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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by kennyok(m): 12:20pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
zaralady:.......you right dear ,that advice he or she gave is baseless and on one angle.I believe whether the guy abroad will. disappoint her in future he is still them better choice for her because this other guy is selfish and is only doing everything to get in between her fresh leg..let her be wise or else ..... |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Nobody: 12:36pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
[quote author=ZedX6 post=31305082][font=tempus sans itc][size=11pt]First of all, end the relationship with the guy abroad. . . It's pointless. It won't work. Long distance relationships are an utter waste of time. My dear i quote u wrong here. For a distant r/ship not to work, it depends on individual. U have to know what u want and know whom u are dealing with. Stand firm to cheerish what u want no matter the distance. I am in a distant r/ship as i talk now that does not give me reason to jumb 4rm 1 guy to another. It is not that they dont come, they come often but i never gave them chance cos onces i welcome them they will now say their mind. I do all these cos we love each other and i cant afford to cheat on his cos i hate to be cheated and i trust him too. For she to have fallen to the new guy that means she doesnt love her bf as she claims. Meanwhile u caused everything by welcoming the new guy. Just follow ur heart b4 u regreat it. |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Pdizzle(m): 12:36pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
Virgin dy cheat, hehe. Bunch of overhyped girls. 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Nobody: 12:40pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
zaralady:tanks for the question. ."WHO SAYS DISTANCE R/SHIP DOESN'T WORK" |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by naijaboiy: 12:45pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
EnlightenedSoul:Like I give a fhuuck Now fhuuck off!!! |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Nobody: 12:56pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
Beverlyjean:is like u dont know what u want. Are u making decision base on what he said or what u want. Like i said b4 am into a distance r/ship and i knew too well that my bf will not be around on val and my bd but it doesnt hv meaning cos time will come when i will enjoy it more. Becareful all that glitters are not gold. |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by eedrees(m): 1:17pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
I still don't believe you love your bf abroad |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by AijaiI(f): 1:25pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
I took time 2 read dis. My advise...go wit d 30yr old guy 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Defcon1(m): 1:27pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
ZedX6: l completely agree with you The Op is probably not confused She is likely looking for support and justification for a decision she has made already...in a bid to avoid a guilty conscience l stand to be correct,though. |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Etetejake(m): 1:31pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
Beverlyjean: I think following your head is the best bkx u already have bn following it by doing somethings with the other guy. How can u claim to luv your boyfriend yet b doing things with someone else? Honestly, girls I don't know wot is wrong with u guys. it is eithet u r water or melon not watermelon. |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by dayosaurus(m): 1:32pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
@beverlyjane This is coming a little late, but its the truth. You don't deserve the young guy, please kindly let him be n find someone that would truly love him n adore him. Cos if you did, you won't be shamelessly enough to get involved with another guy romantically. If your bf finds out he wil DUMP you, may ogun strike him dead if he doesn't. and the odds of this new guy playing to gallery marrying you is 1/4. no guy would marry a girl he encouraged to dump another guy, because 2mao what are the odds that another guy won't do same. My advise is you've made ur mistake already and would only make it worse by giving up the last drop dignity you av, keep ur thighs close n enjoy the 'relationship' |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by horladmejy(m): 1:33pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
Well, have always known girls or ladies are always a confused species!!! No matter how they love it take a mili seconds to date another guy...infact I do know most don't know what they want....jeez!! Pls let my future wife stay intact as I locate her..am tired of shitty conditional ladies... |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by wangdu: 1:50pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
dear, my advice is for you to pray about it. but humanly speaking, leaving the first for the later isn't justice.imagine someone doing same to you, how will you feel about it. so do to others what you want others to do to you. |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Nobody: 2:09pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Thank you for this!!! |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Wizzyblack3(m): 2:10pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
adanny01: What other advice do you need? You've got the perfect one here. Time to act, but don't make it look like hrtbreak to your bf, tell him your decision is necessary for both of you. 2 Likes |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Bigsteveg(m): 2:20pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
naijaboiy: I feel u bro. Good point |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by midexz(m): 2:22pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
Dear OP, Although i can see theres been lot of advices already on the thread, some are straight, some are blunt while some are just written to book space but if u ask me wat is wrong wit you is what Yorubas call 'OJUKOKORO' meaning; Not been contended or satisfied with what you have but if u want to prove me wrong then kindly answer this questions; 1. Why get so close to another guy when u r in a relationship? abi u think u can always friend-zone all guys? 2.Why didnt u tell d new guy abt ur bf when u just met him? atleast sum1 u claim u love that much is not suposed to be hidden in d first place. 3. Why get so deep with him even after u know his intentions and u claim u love ur bf? Answer those questions with ur head in ur heart 1st then u ll know what u want, what u need and what is good for you... And abt u telling ur bf all that has happened between u and the new guy even though is a lil bit late to come out now, i think is best u do as someone has stated dat it might be a test of love but if he turns out red after telling him u cant still blame him after all u held it to urself too long.... Goodluck to you as u choose but dont forget u dont judge love based on distance or togetherness...... IN OTHER WORDS even though have been on NL for some time now am officially porting to ROMANCE SECTION now so make u na welcome me well...... |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Nobody: 2:47pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
Girls are just I don't know, insatiable beings that's what they are!!! You can never satisfy them |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Nobody: 2:48pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Yes, ma'am. 2 Likes |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by OILOFGLADNESS: 2:48pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
Beverlyjean: send me your email, i have two life story to answer your question, after telling you the story, you can make your choice. i don't have time to write it here because i am in the office, or better still we can comunicate on whatsapp if u so wish. i realy understand your confusion, i will tell u my experience, my freind's experience and a colleague experience. but know you one thing " THAT A GUY NEVER KNOW WHAT HE WANTS UNTILL HE IS READY TO SETTLE DOWN" LOVE FOR FRIENDSHIP IS DIFFERENT FROM LOVE FOR MARRIAGE NEVER TRUST ANYONE, NOT ALL LOVE ENDS IN MARRIAGE SOMEONE THAT TRULY LOVE YOU WILL CONTINUE TO EVEN IF HE DINT MARRY YOU. MARRY SOMEONE THAT LOVES YOU MORE. IF U ARE SINCERE THAT YOU NEED ADVICE INBOX ME. ONE OF THE VITAL THINGS U SHOULD LOOK OUT FOR BEFORE YOU SAY YES, IS TO WHAT EXTENT DOES THE GUY'S FAMILY CHERISH YOU. MARRY SOMEONE THAT LOVES YOU MORE. THE TRUTH IS THAT YOU "LOVE THE READY TO SETTLE' BUT YOU HAVEN'T NOTICE IT BECUASE YOUR MIND IS SOMEWHERE. IF YOU DON'T LOVE HIM, I TELL YOU BEING A VIRGIN WILL MAKE HIM TO IRRITATE YOU. TALKING OUT OF EXPERIENCE! I BELIEVE YOU HAVE A CLUE OF WHAT MY TAKE MIGHT BE. THANKS 5 Likes |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Gospell(m): 3:23pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
Two guys be giving u sleepless nights abi,am very sure ur exams don't even do so........ #Focus |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Gorgeous58(f): 4:01pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
Harbosede02:. I agree with you. She should use her brain well but follow her heart also. |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Gorgeous58(f): 4:18pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
You shouldn't give the other guy your virginity,that's your pride dear,what if you dump your first bf as he said you should do,then you finally have sex with him and he dumps you after that? Think wisely dear. |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by FG4all(m): 4:19pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
my dear u ve to follow ur hrt, belive me two of u can b togeda, one or two tinx most distance u guys buh constant communications will bring two of u close...as for d other guy dat shows he cares n love u..jst appreaciate him, dont b moved by ur emotions. wish u da best dear..follow ur hrt |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Nobody: 4:20pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
aphildam:nice! |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by nikky2much: 5:16pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
Mschew.....super story |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by preciouspresh1: 6:22pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
Hey girl,dnt loose ur virginity for any reason.dr re somany girls dt regret loosin dier virginity.now,dis I'd wat u'd do,kindly break up wif ur bf,instead of him findin out abt dis new guy and getting hurt.and as for d new guy,giv him a chance.I bliv he's older and more mature dan ur bf.and he'll take gud care oof u,lik payin d bills etc.jst b wise.if u notice any fin funny abt d new guy,act fast,do nt ignore or assume.and after all dese,try not to meet anoda person,do u dnt get confused again!!! 2 Likes |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by apparentlylaw(m): 6:53pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
cr7lomo:Wu be dz Werey ? |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by zaralady: 6:58pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by cr7lomo: 8:59pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
My final conclusion for u is that those that said u should stick with ur bf are not experienced and very young Those that said u should move on with the new guy are the experienced ones . I don't know u from anywhere but believe me My sister experienced this in the past and back then I was young and I told her to bounce the older guy , today she is still single and regretting because her bf of that time who promised her heaven and earth and even cried that she should not leave him for the man that came to marry her later disappointed her years later after she even lost her virginity to the stupid bf. Always know that humans can be self centered when it comes to their happiness , better use ur head so that u will not be a story of matters that touch the heart The Zaragirl that is saying that u should stick to ur bf also made the mistake and has not learnt from it and she is advising you. Better be wise on the advice u choose because whether it goes well or not , it's only u that it will affect . Be wise and don't be foolish 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Collins0609(m): 10:44pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
JoeCutie:Eiyaa are u begging for her love. there are too many virgins to view Dan ansa a har.lot who is so proud to say it. after all ashawo no get shame. @zara are u married or is guys still sampling u punny. go and settle dat sagging tiring punny .it need it. do u know what common sense last time I check it has no meaning in my dictionary. tell ur sister dat not a virgin. abi na u enact d freedom of speech law. I rest my case |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Nobody: 10:47pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
ZedX6: Dude this is the deepest advice i've heard on NL nice one bro. |
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