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fijiano202: sometimes she feels reluctant to call me,we hardly have a real chat,shes always picking up fight with me,she hardly ask abt my life and progress

i just read the second part of your post. you shouldn't cancel the trip. you already said you were on the way so make sure you go. Women are funny creatures in the sense that they get angry about different things and they wont tell you necessarily. she has been demanding things of you like trying to get you to visit and you finally decided to go. Things like that make women angry. Just go over there have a matured conversation about your feelings and enjoy christmas.

what behaviors do you notice? your story is vague. Besides the distance and time you guys spend with each other doesn't help either

speaking of uncles. My uncle traveled to England in the 80's to stay but when the plan landed and he got to immigration, they started asking him questions. Mind you before he left our house my mother and father practiced the questions with him. The most basic questions of which is how long do you plan to stay.
My uncle walks up to immigration, after all the other questions the man behind the window then asked him how long do you plan to stay. My uncle then answered 24hrs the man asked him again how long do you plan to stay? he responded 24hrs the man then said well your 24hrs are almost up so we would hold you here until the 24hrs runs out. That is how my uncle got deported. When my father went to pick him up at the airport, he couldn't find him. He then started searching frantically for him. when he finally found him, he was walking down the street. My father then asked him where he was going and he responded by saying he was going to find an ocean to jump in to kill himself because he realized the mistake he made

CFCfan: I remember some years ago when I wanted to cross the road at a traffic light here in Southern California. I didn't press the button on the pole before crossing. It was my brother-in-law who pulled me back, telling me that every pedestrian has to press the button before crossing.

your brother in-law na still bush man because if the light turn red you can cross. you just have to pay attention to the time left on the crossing light.

i3 is a low grade processor. you should have at least gone for an i5 better yet i7

Funny thread

I remember my first winter in New York. I went outside without gloves on so when i came home from school my hands were freezing so i went to the bathroom thinking to myself that what would make my hands warm up fast? "hot water"
When i turned the faucet on and the hot water touched my hand, Worst pain ever. I then went to tell my mother what just happened to me. Not only did she laugh at me but she also told me of a grown man who was crying like a child because he did the same thing i did.

I also remember being lost while riding the subway. I had one fare and i was supposed to go uptown but accidentally got on the down town line. To top it off i didn't wait for the station where i can transfer to the uptown line for free. So i got off the train on 135th street in Manhattan while i lived on 174th street in the bronx. I decided to do the math and i calculated 39 blocks to walk. I thought to my self 39 blocks is nothing we wey dey waka for Naija well well. so i started walking. unknown to me i didn't account for the non number streets, the dead end roads and bridges. By the time i got home, instead of some sympathy, my mother (correct yoruba woman) started yelling at me saying i just got here and i'm already hanging out with gangs. my sisters then started laughing at me. i just said i got lost and i went to bed

Teddy12: Please help, im 29 years of old and my boyfriend stays in America . Her sister is the one who introduced me to him while she went on holiday to America. My boyfriend was staying with a American woman and they have a son together but not married. While the sister was there they fought constantly until my boyfriend move out of their house. The sister came back and was introduced to the mother . Everything was fine speaking with him daily and was telling me that soon i will join him to America. Lately he said he cant give up his house and has to go back as his son needs him. If i call him sometimes he doesnt pick the phone and Sometimes he doesnt return my calls. Do you think he went back to the baby mama. or just imagining things?

Poster are you kidding me? you are contemplating waiting for a guy you have actually never met who lives about 3000 miles away from you and has baby mama drama?

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NosoChic: How much does she earn?

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So you haven't realized that you married a stranger? you dated for a few months strike one, he calls his ex in front of you strike two, he calls her romantic pet names strike three. you knew all of these but still went on with the marriage. Now you are complaining.

Women always choose to be blind to things in front of them and they constantly hope they can change a man who wasn't even trying to hide what he was doing. Sorry to say but you guys have work to do. counselling, pastor's intervention, parent's intervention etc. Better yet call that B!tch and tell her to back the F up because she is ruining your home.

Mondisweets: And how did u know he did not say something worth the slap?

so you can slap me because of words i say and you expect to walk away untouched? smh if you are already ignoring the guy, why not continue to ignore him? instead of slapping him. double standard

peppermint tea

That hospital is full of quacks because they have never heard of an ultra sound. If they used an ultra sound to scan her belly they wouldn't have wasted their time operating on that crazy woman.

My village is Lagos but unfortunately i wont make it to Lagos this year either.

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lets get down to been responsible and setting up a responsible home.… can you marry. a lady that gives you BJ...because i've seen alot of guys that loves it and also bet of never and ever marry such lady who does that...

poster

It is good that you know what you want in your woman but why put your own idea on everyone else? what does a BJ have to do with anything? why are you concerned with what other people are doing in their bedrooms?

On second thoughts have you ever gotten a BJ? we would start from there

The problem is that guy was a dummy. If he was just talking to her as he said, then he should have knocked her out after she slapped him. Violence solves nothing but you have a right to defend yourself if someone assaults you

Dont you have a court house in your village? Sue the b for your parental rights. Once the court gives the order and she refuse thry eill lock her azz up

Poster your topic makes it seem like you are contemplating suicide. I hope thats not true.
relationships have ups and downs but it seems like through out your failed relationships you have not learned anything about yourself and why the men you "love" suddenly break up with you.

sorry for being harsh but the common denominator is you. What is it about you thst is off putting that makes a man break up with you. Could be the things you say or things you do but you need to look back and think of how things broke down. This way on your next relstionship you would know to avoid those things.

sorry you are hurting right now but things will eventually get better

Yield: Just tell him you're not interested and keep it moving. No need to tell him it's his height, teeth or whatever. You don't need to lie that you've a fiance either.

Thank you! poster would you like someone to tell you that because your ass is to flat is the reason why a guy you like doesn't want to be with you? or would you want someone to tell you that the weave on your head looks cheap which is why he wont date you? just say no to the guy's advances and move on.

cute bobo: Now, I'm not talking of her keeping her virginity till that day, what I'm saying is even if she requested for sex, I'm not always arose (I mean being erotic) to her

aaaahhhh finally he said what he really meant. change the topic to "i dont find her sexually attractive"

poster you can't marry someone you are not sexually attracted to. You will cheat, you will abuse her and you both will be unhappy. Do you both a favor since it's only been a few months and either talk about it with her (maybe you can maturely figure out how to spice things up) or let her know how you feel and end it. Don't waste time.

Your greatest sex organ is your mind. if your mind is not in it, it wont work. If you already know within your mind that you don't find her sexually attractive then the problem will persist.

this is what we yorubas call afi owo fa. you got yourself in the shit you ended up in. I have a question of how your friend was able to travel out of spain with your documents. Anyway like someone said already why not use the 3 million to start something. Going to europe to start over wont be as easy as it was back in the day.

Mondisweets: so a lady if a lady who doesn't know how to change a flat tyre gets a flat tyre she shouldn't expect for someone to offer to help her because she is not a beggar?
If a lady gets rained on on her way from work she wouldn't expect a nice gentleman to offer her a ride because she is not a beggar?

semantics

Poster please can you help me get a better understanding of the help you were asking for? Did you get a flat or you needed an umbrella because you were being rained on. If this was the case then i take back everything i wrote and i apologize for insinuating that you were seeking financial assistance.

Mondisweets: but I thought she was talking about guys who volunteer to do something for the woman. Why volunteer if you are not doing it simply because u wanted to help, that's all?

okay now i am starting to wonder about you too. the only people who get voluntary help are beggars in the street and the only reason why they get the help is because you can see that they need the help.
This lady seems like she is not a beggar in the street so you can only imagine how the volunteers found out about her problems.

The least she can do is keep her problems to herself because even women who "volunteer" help will find other ways to take advantage of a person in need without wanting sex. i guess im more upset of the fact that she is pretending to be naive about her post.