HARDDON:


This is d reason u gurls friend zone guys! Wussbags ! that don't have minds of their own! Always @ d whips n caprises of some random gurl! Beck n call droids!

InFact ladies, here Is a Lil secret , any guy that does what op just listed above, wants nothing esle but ur body! U rapidly become a statistics


Op, here is a Lil secret : in every r/ship, he/she who cares less, has the controlling power n since u were d one that wooed them, the power was with u. But they quickly Start sending u unnecessary errands to see How u react, use emotional blackmail somethings so u do their bedding, once u fall in line, there goes ur controlling power n ur manhood( Yes Cos just like Esau, u just sold ur birth right!.) Then she begins to manipulate u n even friendzone u, cos u got no balls n woman hate men that cant Stand on their two feet!


Example 1
Yours truly had an ex that wudnt just let go even after Startin another r/ship wit another guy, when he asked y she kept coming back, she said nu guy does everything she wants n it gets boring n she even suspect he is up to something Cos she always win al arguments.....he also always does d calling......


EXAMPLE 2

Younger years, yours truly had this really heated argument with his gurl n she wudnt just shush.....she kept going on n on. She locked d door n wudnt let him just walk out the way he handles such situations.
She was up on his face n wudnt back down, then suddenly, in a Flash, a hawt slap sped across her cheeks n like cold water on a thirty throat, she went numb n started crying. Where did that come from? He wondered!
Gently she lay on bed, comatosed he stood dere, breathess yet relieved.
you wud not imagine what she said when everything became normal: she said SHE ACTUALLY LIKED IT THAT YOURS TRULY SLAPPED HER. THAT SHE CUDNT JUST STOP EVEN WHEN SHE WANTED To... But it was a test still cos he had told her he can never raise his hands on her when they started dating earlier n she has been testing him tru all means untill that day.she concluded he still has balls n luv flowed wantonly from her...... ( this is not to say yours truly advocates women hittin)

HIbreed:
Now what do you want

Toks2008:


My brother believe it or not these daughters of eve are very complex and the best you can do is to be good to them not minding that they can turn around and throw it back at your face.

Toks2008:

lol!
i will gladly be only if you are 25 and above

kajoula:


before this ....get to know her person FIRST.
invest your time wisely...it will be a good help to you rather that investing it 100% on someone who will not appreciate you....

make it a 50:50 thing. ...no pain no gain, so whenever she decides to leave u wouldn't feel disappointed.


#mytoken.

falconey:
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sophietosyneabou:
awww..wah a tragedy,m 18

Toks2008:


No way...that means if i got a lady pregnant 22years ago i can as well be your father...So you see why i cant date any lady below 25? i can't cope with the childish mindset of younger ladies believing they still have more time.

And for the myopic people singing "go and marry lyrics" i guess they are shallow minded because the way many people see marriage is not what it is and shits do happen and only the wise will understand. The threads i create on nairalaned is my own way of educating people about the complexities of romance so that they will learn and make adjustments where necessary.

I am not on nairaland to look for a lady and this is why you see me write no hold barr articles and NO LADY ON NAIRALAND OR OFFLINE IN ANY PART OF THE WORLD CAN FIND ME WANTING in any regberegbe situations and this is why i am proud of myself and can stand shoulder high to write with so much dignity.

So please when you see my threads,for your own good,read very well and try to learn a thing or two from it.

sophietosyneabou:
haaa,modaran..i was only joking faa Mr..i have a fiance..tot u wud play along..

Toks2008:


Doing all the listed does not make you a slowpoke but a real man who knows his responsibilities and you can stand tall and tell a lady to her face that you have no reason to take the blame for whatever negative actions she takes

mart2k:
do we really need to do all these because of a lady? D answer is NO

hatchy:
There is nothing on earth you will do to please a woman.Just thank God for the one you have right now.A woman whose hubby is rich and is being catered for can sleep with that dirty gateman or driver,so if you like provide heaven and earth for her if she decide to be bad she will be.Just do your part and leave the rest.

Tapout:
what nonsense!! asin what a real nonsense!! ..this whole relationship. shi't ain't one sided ya"ll should know that..... dunno y some guys keep giving themselves the wrong impression about ladies posting shitty things on social media only for some silly lady to come and read it and feal it's her right to be worshipped.

Toks2008:


Apparently many guys here ranting about how unrealistic the first 14points are have not really met a lady they love and truly desire because these things should come naturally if you truly love a lady regardless of whether she appreciates ot not.

test:
Chairman Sir!

Do you know today is my first time ever writing anything at all on nairaland. And you people that I havent even seen have given me so much help, Thanks all. Bros Without any much ado, I have received good advise here and without wasting time I have sent her a fine semi break up text, am sure she will come finding me, or her loss. and I move on to a better babe. Cos I aint no broke dude, she knows whats up!

Opiosko:

Sorry for my experience bro, i better have luck next time ;(

butanep:


I can't just help but laugh...


Women problem plenty jare... A woman will want me to be always with her, when I need to hustle and make cash...

butanep:



I don't think one need to read books because of a woman. What is so important about some ladies that have nothing to offer than sex.

A woman is the one that ought to read books for me and not otherwise. If I have to read books, it's the very one that will be me a wealthy guy not to please a woman.

Bamidupe20:
i disagree.except you don't want to have a future with the woman. building the relationship is up to you both so also pulling it down.not a woman's job alone

vague:

Today you are talking about how to live happliy with a woman. Tomorrow you are talking about how useless they are.

All these wifeless 40something year old PhD graduates in Womantology sef, i don tire for una. I just came from a midweek service and i cannot be wicked so all i will say is may Gos deliver you

zoelife:


She does deserve to be worshipped.

Now bow down my Lord!

Toks2008:


Honestly i wish i don't have to answer you but the bible says we should answer the myopic so that he or she will not believe there is sense in what such a person think or says.Proverbs 26:5: Answer a fool according to his folly, or he will be wise in his own eyes.

If you are a lady then i will really be sorry for your hubby to be and if you are a man then i will say you are shallow minded and very unreasonable.

So what makes you think that marriage defines the overall integrity and character f an individual? Infact your comment is the most VAGUE and foolish comment i have ever come across on any online interactive forum.

I beg you when you pray each morning include this prayer point "GOD grant me the mental IQ to understand what life is all about and grant you the wisdom to know what to say at any given point in time" because you are definitely of low intelligent quotient and a sorry case of a human specie. Ato le

I wil stop here.

Toks2008:


Apparently many guys here ranting about how unrealistic the first 14points are have not really met a lady they love and truly desire because these things should come naturally if you truly love a lady regardless of whether she appreciates ot not.