veave:



but why are they like that? One said he was a widower, I asked and someone that knows him told me his wife dey kampe and how she was such a good woman that loves her family. Another one said he was divorced because his wife damaged her womb through prostitution and couldn't give birth. So when he found out, he divorced her. I had already made up my mind to date him but God that sees my heart knew I deserved better. Na so I go one church for special invite oh. See the guyman with his wife and 3 kids. Wetin pain me pass be say the woman fine pass me. I no fit stand were she stand sef. Omo guy do like sey e no sabi me again oh.

Chai
Widower cha
A man turned his wife into RIP just to get a babe
Many of the girls who deliberately went with these men are some of the most miserable spinsters out there
Like Chaircover said begging for bus drivers to come marry them and everyone is picking race
One hooked up with my brother years ago and was ready to pay her own bride price sef

moca:
I don't know iff my line of thought is wack but pls what is wrong with our babes?
U just knew a man,fiam,u don begin rub body together without rubber?
R u gals that stooooopid?

Look,my intention is to make somebody very angry.
Cases of she has already taken in,no remedy bla bla bla. For heaven's sake where is our sixth sense(ako na uche)?

R we so starved of male company that we don't think we'll again when they come our ways?
How can u be rubbing body together with somebody u don't know his health status abi aids,syphilis,herpes and gonor dey for face?

If u get pregnant,apart from d stds, u r strictly on ur own.m
Even if he proposes marriage, use rubber!
Don't kill ur future!
Don't become a mumu bc of one maga!
Be wise!

If he want to opt out cos u insisted on rubber, so be it. If he proposes,take him to hospital for a comprehensive exam.

Big gal is not about buying postinor every now and then.
Big gal is not about doing abortion every now and then.(and the worst is that our so called big gals don't know what fertile window is)

Listen,even with proposal till after my trado, na rubber all d way. When preparing for our wedding we went for health exam twice.
It can wait!
It won't kill u.
Stop ruining ur future and then blame d devil.
U r responsible for urself. Our health system is very wack and can damage ur womb.

When I knew how far was when married women were discussing how simple evacuation went bad for some ladies and they hv became barren for life. Not to talk of abortion where u can't boldly go to a hospital of ur choice and do it.

Butterfly feelings will pass o!
Reality must stare u in d face!
(I don rant finish)

And after the abortions and dangerous meds and blocked Fallopian tubes from numerous untreated stds,they marry and enter MFM begin cast and bind and the " demon ain't shifting"
The rate of barrenness in Nigeria is alarming
How else did baby factories and snatching babies come up?
Growing up every young woman married today and had a baby shortly after or 10 months after ,today's it's not so
I told one man who went home looking for a wife not to write off the single mother he met,at least she has a womb and intact Fallopian tubes

ROTFLMAO . . .

Wedon:
ROTFLMAO . . .

Are you laughing ?
I have two younger cousins one has had one ectopic pregnancy and lost a tube,her sister has lost two of her tubes
Tomorrow one man will marry the second one and they will enter MFM
Do you know the commonest cause of blocked tubes and ectopic pregnancy?
Poorly treated or untreated gono( other causes dey )
Gono has no symptoms on most women
So those who sleep around and are lucky to escape HIV may not escape gono or other STDs and their consequences in later life

Babymama1:


Are you laughing ?
I have two younger cousins one has had one ectopic pregnancy and lost a tube,her sister has lost two of her tubes
Do you know the commonest cause of ectopic pregnancy?
Poorly treated or untreated gono

Seriously? Jeeez . . . never knew!

I was lauging at Veave's comment tho

moca:
I don't know iff my line of thought is wack but pls what is wrong with our babes?
U just knew a man,fiam,u don begin rub body together without rubber?
R u gals that stooooopid?

Look,my intention is to make somebody very angry.
Cases of she has already taken in,no remedy bla bla bla. For heaven's sake where is our sixth sense(ako na uche)?

R we so starved of male company that we don't think we'll again when they come our ways?
How can u be rubbing body together with somebody u don't know his health status abi aids,syphilis,herpes and gonor dey for face?

If u get pregnant,apart from d stds, u r strictly on ur own.m
Even if he proposes marriage, use rubber!
Don't kill ur future!
Don't become a mumu bc of one maga!
Be wise!

If he want to opt out cos u insisted on rubber, so be it. If he proposes,take him to hospital for a comprehensive exam.

Big gal is not about buying postinor every now and then.
Big gal is not about doing abortion every now and then.(and the worst is that our so called big gals don't know what fertile window is)

Listen,even with proposal till after my trado, na rubber all d way. When preparing for our wedding we went for health exam twice.
It can wait!
It won't kill u.
Stop ruining ur future and then blame d devil.
U r responsible for urself. Our health system is very wack and can damage ur womb.

When I knew how far was when married women were discussing how simple evacuation went bad for some ladies and they hv became barren for life. Not to talk of abortion where u can't boldly go to a hospital of ur choice and do it.

Butterfly feelings will pass o!
Reality must stare u in d face!
(I don rant finish)

Very much on point Moca!

Sometimes I read some stories of soon to be single (and dumped) mothers on here and I wonder to myself, what were you thinking?

Wedon:




Seriously? Jeeez . . . never knew!

I was lauging at Veave's comment tho

This is not to say that is the only cause
Many women with other issues like Caesarian sections can have damage and scarring on their tubes from surgery,other conditions which I actually suffered from called endometriosis can also cause scaring of the tubes( thank God I didn't have that)
But the commonest cause is long standing untreated or poorly treated STD

moca:

This reminded me of one of my male cousin's visitor from d village.
In d morning,he was served tea(lipton),bread,fried egg,evaporated milk,sugar and hot water.

I served him sha.
So later I went to d dining to clear d table.
Guess what?
He poured water(hot)inside d tea cup,the opened the lipton tea and poured everything inside!
He added milk and sugar but couldn't drink d thing so he drank d remaining milk like that and ate his bread. He didn't eat d egg.

Till date,if I remember that man(an elderly man) I will burst out laughing.
I thank God nobody met him there cos we will end up apologizing to him

My cous later showed him how to do it sha

Village people r d best!

Omg! He could have just asked for help. , that's one funny man.

Preternatura1:
Omg! He could have just asked for help. , that's one funny man.

Very funny man indeed!

Babymama1:


And after the abortions and dangerous meds and blocked Fallopian tubes from numerous untreated stds,they marry and enter MFM begin cast and bind and the " demon ain't shifting"
The rate of barrenness in Nigeria is alarming
How else did baby factories and snatching babies come up?
Growing up every young woman married today and had a baby shortly after or 10 months after ,today's it's not so
I told one man who went home looking for a wife not to write off the single mother he met,at least she has a womb and intact Fallopian tubes

That is eeh!
Real fact!
The man will still leave u and go hunting for a virgin.
Iberibe!

armyofone:
Naija guys and chopulating from every corner is on another level. Girls should be wise. I think they take advantage of girls who are desperate for two things....marriage and money.

Poverty a Jo ka
Poverty di bad
There are many girls in Nigeria that do this out of desperation with the full knowledge of their parents
There are parents who don't have the money and don't give their children any penny of school fees or living expenses yet she is in the university and even training her younger ones.
How else is she getting the money
A young woman opened up to me recently and told me she did this
The only part she skipped was if the man was married and I knew he had to be.

Babymama1 thank u very much 4 d words of encouragement for now am still in skol bt planning 2 b doing little business b4 graduation

ileobatojo:


Very much on point Moca!

Sometimes I read some stories of soon to be single (and dumped) mothers on here and I wonder to myself, what were you thinking?

I don't ever pity such babes.
Desperation will never make a guy to put d ring on it iff he don't want to.
Highest,u will become his babymama.
See our celebs as gals r dying bc of them.
Common!,rnt we ashamed?

Babymama1:


Poverty a Jo ka
Poverty di bad
There are many girls in Nigeria that do this out of desperation with the full knowledge of their parents
There are parents who don't have the money and don't give their children any penny of school fees or living expenses yet she is in the university and even training her younger ones.
How else is she getting the money
A young woman opened up to me recently and told me she did this
The only part she skipped was if the man was married and I knew he had to be.

Oh my!
Don't make me remember pls!
Unless u didn't school in naija,up to half of the ladies r not trained by d family.
And the parents know.

ladynice:
Babymama1 thank u very much 4 d words of encouragement for now am still in skol bt planning 2 b doing little business b4 graduation

You are welcome
You will do well
Go in with a mindset to build that marriage with him and to love and respect him
Choose your friends carefully after marriage and seek counsel only from the wise

urchbarbie:
Lolx! U sound like a new born child who is still getting used to life outside d womb. A typical ajebo. Lolx! Soon dear! Uld acclimatize with tinx d naija way soon. And for d hausa, its not a funny feeling being in d midst of ppl communicating in one language. I pick up some keywrds sometimes n on other occasions I just blank out.

Lol, you'll get there.

I read someone's reply to another's post, it was disastrous and could cause some serious trauma, the funny thing is that, the person it was addressed to didn't even seem to care , some people here are really weird.

Babymama1:


This is not to say that is the only cause
Many women with other issues like Caesarian sections can have damage and scarring on their tubes from surgery,other conditions which I actually suffered from called endometriosis can also cause scaring of the tubes( thank God I didn't have that)
But the commonest cause is long standing untreated or poorly treated STD

Yeah . . . I know. I had a cyst removed after my first baby . . the operation site got infected and formed this hugeeeee abscess

I will never forget the look on my hubby's face when the Doctors said they had to check us for STDs . . Lol . . Thank God we both came out clean . . .

Babymama1:


This is not to say that is the only cause
Many women with other issues like Caesarian sections can have damage and scarring on their tubes from surgery,other conditions which I actually suffered from called endometriosis can also cause scaring of the tubes( thank God I didn't have that)
But the commonest cause is long standing untreated or poorly treated STD

My dear,our medical,infact,let me close my mouth.

moca:

My dear,our medical,infact,let me close my mouth.

Biko speak i e
say it
From the emails I am getting,many people are benefitting from this thread and not posting their issues publicly
I just counseled a girl who is playing Russian roulette with her life and hopefully she will stop what she is doing

Wedon:


Yeah . . . I know. I had a cyst removed after my first baby . . the operation site got infected and formed this hugeeeee abscess

I will never forget the look on my hubby's face when the Doctors said they had to check us for STDs . . Lol . . Thank God we both came out clean . . .

Welcome back.
U really annoyed me and u know that.
Didn't expect that from u of all people.
Lost our contact and hv been expecting to hear from u since.
I concluded all is soo well. One of ur posts confirmed it.
Congrats.

moca:

Welcome back.
U really annoyed me and u know that.
Didn't expect that from u of all people.
Lost our contact and hv been expecting to hear from u since.
I concluded all is soo well. One of ur posts confirmed it.
Congrats.

Asa'm . . . Na you . . .

Abeg no vex for me . . you sef too dey change ID.

Missed you dearie

armyofone:
Naija guys and chopulating from every corner is on another level. Girls should be wise. I think they take advantage of girls who are desperate for two things....marriage and money.

Many Naija men will always want to chop.It's left for the ladies to do their homework.
There's a saying that you can't do anything about a bird flying over your head but it's your fault if it builds a nest on your head.

moca:

Oh my!
Don't make me remember pls!
Unless u didn't school in naija,up to half of the ladies r not trained by d family.
And the parents know.

The day I saw our traditional ruler at Lady Ibiam hostel hustling for babes,I raised hand for nigerian men
We met face to face,he is friends with my father,I pretended I didn't know him
A man that lived two states away,came all the way to carry Nwa baby
And no he didn't come in his regalia in case you are wondering
And of course there was a willing babe to enter his Mercedes Benz

Babymama1:


The day I saw our traditional ruler at Lady Ibiam hostel hustling for babes,I raised hand for nigerian men
We met face to face,he is friends with my father,I pretended I didn't know him
A man that lived two states away,came all the way to carry Nwa baby
And no he didn't come in his regalia in case you are wondering

What do you expect?

Immorality is on the rise now . . . social media and technology is not helping either. One of us is busy promoting pornography in another thread . . . This is what it all leads to ultimately.

Babymama1:


Biko speak i e
say it
From the emails I am getting,many people are benefitting from this thread and not posting their issues publicly
I just counseled a girl who is playing Russian roulette with her life and hopefully she will stop what she is doing

I'm very emotional pls.
Will talk about it at d right time.
No vex.

Wedon:


Asa'm . . . Na you . . .

Abeg no vex for me . . you sef too dey change ID.

Missed you dearie

No mind me
So happy for u.
Hope they r all well?
Missed u too.

Babymama1:


The day I saw our traditional ruler at Lady Ibiam hostel hustling for babes,I raised hand for nigerian men
We met face to face,he is friends with my father,I pretended I didn't know him
A man that lived two states away,came all the way to carry Nwa baby
And no he didn't come in his regalia in case you are wondering
And of course there was a willing babe to enter his Mercedes Benz

Babymama,if I open my mouth eeh, it seems like it's worst in d east.
When my mum was so sick,d sis called me one day to come and carry her(a rich sis o)
I asked carry her to where?
She said don't I know what others r doing?
I should do that and use the money to take care of my ailing mum.
Chei!
A sister o.
Money is never d problem in her family.
I thank God,i pulled tru.
I just couldn't do that.
Na so I begin enter night bus to awusaland to buy and sell.
Gaddam!

moca:

Babymama,if I open my mouth eeh, it seems like it's worst in d east.
When my mum was so sick,d sis called me one day to come and carry her(a rich sis o)
I asked carry her to where?
She said don't I know what others r doing?
I should do that and use the money to take care of my ailing mum.
Chei!
A sister o.
Money is never d problem in her family.
I thank God,i pulled tru.
I just couldn't do that.
Na so I begin enter night bus to awusaland to buy and sell.
Gaddam!

You YPP are a good woman

I AM A SECRET ADMIRER.

Not everyone will do what you did for your mum.

may God bless your home and make your children love and appreciate you as you did to your mom.

I WANT TO THANK THE ARCHITECTS AND ENGINEERS OF OF THIS VERY THREAD.

I want to tell you that many lives and marriages have been saved because of this.

my prayers are that, as you invest time and energy in other people problem.

May problems and trouble desert your homes. AMEN.

YOU WOMEN ROCKS!

STAY FOCUS AND LETS KEEP IT ROLLING.

moca:

Babymama,if I open my mouth eeh, it seems like it's worst in d east.
When my mum was so sick,d sis called me one day to come and carry her(a rich sis o)
I asked carry her to where?
She said don't I know what others r doing?
I should do that and use the money to take care of my ailing mum.
Chei!
A sister o.
Money is never d problem in her family.
I thank God,i pulled tru.
I just couldn't do that.
Na so I begin enter night bus to awusaland to buy and sell.
Gaddam!

Its welll. Please lets hear the exclusive undiluted gist

moca:


That is eeh!
Real fact!
The man will still leave u and go hunting for a virgin.
Iberibe!

Herzumpther Nwa papa where are you
I have checked and rechecked my email
Please mention me when you send the mail

jayne8585yahoo:


You YPP are a good woman

I AM A SECRET ADMIRER.

Not everyone will do what you did for your mum.

may God bless your home and make your children love and appreciate you as you did to your mom.

I WANT TO THANK THE ARCHITECTS AND ENGINEERS OF OF THIS VERY THREAD.

I want to tell you that many lives and marriages have been saved because of this.

my prayers are that, as you invest time and energy in other people problem.

May problems and trouble desert your homes. AMEN.

YOU WOMEN ROCKS!

STAY FOCUS AND LETS KEEP IT ROLLING.

CHineke mee
So moca is the one and only yellow pepe
I should have known
Nne why you dey do me like this na