abdulkayus:



Responsible ppl do give a damn abt virgins.

So to you its sleeping that guarantee a good relationship and good marraige?
Stop being a hypocrite.

If being a virgin is the only good quality of a responsible person, then you're a kid that has no clue about relationship!

Thinking......

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firstEVA:
i am not even aware they are asked to keep it secret.

dont worry cos those concerned knew.

Mhizkel:
Virginity is only seen as a taboo by hypocrites...
It's something one needs to be proud of...
But that doesn't mean a lady should tell every Dick and Harry who comes her way, that she is a virgin! At times, it's more safer keeping it to oneself!

Well said. Thanks

My fiancee never told she was a virgin. While asking her out...we talked about sex; she admitted she's had sex a couple of times. In fact I asked how adventurous she's been when it comes to sex (for you to know how open we were while discussing). I figured out she was a decent lady even though she wasn' so lucky with her past relationships (did this with experience). Once we started dating...I was surprised when she told me she's a virgin. I had to wait for 18 months (lol) before I deflowered her (personal decision) and it was worth it.

You write pretty well, like clear sentences and easy to understand the message you were trying to pass across. You surely know how to structure words !

shanda:
My fiancee never told she was a virgin. While asking her out...we talked about sex; she admitted she's had sex a couple of times. In fact I asked how adventurous she's been when it comes to sex (for you to know how open we were while discussing). I figured out she was a decent lady even though she wasn' so lucky with her past relationships (did this with experience). Once we started dating...I was surprised when she told me she's a virgin. I had to wait for 18 months (lol) before I deflowered her (personal decision) and it was worth it.

How can somebody who's had sex a few times suddenly become a virgin?

No one dies a virgin mehn, it's all by choice ! You can choose to celebrate it and you might not. Some are virgins and they don't give a shit about it while some are not and they still don't care ! The society structures it's cultural values which i think part of it re fading off or dying out gradually !

shanda:
My fiancee never told she was a virgin. While asking her out...we talked about sex; she admitted she's had sex a couple of times. In fact I asked how adventurous she's been when it comes to sex (for you to know how open we were while discussing). I figured out she was a decent lady even though she wasn' so lucky with her past relationships (did this with experience). Once we started dating...I was surprised when she told me she's a virgin I had to wait for 18 months (lol) before I deflowered her (personal decision) and it was worth it.

Hi!! There, you might wanna revisit the emboldened. Those two are contradictory...

Youngpo413:
very true,most ladies are now walking with an over used pusies,no man wants that on a wife.

yes

subbieD:



Abnormal people see virginity as an Abnormal thing. The world we are now celebrate or see Sex before marriage as a beautiful,romantic thing to do.
Even our parents are not making it easier for the ladies; a lady must be pregnant before she can get the approval to marry her Love nowadays. How on earth can she achieve that,If not for sleeping /having sex before marriage. A lady that is not a Virgin is a taboo to the land before, but now civilization has taken everything and the word of God has been dropped in the trash bin. To me, a virgin should be celebrated and not criticized, because it takes a determined, strong and fearful,valuable lady to keep herself . I'm not saying that is the only criteria to know a good wife,but I'm saying it's one of the criteria of a blessed home according to GOD.

Most guys that run away from virgins ( lady) are simply irresponsible, I'm Sorry to use that word. They feel once you disflower a lady,you must be 100% submissive to her,which they are not ready to do. Sex is more than digging,to-fro motion,doggy or whatsoever style you can think of,it goes beyond that and Ofcourse SUBMISSION is a great deal......
Respect should be given to VIRGINS and not the opposite.

you wish you could turn back the table...

I feel ur pain sis

Omotayor123:
Contrary to ancient time where virginity is seen as a pride of Every woman And Every single maiden is expected to be One.

Nowadays, Virginity is seen as 'Abnormal'! people will find it impossible to believe that a Mature maiden remain One.



When a lady comes out to say she's a Virgin, Criticism follows And pple that care will advice her not to mention Such to Anyone ( isn't that funny)



And yet Our Religious and Cultural society Expected Maidens to be Such.
So what went Wrong

Why is Virginity now a 'Taboo' for mature single ladies

cc. Tophaz, Twasi, Midehi, Mirexxx, Mrs Chima, Aminat508, firstEva, Mhizkel, diddydiva, Adeh39, SubbieD & other Romancelanders....

cc. Ishilove

If given a second chance,will you like to become a virgin?

Please can We call girls that always give bj,But avoid penetration virgins too?

I can tell you that 70% of virgins dont wish to be virgin...some girls have given so many Guys bj,and still parade themself as virgin.... Take virgins serious at ur own peril

leonshom:
You write pretty well, like clear sentences and easy to understand the message you were trying to pass across. You surely know how to structure words !

Tnx swit

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parisbluefox:
Can I humbly asked how you arrived at the following conclusions? Did you conduct a survey? Well in my own opinion, marrying a virgin is no big deal, what matters is a getting a wife with a good heart. After all some virgins can turn out to be boring in bed

Oh! I researched it from males and females, before arriving at that conclusion

Marrying a virgin is a very good thing, Yeah you are right





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CuteEmma:
great post.. But wait, where did you get these statistics from??

I did a thorough research



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DrGroove:
BEST REPLY plus virgins are targets for rituals

Thanks Dear You are right




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Mcowubaba:

U hit both the Hammer,pliers, Chisel nd Screw driver on the Head
But morethan 45% of guys wan maRRy Virgin oo...like 60% ......4get all these things wey guys d yarn say dem no send virgins...dem love virgins Die!!! Nd will love to MARRY 1...me inclusive

You will love to marry one abi

Let me ask you a question , Are you a virgin What about those ladies you had disvirgined and dumped? Who will marry them?






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segedoo:

who dash u these stats? :/
adeh, you can lie o. Lol

Heeeehehehehehe
I am not lying jare
Go and do your research first



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Jonathan:

Hmn!
Experienced town girl
Am very sure that the road to your house has already become an express lane. God have mercy.

Heeeehehehehe See this guy sha? Does my honest answer makes a bad girl

Come on, this is a matter of reasoning, All I did was to do a thorough research, from my friends and my elders.

Thanks for your compliments anyway

Keep it up





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Are you still a virgin?

Mhizkel:
Virginity is only seen as a taboo by hypocrites...
It's something one needs to be proud of...
But that doesn't mean a lady should tell every Dick and Harry who comes her way, that she is a virgin! At times, it's more safer keeping it to oneself!

kandiikane:


1. I don't know where you got these statistics from

2. Lol, why would any lady who willingly consents to the joys of sex be jealous of someone who chooses not to? Is their sex life that bad? Unless they were abused, I don't get it.

1. I did my research

2. You can't understand dear, every lady out there at some time or the other wish that they are a still a Virgin, So imagine a situation whereby, 5 ladies are living together as best friends, then one of them decided to keep herself till marriage, while the other four have been disvirgined since they were in Secondary school? Those four ladies will envy her very very much. It's only the ladies that can understand my point.


Thanks




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VickyRotex:
Op, you just asked a Rhetorical questions. Anyways, this lady has said it all.



Thumbs up girl, I love your analysis. But na that percentage funny me pass. Shey na Statistics you study ni

Thanks



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adorablepepple:
You are so on point

Thanks Dearie



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Gaidenk:

This your statistics came as a result of frequent banging from a guy who is always high from ogogoro and alomo

Heeeehehehe

Anybody with a good and sharp brain, that has grown up and experienced people around her can come about My answer

THANKS




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laykorn:

45%? 26%? 18%?
Where did you get your statistics from?

Thorough Research



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adeh39:




Thorough Research



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And your research materials were?

laykorn:

And your research materials were?

Mouth.....To ask the experienced ones
Pen and paper...... To jot it down
Brain...... To reason the replies I get
Thanks


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adeh39:



1. I did my research

2. You can't understand dear, every lady out there at some time or the other wish that they are a still a Virgin, So imagine a situation whereby, 5 ladies are living together as best friends, then one of them decided to keep herself till marriage, while the other four have been disvirgined since they were in Secondary school? Those four ladies will envy her very very much. It's only the ladies that can understand my point.


Thanks




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Lies...

kandiikane:

Lies...

Dear It's okay if you don't believe me.

Thanks


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NobleG1:


If being a virgin is the only good quality of a responsible person, then you're kid that has no clue about relationship!

And who said virginity is the only good quality of a responsible person?
Virginity is a virtue and should be hail not condemn and responsible people give do not condemn virgins.
And you are the clueless kid here.

adeh39:

Mouth.....To ask the experienced ones
Pen and paper...... To jot it down
Brain...... To reason the replies I get
Thanks


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Hmm! How many people were interviewed?