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I don't know why people in Nigeria always want Nigerians abroad to fix the mess that they didn't create.

If they attempted it, I'm sure none of them will sit and listen.

Babamide:
If a guy borrows money and doesn't pay back, them no born am well to come borrow something else again.
It used to be a good strategy to borrow guys money back then. If you don't return it, at least I can be rest assured I would never hear from you again.

OK. What if a woman borrows money?

ravensckar:
This your habit of always standing logic in its head is unbecoming. Must you always exhibit your antithetical reasoning all the time ni?

Them go dey talk A, you go dey talk B. Wetin gan self?

Stick to the talking point and stop swinging back & forth like a pendulum. The matter under discourse is about how you ungrateful you folks are.

#Picks_tooth

Lol. You tried.

Emeskhalifa:
Wtffff You serious about that?
I feel like vomiting right now

Sorry o. Did you have a crush on him?

Mr "we women this, we women that" has viewed and passed

Waoow😂

So you want to pretend like men don't lend each other money and never pay back?


Why didn't you give the money to your fellow man?

jorion:
For saying the truth.

Let me rephrase her words. I want my sons to be honourable in marriage but just not with a Nigerian girl because they are mostly HOES and GOLD DIGGERS.

Hope this clarifies things

You're a slow one aren't you?

Pochettino:
Women did nothing to me
I'm one myself

I'm just being truthful because we women tend to get intoxicated with power.

Sure you are😂

Pochettino:
I will forever love pussies

Emeskhalifa:
Wow really?

Aren't you the one with a foreign gig? (noise cancellation headphone, getting paid in dollars to write articles etc? Aren't you the one? How are you able to cope with being a proprietress??

Bless your heart


That's a man like you with saggy hairy balls.

I'm guessing OP became a transgender or is a lesbian.

Pochettino:
I will forever love pussies

franchasofficia:
What I said is applicable to most Nigerian marriages, including mine and virtually all my married friends and siblings, so I don't know what you mean by 20% of Nigerian men, you could be right, but I only talk about things I know based on my own experience

Stop the cap.

Afodot0022:
She has right to take them their own my consent or approval. She took them their for months and not just a regular visit... Months and you think the right thing to do is not to inform me for doing that untop of kids am taking responsibility on . Pls say something else abeg

You're not taking responsibility for them.

When you wanted to farm off your kids to your mother and daughter, did you care about her approval?

Smilleydr:
you are right though but my pain s just for her not allowing me speak with my daughter.

When you create a broken family, what outcome are you expecting?

BigYash:
Them the so called grandpa should not complain of the money he spent on the kids,since the kids doesn't belong to him alone. The so called grandpa telling him to pay for taking care of his grandkids show the kind of greedy and stupid home or family op married from. Make una dey run deep check before una marry ,una go say no. See the home of devils you married from now.. I pray your kids doesn't end up with the kind of mind their grandpa and mother possess.

The grandad can assist to take care of his grandkids, but it's not his primary duty, don't be disingenuous.

Gerrard59:
Which means the women are way much poorer than the men. What is the difference between six and half-a-dozen?

Yeah sure. Yet if their women don't contribute her share, alot of them won't cope. Some Nigerian women are breadwinners, but because Nigerian women can cover for nonsense, they don't admit in order to keep up appearances.

BigYash:
Common sense far from this one. It's just that op is responsible. Jam irresponsible man,then tell him this rubbish. Infact una for don go dey send people to beg him, because he will make the grandpa bp high..

You took his kids to a place without his consent and you want him to keep paying bills? Blike say you high..

That place is their grandparents house and she has every right to take them there. Do the kids only belong to him?

Smilleydr:
the fact s that some woman are very stupid #Aje#....this thing also happen to me, my daughter s with my baby mama and my baby mama s with her parent, several times I av visited them in Lagos because I base in Abuja, I av been telling my baby mama to come to Abuja and visit me so that we can even start afresh study each other more and do the necessary thing, but to no avail, the funniest part s that I do pay my daughter school fees and still give her some Change for the baby upkeep, but the funniest part s the anytime I tell my baby mama to give my daughter phone so that I can even speak to her walahi this girl will just be given me different excuse, she doesn't allow me to speak to my daughter unless if I call the grandmother, and this girl only call me when she want to ask for the baby school fees, but the fact now s that I want to even stop sending her any Money, because I think she s proving she s doin everything alone in the face of my daughter and her family.

Since you care so much about your daughter, take full custody of her. Put your money where your mouth is.

You want to study someone that you already have a baby with? Shouldn't you have done that before having a child with her? Why else should she call you aside asking for her the baby's school fees? Are you her husband?

GothamCities:
There's no truth in it. It's pure ignorance.

The pastor's work is spiritual while the members' work is physical. The pastor can pray and influence physical provision for the members because the members have services and goods they're selling. By commanding favour on the members' business, their services and goods will sell and produce money. Meanwhile, the pastor has no service or goods to sell other than his spiritual job of helping those who sell services or goods. After the prayer of the pastor is answered, it is the responsibility of the members to support the pastor to keep him and his spiritual work alive.

However , pastors do share material things with members too whenever they need help. He shares with them and also prays for them.

This comment made sense in the spirit.

Down2earth101:
Funny how we tend to sound smart but end up sounding the total opposite


When your pastor tells you to pray to God for money.. won't God use someone to answer that prayer...

So Ibelieve before your pastor can ask for donations he must have prayed to God... And na human being God go use

So why aren't the church members allowed to ask the pastor for donations?

franchasofficia:
A husband give most women a lifetime financial security/guarantee/provision


No more bothering about shelter/rent.

No more bothering about being broke as the husband now takes care of that.


No more bothering about being unemployed and broke as husband now takes care of her needs and even that of her loved ones in most Nigerian marriages.

That's a nice fantasy world you live in

But in reality only 20% of Nigerian men can afford to all those you listed.

Konquest:
Oh wow! I didn't realize that you have a background in medical genetics. I used to see an older NL profile pic of you wearing a medical uniform, so, I thought you're a professional RN or something but I never thought to ask further. Genetics is indeed a vast field and holds a lot of promise for mankind. There's a lot going on in the gene therapy and stem cell therapy fields which I'm very excited about. I'll ask you some specifics on your career path later.

Thanks for the tip here on her being also on IG. I use the IG app, so, I'll check her handle up later and follow her as well since she seems interesting with her unique Yoruba accent.

In response to your 3rd paragraph, since you already know her handles, I thought you've known her for long and know her real names which I wanted you to tell me, but that can be found out by me down the road though.

I think it's very important for YouTubers to always FACT-CHECK things before uploading videos and posting online. This thread title indicated on the NL frontpage that she's an "Oyinbo woman" and even the video here made it look like she's got a full Caucasian complexion. But looking at some pictures of her via online image search, it's obvious that she's NOT a full Caucasian but has got curly hair like you stated indicating a biracial origin.

Last but not least, your feedbacks here are duly noted.

Ciao.

Are you sure it was me? Don't think I've ever posted a pic in uniform😐 . Okay her name is Ruth Odus but who knows? That could be an alias. I don't know her personally, I've just seen a couple of her skits on social media. I don't even blame the OP, I don't think it was intentional. Lots of Nigerians just aren't familiar with different races of people

Konquest:
1Sharon,

Okay, it seems you've not been spanked in a long time... You deserve to be sent to the naughty corner for some "defrosting" sessions. *Smirk*

Did you read my last post to you at all? If you did, you would have gotten the thrust of my ORIGINAL message. Based off of what I originally saw with my sexy eyes in the video, the lady speaking Yoruba certainly looks like a Caucasian (Oyinbo). But I wasn't speaking in ABSOLUTE terms because I've always known full well that biracial kids can have a vast range of complexions from pale skin tones to caramel skin tones BUT majorly caramel skin tones.

Of course race is JUST a SOCIAL CONSTRUCT. I've always known that "mixed race" or biracial children have an eclectic range of complexions. I NEVER said in absolute terms that mixed race children can't have "pale skin tones" but a vast number of them have caramel complexions based off of genetic variations passed on from their parents.

Last but not least, so, you expect me to head on over to TikTok to ARGUE with "Iyapupaarewa?" You're a badass. lol


I don't have TikTok among the top apps that I use because I'm NOT a big fan of it. I have several travel apps, productivity tool apps, YouTube, IG, Zoom, Skype and other facetime apps for virtual communication on my mobile devices.

Talk to you later. Enjoy the rest of your day.

Ciao.

Because the last part of your post was an appeal to authority. I also have a background in medical genetics, now what?

She may have pale skin like Caucasians but her features and curly hair give her away.

Well, what else do you want me to say? Since you said this:

It's NOT enough to upload some pale complexioned pics and say repeatedly that she's mixed race and then you "clam up" like that. You feel me?

It's left for you to go on her page and see for things for yourself. Her username is the exact same on IG.

Konquest:
@1Sharon,

I'm for real. "Hon, put some respect on my name... Don't lump me among those who call Asians Oyinbo."

Why don't YOU tell us WHO the "White" lady speaking Yoruba in the video is since you know her with your full chest? It's NOT enough to upload some pale complexioned pics and say repeatedly that she's mixed race and then you "clam up" like that. You feel me?

[b]Right, so, MOST mixed race folks have caramel complexions, BUT there's also a vast range of complexions from CARAMEL to PALE skin tones with mixed race (biracial children) as well which segues right into what YOU said in your reply. This is based off of genetic variations passed on from both parents to their children. I remember reading a copy of Ebony Magazine back in the late 1980s which featured an African-American lady whose father is African-American and mother a Caucasian-American. Guess what, she was all White (pale skin) with blue eyes and the unmistakably Caucasian looks. Her other siblings didn't have the same complexion as her... they ALL had darker caramel skin tones.[/b]

It's the same with folks of African ancestry from South of the Sahara who are spread around the world with BROWN complexions BUT there's ALSO a range of complexions among BROWN complexioned folks from dark brown to light brown (fair complexions). I don't use the term BLACK to describe the African skin complexion because the real complexion is BROWN and NOT black.

I have a vast knowledge of genetics gleaned from encyclopedias in my family home library and from school decades back. My biological mother was a senior medical professional before she retired years back too, so, I read all her medical books back in the day long before the internet came into existence and afforded us the opportunity to instantly retrieve targeted information.

Why are you now asking questions? You already stated she is straight Caucasian. Why are you making assumptions and then asking questions later?

It's not enough to upload pale complexioned pics? So how was I to prove to you that mixed race people are not all caramel complexioned? What is your point really?

@ bolded, that's exactly what I said.

Her username is iyapupaarewa. Argue with her and tell her what she is. Since in your eyes mixed race people can't be pale. As if race isn't beyond skintone.

officialwdhtv:
I dont think so...she looks like she lived in Nigeria at some point though

She is mixed race.

Konquest:
Watch the video closely again. She's NOT a mixed race... She's a full-blooded Caucasian with the classic White skin complexion and not the caramel complexion that mixed race folks have. I'd recommend you take more carrot juice and cod liver oil daily for "sexy" telescopic eye sight. *Smirk*

On the other hand, I've seen many online videos of a lot of White folks and non-Whites speaking fluent Yoruba language (without mixing with English) in a lot of countries around the world from Cuba, Brazil, the United States, the UK, Canada, Portugal, Nigeria (those Americans who came to learn further immersion Yoruba from Nigerian Unis in Ibadan and Ile Ife as part of their American University's Yoruba language graduation requirements).

It's speaks of the FACT that the Yoruba language, religion and culture is recognized and respected in the international language and culture ecosystem because of the contributions of the Yoruba Diasporan communities due to the deportations on slave schooners during the trans-Atlantic slave trade especially from the early 1800s to Cuba, Brazil, Venezuela, Trinidad and Tobago, Jamaica, etc, and the relatively more recent Diasporan Yoruba population centers (from the late 1890s) in the United States, United Kingdom, Canada, Germany, Cote d'Ivoire, Ghana, Sierra Leone, etc.

Are you being for real right now? So all mixed race people are caramel complexioned?

Going by your logic, Blake Griffin isn't mixed because his skin is pale.

Nigerians do this all the time and it's annoying, they even label some Asians as "oyinbo"

That woman is mixed race.

goran3310:
true
Africa is a paradise for women. They can eat like pigs and stay attractive. No one wants fat women anywhere anymore.

Most women in Africa are not fat.

Now imagine how tired women are.

Men hate gay men because they can treat them as they treat women.