There's this notion going on amidst the youths that it's wise to be single and free but is it really the best choice?

i think its weird really. a responsible person should really consider settling down and raising a family.

simplejide:

i think its weird really. a responsible person should really consider settling down and raising a family.

Simple as simplejide.

If someone should think that way. that means there is something wrong somewhere.

arramyjay:

Simple as simplejide.

poster,

It is in some part of Naija.

but it really bothers to know that such taughts could really be in the hearts of some nigerians.
its alarming.

Yes it is the best!!!

Stop the self-denial ojare!

There's no one person on earth who does not want affection.

That's why some people go into depression or become serial killers - cos there's no one to comfort them, talk to them, share their pain or joy when necessary.

Xmas is coming soon - think about being all alone during this time because your friends and family are with their own loved ones.

Again, I aint saying you should kill yourself over it, but stop being in denial.

cant say its best. Everything in life occurs in stages. There is a time that u will be free and single. @ this time u devote ur energy in building ur self esteem. But there comes a time when its obligatary to find a partner you will spend your life with. God has made it this way, for a man or a woman to crave for companionship. If u are @ this stage and u are still desiring to be free and single, then u need counsel.

well spoken bluntpis, well spoken. u hit the nail on the head.

At uni I loved being single and free especially during exam times and in my last year. Now Id love to be in a relationship.
Theres a time for evrythng just as blunt pis said.

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nope,its not,we all need d opposite sex in our lives,smone u wake up wt and smone u go to bed with

wtout them life will be so boring

Danke.:

nope,its not,we all need d opposite sex in our lives,smone u wake up wt and smone u go to bed with

wtout them life will be so boring

If I'm right, I think the poster is trying to ask if it's best if "youth" stay single and free.
Youth, by MY definition means anything below 21. . . . and I think it's best if they stay single and free.
Concentrate on what really matters in life. . . .there's still enough time to do all that.
And probably the boys/men at that age are not even ready for the "love" drama.

I say, stay free and single. . . .

Ebony-Silk:

I say, stay free and single. . . .

i'll remember this.

d veri best!!

tongue in cheek na. Dnt rem. anything

@ Topic.

It's nice and so free to be single. . . .but to be honest, a times I wish am married.

At least I wouldnt bother my head about laying my bed in the morning, doing the dishes and cooking my own meals.
It's good to be married jare

Moyola:

d veri best!!

yea right

sillyboy:

@ Topic.

It's nice and so free to be single. . . .but to be honest, a times I wish am married.

At least I wouldnt bother my head about laying my bed in the morning, doing the dishes and cooking my own meals.
It's good to be married jare

whAt are yu waiting for?   go n marry nau

Ebony-Silk:

If I'm right, I think the poster is trying to ask if it's best if "youth" stay single and free.
Youth, by MY definition means anything below 21. . . . and I think it's best if they stay single and free.
Concentrate on what really matters in life. . . .there's still enough time to do all that.
And probably the boys/men at that age are not even ready for the "love" drama.

I say, stay free and single. . . .

oh,didnt read d topic well then

well it all depends,so many youths r married and loving every bit of it

Carlosein:

yea right

wtchu mean!!

Moyola:

whAt are yu waiting for?   go n marry nau

Do you think it's that easy?
Most girls would act like they will do all those stuffs b4 marriage, only for them to start their women activist thing after marriage.

lol. . . .

so wtz d point of gettin married then. . . if they gon start dhat afta 

Moyola:

lol. . . .

so wtz d point of gettin married then. . . if they gon start dhat afta

No mind me jare. . .
I just wish women would change back to what they should be. .

Do the domestic stuffs while I read the papers and follow the stocks

haa!!!

not in this life time dear . . .

heard of "conjugal roles" yu gota split d chores bitwin yaselves

Moyola:

wtchu mean!!

just trying to convince myself you'd not be breaking any hearts.

haha

But 4 responsibility and Image I'm all up 4 single and free.At times I wish I had a child like when I was 17 or 18 so that I wouldn't hv 2 worry about marriage. As 4 dating I'm cool with that so long as she's Miss Independent. But like d saying goes we can't live without women but we can do without (or is it d other way round ? )

Hummm, not on those cold long nites though!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Moyola:

haa!!!

not in this life time dear . . .

heard of "conjugal roles" yu gota split d chores bitwin yaselves

When it comes to stuffs like that, thats when ladies will come up with such phrases such as "Conjugal roles" etc.
But when it comes to some more financial stuff to keep the home running, you will forget conjugal roles and such phrases. . .  

~smurf:

Hummm, not on those cold long nites though!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

See your mouth. . .oya bo si gbangba kajo. . . .bo si koro ka fo