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Kobojunkie:
A man, in a coma, falsely screamed rape?

JaneYave:
Bad woman!

Phoenixk:
Many of you on this Forum have very minute (pronounced Mai-nute) reasoning capacities

If he will lie & want to con me into a marriage despite knowing his challenges & short comings ,you don't think that is a MASSIVE RED FLAG ?

If he will further buttress such terrible values by asking that we forge important documents,that's not enough to walk away ? Better still RUN AWAY?

To whom a brain is allocated ,sense is expected

This is in response to everyone who mentioned me earlier

JovialJune:
Different type of nomenclature dey this forum sha, this one is feeling like a tiny god, you date them, deceitfully engage them for the purpose of marriage, seduce them to have sex with you, then call them cheap and end the relationship cos they had sex with you their fiancé, and you think all you did was right? you think it will be well with you marriage wise? Abi God no dey heaven dey see you so?

It's a pity you won't come and tell us your story of oceanic tears when married to the one that pretended to be expensive and filled with peaches and cream, cos that is exactly who you will end up with.

blaise26abj:
After they open their legs , did you sleep with them before calling off the engagement ? Who the F are you to tempt ladies that are engaged to you with sex ! Then judge them for falling for someone they love. You are a devil . You are not ready and i pray you don’t fall into the hands of a pretender that will see through your BS then F you up after you commit .

gift0123:
Oga u fit marry woman with a wide and unending hole??
You fit marry ugly or breastless woman??
If you can't do any of those above please stop attacking that lady.. Thanks

Nyascobar1414:
And who asked whether you are big or small...
Chasing clouts

Sermwell:
It's only that can spew this trash! I checked and wasn't disappointed!

MufasaLion:
Lol

This lady never said she wanted a big dick. For her to have left the guy, his dick was very small and it couldn't even last long.

You keep saying it could be worked on, but I hope you know working on such in a marriage is not easy. The guy should go and work on himself before thinking of marriage. He was not even straightforward with the lady with his genital problem.

MufasaLion:
You are right. That's still under assumptions. This particular lady already tested the guy's dick and she ain't cool with it.

MufasaLion:
I would be sad but I always respect people's decision. I wouldn't want her to cheat on me after marriage.

Anyways, I'm big down here. I can't have such problem with women.

MufasaLion:
I would be sad but I always respect people's decision. I wouldn't want her to cheat on me after marriage.

Anyways, I'm big down here. I can't have such problem with women.

descarado:
People have preferences.
She don't want small dick.
The same way some men hate big boobs.
It's not a turn on for her.

As for the 10mins, I agree it can be worked on. I don't blame that lady.

MufasaLion:
You can deal with it but she can't. Respect her decision and not condemn it.

descarado:
Seriously?

The lady told herself the truth.
She doesn't want tiny dick which may propell her going outside to search for it.

Anonnymoously:
you are a wise man sir

Phoenixk:
Got Engaged to someone who had asked me out years ago ,I wasn't interested but I felt he had been persistent enough ....

Next thing he said as a good Christian he will wait till after the wedding to consummate

It sounded great till someone hinted he may be hiding a health problem

She was right! D was tiny finger small & man cums in 10seconds

He also wanted me to forge some important docs ,I realised our values are very different.... Returned his ring & took a walk

Helper1991:
I got her engaged 2019 after my NYSC, she was in her final year. I met her on facebook, she was a nice girl. Though, as a born again brother I am, she thought I will be bleeping her but to her surprise I didn't do that. Instead I helped her to control herself and drew her closer to God. I engaged her three months into the relationship. She was nice but very aggression. After a year and six months, I discovered that she couldn't be my wife due to the consistent revelations I had at night. I couldn't quit instead, I did 14days fasting asking God to intervent. God did and we separated peacefully. We are still friends til date.

Guyman02:
Yes, we dated for 4 years as students, proposed to her after my NYSC when I secured a job, met her family, discussed my intention and they felt we are not on the same level (full of themselves), later they even claimed that they went to investigate my family in our village and they were told that mental illness runs in our lineage.
They convinced her to abandon our marriage plans which she did instead of fighting for us, I asked her to refund part of the bulk money I gave to her for the marriage preparation which she later did because I wanted a proper closure to the relationship, felt really humiliated, locked myself inside and cried, washed my face and told myself it was time to move on.

Deleted her contact from my phone, never scooped around her social media handles, put aside all our pictures together under a locker and didn't worry myself about her anymore.

Started another relationship with a lady I was close to as friends who was very passionate about me but I didn't look at her because I was faithful to my ex.

Suddenly from the blues, my ex elder sister called me after some months that she has been erratic, cursing everyone for making her to abandon the love of her life and that the family has agreed to our plans for marriage.

Later she called me asking for forgiveness and that it was an Uncle of mine who told her family that mental illness runs in our family because he felt I was marrying into a prominent family and to a girl who works in a big establishment while his own children are scattered.

I simply told her I have moved on and wasn't gonna look back and had already started marriage plans with the lady I mentioned earlier and I even invited her to the superlative wedding we were planning in an exquisite location then.
I used the opportunity to tell her that I am wiser now as I go for only ladies who stand by their men because I am afraid if I show any signs of madness (as my uncle told her family) instead of taking me to a psychiatrist hospital, she will rather take me to a market square so that the madness will become permanent.

Today we are both married to different people and talk freely on general topics anytime she calls me, but I totally avoid making any reference to our 4 years failed relationship to avoid Okafors Law.

halfbloodprince:
I meant it could have gone either way.

luminouz:
She wedded!!!

Sorry I didn't invite you

CSTRR:
You will blame a child for acting like a child?
The responsibility is on the adult.

You are sick.

halfbloodprince:
If she had come out of there with an iPhone 13 by now she’d be on social media telling other girls to use what they have to get what they want, as well as other usual prostitution anthems. Sorry but no pity here. You can’t eat your cake and have it.

MsFaith:
She kept her wedding secret from world people.