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Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by nwadiuko1(m): 9:37pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
Ignore him 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by peedeeasobie(m): 9:37pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
Let me advice you ma, do not cheat on him or even pretend that you are doing so because you will not like the outcome. It will be so twisted against you that you will regret ever taking that step. You can't punish him, you have two options... (1) Stay with him, deny him sex (for your own good), and be praying for him to change. (2) move out with your children. Any man that keeps cheating on you doesn't regard, love or respect you. What are you doing with him? Any other punishment you want to mete out to him will backfire! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by whizqueen(f): 9:40pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
angelchinny:Get a new phone with a separate line. Save the name with something romantic "treasure" or something better. Send different kinds of love messages from both lines(main line and fake line) to the too eachother. Don't delete the messages, start using security code on your phone and sometimes torment him by calling severally with your other fake phone secretly. he shouldn't know when you call. Like for instance be in the kitchen and keep your real phone where he can access it, call the number incessantly and he will definitely want to check who is calling at such odd time, when he sees something like "my treasure" it will send some shivering down his body. Don't forget to include in the messages that "I will take good care of your kids and get a good job for you blah blah" one day intentionally leave your phone unlocked and open the message down like you want to reply a message you received then get yourself distracted and leave the phone where he can have access to it. Call the phone again and again till he picks it up to read the message or answer the call. Drop the call immediately Madam you must be smart about this, don't eff yourself up o. May God save your marriage 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by ogawisdom(m): 9:41pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
angelchinny:focus ur energy on getting a job dts ur main prob. as long as u r jobless u cant do shit. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by chronique(m): 9:41pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
I stumbled on a yoruba movie where the wife had to drug her cheating husband with tea,and made him sleep for 3 days straight. You might wanna try same so the silly boy(not man) would sleep for 6 days a week and hustle for just 1 day. By the time He starts struggling to eat,he'd know how far. Just kidding with the suggestion though. I know it's in the nature of men to cheat but what makes you a man,is your ability to control your excesses. I know it's not easy but it can be achieved. Boys spend time sleeping with anything in skirt but real men spend time building homes. Instead of your hubby to focus on providing for his family and saving up for the rainy day,He's busy spending it on ex-marital affairs. That's the way of a foolish man. I come from a polygamous house but have consciously made efforts to live responsibly and not do anything that would make me polygamous in nature and the first step to achieving that,is to make sure I don't keep more than one partner at a time. It takes a lot of discipline to get to that level. Unfortunately,most men aren't ready to make such efforts. Before you cheat,think of how you'd feel if you're at the receiving end. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by Nobody: 9:41pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
MISSNORA:I was asking the same question. They amaze me but women are the ones to be quickly called bad names. Imagine that scenario in reverse! Nairaland will go up in flame 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by 9jatatafo(m): 9:42pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
Do you always refuse him kpekus before he started going out? |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by shaboti: 9:43pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
GodblessNig247:look atew. 'She should keep showing him love' I hope you'll take your own advice per adventure you get a promiscuos wife. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by Nobody: 9:43pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
whizqueen:now this is dramatic but I like it |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by Forwetinnah: 9:43pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
front247: You dont say OP, protect yourself and get a job, people like your husband can't stand independent women (that's the only way you can really punish him). Hepatitis and other STIs are very REAL. I won't even stay with a man who chases skirts left right center...talk more of marrying one, the minute I find out. .im out for good!! Life is precious 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by whizqueen(f): 9:44pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
AdaNri1:That's what ladies are of course. Drama Queens 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by FixAm(m): 9:44pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
Mrs there are lots of way to make a man jealous however if u have a pastor he respect take d issue to him for settlement trust me if u talk it to his family they will always protect him, but I must tell u ur kind of man is unrepentant and if he's not careful he will find himself in police custody. U could pretend u talking on phone to and old school mate u recently bump into and do it in a way that will make him fell u have a secret calls mostly at night it could be with a fellow lady and in one of ur fake conversation talk like the guy is taking u on a date angelchinny: |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by lastpage: 9:45pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
ugoshevy: Are you saying this out of anger (I am angry at the hubby too) or you really think this works all the time? Well, some couple have same type of problem and wifey created a very big disgrace for her husband (his place of work, the girl friend was a staff in the same place as well!). The man resigned his job from that place, moved to another house, married the woman (three step marriage that he did not even do for the Madam wey dey form James Bond!) and abandoned the other one and her two kids in the former house. He continued to give her money for food and other things the kids need but VOWED NEVER TO HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH HER AGAIN! Even his Parents asked him to re-consider and take both women as his wives but he insisted he wont be married to her again. he said something that caught people's attention: That woman would killed me if she could, that l survived is because of luck! I wont test that luck a second time! The lesson those of us privy to that issue learnt is that "all situations are not the same, all men/women are not the same and what worked for Mr. A , might not work for Mr.B All these "dramatic advices: are known to Boomerang back in a very painful manner and those offering those advice wont be there to pick the pieces! Lastpage! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by Sanguine77(m): 9:45pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
angelchinny:Give me your no to be calling you and telling you sweet things, mybe he will be jealous. |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by So4baba(m): 9:46pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
I pray the Lord intervene in your matter, the only thing left for him now is prayer,.. Work on ursef too, look more beautiful than you were when he decided to marry you,,... get something doing to earn ur own money and self esteem,,.. dnt start faking calls trying to get him jealous, it's a total wrong move,,... stop checking his phones, what the eyes doesn't see doesn't make the heart go bad/sorrowful... Start shifting your love to your kids, they are your joy for now,,.. Pray hard,, promiscuous men can/do change,, am a living testimony...may the peace of the Lord be with you.. |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by omuda: 9:46pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
angelchinny:you don't need all that, you need to pray for him, you need a job.haven't done that, give him some time, he will come to realization of him self |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by thelish(f): 9:46pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
Mrs0J:sorry for my curiosity, can u make love to a man ur angry with? 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by zonax(m): 9:47pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
angelchinny: Dear for the sake of your marriage and your children, let the sleeping Dog be. If he has genuinely changed then forget the issue and move on. |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by Nobody: 9:47pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
whizqueen:You can say that again, myself included. |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by So4baba(m): 9:51pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
GENT95:But you knw you wld have done ursef a lot of good if you ddnt comment,, does ur comment even make sense to you.? Pls check 1 Like |
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Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by MISSNORA(f): 9:52pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
AdaNri1:seriously marriage is one of my fears lately |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by Nobody: 9:52pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
A case of married but living single. Cheating on him is pointless. He might hurt you in rage if he finds out. Divorce him or shoot him between the eyes already. |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by lastpage: 9:53pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
kandiikane: And you, have a very "twisted and misinformed idea" of self worth! Get Real. Lastpage! |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by Nobody: 9:53pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
A case of married but living single. Cheating on him is pointless. He might hurt you in rage if he finds out. Divorce him or shooooot him between the eyes already. |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by Blizzyblinkzy(f): 9:55pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
donem: Its rare to see such men. If u are one, Then u are among the 4% |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by rubyradiance(f): 9:55pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
[quote author=player007 post=37674640]When a man cheats, it could be for a variety of reasons 1) the Friends he keeps 2) the woman may be pushing him out without knowing. 3)it could be that the sex isn't as excitn like it used to me 4) your dress sense might have changed etc. Every man and woman had a sort of preferences of what or how they want their significant other to look like. And if they end up with someone who dosent fall into that category they will definitely cheat. Did you see traces that he was a cheat before you said Yes but choose to to overlook because you thought he would change over time? Make him see what he's missing by cheatn on you. Pray for him always. Because there is NOTHING impossible for God to do.[/quote Forget that thing my dear,,its so shameful that we at this side of d world give men so much laxity,,we are always quick to pin point reasons men desecrate their home,why is it always d woman to swallow d hard pill 4 the marriage to go on? D day any man sleeps wit another woman other than his wife is d day he tore their marriage certificate & shattered their vows & also insulted God..i'm waiting to hear of d day a man will sit his wife down to see how they can make their home work(Sic) 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by stonecoldcafe: 9:56pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
angelchinny: [size=28pt]Cheat on him too and break his heart. He will go to hell and back but then pay him no heed. Two can play that game. Just ignore him and begin your hot plan. He will soon pee in his trouser. Also dont be a silly woman; make sure you are well protected or just leave him alone for now. You dont want to have to contend with HIV do you?[/size] 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by sole26: 9:57pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
I understsnd hw u ar feeling rit nw. Dont leav him, as som of my fellow nairalanders said, u hav d following things to do 1. Try and make a earning 4 urself ieda getind a job or enter into a business no mater hw small it is for u to avoid been a liablty on him. 2. Consider d problm to b spiritual and tacle it as spiritual. By so doing u wl save ur husband frm untimely death and enternal condemnation. 3. Dont hate him hate d evil spirit, cos no man wit his rit senses wl cheat on his wife, so love him d more bcs i can see d storm coming to an end. I hav seen worst cases dan dis bt today they ar changed persons so dont leave ur children. Be encouranged and may God be wit u. And we wl b with u in prayers. Tak care |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by Nobody: 9:58pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
MISSNORA:It's just a leap of faith, with hope that the lucky man will understand, love and care for you like you will him. |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by Nobody: 9:59pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
Typical of baboons and monkeys. 'go and see a pastor', 'pray for him', 'have hope'. Thats why You monkeys called nigerians are still in the 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Killing Me Emotionaly, How Do I Deal With Him by Nobody: 9:59pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
lastpage: Ermm... What is so special about the man sef the stupid woman waters her time and energy on him? He is a self centered bastaard. The woman cared of not she build have kept quiet and slipped a poison in his drink. The fool must have thought he was very special. The children are going to grow up soon and he is going to explain to them how his their mother's actions to face their family though foolish could have led to a divorce. You haven't seen anything yet. If she is a good mother, she will be rewarded for her sacrifice. |
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