₦airaland Forum

ednut1:
old things have passed away 🤣

LoI. I hope you haven't got burned, if you have, you should stay here.

Something took you there in the 1st place

Theunbothered:
Too long, didn't read, argue with yourself.

Exactly! I thought you wanted to tell me something, now you're running away??

Imbècile!

Theunbothered:
Come and see your sister wailing about loneliness abroad because Nigerian men aren't there to foot the bill.

“We are facing a lot here, we need help,” Germany-based Nigerian lady cries out over scarcity of men

https://t.co/2qAB9lJXwc

— Instablog9ja (@instablog9ja) July 11, 2023

Another South African sister highlighting the same problem.

"Nigerian girls try to suck everything out of you. They love money too much"

- Malibongwe Gumede pic.twitter.com/LozCsRTIBr

— @𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗷𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗯𝗼𝘆 (@OneJoblessBoy) October 10, 2022

This is an American brother complaining about women from the green white green.
https://x.com/AngeloPearld/status/1664969692144885761?s=20

Notice all the complaints are money related. I wonder why?

I thought as much.

I thought you were saying: "NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE SINGLED OUT IN EVERY COUNTRY AS BAD FOR LONG TERM DATING" ??

Where are the multitudes of videos of NON- NIGERIAN MEN complaining about Nigerian women in EVERY country as you stated??

So your "evidence" ended up being women complaining about each other??

Bloody bravado!!

Let's delve in, shall we?

The immigrant Nigerian women complaining about loneliness, what else were they expecting? Did they grow up in that society?

You should never expect anybody to take you seriously as an immigrant, because you're still
trying to find your feet.

Or you want to pretend like you haven't seen the numerous thread on this forum about Nigerian men complaining about the same issue?? Disingenuous prick.


As for the south african women talking about Nigerian women.

Do you really believe they genuinely know that about Nigerian women ? Or they're repeating the sentiments of Nigerian MEN??

How many Nigerian women are in SA vs nigerian men??

Who are they more familiar with ??

They are simply parroting your sentiment that you go over there to tell to make them feel special, so you can sleep with them.

If that video had been directed at Nigerian men, you would have been quick to call them xenophobic and jealous of your success. But because it is directed against Nigerian women, there is no xenophobia and jealousy?

HYPOCRITE!!

I've washed my hands off any Nigerian man in SA, if you face xenophobia and they kill you, e no concern me.

Because you go there and talk shit about Nigerian women, not that you all think its true. You do it just to pedestalise their women.

Don't expect any sympathy from the same Nigerian women after going there to talk shit.

PS: Nigerian women are alot more preferred in SA

We aren't responsible for Nigeria becoming the world's villain.

ednut1:
most of them men want the free sex and papers. Later they will come home to marry 🤣

Interesting. Always thought you were team foreign women.

LINSAR:
Go back to Nigeria to marry a woman that will do you the way that female doctor did to Dr Olufunmilayo(YourFavOnlineDoctor or so sha).

Our fossils are way better than the ingrate of a Nigerian woman.

Our fossils? 💀


If they really respected you, they'd give themselves to you at their prime, not when they're fossilised and crystallised with nothing to offer but powdered eggs.

In life, everybody gets in where they fit in. And 'fossils' were all you qualified for.

Maj196:
Hopefully, would be soon

Lol.

ThothHermes:
Sleep around if you wan sleep around. We know say na wetin you want be that. Nobody hold you.

But the problem is you want to sleep around and still get married someday. Those white women have no problem being without husbands forever, so you can't really blame them for their choices. Or have you seen any of them going to Shiloh to look for a husband?

You Nigerian woman looking for someone's son to tie down after sleeping with 27 men in the name of liberalness.
Just dey play.

Why would white women attend shiloh?? You KNOW FULL WELL that they are not that religious on average. You're being disingenuous!

White men also don't believe in "destiny helpers". They believe in building themselves and their societies.

They also don't accuse their mothers of being a witch 💀

YOU IDIOT!!

Maj196:
No be old woman oo. Na young girl and she no get front and back. Na so I go meet my black babe wey package oo

So why aren't you married and living happily ever after?

gentlemate00:
In 1998 i bought a flowers for my girlfriend before i left the her house the flower was dumped in trash bin fast forward in 2011 i bought a flower for my girlfriend( Singaporean) well after 6 month the flowers still in the same place she kept it and nurture it. Been outside the country for 14 years never date Nigerian women i don't have anything again them to be sincere its just i don't have stamina for wahala. Cheers

You're pained about what happened in 1998??

And I never knew flowers could last for
6 months??

Maj196:
You dey craze, I get white babe b4 and she flat me na fine boy no cap and mumu like you suppose know say no be all of them dey flat. Ewu

B4? Why are you not living happily ever after with your white queen? Wetin happen?

Theunbothered:
Do you read any online platform where dating is discussed aside from nairaland?

I'm genuinely asking.

Answer the question please.

Theunbothered:
You're just being dishonest at this point.

This one just brought out the whataboutism card and ignored everything I said.

I'm talking about the average Nigerian woman's selfcentredness, constant begging and bad communication you're talking about celebrities, what is the correlation?

If there's bad women everywhere why ARE NIGERIAN WOMEN being singled out in each and every country as bad for long term datin g?

If you want to enable Nigerian women's shitty behaviour that trickles down into all sectors go ahead, it won't stop me highlighting it and talking about my own experience any chance I get.

Who is singling Nigerian women as bad for long term dating??

TELL ME. I genuinely want to know.

Last time I checked, they aren't familiar with us like YOU.

Silentgroper:
Yeah, i've met chics 4rm guinea and senegal... They're average height which has them shorter than an average cameroonian girl whom is taller.

Lol you're joking.

Silentgroper:
Central africans are d tallest group out there..

West african chics are short.. Tall chics are nt d majority here

Lol have you met chics from Senegal, Gambia, Guinea, Mali?

What country has the tallest women in Central Africa?

SSpeter:
Firstly I have never seen anyone ask a lady that question, I only read about it. The men in Nigeria I know are classy hardworking guys. Like I said, it is all about your circle. I cannot relate with Nigerian men asking such questions before I have not experienced it in my circle.

Secondly a Pakistani would not come online to post this, a Pakistani in Britain is timid and you can easily see the difference between those born in Britain and those that migrated. I live and work in Britain so I know

So because you've never seen it, that mean they don't ask the question?

Yes there is indeed a difference between immigrant Pakistanis and western pakistanis like this lady. That doesn't erase her Pakistani origins.
There is also a difference between immigrant Nigerians and British Nigerians.
I knew before I opened this topic, it was a fob Nigerian asking the question.

SSpeter:
I do not know you neither do you know me. The guys you mingle with are in your circle so if you have terrible fellows in your circle, it is no fault of mine. There are Pakistani's who have British citizenship and the identity as British.

Yen yen yen. You know what I'm talking about.
Men in Nigeria ask the question all the time, so why is it hard to believe that he would do this?
The pretence of all of you here makes me sick. It's casting you in a bad light.

When you said: "The British are tricker than any sapiens on our planet"
Did that comment apply to this lady ?
If you knew she was Pakistani, would you have said that?

Thundafireseun:
I’m a very gentle guy…
I have noticed that I might never win this argument

So I decided to run for my sanity sake

Because I have given my explanation why he is wrong,

Thundafireseun:
Sharon please have a lovely evening

Lol.

Family affair- Mary J Blige

pocohantas:
It is a lot to take in from your own men. I saw a post on NotUrTypicalWoman. She said the myth that black men are the most desired was started by black men and butressed by black women. But black men would never waste a minute to remind black women that they are gorilla looking and the very least desired. Whereas even the desire they claim foreign women have for them is mostly out of lust/fetish and when it isn't that, these foreign women target the rich athletes, never next door guys. Same basis they deride black women for (sex objects and gold digging).

Anything goes as long it isn't BLACK.

Sis, they are not your men. Any nigerian man that dates out because he thinks he can do better than you, isn't your man.

Your man is the one that wants to marry and sire kids with women that look like him.

pocohantas:
White woman has a boyfriend and still wan knack Naija guy.

Naija guy: White women are straight forward. They are open with their sexual expectations. They can just knack you and go. No fake love. #TeamForeignGirls

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Naija girl has a bf and wants to knack Naija guy.

Nairaland guy: Nigerian women are oloshos. Borehole pùssy. I pity who marries these ones. They can fck for indomie and egg.

Another Nairaland guy: Which indomie? Useless girls with itchy pù**y. They must want to knack.

Another Nairaland guy: Then when they are evenings newspapers they will go to Shiloh. Naso one wan trap me enter marriage. I just dey fu** am. Mumu dey wait for ring.

Yet another Nairaland guy: Once I leave Nigeria, nothing fit make me date Naija girl again. Useless entitled oloshos.

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Dearest Naija women, this too shall pass.

You saw that too!!

White women are sexaully straight forward but Nigerian women are promiscuous.

kingot:
because nah me dy pay for the nacking

Just do what you came there for and comot.

You go explain tire.

It is your lust that's making you sing their praises, not that white women are actually a better option because stats show that interracial relationships with WW and BM last the least.
Most fresh off the boat Nigerian men don't qualify for white women anyway.


Once you get to the UK, learn the culture and traditions for about 4 years before putting yourself on the dating scene.

Don't go and make a mess of yourself by asking if a white woman is a virgin.

Jesus clearly doesn't have an issue with it, so what's your problem?

Gordson:
It is what it is

Travel and go and get your ego bruised.

Thundafireseun:
How did you know he was just nosey ??

When the manipulative girl said she was trying to make him feel comfortable??

Do you know exactly what she was doing to comfort him ??

Why else would he ask the question? Was he her potential husband

As a Brit, I've explained already on this thread, by making him comfortable she meant by smiling and making small talk. That's the culture here. But immigrant men mistake that and think the women is interested.

That the culture, everybody is taught to smile and be friendly! Nothing to do with you!

She is not white by the way, she's from Pakistan but still British.

xband:
In the west here, our women are in all sizes and sharp. But one thing you will notice about western women is that they love artificial looks a lot. When you start noticing, make up, nose ring and leg chain, just know you are dealing with a western lady.

Have you seen central african women?

Hmm..West Africans can have different looks so it's hard to say. But outside of East Africa, they are the next tallest group

But in my observations, central Africans have a distinct round button nose

Countersam:
But whats wrong in the question, na simple question. Na same girl go dey find and pray for husband later, would virginity matter to her by then?

That's the point. Is the housemate her potential husband??

He isnt concerned. He was just nosey!

SSpeter:
How did you know the guy asked the question in a silly and rude way? I am not trying to justify that the lady is lying, I am only stating that you and I do not have have enough premises to reach a conclusion. The British are tricker than any sapiens on our planet

You know damn well that Nigerian men in reality go about asking women that same question in Nigeria.

Your pretence stinks!!!

And the woman isn't white, she is from Pakistan!

ashawopikin:
Which Nigerian man you know?

Keep deflecting.

Gordson:
Social cue kwa, same Nigerian girls that'll do all that to a guy and if the guy didn't act on it will later call him ode (mumu) wey no sharp.

hahaha

That might be the case in Nigeria, but over here smiling is just a way to show friendliness.

You guys always love to think you're special