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Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by mentorandfriend(m): 3:18am On Sep 05, 2015 |
angelchinny:What kind of man is that who does not treat a wife that has given him three children that includes a set of twins like a queen? Some men are so confused, not knowing what they want; only to wake up some five or ten years later to discover how they ruined their beautiful home. I'm sure he'll get tired. Never stop being a good wife. Goodness triumphs over evil always. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by Jamb2016Expo: 3:39am On Sep 05, 2015 |
m u m u lady |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by efficiencie(m): 3:52am On Sep 05, 2015 |
Think madam,think!!! Who would have a job, a doting wife (i guess that's what you are) and kids and yet want to squander all of these away on strange women! Who would take fire into his bossom knowing fully well that he'll get burnt to death...Romans 7:1-25 will show you that this is a common problem faced by us all. Your husband is succumbing to the forces sponsoring lust in his life but unfortunately instead of praying you too are succumbing to the forces of anger, frustration and discouragement... Your home is being stolen from you and yet you want to throw that home away in exchange for what? Another marriage? Madam fight for what is yours, fight in the place of prayer...your husband is the weak link but you must be the shield of your home... 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by Nobody: 4:11am On Sep 05, 2015 |
ALL you do is to MONITOR and TRACK all calls. MTN, DSS, FBI, CIA, ALJAZERRA, CNN, etc need you more than your HUSBAND needs you. I advice you also Check his UNDIES,. . U can also do CARBON DATING Of his pants and sweat, semen, saliva, immediately he returns home. So, it's only U, your HUSBAND will call.. .. You U see why MEN are fast getting tired Of MARRIAGE.... because it seems like a BONDAGE. AND the Good thing is that LADIES still cherish BABY MAMA 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by donttouch: 4:14am On Sep 05, 2015 |
angelchinny: Contact me to discretely punish him for u. But e go cost u something |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by omoiseselagba: 4:36am On Sep 05, 2015 |
mutter: He is not heartless.he is just a man.the truth is he likes sex and lacks self control.nothing will change him.he will only stop when he wants to stop.the woman should just get herself a job first.women's financial freedom makes men to panic.i have been there before,when my woman stopped demanding money from me while she was in school.i was scared someone else is doing it and that perhaps to me means someone is fking her.some men, just like me dont respect a woman who add little or no value.ALL WHAT THE OP NEEDS IS JOB.on sex,comdom first then all other things can follow.as per praying for him,if you believe in it.pray for him. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by NoRetreat(m): 4:55am On Sep 05, 2015 |
The best advice so far. MISSNORA: |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by mekybabe1: 4:55am On Sep 05, 2015 |
We are talking about a compulsive cheat here o. Vig86: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by Nobody: 4:57am On Sep 05, 2015 |
Instead of Op to find solution to her predicament, you are thinking of punishing someone. Lol. You have no job... Is that not what you should be bothered about? Making a living for yourself and caring for your kids. You had better accept your fate for the moment. Your priority should be Job and Kids. The path you are about to take will complicate things for you. Alternatively if you are so pained and depressed you can walk out of your marriage...since marriage is not by force. Revenge by getting a job and caring for your kids. As for sex...you can go celibate, self service or insist on using condom. And if you decide to give out your Fanny to another man to Swindle ....Don't say FannySwindler didn't warn you. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by thelish(f): 5:12am On Sep 05, 2015 |
islandmoon:my friend used this method, and it worked. just leave d kids with him n move out for sometime. |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by thelish(f): 5:16am On Sep 05, 2015 |
raayah:UNTIL THEY GET A CAREER? So no career, no marriage. This is serious |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by airex(m): 5:38am On Sep 05, 2015 |
MosakuAW:announcing the news on nairaland means involving a third party. What do you think? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by streetzdreamz(m): 5:38am On Sep 05, 2015 |
angelchinny:from your words, it's easy to decode that you are a woman of virtue, was expecting you to lash out at that guy, but your response was calm and mature, honestly I feel your pain, and it's no fun knowing fully well ones spouse is cheating, and he or she ain't remorseful about it, don't make him feel jealous, cuz things may go out of hands, it's obvious he still loves you and adores you, all you need do is get the root, reason for his actions, people cheat for various reasons, it's then you can source for a solution, go along with the pieces of good advice some guys have given, as regards protected sex with him, that's enough to send him berserk,then the friends he moves with might be his undoing, just keep your marriage and if you are the religious type, pray about it, wish you a good turn around............................... In for a penny, in for a pound, wonder why ladies with very good traits ends up with men that can't see the jewel in their possession. |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by dannewlife(m): 6:06am On Sep 05, 2015 |
Take it to God in prayers. He will soon be disgraced outside and will come HOME voluntarily . 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by Nobody: 6:07am On Sep 05, 2015 |
MISSNORA: Excellent advice in my opinion. |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by delishpot: 6:10am On Sep 05, 2015 |
angelchinny: These same boys on NL WILL BE THE SAME ONES to come help him throw your bags out over that same pretend call. Did you not notice how most of them blame you for the mans cheating ways? Leave the cheat or live with the cheat no two ways. But remember that in nigeria it will be hard to find new true love with 3 kids. Our men put their feet down when it comes to marrying (divorcees or single motbers are not taken seriously) while our ladies are anyhow anyhow biatches gat no clas 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by raayah(f): 6:22am On Sep 05, 2015 |
thelish: yes.. you should not depend on a man for money. Look at OP , she's stuck with a man who is cheating on her and treating her without respect because he knows she can't leave. She cannot survive without him. No Career/Job.. no Marriage |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by mohdimplez(m): 6:32am On Sep 05, 2015 |
INTROVERT:you are right OP! Seeking advice from social media isn't really the best most especially when it has to do with marital issues. |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by Sunbellar: 6:32am On Sep 05, 2015 |
angelchinny:I have one advice for you. Stop every sexual activity with him, if you must, use condom! |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by sinizia: 6:37am On Sep 05, 2015 |
angelchinny: Number 2 is the main reason you haven't left him all these years. In fact, 90% of women like you who stay back and get cheated on and emotionally abused over and over again are not financially independent, and the cheating heartless men knows this, that's why they use it to their advantage knowing that y'all have no place to go or one to hold onto. It's the sad reality. This is the reason why i'd always implore every lady to be financially dependent BEFORE getting married so if their men are cheats, they'd find it easily to work away. Sorry dear, but until you are financially dependent, or determined to leave irrespective of your financial status, you'll keep getting emotionally abused and cheated on. The key to your happiness is divorcing him and it lies with you. Do whatever makes you happy, legally though. Cheers. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by whitec: 6:40am On Sep 05, 2015 |
Pls insist on condom. Find a job or biz. Live as a biz partner, not as a wife with him for now. Dont pretend as if u are cheating as well else he will use it against u tomorrow. This is Africa!! I cant tell to do what worked for mrs A, bcs destiny differs. Find out what u know that can work for u. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by femi4: 6:42am On Sep 05, 2015 |
MISSNORA:Seconded 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by sinizia: 6:43am On Sep 05, 2015 |
raayah: You are so right, exactly what i advised the OP below. Her dependency, financially on him is the reason the fool has reduced her to an emotional dumpster. I pity her. sinizia: 1 Like |
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Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by babaD60: 6:47am On Sep 05, 2015 |
Pls don't do what u will regret latter, pls just 4get him & face ur children, hv it in mind now dat ur childern is ur husband. What chase him out will chase him in, don't even think of him anymore just face ur kids & make him feel usless & gv more attention 2 ur kids. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by Ihemneri(m): 6:55am On Sep 05, 2015 |
Forgive himForgive himForgive him |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by NoRetreat(m): 6:57am On Sep 05, 2015 |
Are you a marriage counsellor? You advised her maturedly. This type of posts and others on Nairaland made me understand that we still have matured people on Nairaland rather than some others who are here for fun of it, hurling insults and derogatory comments. God bless you and others for the wonderful and selfless service to humanity. Who knows how many marriages this post might have saved? Onegai: |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by NoRetreat(m): 6:58am On Sep 05, 2015 |
He might file divorce. thelish: |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by Nobody: 7:16am On Sep 05, 2015 |
thelish: If my hubby annoys me i won't bulge to his sexuall advance, but if he apologized in which the Op's case the hubby will apologize after she confronts him. She can't say No to her hubby everytime he wants to make love, that is why i advised her on insisting on using condom |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by Nobody: 7:26am On Sep 05, 2015 |
raayah:good one...era of free riding has gone ...good thing from infidelity. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by noblegrex: 7:26am On Sep 05, 2015 |
MsGlobalwonder:I'm not in support of your hubys' attitude but I tell,there's absolutely nothing you can do now,and if you think there's a way,you can go ahead.he's your husband you should know him more than any1, and therefore know how to treat his Bleep up,and as for being the other way round! It can never be.women of this generations ceize to realise who they're.as for me,there's nothing called gender EQUALLITY it has never been and it will not exist cos all the attempt for it is causing great problems. Its nature and it has been right from the time of our first parent(Adam n Eve)sorry for that but nature must have it place. Men will remain men and women remain women,its a pity but the earlier women realises that or accept that fact,the better for them.all they need do is to pray B4 marriage and after.men should also pray but women most expecialy...no one can change men authority over women and as for your hubby, I don't think I have any idea bout how you can deal with him than what is said ealier.may God help u. |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by Nobody: 7:28am On Sep 05, 2015 |
Mrs0J:only sex ...na food? |
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