Sisi Jinx:

I've been waiting for this opportunity for eternity.
*grabs her by the waist
presses his body tightly against
squeezes her buttocks
pushes his hands up her belly
then kisses her on her neck, ears,
and even harder on her lips.*

Thanks  
*gasping for breath*

Oh my. . . I. . . wow! I mean whew! I think. . . My goo. . . would you excuse me for a moment

*runs out of thread*

netotse:

_{noting the exact sequence of the actions and jotting them down before turning of laptop and going to bed}

night y'all. . .(its more like moning tho)

Sisi Jinx:

I innocently. . . INNOCENTLY OH gave you know who a peck and he turned it to something fun. . . errr. . . I mean something else.

davidylan:

signs like?

I'd rather a heart to heart than just picking up ur bags and running away. could be the guy is going through one of those moments when guys want to be left alone for the moment.

onyinye2:

Oka I'm sort of confused??

So oka when a guy is having one of his "moments" and just feels like being left alone, so then what those the women do? Just lounge around and hope he will come around and is released from his "moment"??

How long are these women suppose to wait??

netotse:

_{noting the exact sequence of the actions and jotting them down before turning of laptop and going to bed}

night y'all. . .(its more like moning tho)

topup:

Sisi jinx, let's say you're in the early phase of a relationship and you don't feel you can tell your boyfriend something that is so deep that is affecting you so much, or you are waiting for the right time to tell him. He takes this silence/stillness and awkardness as a sign that you no longer want to carry on with the relationship, and he just packs his bags and leaves. .

Ebony-Silk:

lmao!! You're not serious.
Only if you knew H202  you wouldn't type this.

Carry on jare. He's a good guy[b]. Not mines[/b]

Sisi Jinx:

I mentioned in one of my earlier posts that I am not just packing my bags and leaving. I would only do the buh bye thing once it has been established that this isn't a matter of needing space to think.

As for signs, I don't think it's a one sign fits all relationship kind of thing, I think it depends on individual relationships. The people in it know the nook and cranny of their relationship, they know the hows and whats of it and this knowledge is what helps ring the "hmm, something seriously ain't right here" bell.

Adam Brody:

The chick that fu***cked my mind up was a total nut case!

I used to remember when we we used to have disgreements in University, she would just do some freaky crazy things that would scare me. I attended one of these Nigerian state universities and there is something common about all of them. They are located in a remote part of the state to help aid community development and inrastructures but these communities still retain their traditional cultures and rites. There is the popular yoruba festival called "oro" where a masked masquerade would move around during a special night and girls aren't allowed to see the masked one unless the consequences would be dire.

My ex knew this law and like mos other girls, they adhered to the rule strictly, but this particular night after a disagreement, she just sat down for 10 mins, removed her clothes and went to bed wihout saying anything. 5 mins later, she woke up, changed back to her clothes, opened the cupboard, started packing her clothes and before you knew it, she she left my room. This was around 12.30 or something and the oro comes out at 12am. At first i thought she was joking and was just going to the corridor to brood over our disagreement but when i came out to ask her to come inside and not attract the oro guys, she was already meteres  ahead on the road walking to her house which was aprroximately 20 mins on foot. I was freaking scared to death for her and although i tried running after her to call her back, but i couldnt go far enough or shout lest i attract attention before she faded from miy sight. I tried calling her but she switched off her phone.

The whole night was very scary for me and i couldnt sleep, because so many things were running through my head. What if she was caught by these local guys or ritualists or raped or something nasty. Why she decided to just start walking for no reason that specificnight was just scary a thought for me. When it was 6am, i walked all the way to her house looking for her and called most of her friends in te vicinity whether she slept in their house. They were all suprised that she did such a thing. When i got to her house, i found her crashing on her bed.

Kai! that day i almost ran mad because i was so scared to death that something will befall her because you don't mess with a communities riualist culture for nothing. When i asked her why she left and and how she got home, she didnt answer me till today. If that's not a crazy chick, i don't know what else can be tagged crazy except the chicks that bite their boyfriends sha!

onyinye2:

Well top up. . . . . . I was actually referring to David but hey it is all good.

Oka about the comment in your post about the tears. . . . . ummmmmm yeah I don't do well with tears. Anyways I do get what you are trying to say but personally I think a person can only take so much. Me if I know that I'm just holding someone back and I'm going through some internal things at the time, I might as well let them go and let them enjoy what life has to offer.

galatico:

Yeah it true that guys are always found wanting when it comes to closing a relationship because they feel its not necessary because they'll brake the heart of there loved ones it quite pathetic,