dondele:

which men are jealous? naija men? jealous? u will saw few not all cuzz i have met some that don't even get jealous when u kissing your ex.

generally, all men are jealous and nobody should bite me cos its true. wen a guy is not jealous that ur kissin ur ex, it means he doesnt care about u ok? he is probably just there wit u for one reason or the other or he is tryin to get ur booty. cos i ve never seen that b4.
@ topic, well some nigerian men are romantic but most of them are romantically challenged. african mentality.

well, it doestn work well with naija guys. it is either money or romance and they choose money( some).

@luvlymoi
im sorry for girls like you dat think eerone is d same. that happened to my friend and he wasnt jealous one bit. i asked him why and he said she will always end up in his arms. it was in a kindd@ game dat it happened and he wasnt jealous so dont generalize cuzz all men aint the same.

aiight, aiight, man.

Well, I'm not going to settle for someone where it's just money or romance because I want both.

And for a guy to not get jealous when you are kissing your ex is a little weird,

PTBNaija:


And for a guy to not get jealous when you are kissing your ex is a little weird,

abi my sister!!

I would say romance is not a word that pretty much exist in some Nigerian men cases, cos they believe as long as they have the cash at hand any girl would fall flat. Which i really think is insane.

I guess there are ( If your idea of romance is giving your woman your bank cards to get whateva she wants ). if not then I have to say my friend is 50% Romantic. Mind you, am not complying cause he trys o.

Ooopss I meant boyfriend lol not friend duh

I think the gift of romancing skipped our nigerian brothas and its such a shame , but something i can give to some of them is they have respect for their women.

I swear all the naija guys I've met are jealous.

so sure! najia men jealous ? well then ones are fake nigerians! here ut goes hey babes u know wat im sayin! yes u think u are america.

superman please some of the most jealous men r njas

na lie ooooo!

PTBNaija:

Well, I'm not going to settle for someone where it's just money or romance because I want both.

And for a guy to not get jealous when you are kissing your ex is a little weird,

lol!!

It's the gurls here in 9ja that makes us not romantic. The definiton of Romance here is "when you dress real fly and cruzing your dad's car, any gurl u meet on the way hops in, you take her out that day, both of you go back to ur crib, shag her real good, Wake up the next morning with 15 missed calls and 7 txt mgs saying I MISSED YOU, CAN YOU TAKE ME AND 9 OF MY FRIENDS OUT TO WHERE YOU TOOK ME TO YESTERDAY? but nowadays recharge kads make the deal a whole lot easier.
What do u think

My guy is Nigerian, and at first I didnt think he was romantic at all, however I have began to realise that he is very romantic in his own way.

A guy doesnt have to spend money on a lady to be romantic!

Kisses, cuddles, letters, compliments, holding hands, etc etc are all romantic to me.

Even kissing my toes is romantic as far as Im concerned

nosillA xx

As for me, my husband is sweet, caring, romantic, infact he's too much and he is a Nigerian. If we can find him as a Nigerian, then i believe there some other guys out there that can be romantic

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nigerian men are not really romantic but you know when they care for you.

vronnie:

nigerian men are not really romantic but you know when they care for you.

why? cos they dont buy u flowers and hold open car doors for u?
well u may have a point but they do have their up sides

They only pretend to be romantic but inner their heart they are not

I don't relly know what u all mean by being romantic but i can tell u that Nigerian guys are caring. and my man is very romantic. 

Please kindly define "ROMANTIC" some wise girls may think expensive shopping at the expense of a guy is "ROMANTIC"

cheers.

richie-x, I feel you oh! It's the girls around us really, so it works both ways. If you are in a sophisticated environment, believe me you will up your game and be alot more refined in handing your girl. On the other hand, if the babes are all drooling cos you splashed a little change around and give it up to you for next to no hard work on your part, what do you do? I've been with girls that DO not appreciate anniversaries, mementoes(No matter how minute), spending time with them really doing nothing, etc. All they want is to be picked up, taken to so and so place, attend so and so show/party and get a roll in the hay on the way back.

I do appreciate women that acknowledge the little things, they are few and far between.

Nigerian men can be romantic but it's when they are really into you. Personally i can vouch for their romantic sides.

I really appreciate some of you ladies that are taking side for us. Those of you bashing us are the ones always asking "Na flower I go chop" when we get romantic with you. Another problem with many of our sisters is that they don't handle compliment very well. It get's into their heads. If you are kind and generous they just take it out of content and all that.

@ moondust, I don't know about anyone else i speak from experince Im 43 and my guy is 49 and I can say he's not really romantic but he is loving and caring . we are both from the old school so it works well for us.

100% romantic cuz its only in naija that guys take care of their girls finances.whites would take a girl out and she would still have to settle her own bill

y wont u say 100%, while u urself is a nigerian man, newaiz itz up 2 the gurlz is it not?

vronnie:

@ moondust, I don't know about anyone else i speak from experince I'm 43 and my guy is 49 and I can say he's not really romantic but he is loving and caring . we are both from the old school so it works well for us.

40sss, and u still xpecting something romantic, please u guyz most have been tired of all the romantic stuffs by now

@Topic
10% compared to their foreign counterparts of course!  For the Naija man it is more physical that mental.  pre-intimacy is even "by force'!   Take a survey for example.  When your are in bed what does a Naija man do first?  Take off his "dross" and reach for the toilet paper.  He is already drippin "slime" everywhere!   They are already waiting for the "end results"  without thinking of how to get there!

Oyibo, mexicano, "akatano" go make you come 20 times for ya front end with all the praises and worship before finally knocking you out in the "killer zone" inside! Abi na lie?  Roses everywhere, food and drink afterwards then give you a bath and massage of your life.  Look,  to these people-----------pleasing the woman or babe is a JOB!.  They plan and execute romance.  To Nigerians it is an OPPORTUNITY that must be seized because they do not know when they will see it again before the babe change her mind!

I say my people---who no go no know!  Ignorance is definitely bliss!  Na only noise una dey make for here.  Just try one oyibo man ladies.  If not for marriage, but the experience!  You will learn a lot on how to please the "guys" that appreciate romance.  Not all of them do, so do not waste your time trying!  If no be culture and raising children, I for marry Oyibo!  They know them work!  More mental than physical.  Oyinbo man fit UnCloth you without using im hands!  Mexicano nko!  those ones are "spicy"!  Naija man na to chop, "phock" then snore all in 5 minutes!  Thank God my own no be like that oh!

@acidrop
Sex and romance after 40? That is where you are wrong honey.   That is when the real romance sets in!  No need for viagra!  You know your body and you know what works and what doesn't at this stage in life.  All the available tools and education you need are available at your finger tips!   At that stage romance is the key to a good sex life.  Not all hurry-hurry, rush-rush stuff! Planning is 75% and spontaneity is 25%!  You became a mature lover then not all this Nairaland "wait and take" ("chere were" romance!  Besides, you are in position to spend money for good romance!  Not all that Mr. Biggs or McDonald's rubbish!

MILITIA:

@Topic
10% compared to their foreign counterparts of course! For the Naija man it is more physical that mental. pre-intimacy is even "by force'! Take a survey for example[b]. When your are in bed what does a Naija man do first? Take off his "dross" and reach for the toilet paper. He is already drippin "slime" everywhere! They are already waiting for the "end results" without thinking of how to get there![/b]

You have nearly finished our naija men . start to run for cover