2sExy1: my baby is different!

lol...make u dey deceive urself there

alex2242:

lol...make u dey deceive urself there

I know right... thank you.

Flavour voice, my babe is gone "Nwata nwanyi ala". Nwanne gbawa door. No time.

There's better chance of planet earth becoming squared flat dan for ur girl coming back. 2 words... Move on

OP, i am the ICT guy, sometimes when you call your "babe", it is impossible to pick the calls, because she is really busy helping me out.

Give me time to think about it, i might leave her off the hook if i get tired of her.

Omo dats why I tell young guys the woman wey we go marry as future wife no be mostly the babe we dey carry for head..see now somebody don dey nak dis OP babe...kaiwomen bad oo ...these days na contract relationship I dey do...if na Bleep friends type I dey tell d gal..koro koro...guy ur babe is gone....ok gbam..next time u call her she may be suckin d dude pole n put itfor u to hear..d sound slurp!! Slurp!!! Yeah yeah lol

chibuoyimm:
Op, I want to believe u hv passed through dat stage (NYSC) and if u've been to camp, u'll know dat they live a regimented life there there r stipulated time 4 everytin there so u don't expect d communication btwn u two to be d same as she may barely hv time for herself.
Again, pls cut dis girl some slack! They left camp 2day to a strange community where they may never hv been to, give her time to sort herself out and stop choking her wit ur hasty conclusions!

O pls... I av served too.. And from what d guy is saying its evry indication dat she has found anoda distraction.. Don't be dat naïve... Wen I was in camp.. It was regimented yes.. But I still found a way to always communicate with my ex.... And wen dey took me to a wack community.. I needed her more dan ever.. So pls have d wisdom to knw dat d girl wants to enjoy sometin different.. So my advice to d man is too give d girl d space she needs.. Its not easy especially wen u love dis person.. But d more u try d farther u push her.. So be strong for u own sake....

alex2242:

lol...make u dey deceive urself there

The biggest mistake a guy who is not intending marraige will do is to agree to commit to a lady. The moment you agrree to be in a committed relationship, then you set yourself up for heart attack or high blood pressure. Plus whether you like it or not, all it takes to loose your girl is NYSC camp, or some dude who knows his game. Na by force to die of heart attack?

dnawah: pls pray to God,let Him give u ur better half.from now on if call her again,u be aboki.

wat do u mean by that or r u mad

For those asking...Am a graduate,am working and b4 she left for camp,she was the considering type.she never puts pressure on me wen it comes to money or sum other things most ladies want infact,she will rather give to me than take from me.(Which i dnt like).she's a very good girl and like i said she's not a hoe.i just think she's getting distracted or stressed up.i read in a book that all ladies gets paraniod wen they dnt have enuf sleep.anyways,i just dey look am

thats why i never take any gal serious.... guy make good money n dnt soil ur hands......dnt worry abt her wait until God sends u d born f ur born

ebujany: For those asking...Am a graduate,am working and b4 she left for camp,she was the considering type.she never puts pressure on me wen it comes to money or sum other things most ladies want infact,she will rather give to me than take from me.(Which i dnt like).she's a very good girl and like i said she's not a hoe.i just think she's getting distracted or stressed up.i read in a book that all ladies gets paraniod wen they dnt have enuf sleep.anyways,i just dey look am

Hmm............why did it take you this long to answer this simple question? Were you lost in thought all these while?

ebujany: For those asking...Am a graduate,am working and b4 she left for camp,she was the considering type.she never puts pressure on me wen it comes to money or sum other things most ladies want infact,she will rather give to me than take from me.(Which i dnt like).she's a very good girl and like i said she's not a hoe.i just think she's getting distracted or stressed up.i read in a book that all ladies gets paraniod wen they dnt have enuf sleep.anyways,i just dey look am

chai, i know how you feel, the girl don dey yimu give you.

chinasaekperem: chai, i know how you feel, the girl don dey yimu give you.

yuk!!!!

camp is sweet especially for even married women because they do remove their rings to flect.but don't conclude yet,just wait for her to finish her ppa registration and take break to go home,then the both of you can see and talk things out.you can use that period to study her and decide.

nikkyshyne:



Me self shake head o.

o boy me roll head o...hehehe

guy no allow dt gal of urz to rotate u instead make u rotate her abeg we r in mobile whorld move on bro

baggy4luv: I am so soorry to say this u are a big fooooooool..calling a girl to ask if she wanna break up in the 21st century..u nailed yourself to the cross be that.my best advice ....stop calling her and just move on...stop fanning peoples ego for christ sake..ur silence is like an armour tank to her..

she behavin lyk dat doesnt necessary mean she is cheatin on her guy, she may jxt b tryin 2 make d relationship mur sponteneous, try reasonin wit dat

ceenote: In trying to help you win your girl back, I have come up with a solution as below:

1. Make money
2. Make more money
3. Keep making more money
4. Repeat steps 1 to 3

I'm sure she'll come back. I feel your pain bro. Please, don't fall into depression. There's someone for everyone! Goodluck

allbright:
Some of the people saying things and concluding about NYSC hasn't even gone there, they just conclude by what they hear, though there are sexcapedes but not everybody is involved...you just cannot force your prick into any girl nah

yea

alex2242:

y d 'sha' nah.....u knw its true
op its going to b very DIFFICULT but dont call her again
someone said wen u fall in love its common sense leavin u
op u knw she's screwin sum1 else but u don't want to believe it...just 4get her

wat has sha' got to do wit wat i said na?

booscy: To Ladycloud, I value love and chersih relationships and I have no plan whatsoever to become a monk, even monks love romance. But I wish to state clearly my friend ladycloud that even if a lady love takes me to cloud 9, it won't erase a fact that I know it deep down in my heart that nobody (I or that lady, ladycloud or whoever) is worth dying for.

I don't fall in love, I stand on it and I use my helmet.

...lyk the lady cares! a million nd two guys r ready to love....

ebujany: For those asking...Am a graduate,am working and b4 she left for camp,she was the considering type.she never puts pressure on me wen it comes to money or sum other things most ladies want infact,she will rather give to me than take from me.(Which i dnt like).she's a very good girl and like i said she's not a hoe.i just think she's getting distracted or stressed up.i read in a book that all ladies gets paraniod wen they dnt have enuf sleep.anyways,i just dey look am

Sorry my guy, I know how you feel, but like many have advised here, you need to man up. Stop calling her and loose your self esteem further, give her time, NYSC is a place where you meet new people, some from schools abroad and rich homes, handsome dudes ready to help and collect their share from that thing you think is meant for alone.
Dont deceive yourself, many of us here have done it with other peoples babes during NYSC hoping that other smart guys will not do same thing to us. Thats the reality of life.

alot happens during service if u love her fight for her nd if she is not appriciating ur effort,please lv her

it has happened to me too, I went for service 2008 Batch B, when I came back my so called fiancee has started sleeping around wit different guy's but since I wasn't cheating on her, she exposed herself when she came to my house one faithful sunday. D foolish guy sent her a message about d way they had sex on saturday before coming to my house d next day which was sunday. D stupid girl locked her phone but I don't know how I opened d phone, read d text and even sent it to my phone, she was busy in d kitchen wit my sister preparing dinner so I called her, gave her, her phone dat she had a message and I want her to read it out, she saw d message and immediately delected d text but I showed her d text and she started begging me and she told me dat I can go out as well she wouldn't mind but I refused and send her packing one time becos it wasn't just a guy but are more.

It really touched me when I read this post. please my brother, just pray about this issue, and let God's will be done.... I really know how you feel....,

The way girls choose their guys makes me sometimes think twice about the girl I date

Ladycloud: ...lyk the lady cares! a million nd two guys r ready to love....

True but dat dosnt mean she can't love one person don't care abt oda guys.

Op just give urself some space, stop calling and stop sending text messages, its heartbreaking when the one person u love stops picking ur calls, ignores ur sms, or worst still finally picks ur calls and talks to u in a disapproving or rude manner. I don't know why it's so common this days in relationships, one of the partner gets so distracted with work, success, stress, money and suddenly feels the other partner ain't worth talking to, and let pride get in the way.

The most annoying part, after like 6 months, when u've set things straight and decided to move on, such person comes back with stories like, bad advice from friends, I was not happy then with some things, I didn't wanna bother u with my problems, Ehn u shouldn't have given up on me if u truly loved me, u know stupid and flimsy excuses.

Op, Pls just set ur priorities straight and know wat u want, I'm sure u don't want a disappearing and appearing galfriend. If u've done all the necessary options to know the reason why she's acting funny and she still decides to take the exit door, don't force her to stay cos u might regret such forceful actions in the future.

ladodo: it has happened to me too, I went for service 2008 Batch B, when I came back my so called fiancee has started sleeping around wit different guy's but since I wasn't cheating on her, she exposed herself when she came to my house one faithful sunday. D foolish guy sent her a message about d way they had sex on saturday before coming to my house d next day which was sunday. D stupid girl locked her phone but I don't know how I opened d phone, read d text and even sent it to my phone, she was busy in d kitchen wit my sister preparing dinner so I called her, gave her, her phone dat she had a message and I want her to read it out, she saw d message and immediately delected d text but I showed her d text and she started begging me and she told me dat I can go out as well she wouldn't mind but I refused and send her packing one time becos it wasn't just a guy but are more.

OMG!

Most women are fallen nature... Some woman don't know why they do what they do.

You seem insecure and pushy.
Why would you be quarelling with a babe on the phone over where she is and what she is doing.
That's because you already have the mindset that camp is an immoral place hence you're hounding her.

Pls leave her be.
How do you expect her to have the time to answer your calls like she used to now that she's in camp and phones aren't allowed all the time?

10missed calls?
You're insecure
Grow up.