missbehave247:
what are u even saying? Please go true your story line and correct yourself

Tallesty1:
Take her mother's name to your own pastor.



Ask him if she will make a good ma-inlaw.

wilsondave:
dude face ur studies and come out with good cgpa then come back here for good advice..... mean while bone the girl for now and concentrate on future....some pastors deceiving people with there prophecy since 1st century....



A short story.....
A man told a pastor about a lady he wanna marry.... the pastor told him the lady is his wife from heaven.... means they are good to marry each other.... after 4months of marriage there wedding crushed and they both departed.... the man went to the pastor and told him that... but u said we are compatible but the pastor said that's was d voice he received..... from heaven.....

I don't doubt some pastors but I don't belief in prophecy....


u can work things together if both of u love ya selves and nothing will happen.....

ronald4lif:
Very touching story. This thing call love can shatter a man's life and dreams ehh. My advise is that you move on with your life and accept defeat that you can no longer have this girl to yourself. Should fate brings you two together again in the future then fine. But for now you've to move on.

Before I proceed further, I'm compelled to ask when will all these money grabbing pastors stop destroying relationships? When will people stop seeking for approval from these self professed men of God, who more often than not are hustlers. What happens to seeking the face of God directly? Just look at this now.

I know a broken heart and being hurt from past relationship are so difficult to deal with. It feels like someone that loved so much has died. The one person that you relied on the most your best friend vanished and your stuck in a world that revolved around them but they are no longer there. It is so hard to move on and not ponder over what happened or what could have been done differently, for in this case it's not your fault. Yet the only thing you can do is move on, time continues and you need to make the best of it. Take up new hobbies, classes, focus on yourself and set goals. Time will mend your broken heart and one day you will wake up and your heart will no longer ache. You may realize someday that this happens for a reason, paving way for a better life and for the one you're destined to be with to locate you.

Realize that everything happens for a reason and the outcome is always good. It's a battle with yourself. You would have to be okay, somewhere in your mind. (I wouldn't say your heart simply because I do know it is hard) You would have to know that if it was meant to be, it'd happen. Memories are dear, and you don't want to lose them. Sadly, you need to know the boundaries of keeping memories dear, and clinging to them. Take the good from what you had with her all these years and reflect on it. Take the bad from the memories you both shared, reflect on it. Then try to make your next (perfect) relationship with this your present experience as your building blocks.

I know I make it sound easy but I'm afraid you have to set your mind and channel your energy to something else. Something that will ease your mind away from her.

Listen to "Not A Bad Thing" by Justin Timberlake - you'll be feeling hopeful after a while! Or if you're feeling vengeful: "What Goes Around Comes Back Around" - Justin Timberlake. All the best bro!

simplibaba:



Thanks a million times.....I really appreciate the time well spent all cos of me...

ronald4lif:


You're welcome bro. I hope and pray you get over it soonest.

simplibaba:




Thankx bro.....am the type dat s academically sound to an extent,so the cgpa issue is a small thing but I am findin it difficult to find interest in any girl even wen some girls do show some level of familiarity dis trial moment......just need the scope/method nided for me to adopt in loving anoda girl

Bwaal:
Thunder wey go fire dah pastor still dey boil akpu

kai which kain thing b diz ehn


kai i no dey believe all diz mumu profecy ño b dix famous pastors dey carry mumu profecy say buhari go loose election nw see wat we av mtcheeewww yeye people

i tot marriage is all abt friendship and love??
if u re meant for friendship i think u re compatible

best thing consult ur own pastor if blieve in profecy


datz my 2 yen bro

simplibaba:
My fellow nairalanders am quite in need of a candid and serious advice cos m presently typing in tears and pains......



I started dating my girlfriend april 3 2011 and everything seems to always work out well for us during our relationship cos she is very supportive in every aspect of my life and same with me to her cos we have always dream of setting up a wonderful family in future immediately we graduate from our respective universities but our love story turn sour last year december when her mum told her to bring the name of her boyfriend cos she can feel it dat we re both serious with each oda having dated for 3years 8months for her to check if we are compartible or not from a pastor and my girlfriend gave her my name.But the outcome of the checkin was dat we re only meant to be friends but not compartible for marriage.she actually cried all night after hearing this that she can't even tell me but her sister told me the truth about what their mum did and av been living a miserable life since then.
she has started dating someone else late january this year but cry daily by caliing me that she is not happy @all with the person she is dating cos she was only using the guy to surpress her pains dat all she want is me and have not also find any happiness in any lady since we both had this issue last year december cos av lost interest in any other lady.

she came back home yestaday from school simply becos today should mark our 4th year of realationship but all she could do is to cry since morning and her mum is standing on we not courting anymore just because of the outcome of the Pastor Prophecy on us..
I just need advice on how I can move on and find happiness in other girls or anyway I can get my girlfriend back into my life ....

Please need serious and urgent advice to this.Thanks

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Sentence structure is really poor, i'm highly disappointed in you. Sorry buddy, no advice for you.

MrsAnyanwu:
[size=14pt]u[/size] shouldn't have commented at all, disgusting act , not everybody was opportuned like u, show some respect.....

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MrsAnyanwu:
teacher Charlie, go get a life

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Sentence structure is really poor, i'm highly disappointed in you. Sorry buddy, no advice for you.

Dorisbest:
Annoying

it's too early for this.

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That's a good sentence. Anyways my job is done

Alexpissu:


And you got a nobel prize doing that

Grow up

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and you are mad about it? grow up sire

Alexpissu:


drama,bullshit and stupidity are no match for sarcasm and a smartass attitude

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smart-ass or smart ass