@Imani

Na lie I talk? I say ladies, before you die just try one Oyinbo man jare! Nothing is taboo to them including the so called period matter! If not available grab the available lebanese for Naija there.

j-girl:

Nigerian men can be romantic but it's when they are really into you. Personally i can vouch for their romantic sides.

jjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjj, i missssedd uuuuuuuuu, hw was ur trip, gosh we need 2 catch up




chei, gurl pity dem smal nau, letz pretend they romantic 4 5 mins, oya guyz enjoy it while it last oooo

@acidrop

Pity who? Do they pity us? Where are the guys? C'mon come out! Lazy toads!

babe, am sure u wearing some bullet proof ooooo, lol but erm. . . . . i dey ur back sha

The guys don run!

@ militia
My sista i don try oyinbo, dey sabi treat woman well,well. Nigeria men no sabi de word Romance. Even to say I love you dey so hard to say. How many Naija men  you go see out there dey hold there woman hand when they're walkin? Na wa for Naija men they need to learn o.

hahahah, who wan teach dem nau?

Dey no won learn, because dey sabi everything, or so dey tink.

9ja men bashas carry on babes. not how far na how well. aku fecha odara awo. but awo go show say second hand no need to be loved.

so is that ur own justification or xcuse for been unromantic

Naija men de day dey start to love one woman go be de day dey sabi the word romance, too busy going from one woman to another, cutting out the romance. Naija men only see woman from their waist down. Me i want a man to show me love, send me flowers,take me out, send me little naughty notes do the things that lovers do, yes my heart cries out!!!! Not cum try me out for my toto size o.

Jeez, una don carry una hard knock life come online again, well i think we can twist the issue a bit, you ladys how romantic and wordful are you to your "NAIJA GUYS"?.

Need Help,

@beauti

I use all the oyinbo skills dey please my man now!  You cannot learn it from naija guys, so forget that angle!  I am glad you can testify to the "oyinbo" tin!  That is why most of our guys go to sleep with prostitutes.  Oyinbo has taught Naija prostitutes what it means to get good service.  When the Naija guys encounter these "experienced" prostitutes, they patronize them for life even after getting married to their wives! 

Communication of sexual fantasies is still a taboo between Naija couples!  All the gals want to be good virgins and all the guys want to marry these good virgins, and let them stay that way----but will patronize "freaky prostitutes" for life!  Then the guys will complain of women that lie in bed like dead wood!  If you shake too much, you are an ashewo! You don spoil finish.  They will even scandalize you to their friends, mothers and sisters how "rotten"you are!

On one of my visits to Nigeria, I visited Grand Hotels for the Buffet Dinner and saw one Foreigner(could not tell his national origin from his skin color) feeding one Naija babe pepper soup!  I was like wow!  All the other naija couples in their terrible outfits,---not sexy at all--- were looking at each other, talking nonsense!  Even brought their children to run all over the place and "finger"  all the food on display!  Cannot even have a romantic dinner!  Which couple do you think will have better sex when they get home?  I rest my case!

@acid drop

Sorry!  You cannot teach an  old dog new tricks!  You gals out there still searching, go and educate yourselves with another race-preferably oyinbo, then use your skills to nab one hooker-crazy Naija man! He will get fulfilled at least 50% of the time! I love Igbo guys oh!  For Igbo guys na "yawa"!  They communicate best in the romance area!  Then Hausa!  The rest na nonsense!  Once in a while you will see some variation in yoruba, calabar, Bini, Tiv and the rest! 

The worst na Bini guys!  To touch your "Stuff" na wah!  Dem go look the thing like say na "You.F.O".  all night, then use 2 minutes finish them work  Very lazy! Bini guys  believe in sign language.  When it comes to romance!  Zero skills, they become, blind, deaf, and dumb! I sabi them well well! That is why all their gals are in Belgium, France, Italy and Netherlands!  Lack of appreciation!

Calabar guys are another horrible bunch, if you are looking for romance!  All physical and no finesse or logic behind their moves! Calabar guys are tacky and just outright crude!  No finesse at all!  One grab at one of ya your breasts, it will be deflated at least 2 bra sizes!  I call Calabar guys the "Sag machines"--- and you will feel like you have been maulled by some pit bull!  Don't even think of putting your breast in their mouths! ! You will age in about 1 week or less from all the abuse!

Yoruba na all for show!   All talk and no action!  No stamina, no equipment style. Too much amala and ewedu for night, then expect you to do all the work!  Believe in quantity not quality!  How many can I sleep with in 1 week and who will I brag to!  Those ones are specialists in stealing your underwear for keepsakes!  To tell their friends who did who!  I call these ones sexual "tatafos"!  The basis of romance is intimacy.  Not in yoruba dictionary because of too much talk- talk and not enough action.  Their attention span is shortlived!  These ones have---- attention deficit disorder of both body and spirit!

Igbo and Hausa guys for romance!  I say my gals!  For the rest tribes, prepare to work oh!    Don't even consider guys from Edo area!

Na wah for this analysis u don try all these men b4?.

@Fromuk

You bet ya sweet arse! I waka before I marry oh! So I know!

thanks mil @ acidrop at 40ish it's even better like a fine wine.

@ militia:

you dey teach us something for here o!

Militia, you don talk am finish.

Yes, you need to try a white man and then you'll understand romance. I no go fit break everything down, but mehn, they too mush. If no be say, my papa go kill me, I for marry white man o. Oh well, nothing spoilt. Nothing that can not be taught to someone else, as long as the person is teachable. The average naija man, no wan learn anything. Him think say, he don know everything.

Militia, I gbadun you jare. When I grow up, I wan be like you.

Make una pray for our naija men oooo, one day, one day their heart will lead them and not their tin.

Militia(nt)
so who u come finally marry? pls let us know and why it is necessary you pen up as well OR.

yes

i've met a lot of romantic naija guys, even when i was in naija, so i think it depends on who u date and how u are. A girl can bring out romance in guy. The way i am, guys tend to do "mushy" stuff because of me. Romance is not about sex. It is about the kiss on the forehead, the gentle brushing of hair on off your face, the holding of hands. the way he rubs your back in public, the way he smiles at u, the sweet pecks, the rubbing of your neck and even they way u guys laugh.  Taking long walks is very romantic, not to talk of eating sweet foods like ice cream at a park, u make sure the ice cream is splattered on his lips and then u go for it.

When your are doing the above , it is only magic that will happen becaues u've been charging all day.

I have experienced romance with naija guys at home and abroad, maybe u girls are with the wrong guys.

@militia, u don make me fear our nigerian men finish o

na waa o

@doncaster
Sorry, I do not understand ya grammar! Please clarify!

@annabel
No need to fear our Naija guys though. They only know what their fathers did with their mothers so you just have to deal with them that way! Just educate yourself like I said and experience the different flavors in life.

@Uyai
Miss perfect. Please tell the rest of the gals the secret of catching your breed of "romantic" naija guys from home and abroad. It looks like you alone has all the answers and get all the "right" guys!

@tpia
You will be surprised how much you can learn when people give your honest opinions!

@theopops and vronnie
my dear sistas, you know say na true na!

@beauti
I see say you get customers for here oh!

@superman
Na wah oh!

i'm not pefect, point is, there are naija guys like that. it is never good to generalize

@Uyai

Then you are one lucky babe!  I have to generalize because that is my experience.  I do not doubt your experience either.  You probably are dealing with the new generation "romantic naija guys"!  I ain't mad at you sugar!   Please try and catch one for  marriage oh!  Make sure you are romantic too!-----------try  "phock" one oyinbo man sha!---------for total satisfaction

@militia, u don kill our niger men finish o, anyway na dem sabi, make dam go school of romance i dont even think that will help them but i go like try those mexicano b4 i marry o

@isocks2001

I hear you my gal! Not a bad idea at all! You will not regret tasting one of those "salsa latin lovers" at all! The guys know say na true word I dey talk na. You hear dem voice for hia?

Beauti! it only you adores flowers. do you think all naija woman would even think of accepting a flower from a naija guy? to them it, "na flower we go chop". the put material gains first than romance. i tell you, some naija women don't even know what is romance not to talk of performing it.

Naija guys want to treat you just the way you want to be treated, (love and affection) but are you all ready to go along with the program? if your answer is yes! that a lie! only few would.

before criticizing naija men for lack of been romantic also know that it takes two to tango.

cheers.

do you think all naija woman would even think of accepting a flower from a naija guy?

Yes, they will. They may not expect it, but if you give it to them all their friends will hear the sweet story.

anabell:

@militia, u don make me fear our nigerian men finish o

abioooo, me sef, am having second tots about nigerian men now oooooooo

vronnie:

thanks mil @ acidrop at 40ish it's even better like a fine wine.

lol, keep it reall

Seun, you think so?