chigoizie7:
*As a gf? (Lashing and all that) YES

*as a wife? NO

* don't ask me why because I don't even know why, but I just can't marry such a gal.

*of all my agbero life as a student, I no get tattoo, I no pierce my ear, na ma wife wan come do am? Ekwe n'abia.

killerman47:
don't care, as long as the person is a professional that knows his onions....... I'll fix one on my wife's waist on our honeymoon.... would like a big flower on her hips.... I really love it..... I just hope she will buy the idea.....

Gurgle:


but what has tattoo got to do with morality

although I wouldn't keep one myself and I dislike them.

piercing- I would get it on my belly button, that's it. does it make any difference?

chigoizie7:



*It has got nothing to do with morality.

*i love tats, but I could not get one.(I don't even know why I didn't , most of my friends had one or two + piercing, maybe, I was just trying to be different)

* as for piercing? I could take double for my wife (ears).

*as for getting one on ur belly button, that's ur biz,not mine.
As for making any difference? Well, different tales for different folks.

Gurgle:


belly button - yeah I mean would it make a difference in your feelings towards somebody you potentially wanted to marry

oh so what was the reason? if not morality

I wanted double once upon a time but im glad I didn't do it. i wish i didn't pierce my ears in the first place now, unpierced ears look really good

chigoizie7:


One thing about stereotypes, is that, it is never the truth.

Now, many people will have that single belief that gals, who has tats,multiples piercing are most likely to be whores. Well, I will beg to differ on that notion. Same way people think that people that smokes weed are touts and irresponsible fellows,

If u are expecting me to tell u that the reason I don't like tats or ur getting a belly button is synonymous with the above beliefs, sorry to disapoint u, u will not hear dat from me.


Like I said, its ur biz,not mine.(If u really want to get a belly button piercing)


Different tales for different folks.( Making any difference on the feelings of my potential wife)


As for morality sake? It depends on what u as an individual term "morality", I ve done so many things that the society see as immorality, (eg) I smoke weed, sorry, skunk, I don't see it as being immoral, otherwise I wouldn't be doing it, same way, u wouldn't see getting tats or multiple piercing + belly button as not being immoral.


My point is, whatever sails ur ship, might sink mine.

chigoizie7:
*As a gf? (Lashing and all that) YES

*as a wife? NO

* don't ask me why because I don't even know why, but I just can't marry such a gal.

*of all my agbero life as a student, I no get tattoo, I no pierce my ear, na ma wife wan come do am ? Ekwe n'abia.

Gurgle:


but its like youre twisting your post on me. was it not you posted this



from this is summised that you have some kind of moral issue with piercings and tattoos.

although as a side note I would strongly discourage you from smoking weed as you will significantly increase your risk of psychotic illness

I hate seeing Africans getting messed up by drugs. anyway:

so do you have a problem with the body modifications in your future wife or not? I don't understand

chigoizie7:






Really, u re kinda stressing me( I am down with fever) nevertheless.


Weed "INCREASING" my psychotic illness? Jokes apart, do I sound like I am suffering from one? (Please, its just a question).




Twisting my words? Apparently, u didn't read were I said,

"Don't ask me why,because, I don't even know that myself"


U forgot were I said that all most all my friends while in skul had either the piercing and tats, except me, "WHY ?" Because I just wanted to be different, not that I don't like or love them, it looks good on people.

I just don't like doing things because many people are doing it.

I do wat I want to do,


Yes, I said I would not like to marry a lady with so much piercing and tats( I must have a reason for that, I understand that's what u want me to tell u)


In as much as I don't like joining d bandwagon, in as much a I don't like believing in stereotypes. But I so much believe in traditions of my people. That same tradition sees it as immoral, but I don't .


I might have twisted it a little bit, because I never knew someone would be so into dis as to know my reasons, thus my saying "don't ask me why,because I don't even know the reason myself". I expected it to end there.

It might sound a bit hypocritical of me to say, I won't marry someone with eida tats or multiple piercing. But still won't give reason because I don't like stereotyped notions.


U don't like Africans indulging in drugs?
Well, to me, weed is just an anti depressant.

Gurgle:


Mehn, I don suffer for your confusion tire.

Oga, I said weed smoking would significantly increase your risk of developing psychosis. You don't sound like you have it already but I still recommend you stop because once it hits it is extremely unpleasant and disabling. I don't think weed is addictive so you can stop now if you want to.

Ok I think I understand. so you wouldn't marry someone with tats because according to tradition they make the girl seem as if shes wayward even though you don't really believe that?

are you suffering from something that requires an antidepressant? because weed can actually act as a depressant at times so it may make it worse

#my 2 kobo

chigoizie7:




*Thanks

*Yes


*Yes


*Yes,



Can I go to bed now? My head is really spinning.

Gurgle:


I never understand why people do this. If you cant answer now, wouldn't you just wait until tomorrow instead of giving me a short answer

good night joor

chigoizie7:




U never understand why people do what?

chigoizie7:




U never understand why people do what?

Gurgle:

nothing, ka chi fo

Gurgle:


I never understand why people do this. If you cant answer now, wouldn't you just wait until tomorrow instead of giving me a short answer

good night joor

chigoizie7:



U never understand why people do what? I am curious.

MrsChima:
What are your views of women and tattoos?
Would you date a girl wearing tattoos?
Marry?

My sister decided to get a tattoo to surprised her boyfriend. He told her that she is participating in a devil worship.

Your thoughtd?

Gurgle:


If somebody is tired and doesn't want to talk anymore, all they have to do is not answer the message until the next time. not give an insufficient answer as if I'm holding you to the computer

chigoizie7:



Ok. what ans do u want?


*1st point:- about psychosis and weed, it was an advice, I appreciate that, thus, saying "THANKS"


*2nd point:- about understanding my following the traditions of my people as seeing ladies with many piercing and tats as wayward and all that. U were correct, that's why I answered. "YES".

*3rd point:- about suffering from anything that needs an anti depressant, I said, "YES"

*4th point :- about accepting that weed can also cause depression, I said , "YES".

U understood all that, the only one u didn't understand is when I said.

"Can I go to bed now? My head is spinning".
I am sorry for sounding a bit rude.

I only said dat, because I really don't know were u are heading to with the "Q n A" session.


U wan write book on the subject? Lol


Ada ndi igbo ji eje mba, ewela iwe inu?.

Are u a health worker?

Gurgle:


Ok I understand now. not to write a book but just to understand where you are coming from. because I don't like seeing black people with drugs that's it. it destroys people's lives. and I just wanted to know how the tattoo would affect how you see the lady

yeah that's ok.

I don't speak Igbo im still learning. what does the bolded mean?

im not a health worker but I read sciences

chigoizie7:
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It means, my great sister from igbo land, don't be annoyed.

Gurgle:

Ok. in what dialect

chigoizie7:


Were u not the one typing in igbo for me? Na igbo dialect be dat nah.

Gurgle:

LOL YES what area of igboland

chigoizie7:



Anambra.

Gurgle:


Ok I understand now. not to write a book but just to understand where you are coming from. because I don't like seeing black people with drugs that's it. it destroys people's lives. and I just wanted to know how the tattoo would affect how you see the lady

yeah that's ok.

I don't speak Igbo im still learning. what does the bolded mean?

im not a health worker but I read sciences

Gurgle:

Ok. do you live there

chigoizie7:



Are u Nigerian?

U don't like seeing black people with drugs?

Gurgle:


Yes Im Nigerian. Drugs affect different races in different ways; black people are more severely affected by some drugs than others. I have seen how it destroys people's lives that's why I warned you against it..

chigoizie7:



You are Nigerian, but u don't live in Nigeria, or u are not igbo by tribe, if u are, which part precisely?


Yeah, drug "adiction" is very bad. Can we stop the drug ish please? U re making me look like a drug addict, which I am not. thank you

chigoizie7:



You are Nigerian, but u don't live in Nigeria, or u are not igbo by tribe, if u are, which part precisely?


Yeah, drug "adiction" is very bad. Can we stop the drug ish please? U re making me look like a drug addict, which I am not. thank you