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$400 or Naira63,827

Alesh Keem: how much is it sold for?

biansmi: Hi all,
I have been searching for a place where i can ask question about ur culture. I need some objective advises and tips.

I am a white lady, living in Europe. I met a Nigerian guy who i really like. He is from the youruba tribe. He is nice and treats me good. But some things make me doubt him. I have dated an Igbo before and he turned out to be a devil....was married...cheating and was also scamming people. So now i am a bit afraid to jump into a new relation with this guy. But i dont want my past experience to break us up.

So please give me advice. This are the facts about him....shoud i go or shoud i stay?
- he is hard working
- treat me good
- likes my family and friends
- we do things outside
- he says he loves me every day

I am afraid that in the future he ia gonna leave me for a woman from his own culture. How can i be sure he is not married back in Nigeria? How can i know that he has no kids there?

poster your questions are valid but unfair because Nigerians are not the only people who cheat, scam, or have hidden kids and families. If you dated someone from your race or nationality, the person can still hurt you too.

I would say as in any relationship, you should always proceed with caution because if you had been hurt before you can be hurt again. i hope you learned the signs to look out for regarding your previous relationships and just use that to figure things out.

Samuel8604: There is a lady in my department that i love,i tried to express my feellings and concern for her,and am sure she is quite sure i love her,we do read and study together,joke,relax together,bt it always pains me most times when she says she cannt marry me amidst other ladies even without asking her anything..But she do say this whenever any arguement arises on why ladies brags on men.i later discovered anytime she says she cannt marry me,instantly she feels depressed,which will be well noticed.

quit your delusion and realize that she doesn't want you nor is she depressed when she says she can't marry you. If she liked you as you like her, you would already be dating.

Anyway dating on the job is risky be careful

sorry for your heart break. Just accept what happened and embrace the hurt. Cry if you need to and scream and shout. This should be a good time for you to re-evaluate the type of men you have dated till now and see if there is something about you that attracts those men or if there is something about you that makes them not see you as a long term prospect (don't get me wrong i am not saying there is anything wrong with you).

Unfortunately there is no quick fix to heart break besides moving on. Saying you are not dating anyone else is you punishing yourself and potentially missing the one. I hope you pain goes away and i hope you feel better. Just keep yourself busy and move on.

how did the 43 year old man dressed as a woman find out you are a virgin?

my girl friend wants it raw what should i do (voice of a mumu)

The setup is in. you are about to be the daddy of a kid that isn't yours or she is trying to share a package with you.

[quote author=][color=#000030]Kinda true in some cases. Especially the "age is going" part. How many times have I seen it happen? You forgot to add "the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know" after "the will of God" and "that's how God wants it".

Have you also noticed how religious and "closer to God" they become when age starts knocking?[/color][/quote]dude what happened to your previous username? where did you disappear to? i see you finally hooked up with "her" in your profile pic. Na when we go eat wedding rice?

[quote author=uj_sizzle]Your ex still stringing you along hun? [/quote]

sorry poster it will get better. another woman will love you without playing you.

A man should start making marriage plans
Poster seems like you are projecting your inner most feelings on us. Like Mynd said what is the man is prepping but the woman is just a dickaholic who is simply looking for fun?

you want a man to meet you and not get to know you but start planning for marriage? this is like the fantasy of a 15 year old girl who just discovered boys

keep your mouth shut. It's not your issue nor is it your burden. Let him man up when he is ready. When Titi finds out make sure you don't say or hint that you knew anything.
or
wait until 2 weeks before the introduction and say Titi did you buy your Aso ebi? she would be like what are you talking about and then you would tell her about it and deny that you had no idea of her dating status with the A-hole
or
be a good friend and tell her
or
convince your friend to not treat her like that and make him tell her

it's up to you bro

i fail to understand or believe this story. you have text messages and you say he is harassing you and yet you are still living in the house and wondering if you should tell your sister. now you got a message about your sister travelling and you are still here asking us

Nah you are either 13 years old or a freaking liar.

magun the codition where the man gets stuck in the woman's vaga1na now has a name. I guess it had a name before but I had never heard of it. It's called "PEN1$ CAPTIVUS"
To read the dupporting article
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Many reasons
1 ignorance by the masses who think at 35 a woman is past her prime
2 females looking to marry rich there by getting passed around
3 lack of job for the men who would marry them
4 thinking they are too pretty for the men who want then
5 family ignorance. Thinking because a suitor is of a different tribe equals taboo
6 career women who forgot to settle down
7 women who were strung along until the guy dumps her for a younger or different girl
8 the new lack of shame towards sex in the country where evrryone wants to phuck everyone
9 waiting for a bf who went abroad
10 ugly
11 lack of education
12 praying for a husband instead of finding one
13 not loving the person who loves em instead loving the show off who spent his life savings on buying a car
14 being a single mother
15 being divorced

should I go on?

It shocks me thst some grown azz people on this forum still type stupid childish comments like kill your self or drink acid. it takes much less effort to bypass a post than to show the world how heartless and ignorant you are. Even if the post is fake you can always just skip to the next one. Basically stop posting like you sre as old as your shoe size

Getting to know a persons personality without the distraction of what they look like physically can be very intense

yes

Why did they do that? I only played online once and it wasnt fun becsuse of all the super weapons chasing me around

kulyie: Well i can hook you up with fine sexy men :p

since you dont like v@gyn@,you should like preek or anus

next please...

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you know it takes more effort to be a douchebag than to actually not say anything if you cant contribute something positive

This is one of the dangers of mastrubation. It will desensitize you from women. Your case seems extreme though. The first thing you want to do is start cutting down on the amount of porn you watch (assuming you watch) if you can start there then you can start reminding your self anytime you want to madtrubate that you belive you have a problem with mastrubstion and you are trying to work on it. Even if this helps to cut down on one instance of you mastrubating , it will be progress. One more thing you can try is to make sure you are always around people . This way you dont have all the private time you seem to have to touch yourself.
I would suggest going to a sex therspist but if you are in Nigeria, and a young man with no insurance, I wonder if you can afford it.

so what are you to do
1 cut down on porn
2 remind yourself that you mastrubating is a problem that you actually want to stop
3 keep yourself busy and around people. Private alone time means wanking
4 talk to someone aboutbit if you can afford it
5 figure out your triggers
6 what are the positives and negatives of doing it
7 building your mental strength

.note that in the long run you mastrubation can stop you from being able to cum with a woman because your mind and feeling will become conditioned to the way your hand feels. This is why its importsnt that you work on it before it becomes a public problem. I wish you the best

Gorgeous pictures. They seem to be undergoing a development boom. Why did al the nice places seem so empty? It didn't seem like there were people around.

after lining up at 5am i got a ps4. currently playing need for speed rivals while waiting for other games to come out

poster

your heart can't help who it loves. Glad in this case your brain won the battle. Think of it this way, she is probably a cheat and a liar. you would have ultimately been hurt by her because even before you got serious you caught her in a lie. Now you just have to wait for the feelings you have for her to pass. when that happens you wont skip any more heart beats.

poster

all you have to do is change your profile settings. you probably have your profile set to looking for men and women. Change your setting to looking for women only. This way when a gay dude goes on the site and does a search he wont see your profile.

As far as thinking you are gay, only you can answer that question.

POSTER

you need to be as harsh as possible to her so she can understand that there is no chance in hell for you to get with her. Even go as far as telling your mom whom she got close to to tell her to stop coming around. You have a woman already and you should never make your self available to even have a phone convo with this potential home wrecker.

Ll cool j doing it

vickyO: And that's supposed to be a great advice..
Smh

it sounds harsh but its good advice. The poster is fighting biology. You are genetically coded to want to procreate. All these praying and fssting is good but it wont help you. You either need to find a girl or your maztrubation will conyinue. It is your animal instinct to want to mate so stop fighting it.
I had your problem too and I solved it by connecting with the woman I plan to marry.

Poster you dont even know how old she is needless to say SHE IS NOT YOUR GIRL SHE NEVER SGREED TO DATE YOU

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