Am i the only one that thinks your sister is a lil bi slow?. She's 19 and having her first boyfriend.. She might be a lesbian or super fugly to have waited so long before getting a boyfriend...

If only you're a saint. But if you dey kpash other girls and feel it's your sister turn then it's a sorry case for you because she can't escape it. Meanwhile you should be happy she can see a guy that like/deceiving her.........she'll soon learn what she needs to know.

If shez nt ready 2 mary den she shld wait. havin a bf is a sin b4 God.
d best love she can find now is GOD'S. nd blive me she'll have all she wants
Matthew 6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. God help u

Just talk 2 her

LEAFLET: Am i the only one that thinks your sister is a lil bi slow?. She's 19 and having her first boyfriend.. She might be a lesbian or super fugly to have waited so long before getting a boyfriend...

I see U...badt Guy....badt thinking

LEAFLET: Am i the only one that thinks your sister is a lil bi slow?. She's 19 and having her first boyfriend.. She might be a lesbian or super fugly to have waited so long before getting a boyfriend...

Nah she's not......We had very strict upbringing......We were the dad drop u off at school,mom picks up in the afternoon,stay in doors, watch TV, few friends kinda kids.......Even I didn't start that much early.

Thank You all for you contributions and advice.....I really appreciate it....We did talk over the same issue yesterday and the day b4...of course it was coded coz we didn't want any1 else in the house hearing.......She's very adamant she's in love and that the boy is in love with her too.....the scariest thing I learned is that the said boy is her age mate too.....My sister is even older than him with about 33 days from our calculations...This is not the till we marry kinda relationship is it...I don't want to discourage her or hurt her but there is no hope for this sort of 'puppy' romance is there

NairaMode: Hmmm...
19 is a bit matured. Girls are marrying at the age of 19 nowadays.
Besides bro, talk to her if you can but you may lose the closeness you guys once share.

Better still invite the guy around and be his friend. If the guy is still in school then it is super certain that it will not lead anywhere.
If the guy is serving or working then it is probably meant to be.

I am just giving you scenarios bro.

Hardly will you see a young girl without bf nowadays and since your sister is not an SU (Yes she is not cos she already said yes) then she will f*#k sooner than later. Bitter truth. Except you get lucky by talking to her.

Lastly, girls learn from experience... Most girls nowadays at one point vowed to wait till wedding night but alas the reverse is the case. They even want to test their wares before buying now.

What is my point? I want to give you a different point of view to this so that you can have a better approach.

If I were you sir,

I will first call my sister and tell her love is a beautiful thing but as pretty as it is it brings hurt almost 100% of the time to girls her age.
Tell her you are confident in her to be a good girl and paint unreal scenarios of friends you lost to HIV and abortion. That is deep.
Tell her you guys should go on a date with the guy or invite him over and if you are smart bro you will know what the guy wants when you see him.

i think he has has been advising her.... or hasnt she been seeing his gf arround n d way he relates with her? or has he not been talking about his gurl all along?

CharlieMaria: Slap her to come back to her senses then advice her to fall in love rather with her books if you do love her.

I dnt tink dis advice is wise for her, dey is a way his broda will over react, and his sista will av no other option, dan to keep to herself, meanin she will start been secretive wit his broda, she wunt be as free as she was with him...So all u need do, is just for u to advice her, put more sense into her{Applying of wisdom is allow}!

Odilafta: Are you sure you are scared of her falling into temptation or you're scared that someother guy will do to her what you do to other girls?

cococandy:

Abi o aunty mi ABi wetin I for talk?

It's true na.
Guys play babes but run to fetch their guns when they see another guy around their sister or daughters.
That's because they all know what they are capable of

Odilafta:


Abi o aunty mi ABi wetin I for talk?

cococandy: It's true na.
Guys play babes but run to fetch their guns when they see another guy around their sister or daughters.
That's because they all know what they are capable of

Them go come begin open thread like say them holy

I asked my girlfriend out when she

it's funny how some guys love to mess up other girls lives but protect their own sisters. i hope you don't fall under this category op. just give her all the sincere advice she needs. If you are a responsible man, your sister may use you as a yardstick in choosing her kind of bf so you really shouldn't worry.

marveangel: Thank You all for you contributions and advice.....I really appreciate it....We did talk over the same issue yesterday and the day b4...of course it was coded coz we didn't want any1 else in the house hearing.......She's very adamant she's in love and that the boy is in love with her too.....the scariest thing I learned is that the said boy is her age mate too.....My sister is even older than him with about 33 days from our calculations...This is not the till we marry kinda relationship is it...I don't want to discourage her or hurt her but there is no hope for this sort of 'puppy' romance is there

k,just saw this. Advise her to enjoy the attention and friendship- Nothing else besides that abeg o.

My younger brother is 21. He's jes got a girlfriend, first time tinz. I adore d guy a lot, but I know he's gonna get heart broken, mostly because he's too much of a do gooder.
Op, allow her grow on her own terms and make her own mistakes, but always be there to guide her, and she's gonna need those shoulders, enough crying

koyyes: it's funny how some guys love to mess up other girls lives but protect their own sisters. i hope you don't fall under this category op. just give her all the sincere advice she needs. If you are a responsible man, your sister may use you as a yardstick in choosing her kind of bf so you really shouldn't worry.

Am no saint.....But I don't think I have messed up any girl sha....Coz I have sisterz, I kinda learned to treat gals right.

anumide: My younger brother is 21. He's jes got a girlfriend, first time tinz. I adore d guy a lot, but I know he's gonna get heart broken, mostly because he's too much of a do gooder.
Op, allow her grow on her own terms and make her own mistakes, but always be there to guide her, and she's gonna need those shoulders, enough crying

Guess you're right.....but am meeting 'prince charming' this weekend sha...letz hope he's not one of 'Those' guyz sha

anumide: My younger brother is 21. He's jes got a girlfriend, first time tinz. I adore d guy a lot, but I know he's gonna get heart broken, mostly because he's too much of a do gooder.
Op, allow her grow on her own terms and make her own mistakes, but always be there to guide her, and she's gonna need those shoulders, enough crying

My heart goes out to ur younger brother.....do gooders always get hurt in any relationship.....they always seem to care too much and do too much.....only get so very little in return.