantic relationships -marriage- will have you spend possibly every day of your life with your partner.

It is said we should marry our friends, yet we have most of our truest and oldest friends from college, but we let them pass just because of 'peer reasons'

Unless u do not like (love) him dat way or dat much

God bless you.
Last Bullet
Some of those girls end up marrying a stranger after friendzoning their real husband.
Na wah for girls of nowadays.

Yes.... The experience was priceless. Dated her in my final year. We started as friends then became lovers. Won't forget the experience in a hurry

hannne: There is a coursemate of mine who loves me very much.....that's what he said and he proves it by his action.

He has been my close friend since my year one in school and I tell him almost everything including my relationship life.

I have never pictured him romantically. I just see him as a friend. He has been asking me out recently but I keep turning him down.

My reasons are that the feelings is not there yet and also I have a principle never to date my coursemate. It looks awkward. We will see everyday in class and I know mysef, I can't do a coded relationship in school.

Have you ever dated your coursemate? How was it like? How did you do it?

Dis stuff happened to me in skool ooo.. I dated ma Course mate, if I no dey class, she go call me, if we get assignment, na two people own I go do ooo, after lecture, straight to d house. I no fit lie say I get lecture to dodge ha cos na d same course we dey do.. End of month she go dey save money to buy cloth me go dey broke. Well dat was first year, I was a Jew Jambito..

chelseabmw: From experience that guy will only fu*k u and runaway

I know what I'm saying dear

Haba! A matured mind should not bleep as u just bleeped. Because you or some of your bad friends f**k and go a coursemate they claimed they love should not make you use your poor logic mind and generalized that all coursemate relationships will end up that way. Why do you want to put asunder what God want to join together.
Hanne my advice is that you should pray over it and also let ur feelings come to play. I also love a coursemate when I was in school though we dated 4 just a week after I've chased her 4 an emotional 3yrs..., b4 she l8tr came up with these same excuses of urs. Only God knows mayb u girls av a circle 4 this kinda issue.
So, coursemate relationship is normal as love has no regard 4 age, group, race, (dnt lemme put religion b4 u start quoting me on it).

Xplicit1: He's ur friend & loves u yet u are askin questions. What happened to wat u guys always say here on Nairaland - 'get married to ur friend'. I kno u are not talkin about marriage yet but u'll first of all date first b4 d marriage stuff. And again, I kno u like him for u to bring d issue here for opinions.

But again, u need to ask urself this questions, cos I think both of u might b in d same age group. What are his dreams after sku? Can I cope wit it or dem? If I start dating him now, will he b ready for marriage in so so time wen I am, Considerin d almost d same age u guys are? Are u both matured enough to handle a relationship?

I kno u'are not talkin about marriage, but I think u shouldn't date somone u kno u won't marry.

My 50cent.

. A guy using female accct..........Coret mie if am rung*

lepasharon: I will see such a guy as a brother

...this is what i would refer to as strong friendzoning....

Yes oh!!!! I am currently dating my coursemate although, d other girls in my classmates want to die but I hav said f dey wish dey can evn go and hug transformer...... Ever since we hv bin frnds all along and we hav bin doing well in our academics.

lokito: If you date your classmate he's going to be a distraction to you in class. Even in exam hall b/c of him shame will not allow you to giraffe. So no need

Lol.True.Didn't date a course mate thruout my stay in the university but there was this girl called Debby I fell in love with,from Year 1 to final Year she told me it wasn't gonna work out despite the fact that we did everything like we were couples.We were even nominated for couple of the year award during our finals.I avoided her whenever we were writing our exams or test,cos I didn't want her to dee me "cooperating" with my guys.LOL.

temigracie: ...she friendzoned him because she doesnt feel anything for him or mayb she s scared of dating her coursemate...shikena!!

advocate.

hannne: There is a coursemate of mine who loves me very much.....that's what he said and he proves it by his action.

He has been my close friend since my year one in school and I tell him almost everything including my relationship life.

I have never pictured him romantically. I just see him as a friend. He has been asking me out recently but I keep turning him down.

My reasons are that the feelings is not there yet and also I have a principle never to date my coursemate. It looks awkward. We will see everyday in class and I know mysef, I can't do a coded relationship in school.

Have you ever dated your coursemate? How was it like? How did you do it?

What a gentleman he is. Help me give him this: