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Re: Approaching A Lady. by goodgate: 11:54pm On May 15, 2015
justmag:
As for me. ..they claim it's my personality... undecided
IF I HEAR!!!
Re: Approaching A Lady. by Familyman007(m): 11:54pm On May 15, 2015
Confidence is vital.....Buf d rest really depence on d lady i think.
Re: Approaching A Lady. by kinglekan: 11:57pm On May 15, 2015
Lala247:

Some guys can work with one
Djeezy abi lol he just take look dey collect chics smiley
cheesy
Re: Approaching A Lady. by dammywapes(m): 11:57pm On May 15, 2015
Lala247:


Lol ave follwed back smiley

But some girls wont let u show personality before they tell u to swerve..

So how can you use personality explain pls
personality have to do with everything about someone. Some girls like a cool guy , a guy who is funny. You can get a girl when you start to be a cool guy or funny. She might fall and through you will have your way.
Re: Approaching A Lady. by funlord(m): 11:57pm On May 15, 2015
grin what of those that the ladies prefer 2 approach?
Re: Approaching A Lady. by goodgate: 11:58pm On May 15, 2015
rawpadgin:
well, am not sure why people likes me
let me analyze maself

LOOKS = 65% MONEY = 40% CONFIDENCE = 75% PERSONALITY = 70%

be the judge
IF I HEAR!!!
Re: Approaching A Lady. by Cruzeiro(m): 11:58pm On May 15, 2015
It is a general perception that two things are paramount; ;1. Money
2. Good looks.
This is because, with either of the two (or both) you breed confidence.
However, it is trite that to every rule there is an exception. I mean the fallacy called love. Love devoid of looks and money.
I believe the root of it all is that we as humans do believe we deserve more (even when we don't).
Re: Approaching A Lady. by harry509: 11:58pm On May 15, 2015
Lala247:
Which is the most important attribute when approaching a lady.

*Good Looks/Appearance
Some can argue that a handsome man can attract any woman. Do you think your appearance is key when approaching a lady.

*Confidence[/b]I am who GOD say's I am. So gud9t
People that are sure of themselves can argue that this is key in approaching ladies.

*[b]Money

Dont need to say much. Do rich people find it easy to approach ladies.

*Personality
Are you charming, funny, easy going. Etc Is this key


Pick an attribute you think is key and explain your reason.


*sips tea*

Re: Approaching A Lady. by Nobody: 11:58pm On May 15, 2015
prettythicksme:
oh ok :Du need to work harder!!
u faa?
Re: Approaching A Lady. by Nickymezor(f): 11:58pm On May 15, 2015
Lala247:


Lol u no easy oh
grin grin...seriously all of d above...they re interwoven
Re: Approaching A Lady. by jhidey08(m): 11:59pm On May 15, 2015
Nneka123:
Girls Get drawn by what they see in a guy, Different strokes for different individual.

Everything you listed could attract a girl to a guy she finds worthy, but I think appearance is much important, I think appearance could speak much about a guy, then the rest follows.
ur first paragraph is d real deal I think. Jst lyk a thread created by one nairaland lady yesterday saying a guy's fluency in English automatically attracts her. I think appearance is d most important of all doze things sha, d way beauty first attracts a guy to a lady is d same way appearance attracts a lady to a guy. My opinion tho undecided

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Re: Approaching A Lady. by Nobody: 12:01am On May 16, 2015
tosyne2much:
What works for a lady may seem bullshit to another lady

This is the whole truth....

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Re: Approaching A Lady. by drawdrawsoup: 12:01am On May 16, 2015
naijaboiy:
As for me confidence works.

This thread will definitely be stereotyped by the "Money Says it All" group.

*Blows ground nut*
bros u get sugar?
Re: Approaching A Lady. by Nobody: 12:02am On May 16, 2015
funlord:
grin what of those that the ladies prefer 2 approach?
whush ladies
Sorry to say,ladies that do that must be THICK SMELLO'S
because,the guy will never ever value her.
Green light don do abeg
Re: Approaching A Lady. by naijaboiy: 12:02am On May 16, 2015
drawdrawsoup:
bros u get sugar?
Na salt dey.
Re: Approaching A Lady. by Familyman007(m): 12:02am On May 16, 2015
Confidence is vital......Buf it all depence on what d lady is looking 4 in a guy.

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Re: Approaching A Lady. by Nobody: 12:04am On May 16, 2015
jhidey08:
ur first paragraph is d real deal I think. Jst lyk a thread created by one nairaland lady yesterday saying a guy's fluency in English automatically attracts her. I think appearance is d most important of all doze things sha, d way beauty first attracts a guy to a lady is d same way appearance attracts a lady to a guy. My opinion tho undecided
Exactly! smiley
Re: Approaching A Lady. by donbenedict(m): 12:04am On May 16, 2015
Familyman007:
Confidence is vital......Buf it all depence on what d lady is looking 4 in a guy.
lala247 this guy said it all.

This is my son, in whom I am well pleased. Listen to him grin

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Re: Approaching A Lady. by dammywapes(m): 12:05am On May 16, 2015
Familyman007:
Confidence is vital.....Buf d rest really depence on d lady i think.
confidence is the foundation to a relationship. If boi no shaka, n he do like zombie girls go show ham o o.
Re: Approaching A Lady. by Lilimax(f): 12:06am On May 16, 2015
rawpadgin:
well, am not sure why people likes me

let me analyze maself


LOOKS = 65%
MONEY = 40%
CONFIDENCE = 75%
PERSONALITY = 70%


be the judge
so to you money is the least quality undecided? Itssokay! smiley
Re: Approaching A Lady. by goodgate: 12:06am On May 16, 2015
Nneka123:
All the guys here deceiving themselves claiming "Confidence". undecided
don't mind them, instead of going to get the cash.
Re: Approaching A Lady. by dammywapes(m): 12:08am On May 16, 2015
donbenedict:
lala247 this guy said it all.

This is my son, in whom I am well pleased. Listen to him grin
hmm ion agree with you , u might ave d confidence to start but d girl might not agree. Is just that d girl will knw u re a real man.
Re: Approaching A Lady. by tosyne2much(m): 12:08am On May 16, 2015
jnrbayano:
What works on you?

Money. No?

Confidence and personality are completely out of the question and the reason is no brainer......a lady you just met can seldom decipher what personality you have. Lady psychologists may, but what ratio are they to the non-psychologists? Paltry!!

Personality keeps an already attracted lady

Confidence is a quality hidden under the other two attributes: "appearance" and "money" and as such not so potent in attracting someone you just met.

"Money" and "appearance" are the attributes a lady sees on the spot especially if is someone you are just meeting.

Alight from an exotic car, that's money expressing itself. Dresses well and smells good same as the former etc.

Have a decent height and its appearance. Pointed nose and homodont dentition, same etc.

So profound is the mental disorder caused by these two attributes and there's no shame in that.
I like when intelligent people speak

I duff my cap cool

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Re: Approaching A Lady. by Nobody: 12:09am On May 16, 2015
abeeg good money in the bank first........ the rest nah jara
Re: Approaching A Lady. by Cruzeiro(m): 12:10am On May 16, 2015
Lala247:


Lol ave follwed back smiley

But some girls wont let u show personality before they tell u to swerve..

So how can you use personality explain pls


Lol@But some girls wont let u show personality before they tell u to swerve..
Some girls no get joy
Re: Approaching A Lady. by donbenedict(m): 12:11am On May 16, 2015
dammywapes:
hmm ion agree with you , u might ave d confidence to start but d girl might not agree. Is just that d girl will knw u re a real man.
wetin dis one dey yarn? Ddnt u read his comment well? He said it all depends on what she wants in a man..


Capisce
Re: Approaching A Lady. by donbenedict(m): 12:12am On May 16, 2015
remember007:
abeeg good money in the bank first........ the rest nah jara
money is just a visitor.. D bank might get robbed someday.
Re: Approaching A Lady. by Nobody: 12:13am On May 16, 2015
naijaboiy:
As for me confidence works.

This thread will definitely be stereotyped by the "Money Says it All" group.

*Blows ground nut*

The amount of confidence one has is almost a relation of how much financial buoyancy they have.

In essence the Money does it all crew have a little bit of wisdom in their believes.
Re: Approaching A Lady. by vislabraye(m): 12:14am On May 16, 2015
Nneka123:
Girls Get drawn by what they see in a guy, Different strokes for different individual.

Everything you listed could attract a girl to a guy she finds worthy, but I think appearance is much important, I think appearance could speak

much about a guy, then the rest follows.


Yeah true. I've been approached by ladies and it's not because I was very rich. But the problem is that most of the ladies were not hotties .. undecided
I'll say good looks and confidence is very key (don't know which should come first tho)

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Re: Approaching A Lady. by TeamSimple(m): 12:14am On May 16, 2015
Asking this question on a same day Oshiomole got married to a beauty is highly ridiculous. OP you dey wyne us?

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Re: Approaching A Lady. by Nobody: 12:15am On May 16, 2015
donbenedict:
money is just a visitor.. D bank might get robbed someday.

There's deposit insurance these days..... Repent from that believe.
Re: Approaching A Lady. by ronald4lif(m): 12:16am On May 16, 2015
IamLEGEND1:
i've got the looks and i've got da brains
bt guess wat?? i'm single as shït

This comment got me laughing. Perhaps the confidence and personality is lacking. Or what do you think is the p? grin

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