GboyegaD:
It is a two way thing. It could either make you or mar you depending on how focus both of you are. The fact that you can study together and explain things to one another is a plus however, if it is parasitic, then it is not ideal in any ways.

spanzed:
Thanks man...she is focus I guess her result was ok thou not to what she expected and as for me I am ever ready to make it now b4 its too late but I just wish I could bury the ish but I just haven't had the strength to....

spanzed:
Yea like the topic says,I have this girl am crushing on lately in my department and dunno how safe it would be making the move,due to various reasons ranging from my below average performance I just recorded in my released result and fear that it may distract me from facing my studies this semester squarely as I aim to have a strong CGpA at the end of the session....I also dunno if I should let her be till next session but I doubt if I can hold that urge to be with her....Ur matured advice is needed to save a fellow nairalander...should I make the move or do otherwise Thanks...
CC;
Mizmycoli
Naijaboiy
Cococandy
And all the relationship experts in the house

cococandy:
lol @relationship expert.

Warrisdat?

Anyway if you like her, go for it.
It may work or not. It won't be the end of you.
But it will be an experience you will remember for a long time.


Some Upside,
*she will get you and will most likely be quite supportive since both of you are in the same academic shoes.
*the need to impress her could surprisingly boost our perfomance. Don't underestimate that part of human nature.
*if she's the brilliant type, you get a mentor and a girlfriend all wrapped in one. That could help your waning perfomance.

Some Downside,
*She could know your every move. If you're the kind of guy that likes to play around, no room for that
*too much familiarity brings contempt AKA "see finish"
*if she ever plays you or dumps you in the long run, you will get that occasionally pitiful look from other course mates.

#especially when her new bobo comes to drop her off at the department gate in his new shiny ride so (go get your shiny ride if you don't have one) #iKID

Rapsodee:
Well,it can work and it may not,there will be too much familiarity coz you will be seeing each other almost every time in academics and also wen you meet which may get both of you tired of the relationship,Being in separate depts,when you don't see each other for a while,it makes you to yearn for each other but don't forget that it can still work,depending on some other factors.

englishmart:
nothing concern me sha

osamaBUSH:
wat can I say, girls no dey my department so I wouldn't know.

spanzed:
lol is dere any course meant for only males un our tertiary institution today??

osamaBUSH:

not only males but the females sent to us are mostly more like males.

spanzed:
lol...in what sense do they act tom boyish abi dem dey claim

osamaBUSH:

na just claim sha. did kyn no tym forming.

MizMyColi:
@Spanzed
How long have you crushed on this Bae for?

Do you see a friend in her? Is she someone who'd have your interest at heart as much as you'd do hers?

Seeing as your grades are on a somewhat downward spiral, would you be able to make contact with her and keep it on a platonic base?
I ask because you can be sure that romance at this time could muddle things up for you.

I don't advise that you ask her out now.
Try being friends first, let her see/feel that you like her.

Based on your apparent priorities, which is a good one, trust me, you don't wanna get entangled in inter-departmental relationship drama.

You might wanna consider Cococandy's downside


If you don't understand any of my line of thoughts, please feel free to ask questions.

spanzed:
hmmm mizmycoli I respect.....how come I never thought like this.....I guess we have to be friends for now,I can't afford to throw this semester to the wind if she is mine she would surely be mine.....I would advice u open a consultancy office about relationship....Thanks plenty

MizMyColi:


All the best.
For accountability sake.

I'd like for you to keep me informed on your result, CGPA et al I mean.
Deal?

What course you studying BTW?

spanzed:
lol...yea I would,studying Common Law

jnrbayano:
May I know your reasons for crushing on her?

Be honest so I can be guided on what next to say to you.

MizMyColi:

spanzed:
e concern you baba drop an advice for your bruv should I make the move or face my book...

englishmart:
my bro. I no even look the moniker....

I'd advice you face you book

spanzed:
e concern you baba drop an advice for your bruv should I make the move or face my book...

spanzed:
lol...she is beautiful,has what I want and most especially friendly

spanzed:
Yea like the topic says,I have this girl am crushing on lately in my department and dunno how safe it would be making the move,due to various reasons ranging from my below average performance I just recorded in my released result and fear that it may distract me from facing my studies this semester squarely as I aim to have a strong CGpA at the end of the session....I also dunno if I should let her be till next session but I doubt if I can hold that urge to be with her....Ur matured advice is needed to save a fellow nairalander...should I make the move or do otherwise

osamaBUSH:

not only males but the females sent to us are mostly more like males.

Engineering department

naijaboiy:

Engineering department

sinizia:


Bro, department relationship, though I didn't do it because I hate the close proximity, can work. I've seen it work severally. If the girl is serious-minded like you want to be, she can inspire you to read hard. She can be your reading partner too. The relationship can work to your advantage. But you wouldn't know if you don't give love a chance. If she's what you want in a lady, go and ahead and date her and be friends with her and then determine if she can slow you down or not. If she doesn't inspire you academically, then quit.