I've been there many times. Just be make her see reason why it can't work. And if you have a lady in your live already. Always talk about your lady whenever you are around her and always show through talks that you are not ready to leave your lady because any other lady.

IamLEGEND1:
you pull her in close and you whisper in her ear...

" Girl dont get me wrong,

" You are beautiful and all"

" I just dont like u bítch".

" No hard feelings"

I've been in your shoes many times. Do nothing.

BarcaBlood:
That is; without hurting her feelings Cos it has happened to me more than once and on every occasion the lady's feeling turned from likeness to contempt, or even hatred sef?


Any help?

Is she pretty? If yes, then succumb. If she is not, tell her you are gay.

donholy28:
Not possible...they all get angry no matter how u do it

and tag you a fool or immature or worst still uncivilized.

EnlightenedSoul:


Her feelings aren't your problem. Politely tell her you're not interested and move on.

I concur with you. If he is concerned about her feelings, that means he loves her

dapsoneh:
mayb u shld just let her know u are engaged or in a serious relationship and if she insists, then, she has herself to blame afterwards and besides, anytn btw u is her loss cos u av made ursef clear to her by being a gentleman

ladies never have to lie to tell a guy no so why should guys lie??


normally ladies dont verbalise thier feelings and if they do u just let them know it mau not work for

nice 1

FREINDZONE HER.....

Ladies are very egoistic when it comes to this. You dare not turn them down. If you do, just pray nothing unfortunate happens to you cos she's on stand by to rub it in.

lilspiceyy:

Their pride has been hurt so its normal to feel dat way. I think taking offence is a kind of defence for us as regards the humiliation. Its nt easy for a naija girl to make her intentions knwn cos we are conservative in dis part of d world. So guys, wen a girl does dat, u shld knw the amount of courage she must have gathered so don't blame us

Hmmm! I see

BarcaBlood:


All join. She'd still bad mouth you to her friends and stare at you like a devil when you walk by

I tire

it doesn't matter how nice you are to a goat,it will still eat your yam,ladies generally have this high self esteem,and for a lady to ask you out herself means she's dumped her pride and a negative response from you tends to light up a gun powder within her,you cnt turn em down politely,there is nothing of such,in as much as your response is to the negative her love for you will materialize into a hatred you can't quantify,all you need do is stand your ground and care less about her actions and response,trust me you don't wanna pamper or tame a scorned woman......

What can I say than










Use ghostmode!

fajani:
tell her you HIV POSITIVE.....

dis one will do d magic.

BarcaBlood:


All join. She'd still bad mouth you to her friends and stare at you like a devil when you walk by

I tire

bros, everybody no fit like u.
even if u date am,
some girls go still hate u.

do d right thing always.

i v learnt my lessons.

biochea:
buy n wear an engagement ring

I tried it sometime ago, even told her that i'm married still didnt work, right now she takes me as a heartless fellow.

DDeliverer:
Tis impossible to turn a girl down without them hating you..impossible.

i once did....and the lady started making plans to deal with me..I even heard she was planning to arrange cult guys for me..lol

They just feel they can have whatever they want...and when they dont, they become very bitter and brutal.

women ego! taller than their male counterparts!

there is no polite way op; know why it hurts them more? cos they be feeling 'how can different types of men be chasing me, yet i get turned down by the one i really want?' it shld hurt them like hell.

Got away with mine by threatening to tell her folks about her bad attitude(good thing I knew a lot of those attitudes she portray).She just calmed down and I became the happiest guy on earth.

Something tells me the girl in question is not that beautiful, huh?

This is exactly what i told a girl who said she loved me and she didnt hate me for it.

I said, babe, you are very pretty, infact i think any guy would be lucky to have you, you are everything right about women and i admire the fact that you swallowed your pride and told me just how much you feel about me, i really respect you for that BUT.....i already have a girlfriend and if i wasnt dating her, am sure i would be dating you, its just too bad am already in a serious relationship . But am perfectly okay with us being friends.


She accepted my friendship and we are still friends today even though i lied about having a girlfriend.

I found my self in this situation severally and I honestly and politely told her..."girl, we're better off being friends, there are parts of me you'll not like if we eventually date, I love the way we are and I would love to keep it that way, I respect your boldness, as a matter of fact, you have my respect 150%"...we laughed about it and that was it....we're still very good friends though she finally has a man in her life now...and yes..i make sure I keep my distance...

.

If she hate u after turning her down...that is not a problem, is it? After all u don't love her

BarcaBlood:
That is; without hurting her feelings Cos it has happened to me more than once and on every occasion the lady's feeling turned from likeness to contempt, or even hatred sef?


Any help?

Let me see your pic,

Try to smoke 3wraps of osogbo weed with 300mg chinese tramadol.
Call her on phone and tell her what your mind says at that moment. thank me later!

anonimi:

Surely can't be ovalrose, or can it

wetin I do?

Demigods:


Let me see your pic,

I've shown it before na. Anyway here it is

bawz012:



bros, everybody no fit like u.
even if u date am,
some girls go still hate u.

do d right thing always.

i v learnt my lessons.

I've learnt dat already. Tnx

streetzdreamz:
it doesn't matter how nice you are to a goat,it will still eat your yam,ladies generally have this high self esteem,and for a lady to ask you out herself means she's dumped her pride and a negative response from you tends to light up a gun powder within her,you cnt turn em down politely,there is nothing of such,in as much as your response is to the negative her love for you will materialize into a hatred you can't quantify,all you need do is stand your ground and care less about her actions and response,trust me you don't wanna pamper or tame a scorned woman......

Hmmmn
Food for thought

Bjergtrolde:


Is she pretty? If yes, then succumb. If she is not, tell her you are gay.

Hahahahaha

She try 4 beauty sha

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Excuzeme:


Sexy lips like that of terrorist!

Lol. Am cute like that