echobee:
Mind your business . No matter how far lies runs,one day truth go catch am. Dont be d reason for their break up . Shalom

Women always surpoting their fellow even at worst situations tufiakwa..na wa for una oo

Abeg leave the babe alone jo,afterall the borehole no get metre,you fit chop your own too if you wan chop

safarigirl:
everybody's mother is a well-respected woman. Even ashawo sef na struggel dem dey struggle to attain what they are today.

Nigerian men have taught us that once you marry, you're a respectable woman. If ashawo marry tomorrow na 'madam' dem go dey call her.

Right! But I'm not judging the girl here in question, that is why I didn't even talk about the issue. Its her life, she's free to do whatever the hell she likes to do with it.. But as for your generalization, not all women are hoes.

Hmmmm... Tell the girlfriend to tell the guy or you will... Simple.

Better

stanconnect:


Sure bro...that's jst what I have been wondering, cos I don't have any solid evidence..twas very late in the 9t and I couldn't take pictures..even @ that it would have looked childish for me to do that in public...my friend knows very much that am not a talkative and can't make such kind of jokes buh on a second note..he doesn't joke with the girl...that's jst what's getting me worried...I think I should jst be neutral n my advice to him..mayb ask him to be careful and look well before he take any final decision on the girl...thanks for ur advice still.

Baddestguyp:
are u a pròstitùte no offense but u sound like one

yes she was,retired,but not tired

niceeric:

See,young woman, it's enough....you've tried too hard to make a point but sincerely, it isn't working.

There's no justification for prostitution just as there isn't for armed robbery, suicide, ritual killing, et al....be advised, no hoe is right.

let's say you fall ill and need a kidney transplant in 1 week which costs 5 million else you die and your babe decides to do ashawo work for a couple of days, or even sleep with a man that has said amount just once to save your life.

Will you dump her after the surgery cuz of what she did?

BABANGBALI:
yes she was,retired,but not tired

safarigirl:
let's say you fall ill and need a kidney transplant in 1 week which costs 5 million else you die and your babe decides to do ashawo work for a couple of days, or even sleep with a man that has said amount just once to save your life.

Will you dump her after the surgery cuz of what she did?

Hahaha...Africa Magic things. Abi na "Indecent Proposal" things. For a while I seemed to forget most women don't live in reality.

safarigirl:
I've never even had sex in my life or attempted it

chisos chineke meeeeeeeeee,dis babe can lie. Ok preekshore or adonbelieve you

If u tink hez nt gonna belv u wen u tel him, I wil prefer u tak him secretly witout his gf knwin 2 dat same place u saw her, so ur frnd cn see tins himsef

Tell your friend and save him from future troubles.
I have been have in a related situation.
My friends saw my girlfriend in a club with another guy and they told me about it. I confronted her and she told me the guy wants to marry her n other shiitz.
I learnt to reduce the way I feel about her and stay on my own.
it's a year-plus now and they ain't married.

Just wish girl wouldn't fall for the marriage tricks as much as they do.

fact and fact, there is no excuse for prostitution, neither is there an excuse for armed robbery

safarigirl:
let's say you fall ill and need a kidney transplant in 1 week which costs 5 million else you die and your babe decides to do ashawo work for a couple of days, or even sleep with a man that has said amount just once to save your life.

Will you dump her after the surgery cuz of what she did?

story for the godu,na who send am?

yuzjet:
What's ur own? Free d girl make she enjoy her life jor!

Please are the the guy who picked her up?

if u love your friend stop him from committing suicide

echobee:
Ok oooooo! Ops,go ahead and tell him . Goodluck

I feel pressured to ask "are u a runz girl"?

echobee:
Mind your business . No matter how far lies runs,one day truth go catch am. Dont be d reason for their break up . Shalom

stanconnect, from my observation. issues like this, ladies will mostly advise you to mind your business like above and guys will mostly advise you to tell him as a good friend and a brother unless you want to reap the same fruit you are about to sow.

safarigirl:
let's say you fall ill and need a kidney transplant in 1 week which costs 5 million else you die and your babe decides to do ashawo work for a couple of days, or even sleep with a man that has said amount just once to save your life.

Will you dump her after the surgery cuz of what she did?

#Ethical Dilemma.

echobee:
Mind your business . No matter how far lies runs,one day truth go catch am. Dont be d reason for their break up . Shalom

By their friits you shall know them.. smh

safarigirl:
let's say you fall ill and need a kidney transplant in 1 week which costs 5 million else you die and your babe decides to do ashawo work for a couple of days, or even sleep with a man that has said amount just once to save your life.

Will you dump her after the surgery cuz of what she did?

how old are you if i may ask?

echobee:
Mind your business . No matter how far lies runs,one day truth go catch am. Dont be d reason for their break up . Shalom

y u dey talk like dis.u go c ur friend dey enter fire n u go still let am,jst bcus u dnt wnt to b d reason for d break.if u friend later finds out dat u knew abt dis and didn't tel hm,do u tink he wld b glad

safarigirl:
why should a guy even have sex with his gf? A guy that loves you would wait till marriage to have sex with you.

What's this?



KingTom, biko come & see.

safarigirl:
to understand why she's doing it. Not everyone is doing runs business because they want to do it.

A lot of times, you need to consider certain scenarios before you jump into conclusions. The girl could have a genuine reason, there is always a justification for some things. He could tell his friend and when his friend confronts the girl, she could come up with a very good story that could even make the friend forgive her if he loves her as much as OP says he does.

Confront her first before you end up being the mumu.

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I'm afraid of this logic. Can there ever be a justifiable reason for being a 'runs girl' ? How about women in more difficult situation and never slept around with men for money? If the little the man is giving her isn't enough, how we sure she would be satisfied with what the husband could afford when they get married?

cytochromeC:


Except it didn't come out the way he intended, the bolded means the friend has strings of girlfriends but this particular one is the most valued because he sees her as a wife material.

If that is the case Op, what exactly is the problem here? They are probably in an open relationship

P.S- the way you keep going on and on about your friend's financial status and abroad connection is funny. What makes you think money is the only thing that can keep your woman tied to your aprons? Well, there you have the news flash. Your friend's status didn't stop his woman from wandering.

My advice, IF she is the only babe your friend has, confront her first. You would look silly confronting your friend without a concrete proof. It will just be a case of her words against yours. OR, hope she comes back to the club and you take pictures or videos.

Thank u very much. Compliments of the season.

Tashamania:

True.
Plus if they eventually break up and come back together, OP here would be seen as a bad person who doesn't want them together..

Which would be worse , letting his best bud marry a slut and after marriage he finds out ( if na me the thing happen to I go kill that friend ) or my friend fighting me cos I warned him he's marrying a slut ?
op : If your guy and the girl are just dating without marriage plans , let them be but if he truly intends on marrying her go ahead and tell him

I think Kelvine is on point.Last bullet Christmas u see wetin u caused?

Na talk be this? Tell U guy immediately

ffo:

how old are you if i may ask?

old enough to know not to judge anyone till I know the full story

oboman:
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I'm afraid of this logic. Can there ever be a justifiable reason for being a 'runs girl' ? How about women in more difficult situation and never slept around with men for money? If the little the man is giving her isn't enough, how we sure she would be satisfied with what the husband could afford when they get married?

you're compariing her with other women, you forget people are different and would approach one matter in different ways.

Some people read for exams and pass, others cheat and pass. They've handled it in different ways, but achieved the same thing. Don't compare, just focus on the said person.

Some people have done worse things than pros.titution to achieve certain things. They may never be called 'ashawo', but they are no better

In your friend's best interest.

Expose the bwitch.

Believe me, your friend is in for a long thing if he marries her & you'll live to regret not playing your part now that you're allowed to interfere.

Be wise!