2sExy1: Harddon has a point... You are the one missing it and probably doing so for mischievous reasons.

I never dated any girl while at NYSC sha... The only one tried do yanga and I face my work till I left.

I don't waste time to move on when the need arises... No time ma'am. I got much important things that need my attention.

2sExy1: talking from experience? Hmmmm... Been there bro and encountered just the same.

I used to be a regular caller... But when I moved on, she never believed I could stay for weeks without a call.

I have learned to adjust when need be, especially when my calls, sms etc are not being appreciated.

Omo, you no go believe say na person wey constantly call fit stay like 1 year with you hearing his voice.

I did that in 2013-early 2014... On a lady I used ask out. The day I called, she didn't believe her ears. Mid way into the conversation, she even thanked me for calling. I called her for few more times and stopped. It's been over 5 months now and I haven't spoken.

The best way is just get busy with your own problems and you will hardly know if anyone exist.

Durchess:
Am glad u said dt one did yanga. Dts whr am driving @ , sm r loosed while sm r not.

2sExy1: yeah... but she went for a guy who didn't value her... the guy used and over used her. a lot of girls are blind. Few days to the end of NYSC, she said she has another guy whom she wants to settle down with, probably just to tell me off. I later heard from a very close corper that she said she does not like the guy.

Truth is rarely do most NYSC relationship end in any meaningful venture in the long run...

Durchess:
yea dts true 2 sm extent.

Durchess:
Bliv me bro u hv trust issues or probably breaking relationships ws ur specialty @ camp.
4 Christ sake u guys kip goin on nd on abt gals sleeping around @ orientation camp we all ain't d same. Someone hs done it b4 or ppl r still doin it doesn't mean d poor gal is doing it.

Durchess:
Bliv me bro u hv trust issues or probably breaking relationships ws ur specialty @ camp.
4 Christ sake u guys kip goin on nd on abt gals sleeping around @ orientation camp we all ain't d same. Someone hs done it b4 or ppl r still doin it doesn't mean d poor gal is doing it.

HARDDON:

nah, ma self trust izz intact lil one.

here, let me let u in, a guy that knows his robes around gurls can get any, I repeat ANY, gurl he wants. most get turned on by money n gifts, others gets wet from a lil help here, a lil care there. some get tuned by subtle lines, manly gyration, coated words , then there r these lots that just ur looks n broad built is all u need to peek em.
whoever said gurls have fish brains couldn't be telling a lie, cud he?

"dockchest" stop acting all mushy mushy, d chochie
is meant to be sushied ;p

deal wiv it.

Durchess:
Am glad u said dt one did yanga. Dts whr am driving @ , sm r loosed while sm r not.

Durchess:
Whateva

HARDDON:

now d CHEAP airs.....

Durchess:
Lyk seriously am done wit ds gist.. Ur sis cld b cheap.am nt

fnep2smooth:
bro sorry to say this.
the girl is gone
that's girls for you ...... they are easily win over.
cut any connection with her, i no it will be hard but if you are man enough you will over come it.
hoes ain't loyal.
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PERFECT2:
TRUE LIFE STORY :
I covered a traditional marriage last year @ Enugu State. D lady(bride) was still servin then. When it was time to compile her pixs,the groom told me that i'll wait till his wife comes back so that she'll see the pixs i choosed. I was patient bc i had already collected 70% of the money i charged them b4 the wedin. After a month,i reminded d man of his pixs,he kept telin me dat he traveled & so many stories. After 2 months,he finally opened up to me to tell me that the same wife that gave him wine @ d traditional wedding has refused coming back home afta her youth service. He has tried to bring her back & even threatened the bride's family...all to no avail. That man(wealthy though) hasn't recovered emotionally till date. His Video & Pixs are still in my office. If this can happen 2 a rich man that truly luvs his wife,it can hapen 2 any single. Take heart @ OP.

tope24:
bro, take heart. maybe she's not down for long distance relationship and she's looking for a way to separate from you.

Bro, shit happens

However, seems you slacked, why you no drop claim of ownership ranging from rings to getting her pregnant

ebujany:
Hi guys..pls i have a very serious problem.

My girl went to nysc and changed totally. she's now a stranger from who i use to know. it started from wen she got to camp. wen ever i call her, she wnt pick up and wnt call back, flash or send call me sms as the case may be. wen she finally picks she will say she was busy. she told me about a corper that works in ICT in her camp and that the guy wants to help her get posted to a good PPA.

She said they normally do the fixing with money but the guys said he will do that for her with his own money. I noticed that wenever i call, she's not happy. we quarrel about everything from wer she is to wat is happeing there.Today, she finally got posted to a nice place of PPA and I was happy for her. When i called her, her call was on call waiting OVer 10missed calls she didn't pick.

this was a girl that wen ever I call even if her call is on call waitin she will ask the caller to call her back that she wants to answer my call but she didn't. wen she finally picked she told me she was talkn with the guy.i asked wen it started that the guys call is now more important than mine.she got angry and said i shld stop calln her.am so mad ryt now don't know wat to do.

ebujany:
Hi guys..pls i have a very serious problem.

My girl went to nysc and changed totally. she's now a stranger from who i use to know. it started from wen she got to camp. wen ever i call her, she wnt pick up and wnt call back, flash or send call me sms as the case may be. wen she finally picks she will say she was busy. she told me about a corper that works in ICT in her camp and that the guy wants to help her get posted to a good PPA.

She said they normally do the fixing with money but the guys said he will do that for her with his own money. I noticed that wenever i call, she's not happy. we quarrel about everything from wer she is to wat is happeing there.Today, she finally got posted to a nice place of PPA and I was happy for her. When i called her, her call was on call waiting OVer 10missed calls she didn't pick.

this was a girl that wen ever I call even if her call is on call waitin she will ask the caller to call her back that she wants to answer my call but she didn't. wen she finally picked she told me she was talkn with the guy.i asked wen it started that the guys call is now more important than mine.she got angry and said i shld stop calln her.am so mad ryt now don't know wat to do.

fnep2smooth:
bro sorry to say this.
the girl is gone
that's girls for you ...... they are easily win over.
cut any connection with her, i no it will be hard but if you are man enough you will over come it.
hoes ain't loyal.
wow. I made frontpage
Op read my signature for beta encouragement