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Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by Nobody: 9:30pm On Jun 28, 2015
bukatyne:


Would you support your father Bleep.ing his secretary?

Would his father flaunt it that he was screwing his secretary? Would he not feel ashamed/embarrassed if was found to be straffing his secretary? *smh*

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Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by dinachi(m): 9:31pm On Jun 28, 2015
bukatyne:


The major problem with polygamy apart from the fact it is very selfish.

MoSt first wives in polygamy are in the union because they don't want to 'lose'. their investment in the marriage..
Even some women in monogamous relationships are also in there cos of the investment of the marriage. So what's your point? How does it concern you directly what consenting adult polygamists are doing in their room?

Who told you adult women are forced into polygamy? Many go there out of their free will. What of monogamous women who are forced into marriage against their will BT their family?

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Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by Nobody: 9:32pm On Jun 28, 2015
Timbuktou:


Laughable. A huge population is a major asset in today's world. There's a reason Nigeria is a leading light in Africa despite the many problems we seem to have. China is a more relevant country today than the whole UK is. Think about that.

Caucasians are going to become second class citizens in the UK in the future. Outsiders are taking over, and then they'd wish they had kept outsiders out and protected their legacy.
You mean the outsiders that came for handouts and benefits?
Keep dreaming.
When you wake up let me know to serve you coffee.
Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by edwife(f): 9:34pm On Jun 28, 2015
@lolaredvelvet and marvellousGod,tooNoisy any comment? cheesy
Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by bukatyne(f): 9:34pm On Jun 28, 2015
Timbuktou:


Would his father flaunt it that he was screwing his secretary? Would he not feel ashamed/embarrassed if was found to be straffing his secretary? *smh*

Don't Let your head fall off o!

This was my post here

bukatyne:

The major problem with polygamy apart from the fact it is very selfish.
MoSt first wives in polygamy are in the union because they don't want to 'lose'. their investment in the marriage.
Homosexuals are two people of same sex who decided to be together; no force.
Is it crazy and wrong? Yes but So is adultery (favorite hobby), fornication, stealing, lying, greed, excess partying, back biting, slander, gossip etc. etc.


Also, I do not understand the numerous threads online since the it was legalized;
If you are not gay, hug your guy/girl and leave them to their business. If you are gay, goodluck.
Legalizing gay marriage (not gay relationship as gays have been existing since Sodom ), would not cause an influx in gay relationships.
Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by PenAndPaper: 9:34pm On Jun 28, 2015
I wonder what am gonna tell my unborn kids about this weird lifestyle.
How do I tell them it's unnatural, when a country like the US (that was known to love Christ and that was what kept them together) has legalized this immoral act.
I feel sad for my kids generation.
Soon other countries will follow suit. embarassed

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Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by dinachi(m): 9:36pm On Jun 28, 2015
bukatyne:


Would you support your father Bleep.ing his secretary?
You know the answer is never! And I have never seen any man and his secretary carrying placards and marching that adultery should be supported and accepted as good, have you?

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Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by Nobody: 9:36pm On Jun 28, 2015
bukatyne:


The major problem with polygamy apart from the fact it is very selfish.

MoSt first wives in polygamy are in the union because they don't want to 'lose'. their investment in the marriage.

Homosexuals are two people of same sex who decided to be together; no force.

Is it crazy and wrong? Yes but So is adultery (favorite hobby), fornication, stealing, lying, greed, excess partying, back biting, slander, gossip etc. etc.

Also, I do not understand the numerous threads online since the it was legalized;

If you are not gay, hug your guy/girl and leave them to their business. If you are gay, goodluck.

Legalizing gay marriage (not gay relationship as gays have been existing since Sodom ), would not cause an influx in gay relationships.

We cannot just leave them and mind our 'business', it is our business that men are bleeping men and flaunting it. Babe, we are evolutionary creatures and whether you want to accept it or not, gays are evolutionary dead ends. The proper thing to do is disincentivise the growth of an anomaly.

Bukatyne, you have branched out from christian feminism to gay apology? Wonderful. As a christian, where is the line drawn for you, or is there no good and bad anymore, just relativity?

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Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by bukatyne(f): 9:37pm On Jun 28, 2015
dinachi:

Even some women in monogamous relationships are also in there cos of the investment of the marriage. So what's your point? How does it concern you directly what consenting adult polygamists are doing in their room?

Who told you adult women are forced into polygamy? Many go there out of their free will. What of monogamous women who are forced into marriage against their will BT their family?

Should we do a survey of the number of first wives who cconsented to polygamy?
Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by edwife(f): 9:37pm On Jun 28, 2015
Chillisauce:

You mean the outsiders that came for handouts and benefits?
Keep dreaming.
When you wake up let me know to serve you coffee.


They are actually working chilli,the government is now tight with benefits and housing.As a foreigner you can only be on the housing list after you have lived for 5 years in the UK and 3 years for benefit.
Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by Nobody: 9:39pm On Jun 28, 2015
coogar:


if the UK isn't west, then where is it? east? grin
close to half a million people stay in polygamous households in france, all those malian immigrants with their numerous wives. maybe france isn't west too. grin



polygamy doesn't necessarily aid over-population. if those women in polygamy married another man in a monogamous relationship, they would have children there too.



i am not convinced polygamy is the reason for our staggering population in nigeria. we just love sex too much in that country. there are many islamic african countries that aren't as populous as nigeria & polygamy is more prevalent there.

a monogamous man with a dozen concubines is not polygamous & yet he has more than 20 secret love children. 2face is "monogamous" but how many kids does he have with different women? let's be honest - the issue here isn't poly/mono, it's about sex deviance!

Polygamy is very well checked in France. The French don't take sh1t! Why do you think the Francophone countries are still very much officially controled by the French. Not like fear fear English that gave Nigeria Independence.
The English cannot even ban the black covered Muslima in their country.

In the West, the immigrants live by the laws. Not like what's obtainable in UK.

Polygamy is the cause of every bad thing aside farming in Nigeria.
messed up kids with absentee fathers running amok.
They turn around pressing their half and quater sibling breasts in return.
poverty to feed plenty mouth.
drop out of school due to lack of finance.
etc
Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by edwife(f): 9:40pm On Jun 28, 2015
Timbuktou:


We cannot just leave them and mind our 'business', it is our business that men are bleeping men and flaunting it. Babe, we are evolutionary creatures and whether you want to accept it or not, gays are evolutionary dead ends. The proper thing to do is disincentivise the growth of an anomaly.

Bukatyne, you have branched out from christian feminism to gay apology? Wonderful. As a christian, where is the line drawn for you, or is there no good and bad anymore, just relativity?

Not only it is everybody business but numerous threads and articles will be written about it for now on till we are tired cheesy, if Bruce jenner and toke makwina's news were everywhere why not this?
Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by Nobody: 9:41pm On Jun 28, 2015
edwife:


They are actually working chilli,the government is now tight with benefits and housing.As a foreigner you can only be on the housing list after you have lived for 5 years in the UK and 3 years for benefit.

Over here no one will give you housing or benefits oh. Oyo.
When you tire to sleep under bridge, you go enter under lorry straight to UK. (The dumping ground) grin
Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by Nobody: 9:42pm On Jun 28, 2015
Chillisauce:

You mean the outsiders that came for handouts and benefits?
Keep dreaming.
When you wake up let me know to serve you coffee.


It would serve you well to go through the history of former 'Great' and seemingly infallible civilisations. It might not happen in 50 years, but the seeds of defeat in the caucasian population have been sown with their 'progressiveness'. Check Egypt, Rome, Greece, Sparta. It is the very same reason igbos can call Lagos 'no-man's land' and get less than a slap on the wrist, the reason they can have the temerity of presenting an igbo man for Lagos governorship. wink .Of course, don't take my word for it, do your own research.
Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by edwife(f): 9:42pm On Jun 28, 2015
Chillisauce:


Over here no one will give you housing or benefits oh. Oyo.
When you tire to sleep for bridge, you go enter under lorry straight to UK. (The dumping ground) grin

Yimu,we dey send them back to calais.... grin tongue
Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by bukatyne(f): 9:42pm On Jun 28, 2015
Timbuktou:


We cannot just leave them and mind our 'business', it is our business that men are bleeping men and flaunting it. Babe, we are evolutionary creatures and whether you want to accept it or not, gays are evolutionary dead ends. The proper thing to do is disincentivise the growth of an anomaly.

Bukatyne, you have branched out from christian feminism to gay apology? Wonderful. As a christian, where is the line drawn for you, or is there no good and bad anymore, just relativity?

Let's stick to topic now, shall we or is This a cacaus stuff? A certain answer acceptable

What is my business that gay marriage is legalized? None... it is for me to prayerfully bring up my kids.

I know that legalizing gay marriage (not relationship) would not make a straight person experiment with homosexuality.
Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by Nobody: 9:44pm On Jun 28, 2015
bukatyne:


Should we do a survey of the number of first wives who cconsented to polygamy?



Who stopped them from divorcing.

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Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by coogar: 9:46pm On Jun 28, 2015
Chillisauce:



Polygamy is very well checked in France. The French don't take sh1t! Why do you think the Francophone countries are still very much officially controled by the French. Not like fear fear English that gave Nigeria Independence.
The English cannot even ban the black covered Muslima in their country.

nothing is checked in france....
the only thing that gets checked is the ceremony. no man can marry twice in france & the same applies to the UK.

however, a man can marry 300 wives in nigeria & ship all of them to the UK & live under the same roof. so what's the biggie? there are close to 100,000 polygamous families in the USA too.


In the West, the immigrants live by the laws. Not like what's obtainable in UK.

muslim communities in all parts of the west have plenty of polygamous households. there's nothing the law can do about it as long as the ceremony to marry multiple wives did not take place in the west.


Polygamy is the cause of every bad thing aside farming in Nigeria.
messed up kids with absentee fathers running amok.

why isn't this the case in dubai, saudi arabia, senegal, guinea, morocco or tunisia?


They turn around pressing their half and quater sibling breasts in return.poverty to feed plenty mouth. drop out of school due to lack of finance.
etc

hahaha
you are reaching!

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Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by bukatyne(f): 9:46pm On Jun 28, 2015
dinachi:

You know the answer is never! And I have never seen any man and his secretary carrying placards and marching that adultery should be supported and accepted as good, have you?

You have sha seen posters supporting adultery here on NL?

Oya tell me How it affects you that gay marriage is legalized.
Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by Nobody: 9:46pm On Jun 28, 2015
Timbuktou:


It would serve you well to go through the history of former 'Great' and seemingly infallible civilisations. It might not happen in 50 years, but the seeds of defeat in the caucasian population have been sown with their 'progressiveness'. Check Egypt, Rome, Greece, Sparta. It is the very same reason igbos can call Lagos 'no-man's land' and get less than a slap on the wrist, the reason they can have the temerity of presenting an igbo man for Lagos governorship. wink .Of course, don't take my word for it, do your own research.

You still dey local politics.
these days we don't look at skin color but control the mind. The way we are still using religion on yall.
that's why you have british Nigerian governors ruling yall and sending the best juice to UK.

You see best athletes representing other countries you dey dey do my brother while the West are reaping the juice.
Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by edwife(f): 9:49pm On Jun 28, 2015
Damiso why you run? grin come and drop some some....
Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by Afrobasic(m): 9:49pm On Jun 28, 2015
Chillisauce:
Protect the environment.
do not intensitionaly cause harm to others except in a tight situation.

Homosexuality is based on two adults who want same thing. They are not causing harm to others and their immediate environment.

Polygamy can cause harm to others directly or indirectly. Heartbreak, multiple sexual partners that might transmit diseases sexually. Most of the time the other party have no say and will have to remain in the union against her wish.
population control is a major factor, with the way we are going if nothing is done the population will take lots of earth natural resources.

So we need more gay partners (less children )., less polygamy families. At most 2 children to parents.

And above all more wars and bombs.
the world is over populated. The earlier we cut the population the better. smiley



these people meet your criteria, are you still in full support?

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Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by Nobody: 9:50pm On Jun 28, 2015
edwife:


Yimu,we dey send them back to calais.... grin tongue

Yall take them , give them benefits and housing. cheesy
they turn around and head straight to ISIS in Syria to kill people.
Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by Nobody: 9:51pm On Jun 28, 2015
bukatyne:


Let's stick to topic now, shall we or is This a cacaus stuff? A certain answer acceptable

What is my business that gay marriage is legalized? None... it is for me to prayerfully bring up my kids.

I know that legalizing gay marriage (not relationship) would not make a straight person experiment with homosexuality.

It's no caucus thing, BeeKay. You're my sis and are approachable. Doesn't mean I would willingly accept all opinions of yours.

You're in denial, madam. What will prayer achieve? Are you saying thgre is not one gay person whose parents are true christians? Hahahaha. It is a matter of socialisation and incentivisation. Why is polygamy not accepted the generality of the western population? They have tried to kill it. I'm sure they had their reasons for trying to flush it.

You have no idea.

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Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by Nobody: 9:53pm On Jun 28, 2015
coogar:


nothing is checked in france....
the only thing that gets checked is the ceremony. no man can marry twice in france & the same applies to the UK.

however, a man can marry 300 wives in nigeria & ship all of them to the UK & love under the same roof. so what's the biggie? there are close to 100,000 polygamous families in the USA too.



muslim communities in all parts of the west have plenty of polygamous households. there's nothing the law can do about it as long as the ceremony to marry multiple wives did not take place in the west.



why isn't this the case in dubai, saudi arabia, senegal, guinea, morocco or tunisia?



hahaha
you are reaching!

You said nothing is checked? cheesy
You make me laugh.
when him marry finish, time to pay rent him go hear whine.
Is not like UK that gives free housing anyhow.
by the time hunger hammer them with their entitled 400euro benefit per month nobody go tell them.
No work sef for them .
the next thing they do is migrate to UK. cheesy
Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by coogar: 9:55pm On Jun 28, 2015
Chillisauce:


Yall take them , give them benefits and housing. cheesy
they turn around and head straight to ISIS in Syria to kill people.

every human being deserves to be treated as one. these people fled their war-torn countries to seek refuge in the UK - why shouldn't they be given food & housing? nor be the same UK destroy their countries with selfish politicking?

would ISIS be any issue if gadaffi & saddam hussein were still alive? the western countries deserve everything they get from ISIS.


Chillisauce:

You said nothing is checked? cheesy
You make me laugh.
when him marry finish, time to pay rent him go hear whine.
Is not like UK that gives free housing anyhow.
by the time hunger hammer them with their entitled 400euro benefit per month nobody go tell them.
No work sef for them .
the next thing they do is migrate to UK. cheesy

let them come, we will take them. grin
we would make use of the useful ones amongst them & send the others to the mines.

look at mo farah today - he was an immigrant/refugee from somalia. today, he's an olympic medallist. no human being is totally useless. cheesy

france should start making use of their refugees. cool
Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by damiso(f): 9:56pm On Jun 28, 2015
Not a fan of polygamy because of some of the rancour it caused in my extended family.Too much drama.

However putting my own personal feelings and family issues there aside are loads of women who willingly go into it..Older wives married young girls for their husbands so they could have time to travel for trade.

The premise on why most people would say polygamy and gay marriage are not the same is that one is based on love and the other is not. Unfortunately love is subjective and not everyone marries for 'love'.Not saying its ideal but judging (which we are told not to do gay people who want to marry) people who do not marry for love is exactly the same.Judging. I won't go into a polyandry but why should I judge those who want to?

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Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by edwife(f): 9:56pm On Jun 28, 2015
Chillisauce:


Yall take them , give them benefits and housing. cheesy
they turn around and head straight to ISIS in Syria to kill people.

Who take them? come here and see how illegal immigrants are suffering.Do you watch Britain borders?you will know that they are not playing here.

There are many illegal immigrants in France that the government is not aware of,many chilli.In the banlieu you don't even have immigration police,go to chateau rouge..... cheesy

No be France i dey go when i want to? grin
Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by Nobody: 9:56pm On Jun 28, 2015
Chillisauce:


You still dey local politics.
these days we don't look at skin color but control the mind. The way we are still using religion on yall.
that's why you have british Nigerian governors ruling yall and sending the best juice to UK.

You see best athletes representing other countries you dey dey do my brother while the West are reaping the juice.

Politics has always been local, and global wink

Goodluck to yall.

That one na work nan na leisure. How many Arabs would be given MI6 appointments?
Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by edwife(f): 10:00pm On Jun 28, 2015
damiso:
Not a fan of polygamy because of some of the rancour it caused in my extended family.Too much drama.

However putting my own personal feelings and family issues there aside are loads of women who willingly go.Older wives married young girls for their husbands so they could have time to travel for trade.

The premise on why most people would say polygamy and gay marriage are not the same is that one is based on love and the other is not. Unfortunately love is subjective and not everyone marries for 'love'.Not saying its ideal but judging (which we are told not to do gay people who want to marry) people who do not marry for love is exactly the same.Judging. I won't go into a polyandry but why should I judge those who want to?


This is the crux of the matter.Why judge and criticize someone who decided to go into polyandry but not homosexuality? undecided
Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by Nobody: 10:00pm On Jun 28, 2015
edwife:


Not only it is everybody business but numerous threads and articles will be written about it for now on till we are tired cheesy, if Bruce jenner and toke makwina's news were everywhere why not this?

Lol. You too like wahala sef
Re: Let's Talk About Marriage(homosexuality,polygamy And Others) by edwife(f): 10:02pm On Jun 28, 2015
Timbuktou:


Lol. You too like wahala sef

I am the most peaceful poster after damiso here tongue

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