Yungwizzzy: A girl who ask me out is a phokin mate material not for keep

Africa mentality

claremont: Life is short.

In this day and age, I think a lady should be courageous enough to tell a man she likes ''I like you'', because time waits for no one. There are many ladies who have gotten married to demons simply because they couldn't make the first move on the angel that was reserved for them.

This is officially the first comment i would share on nairaland.

Ezibless: He'd also be ''TOO SHY'' to love me.
And what i'll do?







Ignore the dude jor...

The feelings would go.
It happened to me lol.
And i thank God i bottled it up.
He no gri tok and me ma no send. And today we're just friends.
Just wondering where the feelings went to

my dear, the feelings never go away. It's always there except when it isn't real in the first place. When a man loves a woman......hmmmn the feelings never die, even if she's a hoe! He'll always have feelings for her. Maybe you should ask yourself why he stuck around so long and you assume you're"just friends". Hell no! It's killing him softly and he can't say it but if you were to observe well you'll see it in his actions. No guy is that dumb not to be able too say those words and at the same time can't show it.

temigracie: ...Yeah, thats true....
..We cant handle the rejection and the shame of being rejected.....
..Some immature guys will even tell their friends about it...

How is it immature for him to tell his guys? Is it now shameful for women to woo men? What happened to lessons from Ruth in the bible?

Yungwizzzy: A girl who ask me out is a phokin mate material not for keep

dis is the reason why ladies don't ask. guys tks us cheap n not wife material. so don't blame us.

folly65:
Asking nigerian guys out aint worth the humiliation
No be me them go take do beer parlour gist

Lolz, ah no fit shout. Ur last statement got me Lol.. Well na true u yarn shaa.

marieolae: I can't just imagine myself asking a guy out its not right. There are some jobs made for men, and some jobs made for women. So wait isit now right for a woman to go on her knees and ask a man to marry her? Nah its just not normal.

why the feminist movement then ?

Idowuogbo: I'll woo and wooze him back. No time to be forming belleful when hunger dey wire me.

wow...i love this

Ezibless: He'd also be ''TOO SHY'' to love me.
And what i'll do?







Ignore the dude jor...

The feelings would go.
It happened to me lol.
And i thank God i bottled it up.
He no gri tok and me ma no send. And today we're just friends.
Just wondering where the feelings went to

it wasnt a tru feeling
it was an infatuation...if u truly av feelings 4 him,dere re ways to make him knw..
Its only a taboo in naija,dt girls dont take deir boyfriends out to av a nice outing.
U can take dt bold step..invite him 4 a drink in a nice and comfortable place.express ur feelings to him discreetly,he will fall into it

Tymax:
How is it immature for him to tell his guys? Is it now shameful for women to woo men? What happened to lessons from Ruth in the bible?

...My dear, it is a thing of shame....

...A typical naija guy believes she s cheap and worthless....Guys always want girls who are ruthless to them at the beginning....They believe girls like that worth a tree in the forest...(I hope am correct)...

...where did you read it in the bible that twas Ruth who made the first move??

tGood things come to those who wait and not for those who wait too late. There is nothing wrong in approaching a man you like, especially if he has some qualities you believe can impact on you.

folly65:
Asking nigerian guys out aint worth the humiliation
No be me them go take do beer parlour gist

This got me laughing out loud.

All I know is that if you're good looking(as a lady)and still got some rather bearable demeanor,a guy would be head over you,no matter the circumstance surrounding your hooking-up.

A girl should be free to tell a guy how she feels about him. I have experienced such a couple of times,I must confess,I appreciate them till date.

jennylove7575: Just touch him at the right spot..shyness will disappear..

tell me more about touching the right spot, thank you.

Ezibless: He'd also be ''TOO SHY'' to love me.
And what i'll do?







Ignore the dude jor...

The feelings would go.
It happened to me lol.
And i thank God i bottled it up.
He no gri tok and me ma no send. And today we're just friends.
Just wondering where the feelings went to

You don't have any feelings for him then, maybe you only admire his looks..part time feelings.

temigracie: ...My dear, it is a thing of shame....

...A typical naija guy believes she s cheap and worthless....Guys always want girls who are ruthless to them at the beginning....They believe girls like that worth a tree in the forest...(I hope am correct)...

...where did you read it in the bible that twas Ruth who made the first move??

Yeah,it's true!
Ruth made the first move.I know I have read a story like that in the bible,but cant recall exactly where it's written.

Help me ask

lemmeknow:
hmm! are u d shy type for d ladies?

Hemanwel: Yeah,it's true!
Ruth made the first move.I know I have read a story like that in the bible,but cant recall exactly where it's written.

..are you serious??

Misblah: I woo him

Jesus!

Logicalmindy:


Checks Profile picture.

Unfollows thread

lol.. Same thing I did

xynerise: Most girls don't woo the way we guys do. They use gestures(Including dressing) to pass the message

well said

Yungwizzzy: A girl who ask me out is a phokin mate material not for keep

Phucking lie!!!!

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aaronson: Most girls do what I call 'forming being nice' to a guy they really like especially if you handsome,I know what I face in class in the hands of those type of girls,for instance,one day we had class at a different lecture hall,on getting there everywhere was already filled up so this newly transferred girl to my dept just screamed out my name to come join her and she started asking me questions like I came for job interview lol, at the end of the day she told me I'm boring cus I didn't ask her back questions she was asking me in my mind I was like,your papa,I tell you say I luff you to show interest but while still with her I just smile...ladies don't force yourself on a guy if he isn't into you because to him you gonna be worthless and he might take advantage of your feelings to bed you like he love you remember we was born from a hole and always looking for a hole to enter and when we die we get buried in a hole!!!

That was crappy. No meaninful info in ur post!

lemmeknow: many people say it is not of a naija or (in fact) African babe to approach d opposite sex wen it comes to relationship!

But when it comes to a time wen everything u c is him, y do u ladies still relent?

its simple now.you do the wooing nah !!!!

aaronson: You really smart as the last 3letter words of your username because it reflects your thoughts,attitude and predisposition.

my own kind of dog is a sniper gud at detectin ugly sh.it lyk u

Have you heard the saying that if the mountain does not come to Moses, then Moses goes to the mountain?

temigracie: ...My dear, it is a thing of shame....

...A typical naija guy believes she s cheap and worthless....Guys always want girls who are ruthless to them at the beginning....They believe girls like that worth a tree in the forest...(I hope am correct)...

...where did you read it in the bible that twas Ruth who made the first move??

Go and study your bible madam.

Tymax:
Go and study your bible madam.

...lol....I know thats what you are gonna say....Tymax....i ll pounce on you....

marieolae: I can't just imagine myself asking a guy out its not right. There are some jobs made for men, and some jobs made for women. So wait isit now right for a woman to go on her knees and ask a man to marry her? Nah its just not normal.

This is your own theory. What if a guy never asks you out, will you end up being unmarried?

I hate trying when it comes to women.If I try once,you no gre you're on your own.

djeezy: Before you woo him, make sure he already likes you o......Else it will be a disaster.

Very important. Girls take this serious!