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poster ignore the friendship advice from everyone. if everyone ran away from a relationship when it seems like things aren't right then everyone will be single. Talk to her again but then again if she is in school (im assuming she is away) then you probably have a problem on your hands. Nothing worse than a needy person in a relationship. Hope its not a case of out of sight out mind.

why would the u.s army send you an invitation? or are we talking about a solider sending you an invitation. in which case it would be a lie because any individual can send you an invitation and that persons employment might have an influence in you getting the visa but, i doubt if a solider sent you an invitation would guarantee the visa

jonaifame22:
nah blad,would u stone ur gal, men when she's not goliath

if she gets a black belt and come at me crazy and i can't beat her due to her new found skills, you damn right she gets a brick to the head

no amount of taekwondo lessons can run faster that a chair to the head a brick to the head and a bullet to the head.

Collinsemegreat:
thanks!!! I absorbed a bit of ur advice because they were more of idioms sir! Can u be straight sir?

i see that you sent me an email but i didn't link my email account with NL so i couldn't get your email.

What i was saying is that you shouldn't stop the natural progression of biology. you are a human being designed by God and your body has hormones that are programmed to act accordingly when you get to a certain age. the words lust and love are a human construct. Animals know when mating season is without saying they are lusting or in love. yet people deny their genetic programming by hindering your physiological development through the words in the bible. I'm not saying to go have sex with her but if you recognize that you like her, then you like her. Are you going to eventually marry a woman you don't like or even lust after? why do people stop talking about the sin of lust when a man declares that he wants to marry a woman he finds attractive?

your faith and how you live your life is up to you. Biology which you might actually study in school however is calling and you are going against God's design. So either take something in a book that was written hundreds of years ago or go with the design that God has set.

Mzflexydeeva:
You walk into an eatery e.g kfc, there's this cute guy who has been trailing you then u place your order, he's still standing there. You go ahead to make payment, he's quiet. As you approach your table, you can hear him placing his orders & in a few minutes he's sitting next to you talking about getting to know you.


1st: courtesy should have taught him to @ least offer to pay for the food considering the fact he has the intention of asking you out. Remember what they say about 1st impression. If he didn't pay for the food, he should @ least let u eat in peace then start dropping lines on ur way out.

2nd: the guy may not have the cash to pay for both meals, as a guy, if you don't have enough cash & you see a beautiful lady in an eatery, just to impress her you offer to pay for her food hoping she would say thank you & she doesn't. Would you be man enough to tell her you just wanted to impress her & you have no money

3rd: if a guy told you he didn't have the money after you accepted his offer to pay for your meal what would you do? If you like his personality would that ruin his chances with you


N:B the opinions of both the ladies & the guys are what matter here. Not how much blame or insults you can accord.

1. you don't know the "cute" guy
2. you already think he is cute so let it flow
3. you were going to buy food anyway so why expect a stranger to offer to pay just because he is going to toast you?
4. if he offers and you say yes then you have gold digger tendencies
5. if he doesn't have enough money then he is a dumb mofo for offering
6. you can't possibly know his personality because all he has done was stalk you to kfc and creepily stood behind you and sit at a strangers table
7. you have effectively taken a chance meeting opportunity to how much money the guy has. smh

yeah her name was Doris

chymevicks:
Hello, nice Idea but some kids are late bloomers. That is to say she is not even close puberty. Besides the dad may have been bathing her and her sibs either together or singly for years. Stopping won't be a bad Idea but I won't be fast in judging the man who may be Innocent!

any sensible person who knows the age of his children will know that the age of 9 is when you leave all those types of things to the mother. age 9 is even giving too much. What is the girl's mother doing? and for that matter when will he recognize that she is old enough to bath herself?

Disliked, reported, hidden, called the cops, called the Fire Department, called pizza hut, called the USN, called the Royal Navy, called the Red Army, called the FBI. called the CIA, called Interpol, called the KGB, called the USMC, called the USAF, called the Royal Air force, called MI 6, called Scotland Yard, called the US National Guard of every state, called NYPD, called Obama, called the Queen, called Putin, called David Cameron, called every Governor of every US State, used my time phone to call Winston Church hill, As well as Hitler, Stalin, Theodore Roosevelt, George Washington, Montezuma, ever Caesar, and Gilgamesh, called US Army, called British Army in every era,, called papa john's, called the US Coast Guard, called my State Senators, called my Senators, called every republican in the US, called Dr. Who, called the Pope, called my local Gang lords, called the State Patrol of ever state west of the Mississippi, called all of my local news channels, called Star Fleet, called The Sun, called The national enquirer, called CNN, called Scot Pelly, called Steven Colbert, called half of the Mexican Drug Cartels, called Nintendo, called the Japan Maritime Self-Defense Force, called the head of the Illuminati, called ever free mason, called bilderberg, called my neighbors, called the mayor of every city in France, called my mom, called the Emperor of Man, and called every school district in Canada but alas no one cares

neither do i. even as a foreign coming into the country with a visa you have some rights. They wouldn't ask for your wallet at the immigration table. Only customs check bags and person. Immigration will ask you questions and if they suspect something is foul like you are a smuggler or travelling with fake documents or docs that aren't yours, then they might search you.

happney65:
I don't believe this...

kattywilli:
Hello house,
I will like to know if i still have other better chances of getting another B1/B2 Visa from the Us embassies in Nigeria because my visa and that of my Husband was recently cancelled.
The CBP officer saw one of my biss card that has a US contact address on it and believed i do my business in the US and also get paid into a US account which i am not suppose to do base on my visa category of which, i have never done any business whatsoever in united states before i only put that contact on one of my Biss cards to show to some of my Nigeria clients residing in USA my location whenever i am in the US.
He even look into my website and see no USA address on my contact details but yet he insisted i do my business in the US and that's why i visit US often and even stay 2 or 3 months before returning back to my country. I tried to convince him but he wouldn't believe me and he went ahead and ask me to voluntarily withdraw my admission so i can be able to get another Visa in my country. I will like to know if this will hinder chances of ever getting another visa from the US embassy or Canada embassy because i already have a Canadian Visa in process before this unexpected indecent.

Gurgle:
Nope

don't think he ever bathed me.

maybe im being too soft on him. just don't like jumping to the wrong conclusion

i totally agree about jumping to conclusions but in this case im diving head first

Gurgle:
Yeah he should stop

He probably is probably doing it innocently but its not right anyway

your papa baff you at age 12?

umm this wan pass me o. Her father is highly disturbed and her mother is a coward for allowing such to continue to happen.

Disliked, reported, hidden, called the cops, called the Fire Department, called pizza hut, called the USN, called the Royal Navy, called the Red Army, called the FBI. called the CIA, called Interpol, called the KGB, called the USMC, called the USAF, called the Royal Air force, called MI 6, called Scotland Yard, called the US National Guard of every state, called NYPD, called Obama, called the Queen, called Putin, called David Cameron, called every Governor of every US State, used my time phone to call Winston Church hill, As well as Hitler, Stalin, Theodore Roosevelt, George Washington, Montezuma, ever Caesar, and Gilgamesh, called US Army, called British Army in every era,, called papa john's, called the US Coast Guard, called my State Senators, called my Senators, called every republican in the US, called Dr. Who, called the Pope, called my local Gang lords, called the State Patrol of ever state west of the Mississippi, called all of my local news channels, called Star Fleet, called The Sun, called The national enquirer, called CNN, called Scot Pelly, called Steven Colbert, called half of the Mexican Drug Cartels, called Nintendo, called the Japan Maritime Self-Defense Force, called the head of the Illuminati, called ever free mason, called bilderberg, called my neighbors, called the mayor of every city in France, called my mom, called the Emperor of Man, and called every school district in Canada but i couldn't find an answer for you

Poster

you sound like a hater. If you had a bad time with someone, that doesn't mean that the person they are with will experience the same thing you did. So saying something negative about someone you aren't even dating anymore shows that you are either jealous, hating or still in love


live and let live

marriage should not be based on your faiths alone. You have to deal with so much more in a marriage than the fact that you either go to the same church or mosque. you have to deal with finances, personalities, families, friends, personal likes and dislikes etc just to name a few.

The question is why is she living with her uncle and not her own parents? why didn't she confide in her brother instead of the said uncle? where is the guarantee that she would actually get or keep the job if she does spend the night with the creep? Is her uncle not a christian? how many other women are going for the job and how is the uncle sure she was the only one to get that offer?

so.... if i want to have sex with lots of Nigerian graduates all i have to do is open an office and put out Ads with good pay and just ask for sex for the job?

umukorophillip:
I came in contact with a book with the title " The Black Boy" by Richard Wright, and I was lucky to read it. By and large, wat i discovered abt the book is the American civil war.Bt one arguable thing in the book is the notion of the whiteman that: 'it is the dream of every black guys to Bleep white ladies' Nw I ask is this notion correct?

That book was propaganda that a lot of the racist slave owners and sympathizers used to insight violence and hate against the African slaves and free people. There was another research done by another racist person in America who said Marijuana should be made illegal because it makes the black man violent and it especially makes them want to rape white women (if you ever wondered why marijuana is illegal)

any way there are many reasons why different men of different color want a white woman. The person who picks a white woman is free to do that regardless of why. This shouldn't be a question because we are all humans

donefesco:
I swear i read wat u wrote like 5 times; it still doesn't make sense

Bro you are right the poster wrote a bunch of nonsense.

its time for fred to help the said wife to pack her bags or he needs to confess on what he did to her to make her move to the guest room

my experience: we didn't even do sh1t on our wedding night because we were so tired from all the days activities. By the time we retreated to our wedding suite, we just ordered room service ate and fell asleep while our family were having a great time at the hotel pool lol. It was a great day though.

This brings to mind the story i heard when i was in gambia. On the wedding night the elders in the family watch the man and woman consummate their marriage especially if the girl is supposed to be a virgin. If they see no blood from the white cloth they lay on the bed, marriage over. lol

adedayourt:
wers d wrapper

ode dont people wear a sirt over wrapper?

since she has on wrapper guess where his diq is

shiizzy:
:-/ is there any diff btw a gf that allows sex and a prostitute A prostitute will sleep with you once you agree to pay her... Your girlfriend will do the same if you give her money. it might be money for a specific purpose (nt sex) but it's still the same.. In some cases prostitutes are better... I've dated (bleeped) some girls without dropping a dime..... Please drop your views!!!

sorry but i don't mean this as an insult but, your mom was once your dad's GF your sisters and aunts were someone's GF so were my sisters and wife. Before you go generalizing, look at your family tree

your uncle is still using his olosho eyes to see women. He must be looking at that girl as someone to conquer and on to the next one.
by the way your uncle doesn't know the bro code of hands off your boy's girl?

If anything your uncle should expose the girl to his PA so he doesn't make such a bad mistake as settling down with a potentially unfaithful woman. He should also be wary because a person who is your PA who lives in your mansion will also know your secrets and how to get you if need be. He needs to wash his eyes and leave that woman alone.

wait for the diabetes and high blood pressure with all the nonsense you are eating and drinking