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Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by Shubbylee(m): 9:18pm On Feb 14, 2015
prettythicksme:
i know ur babe no dey around grin,same here as well.



Oya make una two hook up, make una val una selves!! sha use condom
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by Nobody: 9:19pm On Feb 14, 2015
Shubbylee:




Oya make una two hook up, make una val una selves!! sha use condom
shocked
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by Nobody: 9:19pm On Feb 14, 2015
tosyne2much:
ehn ehn oooyah now, e neva too late wink
LOL
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by zoomman(m): 9:20pm On Feb 14, 2015
funmilayoB:
Thank god no 1 has ever gotten under my skirt
Yh ryt
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by tosyne2much(m): 9:21pm On Feb 14, 2015
prettythicksme:
LOL
Aunty, when will pretty every thicks me too ? cheesy
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by DRealGeesam(m): 9:22pm On Feb 14, 2015
whizqueen:

I ain't gonna exchange words with you.
Mo raye ranu wink Go to bed miss wink grin
Silence is the best ans for foo*'ls. So u didn't have to reply her. Honestly, who cares? Smile and move along my dear, she aint worth it.
Op, this is a really really, I mean really good post. If only girls will learn. Maybe many wld be married by now, but they prove to be "smart" only to lose at the end.
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by Nobody: 9:22pm On Feb 14, 2015
As in ehh...
whizqueen:

Like we care undecided
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by Shubbylee(m): 9:23pm On Feb 14, 2015
yaskarahyelhope:


Bros, let's say I helped him get up wisely. He's still not going to see my pant till he pays my dowry and sign d wedding register. Pre-marital sex is a sin, PERIOD! And ladies don't be dumb. If U know u can't stick with him except his money, don't cry foul or reign curses wen U'll also be cursing yaselves. If U are white, remain pure white or vice versa. Pls my peeps, abstain from sex and things that will stimulate it. God bless!

So if u don't get married till u're 40years of age.....u won't have sex?! I Laff!! ur vagina would just close up!!
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by Olupompey(m): 9:23pm On Feb 14, 2015
some girls can lie here..real virgins dnt disclose it only wide holes gul called themselv virgin to defend theirselv
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by chonchoro(m): 9:24pm On Feb 14, 2015
cool this very interesting keep it coming
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by Mayorblaze: 9:24pm On Feb 14, 2015
funmilayoB:
Thank god no 1 has ever gotten under my skirt

what about trousers, bum short? They have gotten under that too abi

girls can lie sha
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by Olupompey(m): 9:25pm On Feb 14, 2015
funmilayoB:
Thank god no 1 has ever gotten under my skirt
kilode te paro aunty funmi,.. After dt bleeping ontop couch

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Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by immanuello(m): 9:26pm On Feb 14, 2015
humilitypays:
@tosyne2much, all what u said are nothing but the truth! Well done guy. A standing ovation for u. But unfortunately, ladies won't listen because they don't love to be told the truth most timessmiley

Another reason guys dump a lady after going down with her is because most ladies have no other good value to offer to a guy aside their body...hence, when a guy goes down there & realises this lady has nothing else good to offer to him aside sex, he will definitely run at any given opportunity.

Solution
Ladies try and make yourself valuavle so that u can have other positive values to offer a guy u are dating; believe me, no guy will dare leave u even after having sex with u severallysmiley

You maybe wondering what other good/positive values u can offer to a guy u are dating?

1. Try and be active in his financial growth- giving him vital job/career tip offs, secret biz tips, things he can do to increase his income, etc. Don't give him money or don't spend on him, never u try!

2. Help him cut down on his expenditure and waste. Help him save more than his spends.

3. Most men are domestically not organised; help him organise him house if u can.

4. If u know anyone that can help him get a better job, get into a better business deal, win a contract, get promoted at work, graduate with good grades, pls do.

Don't sponsor him to travel abroad if u live in Nigeria. You can only sponsor him to come meet u abroad if u live abroad too.

Avoid spending on any guy...its wrong! Help him become financially responsible not spending on him cos it will boomerang on u.

These are some of the positive values u can add to his life aside sex. If u do this for any sane guy, whether u guys have sex a million times or not, he won't ever leave u, never, except he's insane which he will sure come back to his senses some day!!

But unfortunately, majority of single ladies today believe that their only job or role in a relationship is to provide the guy with sex while the guy takes care of all their financial and material needs; now tell me why won't guys dump them after having sex with them

No man dumps a valuable lady with plenty values to offer aside sex!
OMG, your piece has won you an accolade from me!
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by Nobody: 9:28pm On Feb 14, 2015
funmilayoB:
Thank god no 1 has ever gotten under my skirt
Stop advertising. Nobody cares if you have been bleeped or not.

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Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by immanuello(m): 9:29pm On Feb 14, 2015
Olupompey:
some girls can lie here..real virgins dnt disclose it only wide holes gul called themselv virgin to defend theirselv
seconded!
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by Olupompey(m): 9:31pm On Feb 14, 2015
immanuello:
seconded!
wagbayi brotherly
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by whizqueen(f): 9:35pm On Feb 14, 2015
zobasky24k:


How I wish this is a general truth.. this my current girlfriend..,, don give me level I have never seen before...how I still spend on her is a story For another day.. I guess love has finally caught up with me..
shubbylee: No Oh!! some babes are Stubborn, if they say NO sex.....omo u will not see their pant oh!! Lol

**Smiles** That was why i used the word CHANCES n not certainty because it can be 100% wink smiley
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by tosyne2much(m): 9:37pm On Feb 14, 2015
DRealGeesam:

Silence is the best ans for foo*'ls. So u didn't have to reply her. Honestly, who cares? Smile and move along my dear, she aint worth it.
Op, this is a really really, I mean really good post. If only girls will learn. Maybe many wld be married by now, but they prove to be "smart" only to lose at the end.
Bro thanks for the encouragement wink
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by whizqueen(f): 9:38pm On Feb 14, 2015
tosyne2much:
oookay now I know.. No sha corrupt me wink
Hian... How can i corrupt my choral cord. Impossicant! cheesy
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by Nobody: 9:41pm On Feb 14, 2015
timilehin007:


bur many of u Muslims are terrorist . nice DP anyway, you are too cute to belong to terrorist religion of piss
May almighty Allah forgive u. don't disrespect my religion if u don't knw i respect christians btw y did u have 2 derail frm d topic?
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by owolabi3699(m): 9:41pm On Feb 14, 2015
you mean VIRGEN?
funmilayoB:
Thank god no 1 has ever gotten under my skirt
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by Ayoola171(m): 9:43pm On Feb 14, 2015
funmilayoB:
Thank god no 1 has ever gotten under my skirt
Nice one, Akure is not too far from Lagos.

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Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by palma(f): 9:47pm On Feb 14, 2015
[quote author=tosyne2much post=30730930][/quote]

Hello dear i am going reply each of your points.


1. You Claim You Are Wiser
Take it or leave it, we are in men's world and no man will ever admit that a lady is wiser than him. Ladies are cunning in nature and we so much detest ladies who think they can screw us up claiming they are wiser than we are. It's just one of the reasons why we prank them and zoom off as quickly as possible

You tend to believe in this era its men's world news flash bro the tables are getting turned! Gone were those days women are being threatened by men so that they will feel far less than an equal. I'm not saying women should turn to hellions or disrespect their men am just saying threats dont hold against us anymore. About the girl you refused to help because she brought her friend along have you ever thought of this scenario? "mofe, i want to collect something from mr........" "Tolu lets go together this house is boring, its better than staying alone" do you know the above quote could have happened? Not all girls who visits with their friends is playing smart, after all you didn't say it was a date, then it would have been wrong.


2. Please NO SEX When We Date
Who tells a guy this ? This is an implicating statement ladies should avoid saying even if you don't want it. Even if sex is not our priority, we don't like when ladies tell us that they don't want sex in the relationship. Many ladies are like " let tell him so that he will know that I'm not for sex and if he doesn't like it that way, he should bleep off. I can swear with my life that if you tell a guy at the early stage of the relationship that you will never allow sex in the relationship and he agrees, your chances of being dumped if he eventually get dumped after the deed is very high

So because a lady wants sex free relationship then its a crime? Have you ever considered she might have had other sex filled relationships but because of some of the guys low mentality she lost out hence she wants to tryout a sex free one? If she had policy then she wont still sleep with you till you put a ring on, not because shes a virgin but because she freaking wants it that way and oh yes she might send you packing if you cant abide. Don't think if you wait several months you'll convince her, sex free is sex free, moreover even if after 2yrs or more the guy gets into her pants and then leaves her, he was not a responsible guy in the first place cuz that means he didn't study the lady in question or gauge her character at all, he is all about sleeping with her all along and trust me wether she gives him right away or in 10yrs he'll still leave.


3. You Want Him To Make Promises Before You Give It To Him
You want him to promise you marriage or Iphone 6 before you open your legs. I smh for you

Promises are nothing to men, a lady does not even have to ask before men starts promising her heaven and earth. There's nothing wrong in a lady trying to know your intentions before sleeping with you. If you tell her "Oh no i cant think of marriage now" she might still sleep with you if she likes you enough. If you cant keep a promise no matter what don't promise. Shikena.


4. You Want To Maga-rize Him
When a guy senses you are trying to exercise your magarizm skill on him, he tries to set a trap for you and as soon as he gets what he wants, bye bye

Guy you want to maga-rize her body so whats wrong in her also doing same? Do you know how many nice girls men dumps? So biko dont complain, if she sees you have it then she can ask for it. Abeg no one-way drive!

5. Another Guy Is Bleeping You
He agrees to be in a NO SEX relationship but you are giving it to a dude out there. He pretends he's not aware but the moment he marks register, he waves to you. Hehehe

The problem in most relationship is communication, he agrees to no sex relationship yet he knows another man is turning her wheels and he kept mute because he also wants to say he reach dia, abeg the man has no backbone he is weak! Whats so special about her v that you cant call her tell her the crime she committed and kiss her arse goodbye? Must you join the bandwagon and mark the register?
On another note not all girls who says no to sex her getting it somewhere else, think before you type lest your sister or daughter be classified as such by her husband to be in the future.

6. Ladies Are NOT To Be Relied On
I grew up with the mentality that of "never invest so much on ladies" and I'm pretty sure I'm NOT the only one who grew up with this mentality. You show you true love, she she dumps you; you don't show her love,, she dumps you. It's just one of the reasons why guys zoom off as so as they get what they want

I beg to seriously differ here! My husband invested heavily in me but he never regretted it. Other men before him have same mentality now they had to watch me grow from afar. When you see a good woman invest in her not because you wanted to gain anything back but because its a good deed and she'll never ever forget you even if she gets married to someone else. Three months into our relationship when we are both still thinking anything might happen he still invested in me, thats a man who can see beyond the present, he saw a potential and he invested now everything is still with him.


7. You Aint Worth The Unnecessary Stress
You have been playing hard to get since the time of Soddom and Gommarah and you haven't been giving him the attention he needed but the funniest thing is that, it's so disappointing when we get to see the calibre that the calibre of guys you are giving attention to are way beneath us. When just try to mark our own register and wave goodbye

Do you know what? I believe men who hates hard to get are plain lazy, they just want everything to drop on their laps, despite the fact that some ladies play fake hard to get some are actually hard to get! Some had to be chased down several dates etc before they agree, not because they are faking it but maybe they don't know you well enough hence they cant just date you. Some might not really like you but when they get to know you they'll love you. Contrary to all believe not everything is love at first sight, theres love after years of friend zone! In this particular point i discover a disoriented view. I wonder whats all the craze about register marking.


8. Revenge
When look back and remember the emotional trauma ladies have cost us, sometimes we derive joy in taking revenge on the good hearted ones that come our way.

A very childish point..

9. You Are Taking Him For Granted
No guy likes to be taken for granted you know ? He has tried his best to gain your love but you been treating him like a bag of Dangote cement. He's most likely to wave to you as soon as he finds his way into your pant

If the guy has been trying to gain her love and he still left her after he got what he wanted, does this mean sleeping with her was the love he was trying to gain? Please explain better what you meant by she took him for granted.

10. You Demand So Much
Lemme share a secret ladies don't know about us. Guys do not really go crazy about ladies who give them money but ladies who can help them him cut down expenditure and help them save more than they spend. Guy however cherish and respect ladies who can reject money offered to them. When a guy has to beg you to please ask him for anything you need cos he knows you are NOT the asking type, I can assure you that he will hold firmly onto you. That aside, when you demand so much, you lose your value

Yes the issue is money and sex, women should not ask for a dime and men can sleep with them free! Yeah yeah! If a lady needs money so she should not ask her bf who has been oiling her all in the name of good girl abi? Oya let the guys come and tell us what happened to all the girls that was dying for them then, you know those ones that don't go to eatery, wash your clothes, iron your clothes, clean your house and still give it free? Those girls that will curl up with you, give business advices, tell you to keep your money for land purchases, tells you they are ok and only wants your love? Only few got married to these men! Most lost their loves to fast babes, with manicured fingers!

My bro that is my opinion. Not only men has tales of woes women too are not left out! Stop looking for excuses to sleep with that girl and dump, instead find the right one and love her!

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Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by DRealGeesam(m): 9:47pm On Feb 14, 2015
tosyne2much:
Bro thanks for the encouragement wink
Intelligence as to be acknowledged. You are welcome sir
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by Nobody: 9:49pm On Feb 14, 2015
yaskarahyelhope:


Bros, let's say I helped him get up wisely. He's still not going to see my pant till he pays my dowry and sign d wedding register. Pre-marital sex is a sin, PERIOD! And ladies don't be dumb. If U know u can't stick with him except his money, don't cry foul or reign curses wen U'll also be cursing yaselves. If U are white, remain pure white or vice versa. Pls my peeps, abstain from sex and things that will stimulate it. God bless!
well said
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by nebukadnezzari(m): 9:50pm On Feb 14, 2015
whizqueen:
[b]2. Please NO SEX When We Date
When a lady says this, the chances of her been bleeped is on the hig kissh side wink cool
Your signature shattered my brain kiss
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by Nobody: 9:51pm On Feb 14, 2015
Mayorblaze:


what about trousers, bum short? They have gotten under that too abi

girls can lie sha
na u sabi
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by telad(m): 9:51pm On Feb 14, 2015
funmilayoB:
Thank god no 1 has ever gotten under my skirt

Punny for the gods lolssss
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by pet2ten(m): 9:53pm On Feb 14, 2015
[quote author=tosyne2much post=30730930][/quote. May God bless ut ancestors....clearly looked like u were talking directly to me....can't explain why women love money so much...pensive!!!

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Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by Horllamideh(m): 9:54pm On Feb 14, 2015
quote author=skywalker888 post=30731516]Tosyne2much again... Thank God no guy has ever gotten under my skirt[/quote]
Are you sure that place is not busy like Heathrow Airport??....If that's true,i think we are both untouch....A good reason to get together if you know what i mean
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by Nobody: 9:55pm On Feb 14, 2015
palma:


Hello dear i am going reply each of your points.




You tend to believe in this era its men's world news flash bro the tables are getting turned! Gone were those days women are being threatened by men so that they will feel far less than an equal. I'm not saying women should turn to hellions or disrespect their men am just saying threats dont hold against us anymore. About the girl you refused to help because she brought her friend along have you ever thought of this scenario? "mofe, i want to collect something from mr........" "Tolu lets go together this house is boring, its better than staying alone" do you know the above quote could have happened? Not all girls who visits with their friends is playing smart, after all you didn't say it was a date, then it would have been wrong.




So because a lady wants sex free relationship then its a crime? Have you ever considered she might have had other sex filled relationships but because of some of the guys low mentality she lost out hence she wants to tryout a sex free one? If she had policy then she wont still sleep with you till you put a ring on, not because shes a virgin but because she freaking wants it that way and oh yes she might send you packing if you cant abide. Don't think if you wait several months you'll convince her, sex free is sex free, moreover even if after 2yrs or more the guy gets into her pants and then leaves her, he was not a responsible guy in the first place cuz that means he didn't study the lady in question or gauge her character at all, he is all about sleeping with her all along and trust me wether she gives him right away or in 10yrs he'll still leave.




Promises are nothing to men, a lady does not even have to ask before men starts promising her heaven and earth. There's nothing wrong in a lady trying to know your intentions before sleeping with you. If you tell her "Oh no i cant think of marriage now" she might still sleep with you if she likes you enough. If you cant keep a promise no matter what don't promise. Shikena.




Guy you want to maga-rize her body so whats wrong in her also doing same? Do you know how many nice girls men dumps? So biko dont complain, if she sees you have it then she can ask for it. Abeg no one-way drive!



The problem in most relationship is communication, he agrees to no sex relationship yet he knows another man is turning her wheels and he kept mute because he also wants to say he reach dia, abeg the man has no backbone he is weak! Whats so special about her v that you cant call her tell her the crime she committed and kiss her arse goodbye? Must you join the bandwagon and mark the register?
On another note not all girls who says no to sex her getting it somewhere else, think before you type lest your sister or daughter be classified as such by her husband to be in the future.



I beg to seriously differ here! My husband invested heavily in me but he never regretted it. Other men before him have same mentality now they had to watch me grow from afar. When you see a good woman invest in her not because you wanted to gain anything back but because its a good deed and she'll never ever forget you even if she gets married to someone else. Three months into our relationship when we are both still thinking anything might happen he still invested in me, thats a man who can see beyond the present, he saw a potential and he invested now everything is still with him.




Do you know what? I believe men who hates hard to get are plain lazy, they just want everything to drop on their laps, despite the fact that some ladies play fake hard to get some are actually hard to get! Some had to be chased down several dates etc before they agree, not because they are faking it but maybe they don't know you well enough hence they cant just date you. Some might not really like you but when they get to know you they'll love you. Contrary to all believe not everything is love at first sight, theres love after years of friend zone! In this particular point i discover a disoriented view. I wonder whats all the craze about register marking.




A very childish point..



If the guy has been trying to gain her love and he still left her after he got what he wanted, does this mean sleeping with her was the love he was trying to gain? Please explain better what you meant by she took him for granted.



Yes the issue is money and sex, women should not ask for a dime and men can sleep with them free! Yeah yeah! If a lady needs money so she should not ask her bf who has been oiling her all in the name of good girl abi? Oya let the guys come and tell us what happened to all the girls that was dying for them then, you know those ones that don't go to eatery, wash your clothes, iron your clothes, clean your house and still give it free? Those girls that will curl up with you, give business advices, tell you to keep your money for land purchases, tells you they are ok and only wants your love? Only few got married to these men! Most lost their loves to fast babes, with manicured fingers!

My bro that is my opinion. Not only men has tales of woes women too are not left out! Stop looking for excuses to sleep with that girl and dump, instead find the right one and love her!
i' m glad u comment
Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by Mayorblaze: 9:57pm On Feb 14, 2015
funmilayoB:

na u sabi

u no i be akure boy so i sabi una code...
Mo hook up nw...

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