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You better learn how to live with people so you can find wife.

No woman will marry you with this attitude.

maasoap:
What about other things mentioned?
One, he didn't have Bsc
Two, no travel documents
Three, far away from the airport
Four, no traces of admission. And the lists go on

I really don't know. I'm taking the whole thing with a pinch of salt

Eunoiaa:
And you have a porous brain as well, LMAO.

Just another symptom on the list of your personal infirmities. Not that I am surprised, though.

But since you shamelessly want to play dumb, I will jog your memory.

The (unfortunately) now deleted thread that Suk.kot created saying unmarried women should not travel out of the country, do you remember it?

And poco.hantas and cococ.andy's comments on it?

Is the knowledge coming alive?

Do you remember commenting on it or not? And what did you say to the OP after the series of back-and-forth comments by those ladies disagreeing with the OP?

You basically dunked on them. Used the word "woke" and some to imply they were lying or deceptive about the opinions they were sharing. Like they were some fakes who were pretending about marriage.

Now, you may deny all you want and I don't expect you not to do so.

Take the plausible deniability route the nonexistent thread has offered you.

What is it that I said personally to Coco and Poco? If you cannot tell me what it is, you can just shut it.

Now how does my comment apply to both ladies when Coco is married and from what I read, Poco herself is in a serious relationship?

Like is said before, you're the type that agrees with only what sits right with your emotions. Carry on doing that.

Persephone1:
The fallacy you made on the first page that Most Nigerian Women do not KNOW/UNDERSTAND what panty liner is. It is false! They know and understand but they mostly don't use because of economic factor.
Not Knowing or understanding something is different from not using it because of cost.

If you check through, I have emphasized this over and over where I disagree with your post.

Well, we can agree to disagree

brain54:
Do you mean menstrual discharge…


I ain’t no woman. But I am curious!

Normal discharge

Albertone:
She's not based in Nigeria. She's in UK so.
When she was in Nigeria, liners might not be common. It's probably when she went abroad that she got to know what panty liners are.

Needless to say that she still holds the notion that liners aren't common in Nigeria.

Mrbrown brought it up. He also doesn't live in Nigeria. Coincidence? I think not

Eunoiaa:
Lmao.

And interestingly, it was a sub/shade to Poco and Coco in another comment of hers I was referring to up there.

You can imagine my shock then, and my laughter now, seeing this...what...kissing up she's tryna do?

Ko te pa mo.

She will be alright.

Can you show me where I have ever shaded Poco and coco?

I have NEVER had an issue with any of the above posters.

Again, you're a moroń.

Persephone1:
Lol you and I know you made a fallacy which was corrected. It won't take anything from you to acknowledge this error and move on. The deflection and cajole ( to Poco) tactics you are using is not necessary. It is putting you off in a bad light.

For excessive discharge ( again you contradict ) any sensible lady who is conscious of her health would get a liner or any alternative aside tissue which is totally unhygienic and risky.

It's not a cultural thing either, more economical. Like I typed earlier, some people can't afford it, why some struggle to get. But that we don't know or understand liners? Omoooh that one go far o

What fallacy ? Exactly. Ladies that are conscious. I wouldn't say most Nigerian women are conscious and this also applies to Nigerians at large before anybody starts.

kkins25:


Have mercy upon us!
Cease fire, cease fire. I repeat, cease fire.

Lol if it doesn't apply let it fly..

pocohantas:
Please, tell her to leave her vagina open like that (whatever that means). The obsession with stuffing her vagina with tissue paper is not good for it.

I once saw a lady say she doesn't have vaginal discharges irrespective of the time of the month. It is ignorance that has made men demonise vaginal discharge and some women go with it to claim they are NEAT. Discharges are normal and any woman that pays attention to these discharges would understand her body and know when not to have unprotected sex with her man or should I say husband.

The only time you should have a problem with your discharge as a woman is when it is STINKY or has an abnormal colour.

Encourage her to buy panty liners. Someone said Nigerian ladies do not know panty liners. I beg to disagree. I used to use Molped, but I changed to Kotex recently. I have been using panty liners since forever. They are not the cheapest things to buy for their sizes and number, but I buy them. I have one unused pack and I have gone a third into another. Normally I buy like 6 at a time and forget about it for months.

Sis you're educated and very exposed. I just knew my comment couldn't apply to you

Persephone1:
You are deviating but at least you have agreed that we understand/ know what panty liner is. The argument now is we don't use it to absorb discharge. Lol. Are you basing this generalization on your personal experience? Or statistical data from a social experiment. I really don't love to argue in the abstract.

Tampons and liners are two different things. People use tampons but not common. But this is about liners not tampons

Let's face it, would you say the average nigerian woman reaches for some pantyliners, tissues or nothing when having excess discharge?
This is cultural and economical.
I'm not shaming anyone, it's not a crime.

Delightsome2023:
what other contributions do you have on this forum asides from being stupid

Sorry sir, does the shoe fit?

UYEMDO35:
What do you mean now? Wetin concern pastor 4 wetin we dey talk here..... So cuz I want to get rich by all means I should now establish church abi, and start extorting my members from their hard earn income.

My dear, life is never like that, you do not try to force life and when you do, you will get to regret later... Been at my mid-20 still at my father's comfort zone not that am not regretting... I feel bitter about it and what can I do.... Sometimes I get some job offers outside the city but can't go due to lack of money

If you pay tithes, you're in no position to speak

Persephone1:
Again, wrong assertion. I don't know what pads, liners or pant is but my sisters from Gabon told me that in Nigeria most if not all jumbo sanitary pads comes with at least 5 liners aside the soft and heavy flows pads. I haven't seen a lady or woman use these liners as nose mask or mouth cover. So I believe that they use them down there, like down down there between their thighs. . They also told me, one can get liners (alone)in supermarkets in Nigeria. Isn't this wonderful?

If you had insinuated that the average Nigerian "girl" does not "use" liners, then maybe I would have agreed to that. I mean yes there are girls from poor homes whose main interest will be in feeding or survival . But when you type Nigerian WOMEN do not KNOW or UNDERSTAND panty liners? That is a big Misfire

Ofcourse they exist in Nigeria. Its just not popular to use to absorb discharge.

The same thing with tampons, they're exist in Nigeria but they aren't popular. They demonise tampons.

Eunoiaa:
Is this a part of your effort at attempting to work through your deeply-rooted subconscious issues as I suggested?

Oh, well. I must commend you for listening at least, but I'M SORRY, I can't recall anywhere in my post where I volunteered to be a (human) board where you can bounce your thoughts and shit off.

I am no therapist or sacrificial empath.

I ain't doing this back-and-forth crap with you.

You've moved from saying I have insecurities to being ignorant to now having a go at my spiritual belief. 😂😂

Aww, must be hard trying to find something (about me) to latch onto, isn't it?

I love as you've inadvertently admitted to you making snide remarks about other women, as you obviously know @ bolded. We both know what I am talking about, and so I am done here.

It's one thing for you to share a generic "fact", it's another thing to go out of your way to do so condescendingly, while subbing others, who were sharing reasonable opinions no less. And this is just one out of many instances.

You can have a nice life or not, and leave your problems to fester away - your choice.

Okay most women don't want to be married and only a tiny percentage do. Does that make you feel better? 👍🏽
Opinions are only reasonable afterall, if you like them

UYEMDO35:
Pray you shouldn't be in others people's shoe..... Do u think life is easy like that... If you happen to find yourself in environment that's uncivilized do u think u will be able to meet up with your daily needs.. dis your statement alone can Make an innocent person to go into crime.

Can't meet up with their daily needs. But somehow 7 out of 10 richest pastors are Nigerians.

Seagodess:
you're a goat.. Because you had it easy doesn't mean people staying with thier parents at 40 are lazy.. have seen a guy trying to leave alone doing odd jobs and lossing his life in the process.. even you that's typing Rubbish can go back to your village house tomorrow.. just thank God for grace

40?💀

Eunoiaa:
Ask your reflection in the mirror that, 'she-g*at'.

Yeah, you're just proving even more that you're the typically slow Nigerian

Eunoiaa:
You easily attack women, needlessly bring them into conversations that doesn't even warrant it, but na me you wan manipulate with "you attack other women who share their opinions?"


Like I should give you a solidarity speech over calling what you're doing out?


Walai, you don jam ***** .

Are you dense? Is this topic not about women?

Eunoiaa:
You clearly are displaying rabies symptoms, and more so, the last stages of it, 'cause I don't want to believe my comment hit this much of a nerve. 😂

It breaks my heart, though.

I mean who would have thought that unlike the women you attack, the ones who expose or sell their bodies, YOU couldn't get treatment? Or afford a place decent enough where sick animals aren't roaming about?


You must be an high-grade clown if you think I will answer your stupid question. Perhaps you should direct it to your mom who is amongst the lot of us who do not know what a panty liner is.

Again @bolded, pleeeease, stop coloring me shock, I beg you.

Unprovoked, you're the one who tried to make other women seem ignorant.

On another thread as well, you were the one throwing a snide remark at women who were just sharing their disagreement on a marriage topic, talmabout, 'don't take those woke women above seriously,' and you dare play innocent over you wanting to be picked?


Alaye, jo jo jo.

Your comment hit that much of a nerve, yet you know me and I don't know you.
You must think I share the same cesspit as you. I'm guessing the Holy spirit must have ministered and told you all of this?


If you said I'm trying to make other women look ignorant, put me straight. If panty liners are thing, what's the name of the popular brand? Ofcourse some women may have an inkling of it, but its use isn't widespread.

Did you see me smile sheepishly at the uninformed utterances of the OP? Or did I put him straight? I'm not a biased person. Anybody can get it!

Do most women desire marriage yes or no? You can miss me with your denial. Most people desire love.

Eunoiaa:
I know a PICK-ME like you isn't talking about insecurities? 🤣🤣🤣

Go and look in a mirror, and address whatever it is that always make you want to portray yourself as being better than the next woman, deer. Especially (stranger) women online.

You're very stupid. I can see the word "pick-me" has come to Nigeria.

Who wants to be picked by your stupid primitive men? Look at the title of this thread.

People like you will turn around to say women aren't all the same but will shame and attack the ones that have different opinions.

I'm not surprised you didn't answer my question, because you don't have one.

It's the same way you Illiterates demonise tampons, because you don't understand it. Majority of you are daft. Men & women alike. Both of you can get it.

Lol.

3 out of 10? Wow

She looks like she's in her late 40s-early 50s

ednut1:
there are women who will accept it and even move in with him after marriage. While many ladies will reject him. Shebi na one wife/ babe he need find am

Even men won't accept women living at home at that age. They will need to date her like she's a teenager.

No.

Eunoiaa:
OMGGGGGG.

Can you believe I saw this your comment, and I saw Folake's own saying, "na girl be that?" and my mind immediately went to her!

That one lady. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I fuking knew it had to be her. I swear, her comments, especially about women, just dey always muzz me, and this one, unsurprisingly, no less. Kai.

What is the popular brand of liners in Nigeria?😏

You didn't see my comment telling OP that discharge in women is perfectly normal. You instead jumped on one that hit your insecurities

Persephone1:
Actually we don't use/ know/ understand what pads are. We use leaves here in Nigeria.
Moimoi leaves to be precise.

When it's about that time of the month we go to the market to get this leaves, place the leaves between our thighs then we hold in place with ropes. We don't know what pants are too. And some of us grow these leaves in our compounds to save cost as well.

Lol. Let me rephrase, you might be familiar with liners, but I'd say most aren't

Men love to accuse women of putting them in the friend zone. But some of you intentionly pretend to be friends with a woman knowing you wanted something deeper.

Persephone1:
This assertion is ridiculous. Nigerian women do not know/understand what panty liners is?

Really?

The ones I have or have seen with ladies must be rocks then or maybe I'm not a Nigerian.

Pads yes, but not panty liners.

Pepperdemisback:
Their cousin did it and telling lies.

She is a witch. They sent her from the coven. This is her first project.

Yeah! I don't believe this narrative either

You called up the UK school and they told you nobody by that name enrolled there? Data protection laws in the UK are heavy.

If you aren't the police, why would they release that information to you? Who are you?