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I see you.

The baby doesn't understand what he's saying.

Zxcvbnmghtr:
Which one of them has a Igbo lineage which you can associate with their fears of the seas and oceans? The Jews?!

Delusion.

SultanOfPuna:
Never judge a book by its cover
Besides I don't intend for my sister's to make the same silly mistakes I made

Too late.

ashawopikin:
you as a Nigerian, you see this kind of babe wey don open eye like that, shey you go ask her if she be virgin? Na wetin carry u come uk?

You know that Nigerian men ask that question to women all the time, stop pretending like you dont know this.

PaulOtl:
Sharon ... how do I say this...ok, at least I wouldn't just leave you talking to yourself alone, nau. Consider that I didn't make you look like a fool or a mad woman.
Jeez...some others would have left you to your folly. Cut me some slack, sweetheart.
Alright tag along. Find me on the thread if you still wanna banter. Not that I'm expecting anything different or interesting from you, but I'll try and indulge you sha.
Ciao.

Back again!

PaulOtl:
Haha. Triggered. So predictable.
Typical of our women.

They can never resist the urge to " shalaye " their way out of anything.
This is now stale. 🚶🚶
Sharon, let me not live rent-free in your pretty head tonight (it's night here ) oh. I've left your matter to go get entertained by some other news feed. You can stay stuck here, if you like. I'm going to that thread about an indefinite strike looming, on front page. Just in case you still want to kepp trail and wail.
Next , jare...

You really don't stick to your word do you? I thought I was supposed to be ignored.

PaulOtl:
Deal with it, 1Sharon.
Deal with it. Next time, maybe you just try to adhere to a simple directive (I simply stated it), to avoid this sort of scenario, since you seem not to like the outcome.
Umm...try not to bring my attention back to this issue after this reply. That's if you can do this.

Look at you. I've quoted you again, what you gonna do? Hypocrite.

PaulOtl:
1sharon, partly ignored.
Sorry, just had to as soon as I saw a mention. I clearly stated resist the urge to mention me, but I guess the urge was just too strong, wasn't it.
Immediately I saw the pink in the moniker, I skipped the entire comment, all the way, to just quote and respond. Have a good night.

But you can come here and quote other people? The audacity.

You can ignore my comment but you'll defo see it

Wujio:
Enough to buy your entire lineage stugot

Exactly! You can't answer the question. Hypocrite.

Wujio:
Will you keep quiet dia or i blow up your phone. Who are you to label a question as peoples obsession. If uoure a hoe, deal with it. Let same people seeking other sane people ask whatever question it pleases them to ask

How much do you have in your account?

How big is your dick?

PaulOtl:
The story is half-baked... Trying to make the fella comfortable...Were you supposed to be intimidating to him in the first place? Or what exactly was she trying to do...
Such a condescending kind of approach.aybe she expected the brother to be intimidated or humbled by her presence ( as a foreign chick, lol ), but guy man was rather outspoken and gave her a piece of his obscene mind instead
Chia...Naija I hail y'all. No chills.

Since you said you live in the UK, you've either chosen not to integrate or you're new.

You should know that white men hardly ask that kind of question. It's often african or Arab men that obsess over things like that.

You should know what she means by making him comfortable. She was probably smiling too much at him and he mistook that as invitation to approach her and start misbehaving. Not just Nigerian but immigrant Indian men are not used to women being friendly to them. That's why they're the demographic that's often charged with sex crimes. That's just the truth abeg.

Not just women, but people in Nigeria hardly smile at others.

livenija:
u dey pay for rent at all? No b ur mama ot with friends u dey with

That is why I said it sounds crazy. I can't relate because I live on a tree.

Paying yearly rent sound crazy.

wrongnumber:
And in your mind you freaking think any sane man will because of this ask if a lady is a virgin... Common.

YOU common! Nigerian men ask the question all the time. Even on this forum, don't you bloody see it?

He wasn't gravely concerned about her being a virgin, he was just nosey!

Vision101:
Lies and attention seeking only.

1) Average UK national with their racist mentality will hardly accept to share apartment with a black more so femal/male.

2) The co-tenant is a fee paying person therefore the issue of being kicked out does not arise. She can only ask to be relocated. No favour is done. Therefore there's nothing like trying to make him comfortable.

She is a Pakistani. She is another person of colour, she's not white. If she decided to houseshare with a black man, that shows she's open minded.

If you make another housemate uncomfortable, best believe they are going to get rid of you or the other party. You don't get to act as you wish because you pay rent.
Your rights end where someone else's begin.

By making him "comfortable" as a Brit, I'm certain she meant by smiling, making small talk and maintaining eye contact. That's the culture. New immigrant men misunderstand this and think the woman is showing interest. And that's the same reason they're disproportionately charged with sex crimes in the UK.

Why is it so hard to believe he asked if she's a virgin? Don't Nigerian men ask women that question all the time?

IamMobisola:
This is why these people easily accuse you Nigerian men abroad of rape and sexual assault because it is always difficult to prove your innocence because of the way you people are so perverted!!
Disgusting

Just look at them fighting for their life in these comments. Asking for proof and calling her a liar.

As if that very question isn't the type of questions Nigerian men typically ask of women in reality. Even on this forum, they make such comments.

pansophist:
As a boyfriend, you visited your girlfriend's parent for the first time, and met them arguing with the carpenter that they still owe him 20k for his workmanship.

Should the boyfriend pay the 20k, or not?

🤣🤣🤣 Good one.

I will sitdown as the visitor that I am. But I can help serve and clean up though.

McStoic:
So she being a female shares a flat with a male? No one is taking note of that..

That is the culture. Women and men can live together and nothing happens. I've lived with 3 men before.

Amotolongbo:
The guy is a he-goat who thinks every gesture from a lady is seductive and an inviting sign for sexual activity.

In case you don’t know, most ladies in UK give you some smiles, chat and activities to make you feel very comfortable, that is the courtesy they have been trained to have since childhood, though fake and not sincere. If any lady does that in Nigeria, it will definitely be seen as a romantic invitation from a girl. That is the natural British way, unlike the American girls.

The foolish guy thought the lady was “falling” for him, hence the audacity to ask her that question.
The guy is even lucky that the lady didn’t report the case to the authority, then he will understand how to comport in a strange land

Many of you in Nigeria wouldn’t learn until you leave your country to go and disgrace and embarrass yourself and your generation in the western world

Thank you !! They don't understand social cues of the West at all. That's why they always make a mess of themselves and eventually have to find a wife from back home.

Over here, we're taught to smile, make small talk and eye contact. But immigrant men don't get it and think it's an invitation to approach. Or they think you're being cheap.

wrongnumber:
Call the police cos a man asked in the course of conversation if a lady is a virgin.

There was a day I met a very beautiful lady and I asked her what my chances are on a scale of 1 to 10 if I woo her and she said ZERO, I told her that her response is very harsh and she said that's because she is a lesbian.

I now asked if she has ever been with a man and she just smiled and said NO.

I can tell you that this lady in question is most likely manipulative.

Why ask a question if you don't want the answer?

Lol. This is why they eventually go to Nigeria to marry. It's always the Fobs/ international students.

Kestolove:
but ade gold said he deflower her

Nigerian men always love to lie about deflowering their wives! Even if it was true, why announce it??

UptownVibes:
Na why the fish smell u carry all about.. Same gynecologist told a frd of mine that she can use clean water and fingers without nails in there,and that she must not use soap.. Note: Not your regular gynecologist in nigeria o .. You asked who I am,right? I am who I am. At least I don't smell fish, like those who can't wash their Vjay properly.. Lol
And who are those? They are those with fish smell,that can't stop mentioning me on here. Have a nice day!

I'm supposed to listen to you and take your word for it over what professionals say?

Here is a source from neither one of us:

https://bloom-obgyn.com/vaginal-hygiene-dos-and-donts/

You're the type of illiterate man that will say his wife isn't a real woman for giving birth via CS 🤡🤡🤡

Well well well..why did my post get hidden?

There is a conspiracy that p Diddy did it

Fountainofyouth:
But that is exactly what your people do to foreigners in your country especially nigerians, they legally come to your country but when the xenophobic psychosis spring up in your head again, you add the innocents and the guilty as one then destroy their property and kill them, you all have shouted it to high heavens including your politicians that you do not want Nigerians in your country, yet you shamelessly want to be on a Nigerian forum without being provoked, when you do same in your country.

Yes the Internet is free for all, you can go to other sites no one can stop you, if you have an atom of shame you shouldn't be on a forum of people you hate to see in your country.

Sis! Sit this out. The issues South Africans have with have Nigerians has everything to do with Nigerian men

Stop fighting for Nigerian men that go to South Africa and bash Nigerian women, just to sleep with SA women. The tension between South Africans has been ignited by Nigerian men. E no concern Nigerian women.

Double cheeked up on a Thursday afternoon. Hella ass the sun is still up, my nigga.