₦airaland Forum

Quality20:
maybe they don't want to be criticized by Yoruba and southern press/NGOs in general. And besides,times have changed, nobody wants a wife who can't take care of herself these days.
You know here in the south its even an abomination to marry or sleep with teenagers, because we all believe that they shd either be in school or serving their parents at those ages

Osobi32:
When the house help cares more than the wife, when the house help shows more love than the wife, when the house help is always present attending to his needs even without him telling her what to do..... Madam it becomes natural for the man to start seeing the beauty in her.

Silentgroper:
Hell fvcking yeah

Maybe nt a house though..

Tallesty1:
It's not just men. When you delegate all your responsibilities within your family (with the exception of intimacy, of course) to someone else, that person essentially becomes your partner's partner.

Marriage goes much deeper than what many people think.

Remember the story of Joseph in Egypt when the king placed him in charge of his household?

That's right; the king's wife was so attracted to Joseph that she tried to rape him.

I'm not justifying their actions, but when a maid cooks, serves, cleans, and takes care of the man and the kids, etc., she ends up assuming more of a wife's role than that of a maid.

You're essentially delegating your position to her, and if she's good at it, she might as well do it wholeheartedly.

If I were a judge, I'd rule that the husband cheated on his maid with the wife, not the other way around, as she's fulfilling more of the traditional wife's duties for him than the actual wife.

Silentgroper:
Oh! so what gift do we long for? Boxers and singlet ... U must be joking

izonborn098:
If ur husband happen to sleep with ur house help then their is something in the maid that u don't get..
Why do women Bleep gate man and neighbor?

Wawelexy:
Since she said a life is at stake, I will suggest that you help if you can... Moreover, she said you should lend and not give her, why not test her if you can afford it and see if she will refund you. But remember that you mustn't lend someone money you can't afford to loose.

Carcholce:
You are shifting post from the original comment. The comment I engaged Samantha in wasn’t about a “car gift” but expensive gifts. Expensive is subjective.


Anyways, let’s agree I agreed with you. Take it as a gift from me, an expensive one at that.

Carcholce:
Ah, where did the entitlement come in?

Everyone differs. Timaya did it does not mean Muyiwa also did it. Using timaya as an example shows a lot about you and how you see things. Next time try to use people that have a working relationship with no holding back as an example. We have millions of them around us.

UyaiIncomparabl:
And they claim "only men" can love without conditions and clauses attached. I'm yet to meet such man/men.

Carcholce:
But you are not timaya.

Carcholce:
If you can’t do it now, you can’t automatically start it in marriage.

bunnae:
Woke people would say stuffs like these are not spiritual and Africans believe too much stuff.

Meanwhile The white man makes tons of money making movies that depict spiritual and supernatural stuff. They know these things happen.

oz4real83:
I read this on dailymail, uk , it is just a confirmation of what we have always known that many are mad, few are roaming

Kog45:
This is one is not a record. I have a friend who is worst than this, his disability oh my God is pathetic but is married with kids and the kids looked like him,no need for DNA but till date am always seeing his wife as a real woman

LINSAR:
Bro I'm not your average Nigerian. Tell that to Nairalanders who have never owned an international passport before.

ThothHermes:
You need therapy

luminouz:
Yes, they are. I'm talking about her very degrading way of talking about innocent kids, calling them half-breeds!!! Kids are kids whether mixed or not, what's wrong with you? Are you so far gone that you don't know reality again?

Who go love you, with your fish lips for dp?

I just dey pity you. You dey UK and you no come get character again...and you think men go tolerate that nonsense. Winter is coming and I wish you well with your thick winter furs!!!

LINSAR:
Fossils can give me papers, properties, and peace of mind. They can't cheat.
What can Nigerian women give?
This is why Nigerian women abroad are single to stupor.

LINSAR:
1sharon
This one is not a fossil afterall😌

Kajaard:
Your submission is dumb, extremely dumb. You just exposed your extremely low IQ.

Don’t let your jealousy and abject low self esteem and inferiority complex cloud your judgement.

So what would you say about the Millions of mixed race people that have been in existence for thousands of years without having deformities and albinism as you say? I hope you know Latinos are mixed races having being mixed for thousands of years? Same with Puerto Ricans and other caribbean people? Pathetic and myopic submission clouded with jealousy.

Hide your head in shame.

BIZNess123:
I will Marry a white woman..so that my child will think like them... coupled with pretty face and freshly baked skin

luminouz:
That's a condescending word and you know it. It's funny how y'all get ticked off at the mention of white women and stuff.
Madam UK, I hope you keep that same energy when someone talks about your child that way

luminouz:
That's a weird ass way to tell someone to back off marrying another race!!!

Even calling them half-breed children? Dafuq is wrong with you? 😡😡😡

ThothHermes:
You're rambling.