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Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 1:08am On Jun 05, 2015 |
Chomzy19: The same question I ask Always bear in mind that some of these boys are teenage gang bangers 8 Likes |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by lumzybo: 1:17am On Jun 05, 2015 |
Hmmmmmn... is all I can say after reading through this thread. ... to cheat or not to cheat? #dilemma |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 6:57am On Jun 05, 2015 |
Nonso23: bwahahahahaha 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Zi: 7:09am On Jun 05, 2015 |
BABE3: My dear, cheating is deriving pleasure from something and you don't want another person to gain the same pleasure because you are selfish. If my husband sleeps with another woman without covering his track, he shouldn't expect me to. That is the REAL cheating! Once I have a hard core evidence that he is having extra-marital affairs, sorry to say, the marriage becomes open! Pls read my previous posts on this. Personally, I will never be happy sleeping with another man that is not my husband (so even if I have to use distant big uncles to fake it), the only idea is for him to feel what I feel -Betrayed! And I'm not going to be sneaking around while at it. CC: Babymama1 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 7:32am On Jun 05, 2015 |
what wont i read here.... for the records, for those women that want to cheat to get back at their husbands, the kind of men you are most likely to get are gigolos who prolly have numerous sexual partners and does not give a hoot about ur well being save for the money hes getting, i find the fact that a number of women are willing to suffer the indignity of having their pvssy ravaged by a "business boy" who has prolly had 4 ladies d same day and would move on to the next one immediately since he owes you nothing... lets see whether cheating on ur husband would iron your self esteem. least, i forget, i hope ur new HIV status would make you feel better too..... smellos 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 7:33am On Jun 05, 2015 |
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Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 7:36am On Jun 05, 2015 |
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Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 8:02am On Jun 05, 2015 |
Nonso23: Lolz, na dat way sure pass oh I meann the scenarios re clearly different, the man cheats for pleasure, the woman cheat to get back at him, not because she wants to... How the helll does someone desecrate her body just to get back at someone else? 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Teespice(f): 8:13am On Jun 05, 2015 |
KissesandWine: rightly said. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 8:33am On Jun 05, 2015 |
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Re: Ladies Talk To Me by poshest(f): 8:49am On Jun 05, 2015 |
why is everyone talking about the cheating aspect alone. dont forget the man is violent, he broke her head once and his mum even takes his side. smh 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 9:02am On Jun 05, 2015 |
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Re: Ladies Talk To Me by coogar: 9:55am On Jun 05, 2015 |
Nonso23: njokusboy: you guys have time arguing with these beings that have extreme difficulty with logic. bunch of hypocrites they are! isn't this the same set of women that argued a man should never retaliate physical abuse against his wife or any woman as 2 wrongs don't make a right? or am i reading their comments wrongly? now....they want to open their legs and fück another man because their husband cheated. for most women, logic isn't the strongest point. they would retaliate if it's sex but they don't want him to retaliate when they slap him in the face. i implore you guys to set your standards sky high. if the wife cheats, that should be the end of the relationship or marriage. no ifs & buts. she shouldn't even be around to know if i would retaliate or not. she's going straight to her father's house! if i cheat on her, i expect her to leave too. i won't even make any effort to stop her from leaving. if she's worth anything in the first place, i wouldn't have cheated on her. if she stays after my infidelity & thinks she shall be given the same grace if she cheats, then she's on a long thing! 22 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by jadelyn007(f): 10:33am On Jun 05, 2015 |
Lmao, you ladies should let this cheating issue be abeg. Its as simple as ABC, if your man or woman cheats on you, do whatever you like, if you like get out of the marriage, if you like stay, if you like kill the cheat, if you like cheat back, whatever it is that you feel like doing please do is fine. Stop being so hard on yourself. If I for example find my man cheating on me, I'd do the first thing that comes to my mind at that instance, be it divorce, ignoring it, cheating back, killing him n dumping his body in the lake, yea, I'm that crazy. The most important thing is I won't feel bad afterwards. Just do whatever you want to do and damn the consequences. |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by jadelyn007(f): 10:34am On Jun 05, 2015 |
Lmao, you ladies should let this cheating issue be abeg. Its as simple as ABC, if your man or woman cheats on you, do whatever you like, if you like get out of the marriage, if you like stay, if you like kill the cheat, if you like cheat back, whatever it is that you feel like doing please do is fine. Stop being so hard on yourself. If I for example find my man cheating on me, I'd do the first thing that comes to my mind at that instance, be it divorce, ignoring it, cheating back, killing him n dumping his body in the lake, yea, I'm that crazy. The most important thing is I won't feel bad afterwards. Just do whatever you want to do and damn the consequences. Also never forget that anybody that cheats on you doesn't value your worth as a person. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 10:44am On Jun 05, 2015 |
coogar: QED 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 11:05am On Jun 05, 2015 |
In the meantime, their head chief has further confirmed the stand that he will never cheat on a woman he values in the first place and would leave him if he does. Therefore the cheating ones have no value for their wives. Now where are those preaching men do not attach worth/love to sex?! 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by UjSizzle(f): 11:14am On Jun 05, 2015 |
I've met cheating men and women who are fully aware of his actions but do nothing about it. So maybe it is true that some men cheat and we can't change it, but how we deal with this fact is very subjective. You can choose to ignore or rant or even lace his food with and OD of Tylenol (real nice )... whatever makes you happy. I know women who don't care what the man does so long he takes care of his family while at it. Personally I have no idea what I'd do if that happened to me. I'll place my bet on the Tylenol though or maybe I'll leave the nigger. But I sure as hell won't be killing myself for no bastard. Still I'm keeping my aunt's advice close to heart. "Men marry because they want legitimate children and not for love." Could be bad advice depending on your prerogative, but it's bound to give every woman a goodnight's sleep. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 11:20am On Jun 05, 2015 |
For those talking desecration, a man who sleep with prostitutes, mad women, goats etc and goes back to the wife automatically desecrates her. A study on here exposed that DNA are shared between sleeping partners, consolidating the christain point of sharing spirits during sex. If that man that was sleeping with goat impregnates his wife and she delivers half human, half goat, they will say how come? That's how they make their wifes give birth to kids with questionable characters even with discipline. So if a woman decide to cheat back and even step further to be the one to bring the HIV (how intriguing, because even the man no go fit ask the wife the source), can she be said to be desecrated a second time? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 11:24am On Jun 05, 2015 |
jadelyn007: I like this post |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by jaybee3(m): 11:29am On Jun 05, 2015 |
UjSizzle: |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by UjSizzle(f): 11:33am On Jun 05, 2015 |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 11:35am On Jun 05, 2015 |
elantraceey:On point!! |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 12:02pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
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Re: Ladies Talk To Me by snakebeat: 12:04pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
jadelyn007:U won't feel bad after killing & dumping d remains of ur man, just because of cheating!!!! My sister, honestly, boko haram needs u & ur likes.... 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 12:04pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by damiso(f): 12:14pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
coogar: coogar is it your church mind that typed the bolded? If it is at least you are able to live with the consequences of your actions. Not those who expect her to not complain and grin & bear it ( I know someone who told his wife your kids go to the most expensive schools in Nigeria and you are complaining SMH ) I know all this your online bragging is just braggado you will surely make a fine husband for sister sarah Just stop abusing people sha. I guess its worse in Nigeria cos some of my friends back home are very paranoid 'why are you letting your husband to come to Nigeria alone uhmmm Lagos Girls are not smiling o' I tell them 'if I can he can go to vegas alone why cant he go to his country alone' ' haa you are already thinking like oyinbo you are too naïve bla bla' . I tell them 'abeg I don't have time to be policing anybody like a bodyguard' . me sef I wan go vegas with my girls when I am 40 |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Stillfire: 12:40pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Nonso23: And you are on the other thread supporting that women remain in these marriages and angered at other women telling her to leave her marriage, lmao! coogar: Lol, at least this one here isn't a two-faced idibia. Your mates are on another thread proposing that women remain in such marriages if they cheat. Hypocrisy to the greatest power. Something they cannot take themselves. I absolutely agree. Women have REFUSED to set standards for themselves. A woman started the other thread about condoning cheating in men. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 12:48pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 12:49pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Thread says "ladies talk to me " Now we know there are at least 5 soon to be transgendered ones in our midst Welcome to the fold ladies Thanks for finally coming out boldly out of the closet We have enjoyed all your contributions 10 Likes
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Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 12:55pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
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Re: Ladies Talk To Me by jadelyn007(f): 12:55pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
snakebeat:no I won't, not even a teeny weeny bit of regret. By the way cheating is a deal breaker for me nt just a minor thing, same with domestic violence. Any other thing I can tolerate, but I can do something really dangerous as regards d above 2. |
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